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writes:i am 16 and have an ambition to go to the indian institute of technology but like this girl so much and she is a distraction in my mind !we are just friends!and im not able to study at all my grades are very low what do i do now??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Concentrate as much as you can on your studies! I know how difficult it can be for your mind to remain focused when your heart is elsewhere, but it's imperative that you get good grades now if you want to fulfil your aspirations. After all, in a few years' time you may not feel the same about this girl and if you sacrifice your chance at following through with your studies now for her sake you'll regret it for a long time to come. You can still be friends of course, as long as you make sure you work hard when you need to... whoever said "never mix business with pleasure" certainly knew a thing or two! Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Not easy ... but sometimes asking yourself some questions helps.What will life be like if you get together with this girl, but don't go to the Indian Institute of Technology?What will life be like if you go to the Indian Institute of Technology, but don't get together with this girl?You have a crush on this girl, that's all, and crushes can be very distracting, that's for sure!But you surely don't want to risk spoiling your whole life for the sake of a crush ... you are obviously an intelligent, ambitious young man. So, instead of swooning around all over the place and ignoring your studies, when you find yourself thinking about this girl:Stop, close your eyes and visualise what it will be like at the Indian Institute of Technology. Imagine all you will achieve. Imagine how successful you're going to be how and how proud you will make your family, and how proud you will be of yourself.You have a great future ahead of you, a whole lifetime to swoon over girls, but first you need to create the foundation to build that great future on - you need to go to the Indian Institute of Technology!Good luck with your studies! I wish you a long, happy, healthy and peaceful life.
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