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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd really love to get some flowers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you get a guy to give you flowers with out you actually straight out telling him especially if you want it to be a surprise? One of my friend heard me complaining so she went around my back and e-mailed him to buy me some flowers which I thought would work and surprise ... (118 words)

He has no sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me he has no sex drive he's 38 is this normal ? I don't know what to do I feel like its hurting our relationship if we do have sex I have to do everything and I'm not used to this at all not that I don't mind but every once in awhile I would like him to bust a ... (99 words)

I just want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl who likes me and she keeps texting me. I want to stay kind of mutual friends and no more as I like someone else what should I tell her?... (33 words)

Violent sister destroying relationship with my dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so here goes. My little sister is ruining my relationship with my dad. My parents divorced when I was little, and both of them have found new parntners. I'm fine with that. My dad went off to have two children with another woman, one of which I love to pieces. The o... (397 words)

I'm going to give him his space. Is he likely to notice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive realised recently that i have been too insecure and clingy with the guy that ive been seeing. he always says he isnt angry at me but i know he gets exasperated. i have seen the error of my ways as it were, im going to give him his space for a while and let him contact me ... (167 words)

Worried my weight will be a turn off

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 24 y/o female and recently got into a relationship with a 32 y/o guy. I really like him alot and want this to work out really bad. Problem is I'm worried that my weight will be a turn off, plus I've only ever been with one other guy and I really want to be able to ... (93 words)

Husband goes out with his relatives drinking but has no time for our family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I usually read what other people aks and give an honest opinion. This time it's me the one asking what to do. I met my now husbun in 2002, we started living together in 04, had our first child a year later and recently are expecting baby #4 (unplanned and on birth control ... (294 words)

I want to make the best of the situation with his kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So...my boyfriend has kids. Ta dah. I was made totally aware of this when we got together, and I wouldn't imagine wishing to alter that fact because I believe that what we have makes us what we are. (i.e. experiences rather than material goods) and what he is is incredi... (105 words)

Am I now considered a hooker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 year old female. I live in an area where there is a lot of prostitution. I have always fantasized myself being a working girl so I like to dress the part and walk around the streets to see how many men proposition me. When they do I just tell them that I am not a ... (293 words)

Can't get what he did with her out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. Were in love and hope to spend our lives together, but there's just one thing standing in my way! Before we were an official couple, he was with another girl just on two occasions, they didn't sleep together, but they did other things ... (138 words)

Why do men in their twenties date teenagers!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - In all honesty to men between the age of 22-26. Why would you date a girl who's 18 or 19? Surely at that age you would rather be looking to date someone who you might want a long term relationship with. Is their an ulterior motive here, do you think younger girls are easier... (133 words)

We're going through a rough patch -- do I keep texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are goin though a really rough patch,and hes workin all this week so i want see him, i have already havnt seen him since tuesday and now have to wait another week. i understand hes got work and understand i want see him as he will be tried and just want to ... (229 words)

Grooming advice for the pubes?

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i need some self grooming advice. i haven't had a propper girlfriend and i'm still a virgin. i havent really shaved or took any care to my pubic hair but it is now becoming a problem. i know this girl likes me and i like her and i know that at some point ... (170 words)

Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on or not? He has received calls and text messages from his exes and one asked if I was pregnant yet. When she found out I am on pills she stated smart move. I feel like I am losing him to them because when they call or ... (117 words)

I love him, but another boy confessed he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so this is a little rubbish for me, im in a healthy happy relationship, i love him with all my heart and he loves me, weve had our problems but were stronger than ever....but, theres another boy who recently confessed he likes me. im not one to just drop someone im crazy ... (119 words)

Is a bad date enough to kill the crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - ladies, is it possible for a woman to have a crush on a guy for months then just stop after a bad date. i mean she was obviously sexually attracted to me before and i look the exact same now so wouldnt that thought still be there when she see's me? we live close by so we see ... (86 words)

Do men prefer virgins?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I have a little question I was just curious about, Do men prefer a Virgin? I'm not planning on having sex soon at all but all my friends are doing it and I don't want to. I just wondered if when I'm around 19 and have a boyfriend will he be alright wit... (79 words)

My gf broke up with me suddenly under mysterious circumstances, leaving me a complete mess. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people, I'm Nick and I'm 25 years old. I suppose I'll sketch my situation really quick. I had been with my girlfriend for nearly two years. We lived a train ride apart from each other and saw each other during weekends and vacations. I'll call my girlfriend "S". "S"... (1569 words)

How do I get my bf to give me oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have sex a few times a week which is satisfying for both of us. It was only today when we were 'getting in the mood' I realised, he has never given me oral! While i give him oral often to get him in the mood (whether i enjoy it or not!), he tries to avoid g... (102 words)

How do I get my parents to allow my bf and me to be alone together in my room?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have no doubts that my boyfriend cares for me, we are both happy together and spend alot of time together, however, even being almost 17 my parents refuse to allow us to be alone or even accept the fact we are sexually active. this has resulted in him not even being aloud... (70 words)

How do I deal with my gf's troubled past of cheating on me, abusing drugs, and sleeping around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am 21 and my girlfriend is 20. We have had an on and off relationship for the last two years and now we have recently made the leap of faith into a official relationship. However, I can't get over my girlfriends past. Not to my knowledge, during the period when we were ... (302 words)

My friend's gf likes me and I like her, and she is losing interest in my friend. Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - in september i started college and met 3 new friends and one of them is my new best friend and he has said that he would count me as his because we hang out a lot. one of the other friends was his best friend before and me and him don't have a lot in common to be honest and he ... (275 words)

How do I get over someone who is so wrong for me but whom I still miss terribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, the love of my life and i broke up over him just getting sick of me, promises were broken, time has passed, i went through a rough time! He went on several outings, and vacations since and I didn't. Finally 8 months later i decided to take a mini vacation and i did, and ... (313 words)

How can I approach him to be friends without him thinking I am romantically interested in him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was involved in a problem in an arab country and this well educated n well behaved officer helped me out of it-but before and after that incident he's been acting special/different with me.in casual convrsation he mentioned that he observes me outside,he remembers every sm... (528 words)

Internet dating... he thinks it's too soon, but I want him!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well lets say the guys name is shade well my story is we met online and he had a girlfriend but we were only friends but then they finished and i started seeing him im living in limerick where he lives 2 maybe 3 days a week the rest the week he works in dublin we were only ... (134 words)

We haven't talked all march break!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So all march break me and my boyfriend haven't talked... I think he might break up with me.... what should i do?... (22 words)

Boyfriend wants to shower with me but we are virgins and I'm afraid it will lead to sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are going on a holiday together which means that we are going to stay in the same room. He wants to shower with me but I don't know if I should as we are still virgins and I am afraid that that will lead to sex. Although, we have basically done everything ... (64 words)

Is his father really ill or is he just ignoring me? Is this a cover up for my boyfriend to leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I lived together for about 3 months and he left me a month ago. A very brief summary how he left and I called it a "flee away." He texted me via my cell phone while I was at work telling me that his father had a stroke and his mother asked him to fly over to ... (1193 words)

Married three years, never lived together due to immigration.....should I ask for a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married for almost 3years now.my husband and i have lived apart the whole time.i lost my 1st baby and i havent had another since then-2 years now.we are having problems getting me across there.the separation is taking a huge toll on our relationship and he is ... (101 words)

I feel like I shouldn't trust him, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there,heres my situation I got a boyfriend and him and I live far from each other and hes a party person,so am I but everytime he goes out it becomes an issue for me,I stress about what hes doing,whom is he with at that party,I get jealous whenever he talks about ... (72 words)

Are boys just stereotypes who only like girls for their bodies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there! Okay, I'm beginning to believe stereotypes and bad notions about teenage boys. Maybe even males in general. Like most other fifteen year old girls, I have a Facebook account. I've posted about three hundred photos, but none were very explicit or revealing. Actually, ... (195 words)

Husband says I can't handle criticism

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! ours is a love marriage. Both of us are doctors. No matter how much work I do at home, it doesnt satisfy him. For ex, when my maid didnt come, i cleaned the house, washed dishes and clothes, cooked, went to work and after coming back i prepared dinner, fed our two kids. ... (190 words)

It's been one week and I still haven't heard from her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up one week ago and I still havent heard from her at all. I miss her so much and dont know what to think about it. I leave for school today an hour away from where she lives, my small home town. Im going to wait a week more or two until I try and contact her. ... (156 words)

Husband is totally off sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) age - I don't know what to think. My husband really confusing me. Please help to figure out him, and give me some ideas. He is totally off sex, and I dont know why. He was very sexual person before. And than once he lost his erection 6 years ago at the middle of the intercou... (160 words)

Am I being used as a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have asked for help regarding to this matter before, and here I am again asking for some help. I just want to know if I'm being used. Ok for those who didnt saw my last questions, the things is this I met a guy online and we have been going on dates, supposedly as friends. ... (384 words)

I broke up with boyfriend, we still love each other and want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, it happened.. But I broke it off for the right reasons. I couldn't carry on the relationship knowing I was just taking up space for his chances to have a true relationship, since ours was long distance. He lives across the world. The other reason was that we'd have h... (614 words)

How would you understand this conversation between my friend and I over a guy whom I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone Basically the other day i visited my friend last weekend with the guy i like (who also knows her). Anyway she said to me in the week, "Have you spoken to scott?" I said, "Only the beginning of the week," and she replied, "oh." So i asked her what she mean... (150 words)

How do I stop over-analyzing everything and driving my bf crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not very experienced with boys. The guy I'm seeing now, when we started off, really really acted as though it wasn't just a casual thing. He wanted to be my boyfriend. but then he changed his mind because he is leaving uni at the end of the year so didn't feel able to make ... (457 words)

Fiance wears inappropriate clothing. Is she trying to attract other guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Girls: My Fiance, wears clothes that are not appropriate, showing her cleavage, very tight pants, lots of perfume, make-up and hairstyle everytime!!! i feel insecure, what do you think girls, is she trying to impress other guys?... (45 words)

I'm 16, he's 35 and recently split from his partner. Is he coming on to me?? How should I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i don't really know where to start with this question...I'll try and make it as short as i can! I'm 16, and for as long as i can remember I've had a crush on my neighbor who used to live across from me with his partner (i don't think they're married) and his 3 year old d... (315 words)

We're just drinking buddies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age - We are "just friends" he says, but our last together time was 7 hours of chatting, watching sports, dinner, drinks at his place and this is weekly, says he is attracted to me but we are just drinking buddies. So what do you think? Oh yea, I was over on valentines day and ... (118 words)

Why it is ok if my boyfriend hangs up on me but I can't do that to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - What do I do? My long distance boyfriend of about 6 years off and on was talking to me on the phone yesterday, and i was telling him about something important, i might have a brain tumor and have to go get checked next week. he wasn't even listening and said he had to go right ... (435 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm too good for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that I'm too good for him, and he thought this from the start. He sometimes says that he thinks that no matter what he does, I'll always deserve better. This seems like a pretty depressing point of view, and I wish he'd see how much I love him. What can i do... (69 words)

Is he playing with me and his GF???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I got a crush on a guy who's in his 30 and I can't figure out whether he likes me or not..We can chat 2 hrs or more without boring each other and we really like each other company a lot..(when we first met, he told me he got an ex who cheated on him).. but my family don't like ... (552 words)

She loves her ex more than me and it hurts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Question: What should I do from now on? So my gf broke up with her ex (personA), whom she had been with for 3 years. The reason why she broke up with him was because she had a fight with him, and he said something mean when he was purposing to marry her after 3 years, after h... (967 words)

Should I wait for him to forget his ex and date me, or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy i like tells me he likes me but can't be with me because he still loves his ex. But he said he wants to try and forget her so we can make it work. But the thing is, he never sticks to his word. Like the other day, he told me he was gonna talk to me at school and say ... (157 words)

Boyfriend doesn't tell his family about me and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, ive dated my boyfriend for 7 months and i ended it then because he didnt want it to turn into a relationship, he spent the next 6 months begging me to give him another chance and that he loves me and then i did, weve been n a relatiionship for 6 months now and things were ... (163 words)

She totally ignores me now and I think about it all day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 16 year old boy, studying in school. There's a girl in my class that I think I like. I mean, I want to spend time with her, talk to her. Earlier, we were real good friends. We used to talk on the phone, SMS, FB chat and all. Now, she ignores my texts, FB attempts to ... (77 words)

I love him but don't get enough from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together 2 years now in a long distance relationship. he barely talks to me now a days. says hes too busy with his work and parties every weekend. i feel really dejected. i know he will not cheat on me. he is 5 years older than i am and is looking ... (365 words)

My boyfriend is a complete bore with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner is a complete bore in sex and ejaculates in about five minutes and then when He is satisfied He won't carry on and please me! someone tell me what to do x... (34 words)

He won't introduce me to his parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am loving a guy for past five years.. but he is scared to tell his love to his parents or to introduce me.. now my parents looking a guy for me but my mind not ready for another relation and my lover know this pretty well he holding me back from anyother relation but he h... (75 words)

My sister is with the man I have loved for 10 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - it all started when i was in 7 grade i had this big crush on this guy name adam. we would flirt all the time! oh how he gave me the butterflies! we had very little classes in school together and we never saw each other out of school! but it was ok it was only 7 grade we keep ... (1666 words)

Mistress being dragged into marriage, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - he lost his wife to ovarian cancer 4 months ago and has 2 kids,8 year old and 11 months.i have been his mistress for 2years.i have a son from a previous relationship but he lives with his dad.Problem:he wants me next to him always and wants us to get married nw and have a child ... (72 words)

Because of my husband's child from a previous marriage, my family hardly ever gets my husband for just OUR family time together...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a massive life crisis, and seem stuck in a rut I don’t know I want to be in. I have been with my husband for eight years, we have two children together and he has a child from a previous marriage. His other child lives 3 hours away and he goes down to stay wi... (293 words)

I don't know if I can believe that he "loves and values me" after the betrayal of cheating and the constant lies that came with it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I believe him when he says that he loves and respects me, and that cheating was a terrible mistake...Says he cheated b/c he was going through a phase where he was afraid of committment. Didn't want to tell me b/c he was afraid he would hurt me terribly, and he didn't ... (157 words)

I don't know if I have these feelings simply because he is really caring or if it means something more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles : ) So... Through my best friend Sarah I met some really lovely guys because she worked with one of them, although he has since gone travelling. I met a guy Will who I quite liked and after a couple of nights out we went home together, and whilst we di... (395 words)

My obsession with this guy is consuming my life!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

- I would like honest answers to my problem. I am worried about myself. I am currently obsessed with a guy Ive only met twice. He lives far away so we are not together. I cant get over him. He fills my thoughts permanently to the point where my work is suffering, because I cant t... (182 words)

B/f won't talk to me but won't tell me its over either!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 years old and I have been dating my bf for 8 months..just recently he has pulled away a bit and I am not sure why..I was texting him a bunch of times and he wasn't replying so I started freaking out and eventually he responded and he was like I was at work, my phone was ... (184 words)

Once I found out a girl likes me, I lose interest!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been sorta keeping my eye out for a possible relationship with someone, and lately with some of the girls I've met I feel like they could be worth getting to know more but once I find out that they like me or they say yes to a date I don't seem to like them anymore. Does... (81 words)

Separated, is there any hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of three years and I have been separated for almost 3 months. Before that we were living together but rarely saw each other for about 4 months. We had some obvious problems and were fighting a lot. The decision to separate was probably a good one. Since the ... (803 words)

Should I confront him or take his sudden change in behaviour as a sign he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry about the length, just want to give a bit of a background. So I met a guy at my friend's house a few months ago. We only ever saw each other at group outings and eventually started to talk outside of these group events. I wouldn't say they were full-fledged ... (459 words)

Looking for some reassurance in the midst of teen angst

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, i know that i will get through this, because its only teen angst but i need some reassurance that i will stop feeling so goddamn sad! i just need to know that life will get better and i will become the person i would like, and that adulthood will bring me happiness.... (53 words)

I got her pregnant because she wanted a baby and now she treats me badly. Is that all she wanted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a woman 8 yrs older than me at work 1 yr ago, now shes 29. She was desperatly want a baby. I ve commanded her wish coz i love her very much. Now shes 8 months pregnant. Shes too nasty toward me. She looks young, like we are in a same age. But now she always look 4 trouble ... (136 words)

Husband says he isn't relaxed during sex because I don't let him watch porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i been married for 4 yrs and have a baby 2 yrs old. before marriage my hubby and i would talk hours we had long distance relationshp. we nw hardly speak to each other apart do this nd tht... nd hv any sort of physical closeness once every 2 mnths. i talked to him abt me ... (139 words)

Guys: is this because you liked the attention or are attracted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi quick question but guys only on this one please. Say you meet a girl out and you ask her to join you and the rest your friends that youre with when you move on to a different place (say met them in the bar but you are planning on going to another bar). But when you part ways ... (107 words)

My ex has started seeing somebody else and... it's making me crave Sex. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just wondered if anyone could give me some advice. I know this question may not put me in a good light, but please hear me out. Basically, I'm really missing Sex at the moment. Now, I'm not the sort of person for whom Sex is all that matters, far from it. However, the... (345 words)

I don't know if I can wait 1.5 years to see him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want an advice on whether I should continue this LDR or break it off... I'm 19 from Aus and my boyfriend (22) lives in Costa Rica. We've been in this LDR for about almost 3 years, we met online, I don't care what you think about it but I love him with all my heart; I ... (224 words)

My g/f hasn't been in touch for a week should I worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a wee problem hope u can all help. Basicaly I havent heard from my gf in nearly a week, this however is not a rare occurance as she doesnt really text that much. i have text her everyday the last week but still havent heard from her. I have known her for nearly 7... (208 words)

Is it natural to have such a low libido at such a young age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been steady at 3rd base for about a year and eight months out of our two and a half year relationship. Early on I stated that I didn't want to have sex before marriage and he stated that he was fine with this. But now, with talks of engagement start... (206 words)

I get attached easily and over analyze relationships. HELP!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - New Relationship anxiety..help.advice! I have always had a slightly anxious mistrusting personality and have found relationships difficult. My last relationship of 1 year ended in December when I discovered he was cheating with multiple women and his ex girlfriend. It w... (253 words)

I have a nonconfrontational personality, but it makes it hard to handle conflict

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a non-confrontational person by nature. Growing up my parents fought a lot with my older brother so I would do everything in my power to avoid fights. But I find now that I'm more grown up, it makes it hard to talk about conflict. This brings a problem to my relationsh... (307 words)

What do women get out of sex?

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - While the end result that's hoped for by both partners while engaging in sex is an orgasm, I can't help but notice how many women on here write about things like "I can't have an orgasm, my bf/husband can't give me orgasms, I rarely get them, I've been faking" etc....which got ... (85 words)

Should I let him film us having sex?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok,It would be extra helpful if some guys could answer this question,if you had a video of you and a girl having sex,would you show it to anybody-I've been seeing this guy and he's been knagging me to make a video with him for about a month now,he swears blind he wont show it ... (184 words)

B/f wanted to look at photo of my best friend while we had sex, and now I'm mad about it!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - help i dont know what to do!!! I feel like I am going crazy!! Okay so me and my boyfriend are reconnecting sexually and im trying to be more open to his needs and its been well so far, i know he enjoys porn and so do i (not as much) so most of the time we have sex we watch ... (262 words)

We broke up, she says she hasn't moved on, but is she lying?

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for more than six years...we were together for 3.5 years and then went into a long distance relationship for two years....then again we were together for an year and then i had to go for higher studies and so for the past 8 months i have been in a ... (517 words)

He asked me to marry him but I pushed him away. Now I want to marry him!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I had the most caring man ever. He lived and breathed me and always put me before himself. He always tried to give me the universe but I messed him over and now that he's gone I realize he was the best man that ever happened to me. He asked me to marry him but I shuned him. I ... (76 words)

I don't feel like I can be loved

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I'm writing this maybe because I just need to let it out. I have been only a few real relationships in my life and have found that I don't feel like I can be loved. I won't be someones love because there is something deeply wrong with me to anyone. Either I try ... (201 words)

My daughter is in a relationship with my boyfriend's younger brother and since both guys live in the same house, I find it disturbing that our lives are intersecting!!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I began dating a guy a few months ago and it didn't take long to figure out that he is absolutely the love of my life. My daughter, 20 and reeling from a broken engagement, met my new love's younger brother and has began a relationship with him. I find this oddly disturbing ... (87 words)

He cheated, doesn't want to get married, I do, should I just leave, we have a child?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 1st child got that woman pregnant. I found out on the night of his baby shower from his male cousin. It really hurts, I keep going back and fort whether to stay or to leave. Family is really important to be but ... (86 words)

My baby's father has a double standard for us, what can I do here?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i dont know wht too do with my babys father he cant stay home at all.... two weeks tops when he goes out hes out all night even all weekend at times yet he gets mad when i go out but when i do its usually me buying groceries and paying bills. i do go out for a... (86 words)

I am attracted to men and women, where do I go from here??

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so, I'm thinking I might be bisexual but I'm not sure.... This is just so confusing :( I'm sexually attracted to boys don't get me wrong, and I want to marry one, have kids,build a life, etc.... but I'm almost 99% sure I'm attracted to women too. I feel that I've d... (326 words)

Men! Could you explain his actions please??

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Looking for guidence and help. Recentlty I was having problems with this guy and we broke up about 2 weeks ago. We were arguing and fighting a lot, but we were still seeing each other and we never really stopped talking. The past week I have learned to control my anger and pick ... (187 words)

Can you suggest a way to make having sex less painful??

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this question strictly applies to sex ; theres no relationship problems involved. So if anyone has knowledge about this please respond. Okay, i'm a young female and whenever I lost my virginity two years ago. And i've had sex since. However, whenever I attempt to have sex ... (106 words)

I feel like such a fool for misleading this guy who's asked me out and I have no idea how to let him down without hurting his feelings!

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK I've really screwed up. I've been semi-flirting with one of my male friends (Ant) for a while, and he ended up asking me out for a drink the other night. I told him sure, why not - that sounds lovely. The trouble is I've just realised that I only have luke-warm feeli... (115 words)

Trying to cope with and manage my out of control teen son. How?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - this has really worried me. my son is 15 and is in year 10 he has a girlfriend and she is also in year 10 but 14 year old. My son is in a gang and he has got in trouble various times which has really upset me anyway yesterday i came home from work and i heard banging from... (258 words)

He's confusing me, what should I do??

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid Their this guy that i like and hes mad at me. I told my ex friend that i liked him and that hes really hot. That hes got swagger for days. she twisted my words and told him that i said i had his phone number and he was harassing me. At first when met he was a friend... (241 words)

I feel inferior to his ex and his kisses don't turn me on. I love him but is right for me?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I get along great. We have the same values, same goals. He is my best friend. We have a great time together and I can see us raising a family one day. The sex is great. He is everything I have ever wanted. BUT... when we kiss THERE IS NO SPARK. I tried w... (416 words)

My Ex Girlfriend is playing mind games.

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently my gf broke up with me (over the phone) to then 3 weeks later have a new bf...we haven't seen or spoken to each other since the break up phone call, apart from... 2 weeks ago I was in her town visiting friends (some mutual and some just mine)...as I arrive one ... (449 words)

I finally met my ldr, why do I feel like we keep drifting after our first meet?

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For those of you who want to read my original question here's the link. I recommend you read it to understand what this question is about. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-4-years-i-finally-met-my-ld.html I posted that a week ago now. I'm not going to explain ev... (520 words)

This is followup to question yesterday from OP on helping inlaws

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks to everybody who took time to answer my question i wrote yesterday the 18th. "I've felt treated unfavorably by them, yet should I help my in laws now that they need help?" You have all really helped and i feel a little less broken now. Thanks to this site also... (86 words)

Why did she invite me? Do I love her too much? I am usually pessimistic but why can't I feel happy for long?

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20 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - In the past9 months, I have been loving a very good female friend of mine. Her arrival has brighten up my life at the start since I was really down due to several reasons. I love her a lot but she can only treats me as a friend which is understandable. I am a very pessimist... (260 words)

Much to do about pancake mixes?

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20 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My bestfriend and i go to the same hairdressers,we've both known him for years.The hairdresser and i were chatting and he dropped into the conversation about an incident that my bestfriend had brought up which my daughter got upset because i only brought 1 pancake mix for ... (176 words)