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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I find it hard to talk about my feelings and be open

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing this guy for a few months now, we are exclusive. i had never even really been kissed before him, so the whole thing has been quite new to me and i didn't really know what to expect. we get on really well and everything seems perfect but i feel like i could ... (205 words)

How do you think she feels about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So, I like someone. I was the canteen manager at a school dance, and I could have fifteen minutes of dancing after the canteen was packed up at the end of the dance. We're both on the student counsel, who showed up hours earlier to decorate and get the dance ready, and once she ... (168 words)

Can I ask him to kiss me or can I just do it?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's my birthday soon and I want to kiss my boyfriend. we haven't kissed yet and I want it to be romantic. however he is shy to ask for a kiss - how can I ask him or how/when can I just kiss him? thanks :)... (46 words)

I lost my virginity and feel so depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm seventeen years old and last summer (like July '10) I met a girl and I fell for her badly, we only saw each other for a month and we didn't even go out or do anything sexual (we kissed) thing is, I was a virgin at the time (I'm not anymore) and I think I tried it on with ... (219 words)

Is he getting attached and wanting me more then we had agreed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, with benefits. Its nice because we both agreed no strings. Lately though, its been... weird, for a lack of a better term. I was talking to a friend of mine(a girl) about how I had this one picture of this (different) guy, not even thinking my "fwb" was standing ... (461 words)

My girlfriend had a child and I haven't told my parents yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend gave birth 3 months ago. We study abroad and were able to hide it from our parents. She managed to tell hers though when she was half way through her pregnancy. The thing is our parents don't really approve of the two of us being together. (We used to go out and ... (148 words)

Males: What's your ideal woman look like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, Do men prefer a clever, curvy, brunette or a skinny, clever, blonde? Males veiw . . . Thanks everyone... (31 words)

We have a baby, but he's always talking to his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my fiance. Here is a little background about us. We started dating just about 2 years ago. We both were in relationships before for 4 years and broke up and began dating about 1 month later. We had problems with our ex's. His would call literaly none stop ... (254 words)

I've never had a boyfriend, but wondering about giving this guy a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend. I really want one, all my firends have 1 and I hate being single.It drives me mad when all my firneds talk about weddings and babys but I was planning to go travelling and do lots of fun things and not ready to settle down like that no where ... (296 words)

Using birth control pills to time a period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is coming to see me next month. He's coming on the 21 and I really don't want to have my period then. I want to take birth control pills this month on the 13 so I'll get them around the same time next month. Do I have to be on my period to start birth control pills ... (96 words)

Best friend or the Girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl for over a year and a half now... The first year I knew her she had a boyfriend, she broke up with him over 6months ago now. When they broke up I had broken up with a girl I was seeing at the same time... So we ended up hanging out a lot more. We have ... (179 words)

Signals from my ex -- what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend is sending me some very weird signals. She and I have been broken up for over a year now and she's got a boyfriend. In the meantime, I've been taking full advantage of the single, college life. There's only one place to go to on Thursday nights at my sch... (292 words)

Should I help the woman next door?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age - I'll keep this as short as possible. My neighbors are wonderful people. He is very ill and wheelchair bound from MS and another debilitating disease. Last night his wife came onto me, she wants me because as she put it, she feels safe with me. I am single and dating. She said ... (164 words)

Is it right to marry my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to know if it is right to marry my cousin. I love him so much and i cannot live without him. We've been dating for the past 4yrs nw. We've never had sex but we kiss. What do i do? We love each other so much.... (48 words)

Players, Dads, and exes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Please help me Agony Aunts and Uncles any and all advice is greatly appreciated and needed. So, had a bad break up three months ago, we were together for almost eleven months and it really hit me hard. Until I started to realize, we just weren't right for each other and he j... (901 words)

I feel like he's not very good at keeping in touch -- am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been out on a couple of dates with a man I really like. He asked me out both times and on both occasions I have had a great time (and he has told me he did too). The problem is that in between dates he is really bad at keeping in touch. He doesn't always reply bac... (191 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay... I am in love with my bestfriend's boyfriend. i have liked him since xmas and never told anyone, then last week i went to a party with my BFF and we saw him there, we had a great time- dancing; throwing food; laughing; and talking. fast forward one week- my BFF and him... (148 words)

Justified in my divorce request?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for a little over 4 years, married almost 3 years now. When we are alone together, everything is great. We enjoy each other's company and can chat for hours. However, I know he fits only into one aspect of my life -- he gets along great with my ... (401 words)

He has a girlfriend but talks about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I hv been friends with this guy for two years but the 1st year we weren't close as we are today.we spent a lot of tym together,when we are together everyth just seems awkward.i really feel secure when he is around.i think he likes me too because he acts and says awkward ... (89 words)

Best condom for my bf to use so I don't get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and are both 18 and want sex what the best condom he can use to prevent pregnancy im not on the pill and don't want to be ... (29 words)

How do I tell her I like someone else now after liking her for a while without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, this girl and I have liked each other for about a month and I didn't know her very well so I wanted to know her better before we went out. But yesterday me and this other girl flirted a lot and the people we were with said we should go out. I started liking her as well but ... (104 words)

Am dating my ex again...and I'm not sure if this is a good idea.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a guy for 4 months and he broke up with me. That was about a month ago but we've started seeing each other more casually since...I definitely missed him and I guess he missed me too. Anyway, he started up his computer and I saw a pic of him and an orange b... (280 words)

17 years old and involved with a married man...and not sure of what I want.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and was involved with a married man before like when I was 15 and again when I was 16 and now once again I kissed this other married guy and again started a friendship with another married guy, ya I know I'm playing with fire. He asked me what I wanted from him ... (104 words)

After 4 years I finally met my LD girlfriend. Is it normal to feel weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've finally met my long distance girlfriend after 4 years of talking online and on the phone. We met online 4 years ago and despite the distance we have developed a passionate strong loving relationship and even planned on getting married. Yesterday was finally the day we saw ... (227 words)

Should I leave my frustratingly uncommunicative husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age - Should I leave my husband? We have been together 26 years but since i retired on health grounds 3 years ago and he took early retirement, the small cracks that have always been there have opened up into great big craters. He's not a bad man, he's just not willing to talk ... (141 words)

Feeling unmotivated, isolated, and questioning my relationship with my bf. What to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure what to say. I am really struggling with life at the moment, I guess. I kind of feel as though I am ruled by my emotions. There are things I want to do and that I am working towards, like my degree. But some days I just can't seem to motivate myself. Like ... (1633 words)

Why do I like to keep personal things private...but still have an urge to spill some secrets??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll get straight to the point. I like some mystery and to keep things about myself to myself. Because I don't think people should know everything I do and all about me, this goes for even best friends and immediate family (mum, dad, brother, sister). But the thing is I s... (176 words)

Am I right in breaking up with my bf, the father of my unborn baby, after what he's done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I had a fight. My step sister said why would any one want to f**k an Australian girl? Then he says, "I f**ked a European girl. "You know who it is, baby," he told me. And then earlier in the car he told me that he dated an older female. I d... (409 words)

Wife slept with another man with my permission but now I'm finding it hard to deal with.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for five years and love each other very much. We've been very honest in our relationship and have always shared our fantasies and flirtations with other people. She has always had a desire of sleeping with another man since I've been the only... (474 words)

This 'friend' puts me down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend is a bit strange, she dosen't really seem to grasp the concept that other people have feelings, there-fore she is constantly putting me and my other friend down. she dosen't like me having other friends and she wants me to be with her all the time. she has moved sc... (126 words)

Too nervous to talk to girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi friends,im 18 and find it dificult to to talk to girls...i jus dont kno what to say...i get rly nervous nd the convesation turns awkward...recently,a girl aproched me nd started a cönverstion but i got nervous nd she went away..OMG!..pls help!... (43 words)

Parents have come between me and my LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I'm dealing with such a devastating moment now where I have to decide whether to let go or to go on. I've been in a 15 months relationship with my boyfriend whom I met online. The thing is, we live a world apart so we dont meet each other in regular basis. B... (611 words)

I think I'm falling for him again, and my best friend hates him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to like this on guy but we ended up as just really close friends. I thought I was over him, but I don't think I am, he is always there for me and doesn't mind helping me or me getting upset around him and we always give each other advice. I helped him prepare for a music ... (115 words)

Do guys get freaked out if a girl bleeds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm honestly curious and don't have anyone I can talk to about this. I was wondering if guys/boys can get freaked out when a girl bleeds during sex? Before you start lecturing me, I am NOT thinking about having sex. I'm too young and have no desire to go to the 'next level'. ... (54 words)

He wants to marry me, but he's still chatting to other women on the date site we met on..

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys out there, my name iz Anacia and I'm 34yrs old Please help me with this one. I use to visit dateclub where one day I happened to meet this guy from Pretoria we started chating as friends bt then after we realise that we both have feelings for each other well decided ... (309 words)

He doesn't love me but its more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is going through a tough time right now (separated and living on his own). We have been talking and seeing each other off and on for over a year. I really like him because he is very nice to me and though I have a weight problem, he has never condemed m... (406 words)

12 years and I just don't see the relationship going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for 12 years now (off and on for the first few years) and I just don't see it going any where now. for the past few weeks we have been arguing everyday or every other day and it just gives me a head ache. i don't understand where everything went ... (151 words)

How do I tell everyone how much I love this boy without them making fun of me?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are getting on really well and our relationship is a secret. We've now decided to tell everyone about it if they ask- in other words, not to deny it any longer. He says he wants to show me off because I'm so special and beautiful to him, and I want that so ... (117 words)

Please help me keep this petition going & save thousands of lives!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HEY!! i know this is not a question on relationships.. i just need all the help i can get at the minute! And as you've been so helpful to me and my relationships in the past, i wondered if you could help me with this! i understand if it gets rejected but id apprieciate your ... (493 words)

What if your guy doesn't remember your middle name, your favourite color?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - We are told often throughout life via many venues how to tell if a man truly loves you. If you have been dating for some time (over a year), is him not remembering your favorite color, middle name, etc...a clear sign? is how info is store with a man in love different than h... (62 words)

Brother kissing sister. Weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone think it is somewhat awkward for a 32 year old man to be playfully kissing his 35 year old sister? As the girlfriend, I have never seen him act out this behavior. I just think it's a flirty and wierd situation. Like he said he will kiss her face or near her lips and ... (74 words)

I want to tell everyone I'm bisexual. How should I come out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My whole life people believed that I was a straight guy. And no that I'm 17 going on 18 I want to start living my life without any fear of being rejected, that people would actually be there for you no matter which sexual orientation you belong. That people would accept you ... (134 words)

He's married, I'm married, we went out..now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know a men from fell years ago, always did think he was a good looking... Nothing was said between us, that made me think he liked me. Anyway, I am married, got a son, but my realtionship is coming to a end soon. Can't be happy with my partner, can't be my self with him, he ... (383 words)

Am I bisexual for liking transsexual porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Does looking at transsexual porn make me bisexual? I also like pictures of celebrities made into pre-op transsexuals, more so then the real person... Why would you be attracted to passable drag queens when they are only in drag?... (41 words)

Why doesn't he make the effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my relationship does,nt feel alive,i feel as though its only me makeing the effort an i dont feel loved.an yes i have spoken an guided him about many things,to try an make it more alive,but the effort is only short lived, ie i should not have to keep going on ,things should be ... (227 words)

2 Acne Questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 1. Acne as I envisioned it is patches or white headed zits if pushed on the head comes out an an irritated patch of skin is left. I haven't had those for about a year and a half now, but what I've started getting more and more are large, shiny, headless, fluid filled bumps that ... (195 words)

Why did he act this way after breaking up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a follow up to my question that I posted about a week ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-do-i-go-from-here-what-should.html) I attended a party last night and my ex (quick backstory - he broke up with me over Facebook last week by saying "It's over betwe... (225 words)

Is it my fault she got so messed up at my party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a house party because my parents were away, my brother said it was ok too. we both invited a lot of people and the people we invited brought more people. i invited my ex, the girl i want a relationship with. as the night went on, people got more and more drunk and drugs ... (242 words)

Why am I having no success?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and dreadfully inexperienced with women, I feel like I'm the only one who hasn't been intimate with a woman. Even if it is just a snog... I'm not naive and have been meeting women and trying to make an impression, but it usually leads to nothing. There are a few other ... (260 words)

How can he be too tired for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have got into the habit of having intercourse everytime we see each other but recently he's been saying "I'm too tired" and things like that. He's making me feel like im unattractive and he doesn't want me, which is silly I know, but I cant help but fe... (165 words)

I'm sick and tired of taking a back seat socially!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been bottling up so many thoughts and feelings for as long as I know. I just wanna tell someone,anyone, just to get all this stuff off my chest, but its knowing who and when the right time is is the problem. I have been seeing a counsellor through school, which helps but, ... (319 words)

My lover thinks she can move in with me in 2 months but I'm still married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 41, married 10 years, no kids and have fallen in love with another women (14 years younger). I know the other women now 1 year from another State. She visited me several times (when my wife was out of town) and I visited her often including her parents. Problem, she thinks ... (251 words)

I keep dreaming about a girl I loved and lost a year and a half ago

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Short and sweet, I met a girl around a year and four months ago, a hell of a long time. Long story short, I was most definitely in love with her, never felt the same for anyone else since and never felt happier when I was around her or speaking to her. The problem was we f... (653 words)

What can I possibly do about his actions ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please ..I really need help all .. My man and I have been together around eight years , and have had a wonderful and exciting relationship , we originally met overseas and I am devoted to him . He is a great lover and wonderful provider and we have had a bless... (243 words)

Do I tell him that "He's the one"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP!! Ok, I am like BFF's with this guy (we live in separate countries)and I have not seen him in like 7 months. Now, he is coming to see me. I have started to have really strong feelings for him, and I feel like he could be "the one" meaning virginity. Anyway, I want to tell ... (102 words)

Help! My father and brothers treat me very badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am a 40yrs married woman i had a bad marital life as a result i tried to emotinally depend on my parents for help they always gave me the rough shoulder inspite of that i tried to help them whenever they needed me i would go to any extent to help them and try to make them ... (294 words)

Moving on is too hard while I need help please to get her out of my mind. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex about two months ago. I know she has moved on, and every once in a while I'll get a text from her saying hello. I'm sure I WON'T get back with her but my question is...what is the best way to get over her, and thoughts of her being with other guys? ... (112 words)

Do I keep waiting for a guy whose parents will never let him marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I love a guy madly over the past 3 years and I really can't live without him but he is not ready for marriage. He says that his parents will not agrree to that. What do I do?? ... (42 words)

How can I stop worrying that my gf is going to cheat on me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now and love her lots but i am paranoid she is going to cheat on me even though i don't think she is like that. Its more because she is 7 years younger than me and im new to the city we live in and she has more friends here than me ... (85 words)

My heart's flipped for her. How can this happen so instantly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I used to like this girl, but five years ago we switched schools and we didn't keep contact. I thought I had gotten over her until she and I started talking again a few months ago, and when I saw a picture of her my heart did backflips, for the longest time. I don't kn... (75 words)

It's not fair!! The woman who my fiance cheated with is happy with her own new family...while I am still suffering from his affair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't think its fair how the woman who played a part in my relationship stresses, gets to have her happy relationship. She now has a partner and child and is getting married. I have my child and home but harbour the anger towards her and my fiance still. It makes me so mad ... (224 words)

Why does my husband need to chat with other women when he has me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a close conversation chatting with other women through facebook, and after I knew about this, I told him to stop. He has opened another account, but I still had a feeling he still can have other alternatives to contact the women. Before this I never had doubt on ... (120 words)

Penis is wider on its base than the main part. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18 and my penis girth on its base is less than the main part. I have no idea why. Anyone out there? Please help..... (26 words)

What can I do about my stomach making noises??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I worry about my stomach growling all the time in class because it's so quiet and it embarrassing to hear it. I worry and stress myself out about this each day. I am the one making my stomach growl because I get so nervous and I worry about it and it happens when I don't worry ... (266 words)

I once chose another guy over him, but now I want him back! Is it possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I liked this guy and we hung out once. We really liked each other but I knew that he had a "thing" with another girl and I really liked this other guy. We hung out all day and all night, but he asked me to hang out with him the next day but I was going to my aunt's h... (140 words)

Why do I like this guy when I know he's such a player???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I really liked this guy last year and we would talk everyday. So my friend and I went over to his house one night, I was so happy until I saw the real him. He was such a player! The whole night he was touching me all over and when I saw him the next day he acted like ... (141 words)

How do I deal with beong away from him for long periods of time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid,Times have been so hard for me. I am with a wonderful man. Me and him lived together for 7 months and now i live with my parents. We used to spend a lot of time to gather. He works alot i live about one hour thirty minutes away from him. We have been dating 1 year 3 ... (168 words)

I'm pissed that he is going to use everything I taught him about women and relationships and have a good relationship with another woman after making me suffer....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Please help me to understand. I have had only one real boyfriend in my life. I've gone out with a few and had another relationship but only one long term serious relationship, of 2.5 years which ended more than 3.5 years ago. I have no feelings for him other than some ... (301 words)

I'm just confused about what's going on with this dude!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i have a huge problem in here. I'm so confused as to whether this guy likes me or not. I first started having a crush on this guy who goes to my school in a party. That night i really felt like i wanna dance with him and get to know him and stuff. So i started sending ... (229 words)

Following my dream to be an ultrasound technician

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i am 16 yrs old going to 17. When im older, my dream career would be to become an ultrasound technician. I live in california, so what are the things i need to get in order to be certified as one? Is it a smart idea to go to a trade school right after highschool? ... (63 words)

My lover is pregnant and I'm afraid I won't be able to see the baby!

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had an affair. We were both married, and we both agreed that we would get divorces for each other. We also live 1000 miles apart. She got pregnant from me (her husband has a vasectomy and knows its mine). But she decided there were too many problems with the relationship ... (307 words)

Is he needy and hard to please?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 30 year old professional female,i met a guy through work who is older than me and divorced (hes 48) i didnt find him physically attractive but after asking me out a few times i agreed,got on well and formed a relationship and now see each other 3-4 times a week. at fir... (226 words)

How can I be just friends with her, as she wants, when I'm in love with her?

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been talking to this girl since Christmas and felt very strong about her, we became really close, she'd call me almost every day and we'd sometimes talk for hours, she'd often constantly joke about us getting married, which any guy would take as a hint that she was ... (236 words)

I am interested in him and have been so for a very long time; should I indicate to him the way I feel?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy at work whom I am not so personal with who had been showing me signs such as smiling at me, making eye contact and greeting me with good mornings whenever we came into contact with each other. However its been about four months now since this is happening and ... (193 words)

I've been thinking about cheating or breaking up with my girlfriend because my relationship is not a balanced one...

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I look at my girlfriend and I think to myself how much I love her. I feel lost without her and I look towards going out with her. But I feel sometimes "unloved". I feel somewhat under appreciated and I've told her this many times before and she said she was sorry. And now as of ... (180 words)

I feel like I need to know the details of his cheating, for closure....

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years on and off. He cheated on me twice that I knew of, and the trust issue became too much for me to bear. Aside from the cheating, we got along pretty well and didn't ever fight, etc. Anyway, we have finally both decided to go our ... (215 words)

Should I get back together with a bf who has hurt me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

12 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Call me stupid or dumb but i don't know what to do.. i have been with my first love for three and a half years and we had a rough relationship. he has done a lot to me in the past but some how i still love him We weren't together for six months but we still see each other. i ... (325 words)

Weekend fling. Now what??

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I finally gave into one of my fantasies and had (protected) sex the other night with a complete stranger. It's completely out of my character for one, but I have to admit that this guy was the best I've EVER had in bed. I explained to him that this was indeed a first ... (297 words)

Married for more than 15 years, no love from the partner... what to do?

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - It was a forced arranged marriage for both of us. I have been married for more than 15 years. There is no love from her whatsoever. Just a mechanical life. Still childish behaviour and do not understand her duties of wife, mother, friend etc., I have been really finding so ... (138 words)

Mental telepathy or craziness?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think mental telepathy is possible with someone you have loved, or are in love with? I'm not crazy--it's not like I have a myriad of voices telling me to do bad things! I only hear *his* name. I hear it all day, every day, and at night I dream about him. This has been ... (144 words)

How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. This I get. But then...a lo... (209 words)

How can I help my boyfriend through his divorce?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help I am very caring for my boyfriends feelings. He is going through his second divorce I try not to ask to many question but i need to know whats going on. He has told me he wants the divorce done, he says its taking to long. I have not lived with him for 8 months i ... (80 words)

Will I ever have the chance to see him again?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age - I need to know if I would ever have the chance to see this guy again. We never went out with each other, but we had a very strong mutual attraction. He used to work in my local store, and on his last day at work, he was really staring at me, presumably to let me know it was h... (150 words)

Jealous after the break up??

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I broke up with my bf a week back. He is verbally/emotionally abusive and always blames for everything. I guess he got relieved when i broke up with him. The problem is, i started getting jealous/nervous whenever i think about he getting married/ hving gf and... (142 words)

Choosing between two boys

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend is choosing between two boys. one she was with before, treated her really well, but then hooked up with someone else at a party when he was really drunk. the second boy spent a party grinding with an other girl and spent the next few days talking about how much he ... (133 words)

After I was finally sure, he developed doubts

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, Firstable, I am Sorry for my poor English. Secondable, I hope someone can share their experience with me. I am now preparing my broken heart. Yup, preparing... My boyfriend(whom still facing his divorce) asked me to have his time being alone for 2 weeks. I r... (1044 words)

Help with an ex boyfriend as my head is everywhere atm :/

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was going out with my ex for about 3 months we had a good relationship we then ended when his exams started :) we then didn't talk for about 6 weeks then out of the blue he started poking me on facebook and then he started texting ma saying wuu2 and that we should meet up :/ ... (108 words)

Third date -- did I screw it up?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - help! did I screw up my third date? I like this guy, I think, he seems nice and we have a lot in common, and we went out three times (first time coffee, second time expo and chat in a bar, third time chat in a bar and movie) and he always did the asking out and the first step, ... (188 words)

I'm 15 and thinking of losing my virginity

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old. I thinking about losing my virginity with my ex. Me and my ex broke up about 3 years ago. Now we go to the same school and we love to call each other name and just make jokes [in public]. A typical high school crash I guest. We aren't going [dating] though ... (169 words)

What to do about players?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well there's this guy in my class let's call him bob. So Bob is a player, he's had like 50 girlfriends and we're only 14. He's really nice though(most of the time) but he is annoying sometimes. He's a big player and flirts with like every girl. I think I have developed feelings ... (116 words)

Billy No Mates... advice ?

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12 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey please help ! ive just had enough of people lieing to me, betraying me and all together just letting me down :( I just cant deal with it anymore and i really need some help !! Since i went up to highschool ive just lost all my frie... (773 words)

She seems to be more into him than I want her to be....i don't know what to do,

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12 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been together for 2 years, i know that she has been e-mailing a boy witch is better looking than me that goes to her college he`s the typical cool boy, unfortunatly im far bigger than him and will not let this go, the emails are about me she is putting ... (208 words)