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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend is quite good looking and we've been together for 6 months now but on and off before, and basically quite a few of the 'slaggy' girls in my year seem to flirt with him and say he looks good looking and everything in front of me and i dont feel very comfortable. Also one girl wears very tight stuff and low cut tops and some of my friends told me he was staring at her bum and i saw him do it but when i asked him he denied it.And just some girls seem to flirt with him and whenever i tell him he gets annoyed i'm not sure what to do, should i forget them flirting or not im so confused!
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (14 March 2011):
Look at it this way: all these girls are showering him with attention, but even though he may enjoy that, he picked YOU and YOU are the one he takes home. Do not let your jealousy take over. Be proud of yourself and maybe fling an arm around his waist when they do that to show he's with you, but otherwise don't look bothered by their antics.
People flirt. It's natural, it happens. Everyone appreciates beauty. When I see a good looking guy and I flirt a little, and his gf flushes and gets angry, I can't help but chuckle because I rattled her. Please don't be one of those girls. Let your guy know you trust him with the attention he gets. And don't be afraid to attract attention from the opposite sex to yourself either.
Good luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 March 2011):
It's true there is nothing you can do about slutty girls flirting with your hot boyfriend. Your boyfriend however can walk away when they are trying to flirt with him, or tell them "No thank you, I have a girlfriend." But what good looking guy in their right mind is going to do that? Attractive guys know they look good and they're going to eat up the attention they get from females.
This is the price you pay for dating a hot guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): if you re going to date a very good looking guy, then you are going to have to get used to girls flirting with him, you can't stop them, its what he does that is important.
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