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writes:basicaly, me and my boyfriend have been goin out for long. and the other day he told me he kissed another girl, who i hate because she fancys him. what happened she kissed him, three times that i know off. and he thought it would all be ok if he told me, so he did. but oviouslly i got angrey, as you would. i told him i needed space for a few days, too think things through. all my friends have told me to end things. but the thing is, i love him too much and i really dont want to lose him, he is my every thing. but i feal like a mug letting it go, because its not the first time! i really dont want to brake up with him, but i dont want to be some one who does that too me. what should i do, please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (13 March 2011):
I don't get it. What kind of answer are you waiting for? He cheats on you but you don't want to end it. And don't want be cheated neither. You can't have both so, end it or deal with it. No one will make him change, not even you. Unless you break up with him. Then maybe he changes, but he won't be yours any more.Find some one who's worth it.
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reader, SaphireEyes  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 Here's the thing. Nobody wants to be alone/single... but let me tell you something, He's Not Going To Change. I promise you that.. And I think that you love being IN a relationship more than you love HIM. And if you DO love him, then he's clearly not reciprocating which means he's not showing you the same love you're showing him. I dating a boy for a year and a half when I should've trusted my instincts as well as my friends' instincts and dumped him around the 7 months mark when I essentially lost alot of interest in him. Looking back, I wasted my time holding on to a relationship that simply was not, could not, would not ever work out. And thats okay... I learned. Whoever you are sweetheart.. I think you're too good for him. Tell him he doesn't deserve you and walk away.. cause yes, he will continue to cheat on you if you stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): How many girls are kissing him, does he not have arms to stop them? Don't listen to your friends what do YOU want? How do you want to be treated?Do you want a guy that 'lets' other girls kiss him orOne that doesn't
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