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writes: This guy I'm dating is sending me mixed signals. Everytime we do more than kiss (fooling around but not too much) he runs and doesn't talk to me for a few days. And he always thinks we are moving too fast-even though he always initiates it. and when we are fooling around or right after he says he just can't help himself with me (even though i also tell him we are moving too fast) and that he just loves how I make him feel (in a sexual way, nothing romantic). we've been dating for about 4 months, and I've never met his family and he doesn't consider me his girlfriend. I saw him last sunday, and he didn't call me last night (when he usually calls me everyday) and when i texted him today to see if he was okay, he did call me, but it was still nothing about why he hasn't asked to hang out with me the last two days-when he usually always sees me on the weekend. it's weird, cuz he called me on tues and thursday, but not really to hang out. what is going on?? i don't want to sound desperate or needy and call him and ask what's up, but is he doing this because he only likes me physically and we have no emotional bond in his opinion? (he didn't say that) but i just don't know what to think. if we hadn't fooled around last wknd i would be 100% sure he would've tried to hang out with me this weekend. i've just been stressin out wondering what is goin on. should i just leave it be and not call him?? and assume that he's just not gonna call me anymore??
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 Think about it, every time you two see each other it gets physical. You're not his girlfriend, never met his family, you two hook up on and off. Sounds like a FWBs, no strings attached deal to me.
I'm willing to bet he has a girlfriend or he has other girl(s) he's dating.
If you're ok with this arrangement a FWBs deal then proceed on. Now if you want more such as a relationship, then I would walk away because this guy isn't going to give it to you.
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reader, mejia11 +, writes (13 March 2011):
i think he might be going out with someone other then if i was you i wouldnt call him or talk to him he seems like the player type
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