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female
age
26-29,
*non-xo
writes:Recently when my boyfriend goes to finger me more than likely afterwards I start to bleed, I'm not sure why this happens and its beginning to worry me, does this mean he has popped my cherry? am I normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, missy_musk +, writes (14 March 2011):
 In my personal experience, when i lost my virginity i didnt bleed. Not one drop. However it is normal either to bleed or not to bleed when breaking your hymen. Your hymen is very delicate and just as little as sitting on a bike seat or using a tampax can break it. However, im sorry to say my darling i think a trip to the doctors might be in order. Its not "normal" to bleed after every sexual encounter, especially if its just 'fingering'. Im sure its nothing big to worry about but like i said its not normal and you need to see your GP. You can request to see a female doctor or a nurse and i know its not really easy to just talk about it to a stranger but doctors really have seen it all! Please post back or mail me to let me know how you get on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Hey! I had the same thing happen, when I was your age, and for me I think it was him damaging my hymen, but Im not 100% sure, it could have been just damage, but he wasnt that rough. I also bled a lot when I did eventually lose my virginity. So I wouldnt assume that he has totally popped your cherry, but also, yes its quite normal and common, i know it happened to me and some of my friends too! :)
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