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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've fallen for my ex... Again!How do I get her to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. Right I'll get straight to the point. Im getting feelings for an ex. Were both 15, go to the same school, and live really close. We often spend nights staying at hers playing the wii. I first went out with her when I was 12 and it lasted only a few months. Now ... (236 words)

How do I make sure she wants a relationship when she's so shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would try to get her to reveal he... (343 words)

How can I get more attracted to my BF? Or ...find another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't find my boyfriend really attractive, I said I would go out with him, because he is the only guy that has EVER shown any interest in me... I have tried everything to become more attracted to my bf because he really loves me! But I don't really know what to do... S... (114 words)

Simple Attraction VS "I really like you"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when a guy really likes you? I know he's attracted to me, but I mean attraction can only go so far, you know? When does it cross the line between just trying to get some, and actually liking someone, in your opinion? Is there a line? Can you start out just t... (74 words)

My egyptian's BF family is racist when it comes to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are discussing marriage at the moment but we have a lot of difficulties to overcome first. I'm white british muslim convert and he's egyptian muslim. he told his family about me just recently (we've been together for 2 years). his mum is totally racist and ... (443 words)

He accused my son of theft but thats not the only issue..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my bf and we have been together on and off for the past 4 years. Recently he is spending a lot of time with me except when he says he is out of the country or business meetings at night. He says he spends time with me to prove to me that he is loyal to me. He do... (615 words)

What is going on with my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I've talked about this teacher before. Last time I ased if there was anything going in between us...of course there isn't, but I'm having to ask again. So my friend who knows this teacher really well too and she recently noticed that when he's talking to ... (345 words)

Online crush met someone real..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing me. the worst thing is i wasnt ... (112 words)

We recently seperated and now she only contacts me for money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK ladies i need your help. me and my wife had a big argument over a month ago. we recently seperated. according to her this is just temporary and she just needs time. now the only time she contacts me is for money. It's only been four days and im completely losing my mind. If ... (123 words)

How do I explain to my parents that even though I am with a man, I still am bi-sexual ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and I am Bi-Sexual. Ive been bi since I was 13. It was rele easy to tell my mother and after telling her I have always told ppl the truth about myself. Though my sexuality was confusing to myself. I was bi but yet i hated porn of both ... (196 words)

Today I decided to try and pull my foreskin back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Helo there, I have never been too familiar with the penis and foreskin, and today I decided to try and pull my foreskin back. Little to my knowledge did I even know this was possible, and not being told by my mother to clean the foreskin etc. So, I now have found I have a s... (148 words)

Why do girls hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i feel like i have no friends today i went to give a book back to my friends in free hour at school and they were just playing around. there were my "girlfriends" there girls that are friends. i asked them if and how much they liked me and they all said they hate me but they ... (143 words)

Should I regret losing my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I regret losing my V-card? last year I gave my virginity to my first bf ( I was 22 and he was 25)...at first things were great I thought we were in love, but I guess it was just lust. We dated for a month, then he dumped me and then we were on and off for a year. Th... (184 words)

Can a man give up porn after 10 years of regular use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have huge issues about porn which date back many years ago which turn my stomach and I don't feel I can discuss here. I have explained all this to my boyfriend of two years and told him I cannot have porn in my life and if he wants to watch it I can't live with him or be w... (283 words)

Can you really forget your first crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for over 11 years and he used to have a crush on me for a very long time, but I never felt the same although we became best friends! But we haven't spoken for 3 years because I went to Uni and we drifted apart. Up until recently. But the problem is this.... (199 words)

Guys may come and go, but my study abroad opportunity will never come again...am I overthinking this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm studying abroad in Europe for 4 months next fall. I haven't had the best of luck in dating, but I met an amazing guy last month whom I have a great connection with. Despite having only known one another for a month, it feels like I've known him for longer. It sounds corny, ... (266 words)

That last time I saw my BF, we had sex but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid.my scorpio boyfriend has totally changed.He was the sweetest boy ever and he made me believe he was in love with.we were havin a distance relationship and we only seen twice. And then he came back from the states recently I was suposed to spend a week with him bu... (176 words)

How do I flirt with my shy boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship, and we talk a lot online. I really like this guy, and love talking to him, but I find we almost never talk like a couple--we keep the romantic aspect of things very limited. I know he likes me, and I have tried flirting with him a bit b... (118 words)

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a couple of times. I have been with... (343 words)

How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I pleasure myself without intercourse or sex toys?... (10 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want me to go on holiday...but I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes... Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave her as she is the love of my l... (386 words)

Why does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) age 36-40 - He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want anything serious with me. We ... (198 words)

She said she just wants to see hang out with me and see where things go from there...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently posted a question regarding my conflict of being with a girl, but having a girl who I used to adore, tell me she has always liked me. Here's my situation, it's kinda complicated but here it goes. I recently broke up with my girlfriend, Ironically she b... (255 words)

What are the chances that the baby is not my boyfriend's?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge me for this I feel awful as it is - I am currently almost eight months pregnant. I am due on may 10th and my last period began on august the fifth. I have a steady boyfriend who I am sorry to say I cheated on once on the evening of august 11th when very ... (140 words)

Information on how to make a Russian girl happy on a date

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) age 41-50 - I know it's silly to ask, nationalities aside, people are people. Saying that, I do need some advice regarding a certain wonderful woman that I have met that happens to be Russian: I want to know what NOT to do and what I SHOULD, how to make her happy on a date or when we meet ... (116 words)

I want to join the team but I am insecure about my homosexuality.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have recently been wanting to join rugby practice for my local team since I have an interest in rugby but I don't have confidence to go :S also I'm not certain but I think some people from my school go there aswel and I don't really want to come out to the people ... (105 words)

Should I continue to talk and be sexual with ex or just let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated my ex for almost 3 years. she ended the relationship she said I didnt do anything wrong she just had fallen out of love but we both admitted that and that we loves eachother still just not in love. well weve been split up for over a year always kept in touch though. she ... (136 words)

I'm growing up and feeling sexual and I'm worried about how far I will go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am getting these strange attractions to practically all the boys.. i feel very sexually attracted to them, and to be honest, im quite worried about how far i would go if they took advantage. the summer is coming up and there is always a harmless summer romance to be had.. im ... (79 words)

What do you think of this situation with a boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a huge crush on a boy in the year above me. we went on the ski trip together, and before that we didnt know each other apart from names etc. on the trip we got to know each other and had a real laugh. i spent most of my time in his room with his friend and it was ... (270 words)

LDR or the guy who's nearer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he lives like 10 mins away from ... (213 words)

My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable...do you think he'll call me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable at the best of times - and even when I ask him things he can never give me a straight answer! - Anyway, the other day I text suggesting we don't see each other again if he can't make more sense to me - and he hasn't replied since!! ... (110 words)

No one knows how unhappy I am. I'd appreciate some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been feeling very lonely and upset lately. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and everything is fine with him, but in the last while I have become really self conscious about how I look and I feel really awkward around people. I think that people find me boring and that my ... (236 words)

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total jerk. I invite him for ... (193 words)

I think I have an eating disorder. It's making me miserable. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i know this site is mainly about advice on relationships but mine is slightly different and i would really appreciate the help on this... ok, so i am worried in case i have an eating disorder. I am constantly thinking about my weight as in anorexia. My BMI is the ideal... (329 words)

Does he still care for her or am I just being needy and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 5months now and our relationship has turned sort of sour because I've been too needy and I am totally aware of the fact. Im too insecure and Im always wanting reassurance however i think this has started because of one main reason...His ... (285 words)

She runs hot and cold. Does she care or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as what we were on the previous ... (110 words)

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he lives abroad but we still sleep t... (302 words)

I'm not sure how to read my American boss. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m a foreign student and working in my university while I am studding, Today I finished my job and it took 5 minutes longer than I suppose to work. I was cleaning my desk and putting the stuff on the places that they should be quickly to go because I had a doctor appointment. ... (177 words)

Do I need space? Or am I subconsciously pushing myself away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months, after an on-off relationship for two years. I am 28 and he is 26. The timing was finally right for us to be together, and we are so in love. He is the one, we already have plans for the future and I have a 3-diamond ... (354 words)

Why am I attracted to someone I hate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old boy and have discovered I'm attracted physically and emotionally to this boy i hate! I'm not sure what to do about it and could use some advice! I have been bi for 3 years now.... (40 words)

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see people laughing at work, I think t... (236 words)

We've been married a year and it's not working out. Any suggestions on how to fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i are separated. we meet up every couple of days but nothings changed. he is still nasty to me. treats and talks to me in a horrid manner. its the main reason we separated. weve only been married just over a year and things have never been ideal. he's staying ... (160 words)

I know Facebook takes away from my studies, but I really miss it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey m missing my face book too much!!!!!!!!m getting bored....i hv deactivated my account bcuz....my studies r being hampered.....i dun want to do so.....bt m missing it....wht should i do now???reactivate it or deactivate it?????my exams r frm 24th April.......pls help me........ (42 words)

My BF teases me about not being as worldly as he is, and it make me feel inferior.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel inferior to my boyfriend coz he is very much social. He has got a lot of girlfriends, and he goes out with them. I feel hurt when he is doing this. I have discussed the problem with him,but he says that it's all coz am not social. And also he has a good world wide ... (82 words)

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. After dealing with guilt and ... (229 words)

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with someone else behind my back... (221 words)

Boyfriend just can't seem to get the hint. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is very quiet and shy, i ask him by text if he wants to kiss me and he either does not answer or reply's 'dunno' i really want to kiss him so bad! he doesn't even get the hint when i lean forward, what should i do?... (49 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me sexually... is he just being friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I should be asking him this but wanted your opinion on it. Its about my boyfriend, we been dating for 3 months. I just don't feel like he likes me, sexually. He does do a lot of nice things for me like a friend would do, like help me if I need a ride or let me stay a... (162 words)

Should I feel guilty because I sit at a community table talking politics and local government with these old men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have never done anything in all of my years of marriage that is unfaithful I've never even thought of it to be honest I've always loved my husband even though he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to me for the entire marriage. In our home town there is a local coffee ... (370 words)

Hurt he didn't call, am I overreacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm the kind of person that has always put in a lot of effort into my relationships. I used to go overboard with it but now I've definitely calmed down. I've really been trying to keep busy and not focus on my relationship because I know I have a tendency to obsess over dumb ... (273 words)

He texts other women and now he wants me to marry him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i'v been in a relationship with my bf for 3years now, we've had good times and few bad times, when i noticed some messages in his phone, about how he misses and loved a particular girl. This has happened thrice, of which he apologised and i forgave him. Since then... (141 words)

I still really love him, I'm just bored, and so is he!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im going with my boyfriend for 3 years. we are getting married in 2 years but im finding myself really bored and so is he. we do the same thing everytime im over just sit and watch tv i try and do other thing like asking to go for a walk or go out but he just does not want ... (105 words)

Torn between my best friend and my current boyfriend, how do I manage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused !! i don't know what should i do with my life !! 1st my boyfriend , 2nd my best friend. Help Me Please !! My boyfriend had changed his treatment with me , because like he say i don't show him that i love him ,he says when i show him or feeling about hi... (152 words)

My older friend has put my self-esteem at rock bottom. How do I cope with this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Many thanks to couple of people who responded to my problem of boyfriend looking at other women. I was talking to a male friend who is 64 years old to see whether I am being silly or what. He turned around and said "well, you are very attractive but neither pretty/be... (322 words)

Is she losing interest or scared of been hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few month now and we were completely loved up, we couldnt get enough of each other, she was upset i was there for her, id stay with her all night just to get her smiling again. Before we got together she told me about how badly ... (300 words)

Friend said rather insulting comment to me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - First of all thanks to couple of people who replied to my problem yesterday. (boyfriend looking at other women) I was talking to a male friend about my problem with my boyfriend, and my male friend who is 64 years old turned around and said "well, you are very attractive,... (262 words)

Women--ever had an orgasm when you needed to relieve yourself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Women of all ages.. have you ever had... an orgasm while your bladder was desparate for you to relieve itself? (and your man, was right inside you at the time)? it seems to me that you couldnt relax to orgasm, while you are holding back the pressure on the other ... (319 words)

The sex is just not happening!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What happens when sex just doesn't happen? We "try" to have sex but I am too large (according to him). I don't know what else to do. I have contemplated leaving as we have been together for 10 months and maybe twice have had successful sexual intercourse. We have tried alot ... (142 words)

How I can try to progress intimately with this shy girl I’ve met?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

- Hi there I’m 32 yr old guy from the UK and just starting dating a girl who’s 26. We’ve had 2 dates so far and both have gone well. First date was a quiet drink in a bar, and then the next has been a walk in the countryside followed by Sunday lunch. Both times the conversation ... (304 words)

Is there a way to stop this unwanted attention from his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently 16 years old, and I got asked out last September for the first time. We did not talk much for the first 4months as I was shy. After getting into arguments, I decided just to go for it and now we are closer than I have ever been to anyone. My boyfriend is a few ... (261 words)

I'm not quite sure if I like her or not but I find myself thinking of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres this girl i met at a friends barbeque a couple of weeks ago. Since then shes texted me, given me her number, asked me how my day was, called me at night and talked about her life, complimented me over the phone, laughed alot and listened to me and all that. I think shes ... (219 words)

Confused on this whole stiuation, is he playing mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should just tell him.(i think he... (450 words)

Is porn a step on the slippery slope to cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is porn a step on the slippery slope to cheating? I found out that my bf of 7 months has some porn videos of women from the internet on his computer. He has done nothing to make me doubt my trust in him, but I'm a little worried that looking at porn is on the slippery slope ... (90 words)

I don't want to walk away and he says he doesn't want to lose me but he's doing everything he can to lose me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should things be improving in a relationship when its nearly 6month in. I only see my bf a a couple of nights a week and its only for a couple of hours. It feels like a long distant relationship but he only lives a few mins away from me. He never makes plans to see me. Ive said... (125 words)

How to make long distance relationships work. Is this one worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im from other country but living in india and studying here , i met a girl who was from other country too and she was came here just for visiting . i met her and we talked couple hours about general things , during that i asked her age , and she is 5 years older than me , als... (350 words)

Why does this guy take all these pictures of me and want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age - Hi All. I have a strange question to ask.I am a woman in her mid 60's i am fit and not unattractive,i excersize every day. well lately this young man he tells me he is 42 has struck up a conversation with me and walks along with me.he seemed nice so i didn't object to his walk... (194 words)

I think I'm getting sexual vibes from him but what if I am wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Do we take our friendship to the next level? I have recently reconnected on facebook with an old school friend from many years ago. He was the first boy I ever kissed. I has been very nice to see him again. We have always had a strong attraction to each other but have never ... (166 words)

3 years we've been together and suddenly he's calling me by his ex's name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 happy years but in the last month he has been getting my name wrong and calling me by his ex-girlfriends name. This has happened on 2 occasions now and it has shocked and upset me so much. When It happened the first time i asked him why he'd ... (199 words)

How do I handle a man who thinks its funny to wind me up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 March 2011 (F)

age - HI I am in a relationship with a man and have been for about 7yrs, we get on fine most of the time but what i am finding annoying about him is him saying I love tormenting you because i love the way you bite back;I'm beginning to feel he has no respect for me, so what i would ... (142 words)

How do we tell our friend that his girlfriend is cheating without everything blowing up in our faces?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Any advice given on this would be greatly appreciated or anybodys oppinions or view points. Im in university, have a great group of girls that im close to and i have a wonderful boyfriend that ive been with for a year and a half. However i know something that could chang... (472 words)

She says her feelings for me are more of a brotherly nature

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Help needed with a relationship :( Hi! I hope you can help me? We have been seeing each other for 2 years now, she has bipolar and is married with 2 kids. She does not get along with her husband anymore, they sleep in seperate rooms and have decided to stay together... (250 words)

My boss is absurd and I want to quit my job!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to quit my job cos the boss is really getting on my nerves. he does things that are absurd. I do the cleanings in the office all alone and instead of the boss to appreciate it, but rather he made me regret of doing it. one day, I swept his office and after some minutes ... (129 words)

Am I addicted to masturbating? Will this cause problems for my health? And will it reduce my sexual desire?

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to know if a can masturbation habit reduce sexual desire in males? i am 27 virgin but i masturbate almost daily from age of 14 with watching pornography, but watching porns is voyeurism (peeping tom), which is one of the type of sexual perversion. i have never had a ... (346 words)

How do I accept that this isnt going anywhere?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. So I'm 30, female and recently met this perfect man of 27. We met at weekend in a bar bout 3am. Went back to his, didn't sleep together, had fun though. Straight away I thought there's something about him, his perfect for me. I really really liked the way ... (408 words)

Unhappy with my husband's online activity....what should I do?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Me an my husband have been rowing a little (well up and down) he is always in Twitter I don't know his name or nothing. I went on history on pc an seen he's been on dirty dating sites but whats hurt the most is that it asked him to write what he thinks would bring girls to him ... (79 words)

Newly married and unsure what I should be doing when having sex.....

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I m a newly married person. please tell me when to have sex and whenever I do sex, is it necessary to make her wet and I wanna enjoy more during sex. How is it possible???... (36 words)

I hate my course and I am homesick, but my family have invested a lot of money into this! What should I do?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and i have to pay a rental too. ... (150 words)

Why is she behaving like this with her new guy when she never did with me? And will she ever come back to me?

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so im new to this but here we go. I dated a girl for a month treated her very well as all my friends said always was there for her. I always sent good morning text's. I left her video messages on her facebook. We didn't get to see each other on halloween so i brought ... (822 words)

A young, troubled guy, already.

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ones I was both lied to i... (466 words)

Do I wait for him to leave his girlfriend or just walk away?

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30 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone got a bit of a issue and would love all opinions on it. I started a new job about 6 months ago and I met this guy there which I got along with great straight away. We were always flirting and he got a new girlfriend who lives on the other side of the country. ... (258 words)

My guy spends more time with an old woman than his gf!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help me on this one. Ive being going with a guy for 5month, yet he still keeps me a secret. None of his family know and Im sure that only one of his friends know about me. When he is at his parents house he does not text me, even when he is in his local pub on his o... (273 words)

I think our roomie is flirting with me, should I tell my fiance?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone im just wondering if anyone else views this situation the way i do.. so here goes, i live with my fiance and a friend of his that is a guy. we have all been living together about 6 months or so. at first i wasnt very comfortable around our roomie si... (402 words)

He feels the situation is ok because we are not married yet, apparently I need the 'wife' status first before he helps me out!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I were going to get married this year. Then he got a job that involves being away from home for 4 to 6 weeks at a time. He’s been doing this for 5 months now. He only gets paid at the end of each contract. I’ve got to manage our home and pay all the bills and ... (315 words)

He wants to keep the baby, but we hardly know each other and I don't want to be a single mom with 2 kids....

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am pregnant and have told the father, he wants to have the baby but i dont because we barely know each other, i got pregnant on the first time. what should i do? i dont want us to stop being friends but i have a child from my previous marriage and dont want to be single with ... (60 words)

Is he too shy or just not interested in me?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so this uber uber uber shy guy I asked out at the end of the college semester (last may) is still on my mind. I had asked him out for coffee and a movie and he said "yeah maybe" in an optimistic way (if that makes sense) and I told him to call me and I had previously given him ... (1359 words)

A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. How can I improve my success with women?

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. Okay, I know that clubs are not a great place to meet women, but it has worked for me in the past and I know it works for a lot of guys. I just feel like women aren't attracted to me. I'm not bad look... (202 words)

Worried about standing out when everyone else is grinding at the school prom......

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to prom with a guy... far more sexually experienced then me. i do not plan on having sex but at my school everyone grinds...and like id like to not stand out. is there any way i can get better at this. any tips? im ok...but idk still insecure... (50 words)

Will he think I am not as good in bed because he has been with lots of girls?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy "derek" has always been the hook up type. now he has changed and says he wants a relationship, that he likes me and can see it going somewhere. i know he doesnt just want sex because hes told me he would wait if i asked him to. im not innocent either. but he has been ... (96 words)

My wife speaks very nasty to me when upset over minor things, and expects me to forget what is said

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30 March 2011 (M)

age - My wife and I have had a wonderful relationship for 15 years...(3 arguments if you can believe it). Lately, she has been getting very nasty, over minor disagreements. While upset, she has said things such as she doesn't care what i think, she doesn't need me, I'm no Fabio, has ... (323 words)

40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men only a few years older than ... (296 words)

My step father is getting a bit too close! Does he just think I am a child? Is this part of his culture? Or should I tell my mom?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am a fourteen-year-old girl. My widowed mother just recently married again. My stepfather seemed very nice. She's attracted some sleezy men in the past. But he seemed great. I'm an only child and while they were dating, they'd often take me out with them and we'd all ... (389 words)

Frustrated with our sex life, what should I do now?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age - We have been married for 13 yrs. He was basically a virgin except that there were already some preconceived misgivings and anticipation on his part.(Backward communication and not very forward thinking or fun experimentation etc..)He was/is unsure about just everything. I on ... (129 words)

Should I bother with the guy of my dreams, even if I know he's a jerk?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is really really long, if you ever even end up reading it, but I literally just spent 3 hours reading your column and I think you're absolutely brilliant and would love your advice. You don't even have to post it, just a reply would mean the world to me!! I fi... (884 words)

How do I let her know that I am interested in her?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I recently realized that I am bisexual and happy. I am not entirely open with it, but I'm not hiding it either. I have only told 2 friends and they are supportive and I appreciate it. My parents on the other hand, are homophobic so they cannot know this part about me. ... (192 words)

Why does he say yes to talking to me online when he always falls asleep?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I Feel like I am going crazy! I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing man for a year and a half. He has to kids, owns his own business and drives four hours to come see me almost every week. I am an assistant in a busy salon, am full time in university and take ... (270 words)

She is turned off by sex!

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiancee have been together for 2 1/2 years. In this time we have both gotten good jobs, and a nice apartment. We go out on dates and enjoy spending time together as a couple. The problem is, she is totally turned off by sex. To the point where she doesnt like it if i ... (87 words)

Will my gay best friend ever want to date me?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is so dumb... but my one and only friend is gay and I really really like him and really wish he wasn't gay. He's everything i want in a person and I know he admires me and loves me, except he's GAY!!! has anyone ever heard of a gay guy being about to be with a w... (82 words)

How do I make sure that we are just friends?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been friends with a man for a couple of years and we are both married. We try to get together for a chat once a week at school with my daughter in our presence, and i really look forward to it. I think he does too since if he is unable to make it he will text me and say ... (160 words)

Does he like me?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy i think he likes me but im not sure please help! So today in class i was helping him with the work we had to do and he kept explaining to me how he didnt understand it and it seemed like he just wanted an excuse for talking to me. Then he kept asking me all sorts of ... (75 words)

I never ask for anything from him and all I wanted was to see him!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really really really wanted to see my boyfriend today only for like an hour or 2 and I asked him threw a text if he was ok with me coming over? My real reasoning is cause I wanted sex but I figured I should be nice about it and ask him just if we could spend time together. ... (272 words)

Porn and hurtful google searches found on my boyfriend's computer......I need advice!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I need some advice, I recently found some things on my boyfriends computer that really confused/upset me. Some background: ~We met at University and have been dating for 21/2 years now. ~I am his 1st girlfriend although I have had 2 previous bf's. ~I j... (722 words)

Embarrassing birthmarks.....

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - does anyone happen to have a birthmark at certain part of their body where they wouldn't want it to be? i have a strawberry red birthmark on my upper chest, bit lower the neck, and people always mistook it as a hickey. because of the location, it's really hard for me to find ... (134 words)

My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?

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30 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the doctor till summer cause its to ... (71 words)

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me for family reasons. What should I do?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated for boyfriend for 9 months now, 6 of which he has lived on the other side of the country. It's a two day drive to get there, so we normally just fly back and forth. I'm still here in the city in which I've been born and raised. I'm very close with my family, and ... (238 words)

Inexperienced with all of this.......

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm making good grades in school and have a little bit of free time so I was thinking about maybe getting a girlfriend. I know this girl in one of my newer high school classes, we are both freshmen, and I like her, given i do not know much about her because I just moved to this ... (143 words)

How do I get rid of these stupid thoughts about something that happened over 30 years ago?

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30 March 2011 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I have a horrible dilemma, probably more medical but I'm even beginning to wonder about that too. I have been married to the same beautiful woman for the past 28 years and been with her for over 32 years. We met when I was 17 and she 22. When we met she told me ... (541 words)

What do you find attractive? Opinions wanted please!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) My question is personal opinion! Feel free to answer! I really have been curious about what everyone is attracted to in a woman physically. Full figure, small hands ext. This is not shallow, and I KNOW personality plays sometimes a bigger role than looks. But I'm g... (93 words)

I care about you vs I care for you

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - In a relationship, what is the difference in these 2 statements? "I care about you" and "I care for you" Correct me if I am wrong, but if a man says I care ABOUT you, that is more a friendly statement. BUT I care FOR you, that is meant more as an I love you. This m... (80 words)

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working and then he said it was to ... (303 words)

We have very different sex drives! Help!

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a same sex, long distance relationship. my girlfriend and i have been together for 1year but only get to see each other every other weekend. my problem is that we have very different sex drives! i have a low sex drive and consider sex once or twice during our time ... (299 words)

Should I tell my husband that his friend is in love with me?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I been married for 7 years!! We also have the same friends... Last weekend we went to a party with our friends, after the party we got home and went to sleep. About 1am I had a text msg from my husbands friend and it said "I need to talk to u" since he is getting a ... (161 words)

Is sexting with another woman cheating?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is sexting (sending sexually explicit texts/pics) cheating? A guy I know has been doing this with me on FB and to my cell phone. I found out he's engaged! So I have stopped responding because I feel it is disrespectful to his gf, but is it cheating? We have never ... (67 words)

He used to give me all his attention but now he's breaking my heart.... how should I react to this?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now and it seems like he isn't bothered about me anymore even though he says he loves me. It's always me that has to make the effort to go out (he always says he has no money but then will go out with his friends), he won't let ... (277 words)

How should I ask him out?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just broke up with my boyfriend and theres this guy i really like. Im too afraid to ask him out and i Dont know if he likes me. How should i ask him out? ... (35 words)

She cheated once. Will she do it again if I forgive her?

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30 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - If your wife of 5years cheats on you w/her baby daddy. Would she do it again if I forgive her? She confess to me because she felt unhappy with her self. She said it only happend once and that she is sorry? Should I forgive her?... (46 words)

My boyfriend has become distant; will this change?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my boyfriend had a fight the other night cause i didnt trust where he was when he went drinking and he text me the next day saying hes not happy anymore so i went round to his and he was in a kind of mood/trance type thing looking totally depressed and he said hes ... (239 words)

Am I too pushy or selfish about moving in together?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have bin together for a year and seven months.Im 25 just turned in Feb and hes 24 he turns 25 in May. I work two jobs one full time and one part time he works nights and goes to school full time. I plan on attending grad school online in the near future ... (583 words)

His Laziness is Ruining Our Relationship

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22, my boyfriend is 26. We’ve been dating for almost two years, and the life of our relationship is wonderful. He’s a great guy, very caring, in touch with my emotional needs. We have that chemistry everyone talks about, he makes me laugh, and overall I’m very happy with ... (417 words)

Why hasn't he called me yet?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy last weekend through friends at a bar. The next day my friend said he asked for my number and thought I was cute. ok, great, so I passed on my number on sunday. He then requested to be my friend on facebook yesterday and sent me a message just saying it was ... (163 words)

I always get crushes on older men and I'm tired of it.. how do forget about my crush?

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30 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I just got a new crush on this guy who, like always, is older than me. I want to stop having crushes on older men but I cant seem to stop. I dont know what to do I am always thinking about him and no matter how hard I try I cant stop thinking about. What can I do to ... (71 words)

I've known him for 27 years and don't know if I'm on the right path...

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30 March 2011 (F)

age - I have know my boyfriend for 27 years and been with him since 1999 (11 years) We now have an 8 year that he adores. He is also very supportive to my older teenagers. I have been having doubts about the relationship as I do not feel he is totally committed to me. - We do... (540 words)