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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does b/f always want me to talk about his ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf asking me to finger and kiss his ass. Even when we do sex talk, he always wants me to talk about his ass. Is he bisexual or gay?... (39 words)

Does he really love me? And seeing as we both say we love each other, does this mean we are in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the thing. I have recently been talking to a guy online and he seems really nice, we used to talk every day and about a month ago he told me he loves me and he then went quiet on me to the point where i would be lucky to speak to him twice a week. This may be ... (139 words)

I almost feel like I have been dumped (!) and am feeling really worried and embarrassed about going to see our mutual friend again now that this has happened.

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22 March 2011 (F)

- Hi, I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I met a guy on new years eve through mutual friends and we seemed to be getting on really well. However he was texting his ex so I wasn't going to let it go any further than just chatting. A few weeks ago, one of our mutual fr... (360 words)

Married man used me, and is back in his cozy state of mind...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello...my name is Stupid and I've been seeing a married man in my building for six months... I know, so wrong but he was persistant. He claimed I was whom he loved. Everything was perfect, we would text each other, cuddle, date all the above until a couple weeks ago!!! Now he ... (137 words)

Since he already has kids, would kids we had together be less special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend a year ago, and immediately fell for him and have been totally in love with him ever since. The problem is he has a son and a daughter with someone else. The ex (of course) is making everything hell for both of us. Anyway thats not the issue, feel like, ... (110 words)

I really like him but don't want to ruin the friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, can you help me? In fifth grade, I was at recess, and I spotted a boy I thought was cute. I started to like him after asking his friends about him, and got to be in a group with him on a class trip. Then, we parted ways and he went to the other middle school. Now that we're ... (179 words)

Is he backing away because he's in the military?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This man and I have known one another since he early 90's. We have history. We got back in touch in 2009 and saw one another. When we saw one another, he laid things out on the line. I am attracted to you... I am a very busy person but I make time for the important people... (235 words)

Long distance drama

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am having a problem with my new girlfriend, I am bi not a les. We have been dating since january of this year I have known her for about 6 or 7 months now and I met her here in my state, she moved back to her home state before we started dating but we knew we ... (250 words)

Are men afraid of their emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men pull away when things in the relationship seem to going so well??? Are they afraid of their emotions?... (21 words)

Am I crazy jealous or do I have a right to question my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl on and off for 5 years. I love her more than anything in the world but our relationship is makes me nuts. Im not good with conflict at all and she knows this and from what I can see takes advantage of it. We have broken up in the past becuase of ... (490 words)

My B/f might be moving away for the summer. Its only an hour away, but I don't have the heart to let him leave!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend might be moving away for the summer :( its only about an hour away from me by car but i will miss him so muuch!!! i wanna tell him that i dont want him to go but i want him to be happy and get money from the job hes going to do....i just dont have the heart to do ... (99 words)

My mom seems very pesimistic about my boyfriend. How can I win her around and get her support a bit more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm here about an issue concerning my Mum and boyfriend. I come from a Christian upbringing although i'm not quite decided where i am on it yet. Anywhoo, i've been with this guy for 4 months and it's been going amazingly well overall and i think it would possibly go ... (196 words)

He broke up with me because I cheated with the girl we had a threesome with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 21years and been in a relationship with a 38year old man for 4years.we loved each other so much we did everything together,his weakness is with women,he likes girls so much but I over looked all of that and still stayed in the relationship cus I knew what I meant to him ... (246 words)

We haven't been able to figure out how to make me cum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, i'm after some sex advice me and my lovely boyfriend have been having sex for about a month now, but being that i'm quite new to sex we haven't been able to figure out how to make me come. I don't have a G-Spot and when he goes down on me it gets to intense but it ... (102 words)

Is it pathetic to be 17 and still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, To start this off let me just say that I'm coming from a small private school so there aren't many girls in my grade. Even when I was at a public school I never got much attention and I don't really know why. I try I really do. I really want to be something in life ... (175 words)

She's been with other guys and I'm afraid I won't measure up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - This girl I know really likes me and wants to get with me. She is a year older then me and has hinted she would like to sleep with me.... I like her back but She has had sex with other guys and I'm scared I won't measure up to them and not satisfy her like her previous sexual ... (150 words)

Its just strictly "friends" but I'm not sure she sees it that way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem with a woman I work with. We've recently began working together so are spending time together and getting to know eachother. Turns out she's gay. As am I. We also have a lot of shared interests. I think she's an awesome girl and very talented at her work ... (468 words)

I feel like I'm ugly and people stare at me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old guy. I am extremely vain about myself, I tend to be afraid of people and what they think of me in other words...I absolutely resent this. I am always soo depressed when either I feel bad about myself and keep degrading myself, because I believe I am very ... (375 words)

Ex sends me texts about every 2 weeks and keeps pics of me on his phone. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend texted me a pic he had taken of me on his phone while we were together. No words were attached. Just a picture of me sitting in a chair with my(our) 2 dogs. A couple weeks before, he texted me and said that he was sorry for what he had done and he missed me. He ... (144 words)

My boyfriend doesn't always return texts and is rubbish on the phone and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! Does anyone else have this problem or would like to share thoughts on this... My bf is great when we are together BUT he doesnt always return my texts and he is rubbish on the phone. He has already told me that he is crap on the phone and he sometimes feels that he doesn... (93 words)

He doesn't get in touch with me the way he was with is ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering if you could all give me some advise as im in aid of some :( Ive always had two main issues with my bf. Firstly, His EX and secondly when he texts me. But, Ill chat about the texts first as the ex will fit in... When i am with my bf its amazing. we are alwa... (398 words)

Is he using his circumstances to not date me properly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently started dating a divorced man who has five children and two ex-wives and a night job! I have seen him only four times in four weeks and the last two times have been only brief meetings. Firstly because he was sick - he still turned up to our date but was vis... (226 words)

I don't want to miss out on my son's life but don't think I want to be with his mother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a very complicated situation. I have been dating someone for almost a year and we are very much in love. Last month, an ex girlfriend (who i havent spoken to in 14 months) calls me and tells me I have a son who is 6 months old. I have been battling the pas... (547 words)

The sight of my pregnant girlfriend just doesn't turn me on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Got my g/f pregnant about 6months ago. Really pleased to be having this baby, always wanted to be a daddy. Problem lies in that i love this women but since finding out about the pregnancy i no longer feel attracted to her. Our sex life used to be great and i have quite a ... (109 words)

How do I talk to my gf about a real touchy subject?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. So my girlfriend is a little controlling but lately she's been trying not to be. A couple days ago I went to a bar with my mum on my birthday and my friend works there. Well a long time ago her and I were drinking and we made out, my girlfriend and I had bee... (259 words)

If he gives oral to me do I have to return the favor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have started getting more sexual, he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job, but he wants to go down on me, if I let him, does this mean I have to go down on him as well? I've never given oral before and I don't think I'm ready for it so shall ... (70 words)

Husband of 3 years has started looking at gay porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 3 years. Recently I have been noticing gay porn popping up on our computer. I confronted my husband about and we talked about it. He said he doesnt jerk off to it or anything and its just kind of a kinky curiousity thing, but he keeps looking at it. I ... (74 words)

Orgasm problems! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about my orgasms. I'm not sure what's going on here and I'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. When I first started having orgasms, I would feel a "build-up" and then a "release" at the end. Lately, however, when I'm having sex with my boyf... (159 words)

I am not 5 year old anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Guys! Help me please! My parents are soo mardy, they treat me like im 5 . So okay I love ice skating with my friends but there all going on friday nights for the foam parties and im not allowed, i told my parents ill get a life there and back but still no! I really want to go ... (142 words)

Why is my ex asking my friends when I'll next be in town?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a update from my last question.... Lately I've been trying to get Over my ex...we went out a year. Three weeks later she had a new bf. Everyone says it's a rebound etc. Today I was talking to a mutual friend who has been hanging around with my ex a lot (My fri... (129 words)

I've fallen in love but its almost impossible to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive recently come back from Thailand and i have fallen helplessly in love with a man from there. It was ultimate bliss when i was with him and never have i felt so loved, so special, so beautiful, so.... Happy. Ive been back for a month and i have spoken with him everyday. I ... (141 words)

I get jealous when my b/f goes out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Well lately I've been really irritable (I suffer from depression and anxiety), I've also felt really jealous about my boyfriend, not about other girls but about the fact he goes out with his friends nearly every day, he always frees up two or three days a week to ... (239 words)

I love my friend but does she return my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

- I need help! Am in love but does she love me?. I am 43 and I have a friend who is 26. She needed somewhere to stay last September and she stayed w/ me for 4 mos. It was hard, and we never slept together, but we remained close and great friends. She is now back in my life, and ... (354 words)

I am always angry and depressed and need help controlling this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - needing help My stress levels are increasing i am really agitated and get angry at the slightest thing going wrong i dont know what to do as i dont want it harming my health and my relationship with my boyfriend as i am taking my anger and depression out on him. i just nee... (93 words)

Should I let my boyfriend be a real guy like other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont really no what is true love. but maybe i could get some help. see i really love this guy. We're pretty serious, he's not my first boyfriend but i'm his first. sometimes he complains that he didnt get time to be a "real" boy ( like a player) we're bout 17 and we both hope ... (128 words)

Boyfriend confessed that he cheated and I am very hurt and confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ....feeling very confused and not sure what to do.....boyfriend of 9 months tld me that he got drunk and cheated.....it was just a one off.....he told me 2 days after it happened (the first time he seen me after it happened....he told me straight away) he feels massively guilty ... (125 words)

How to beat competition for my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, been speaking to this girl for about 2 months. I like her, I've felt at times she likes me just through little things she does and says. I feel I've played it a bit too cool though. I mean, I once gave her a hug and I've invited her out one or two times - as a ... (283 words)

We're engaged, she's pushing to get married and I just don't want to now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been going out with my partner for three years and we have got engaged. She wants to get married, but I do not want to, epecially at the moment. I have not officially spoken to my parents about this and now my dad has just been diagonosed with Dementia. I am finding it ... (166 words)

Is this Jealousy or Hatred?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was 12-14 years old (2006-2008), I had a crush on a girl which is one year younger than me. She also had a crush on me but then we stopped liking each other. After sometime she met with my friend and liked him. When we stopped liking each other, she did not know my ... (1071 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me and her sister is helping!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend always kissed me and everything but the last month she dont want me to hold her, she dont want me to kiss her, she is always with her sister (her sister is a player) when i'm visiting her and walk around with her as if i'm not at her house pleas give me advice, ... (78 words)

Would this be called cheating the new Gf? If I just asked my ex to strip while we were on webcam.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it cheating if? Let's say you have a girlfriend. And you know your ex still loves you and you still have feelings for her, but you don't want to be in a relationship with her, but you drunk call her telling her you love her, and miss her, etc. Let's say you webcam with... (94 words)

With someone new, but comparing every aspect of our relationship with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently started seeing someone for about four months now, we have only had sexual intercourse the once. I don't really see him often sometimes not even once a week. but before i started seeing ben* i was seeing someone else for about 8 month it ws never labeled a rela... (259 words)

Where are the best places to meet new people?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this isnt a relationship question but i was wondering where the best places to meet new people are. I missed the deadline for college so i wont be able to get in until next year and i a currently unemployed fir health reasons. I dont really go on nights out would this be a ... (68 words)

I don't like PDA's but my girlfriend is a romantic

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i dislike pda's. they're so cringey, it's like everybody looking in on your private life. behind closed doors it's a different story. i've been with my girlfriend for almost a year, but i've liked her for years. she acts like she's okay with me not being comfortable with pda's, ... (137 words)

Was my teacher genuine or will he forget me while I wait? He told me to cool until I'm no longer a student

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been crushing on this teacher for a couple of years now, and we've gotten pretty close lately but he's been scolded and he told me we should cool things off for a while because he says he doesn't want to get me in trouble. He said he would really love to hang out ... (203 words)

Do all girls shave, down there? what bits need shaving? What styles are there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, Apparently girls should shave their pubic hair, so I did, however I'm not sure where you actually shave. Say you stood naked infront of a mirror, all the hair you can see - that's what I shaved. Is that right or do you need to shave underneath too, from the top ... (174 words)

How do I repair my shattered confidence? my ex is telling all my penis is small

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and my ex is 13. we went out for a few months and during this time we did have sex. it was my first time so i was insecure about how i looked, what i was doing and like all guys, my penis size. its only 5.5 inches and my ex is now spreading rumours that it is tiny and ... (107 words)

I like porn and get turned on by women. Am I bisexual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, well im sort of touching a senstive matter and i could perhaps use abit of advice. Im 14 years old and well im a girl and i like to watch porn. i watch metro sex porn, the thing that i dont really understand is when i watch metro sex porn... (308 words)

How do I overcome the awkward silence and show him an amazing time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 22 years old and i will be going out with the guy abt 25-26 years of age for the first time..well he will be visiting my place for a day or two..and i live in a small city,so we dont have much to do around here like go skiing,or hiking..its just a small place with a ... (105 words)

What would cause you to cheat on your partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Women, a question of honesty! Why do women decide to cheat on their men? Plz in detail... (21 words)

Why won't she give me oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 4 years now, and she has only went down on me 3 times out of 4 years! On top of that she met this guy, ("Who got his ass beat by the way." ) any way, she hung out with him just 4 times. Then on the 4th day at his house she ... (145 words)

What is love and can it survive distance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know the meaning of love. What is love in general? What is being in love? What is true love? Ive been in a LD relationship for over 2 years and people keep telling me it wont/cant work. Well we have been through a lot together, soo many downs as well as ... (291 words)

I always get a rash after shaving! What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, well I've got a very embarrassing question that really needs answering. I'm 15 years old and well I'm a bit worried. Every time I shave my legs and nether regions I seem to get these little spots that appear like a rash. Its worse on my nether regions and sometimes the can ... (145 words)

I'm obsessed with same-sex interactions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why am i so obsessed with girl on girl, I've spoken to my friends and they said they're not, but I'm attracted to anyone I know that's bi, any celbs that are bi or lesbian, anything to do lesbians, any also, anything to do with men being gay, like when I found out my friend ... (102 words)

How do I change the way I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Recently me and my boyfriend have had huge fights, we have been together for 2 years, recently the fights just seem to be him having goes at me, pointing out all my flaws, calling me arrogant and other things. And he says that unless i change (bad flaws eg. arroga... (171 words)

Guys do you prefer to approach or be approached?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On a night out what do you think of a girl that makes the first move to approach a guy? Do guys prefer to approach the girl themselves?... (29 words)

During a break from my boyfriend, he got another girl pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - iv been in a relationship for around 8 months and i love the guy im with to pieces. during the 8 months we've been on and off and during a period while we were off, my bf had a one night stand with some girl and he did make me aware of this. we are off at the minute and he t... (130 words)

Scared that my small penis will cause my first experience to be bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i m 24..asian.. i have never had any kind of experience with any women.. but now i m kind of desperate becoz i think its time to get into a relationship and know women.... above that what makes me most conscious is i have a average sized manhood.. may be even smaller...round ... (113 words)

I feel obligated to sleep with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 March 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I would really appreciate if somebody could answer me. So here's the story; It begins like every other lovestory: girl meets boy, girl likes boy and boy feels the same. We started dating like two months ago nad it has been really fun. He is really cute and romantic. Like the... (220 words)

How do I ask my new girlfriend to lick and finger my ass?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

22 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - About a year ago, for the first time i got a prostitute. She said she would do anything. I always wanted a girl to lick my ass, so i asked and she did. Since then i have stimulated my ass as much as possible, by stroking around it and even putting my finger up. Now i have a g... (96 words)

Had a strange dream after we got back together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend two years ago 2009. We had a good relatioship and we were happily inlove with each other. But after 5 months of our relationship I left and we decided to have a long distance relationship. We were in long distance relationship for 10 months and then we broke ... (163 words)

My boyfriend lashed out at me and said that I only want sex!

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day I only jokingly mentioned that I wanted sex but for some reason my boyfriend thought I was serious and kinda lashed out about it and said all you ever want is sex it kinda hurt I told him thats not true its not about the sex I said its that I want you if it was ... (223 words)

How do I stop my moodiness?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i think he's more into the relationship ... (403 words)

I fantasize about older men and am no longer happy with our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2. Throughout our relationship we have had our share of ups and downs. When we first got together we were both in our teens (18-19) the sex was amazing, but after kids and doing a little growing up and maturing, I no ... (123 words)

Should I tell my ex he received an email from a girl, inviting him for a drink?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age - My ex partner of 10 years and I separated 4 months ago but still stay very close - it's not over for me and I believe we can recover from it given time - we still care deeply for each other. A girl has emailed him to ask him out for a drink and it has come to his email at my ... (139 words)

I'm in love with him but not sure where he stands, since I always initiate!

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm gay, and I'm 27. I'm in love with a younger guy who has feelings towards me. We've not discussed if he's in love with me and I haven't told him that I am in love with him. I know I am in love, but, for now, he calls me "bro", friend, and etc. However, we are sexually ... (207 words)

Friend suspects I like his girlfriend, I do but don't want to wreck their relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When I started college at the end of last year I met some new friends and one of them has a girlfriend. I met her once and I added her on Facebook and we have been talking online and the odd time we see each other in person. She broke up with my friend a few weeks ago but th... (307 words)

Boyfriend had sex with me while I was asleep!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Have a problem, don't know who to talk to. I've been with my bf for three years straight. Before we got serious, I told him I wanted to wait till we got married before we actually had sex. I've been grown in a Christian home and yea I know this ideal is a old but its what I w... (740 words)

She never says anything complimentary about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a girl for 6 weeks. We live 80 miles apart so I only see her once mid-week and stay at her place over the weekends. She is so physically affectionate, in every area, staring into my eyes, even loves grabbing my hand over the table when we go out for meals. ... (179 words)

Virgin at 20, should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am a 20 yr old male and still a virgin. this fact depresses the hell out of me. everywhere i go theres people all having so much fun and i feel that im missing the best parts of my life and falling behind on much needed experience. most people have a fair bit of experience ... (307 words)

I found pictures and sexual texts of his before he knew me, should I worry?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - pls help..im confused, i met a guy 3 months ago,and i really fell for him,.iprior to the relationship i asked if he was seeing some one else, he said no.he dint wanna talk about his past relationships coz he said he want our relationship to be based on uss not the past. he ha... (217 words)

Girlfriend wants us to be together forever but I am very insecure about her past

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i am currently in a relationship which seems fine... and nothing seems to go to wrong and not many arguments are had. but i have a huge hang up about it. i was a virgin when i met my current girlfriend. and ... she isnt. in fact i believe that she has been with a few ... (199 words)

Are lap dances now different from 11 years ago?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am trying to find out if anyone knows what is the difference between a lap dance now in 2011 and a lap dance back in 2000 has it changed do the do more now ... (36 words)

G/f says she will stop lying but how do I trust her again?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi: My girlfriend recently went away, and while on her trip "bumped" into her ex boyfriend. I asked if she had emailed hi to which she replied "no". I later found out she did in fact email him but the email bounced back at her. Her claim was that because the email didn't go ... (122 words)

Is it bad to date your friend's ex?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this has never happened to me before but i was wondering..is it bad to date ur friend's ex...i mean i know its bad if u r close friends ..but we r not..i actually rarely see or talk to her...or used to cause she's not talking to me anymore. I don't want to hurt her but at ... (102 words)

Help. My boyfriend had a three year sexual relationship with his first cousin

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After about nine months of dating, my boyfriend tells me he had a three year relationship with his cousin. He mentioned this relationship was hidden from family and friends, that no one knew what they were doing. It ended when she cheated on him. About 8 months later he meets ... (100 words)

How can you mend a broken heart?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you mend a broken heart? I know this is probably one of the most common questions but i'm heartbroken and some days im fine, other days I cant seem to pull it together. My ex and I were together for 2 n a half years, long distance. We split up roughly 10 months ago... (185 words)

B/f kept talking about a girl to make me jealous and now he won't respond back to me

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 2 years was keep on talking about a girl he met yesterday. I got insecure and i asked him whether he liked her more. He said he liked me more, and he was just trying to get me jealous. Ofcourse he succeeded in that. After sometime i couldnt take it, he k... (106 words)

B/f thought I was going to dump him so he broke up with me!

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c he was afraid I was gonna du... (109 words)

We broke up to find ourselves, but I feel like Iost my best friend

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and last week we had a small argument and he said he needs to break up. We talked about it and i agreed with him. We have been together since we were 18 and never really been single. I am quite controlling and dont like him going out all the ... (280 words)

Do I have to change? How can I be more positive?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been with my partner for over 3yrs we have been through alot together i was kicked out of home and moved straight in with him. together we have faced one abortion, 3 miss carriages we were living together for 2yrs then moved back to his parents then i moved out and he ... (177 words)

Is he not a player anymore? And does he like me?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) My story is kind of complicated. This is my second year of a new school. I still have a crush on the same guy as the first year. We make eye-contact a lot. But sometimes i think hes a player. For instance last year he used to hang out with the "popular" bunch but this... (151 words)

My boyfriend sometimes leaves the room with his phone, does this mean he is cheating?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Something is bugging me. Sometimes (not always, by any means) my bf takes his phone with him when he leaves the room and also leaves it face down, when we are sitting together, watching tv or whatever. I don’t want to mention it to him cos he hates it when I act ... (232 words)

How can I save a dead relationship while pregnant?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its not working with the bf. I am 11 wks pregnant. This was a complete accident. He is now living with me but its hell. There is no sex, we sleep in separate rooms and when there is sex its not that great. He can't stay hard or at most he will only be half hard during sex which ... (618 words)

Fiance wants to have anal sex, I'm scared of losing him but I don't want to do that

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Please,I need your advice.My fiancee would like to try anal sex.I havent tried that with my past relationships.I wanted to try it because I am afraid he would find somebody else who is willing to do that.I love him and I dont wanna lose him.The problem is when he tried... (226 words)

The sex is next to nothing, I'm pregnant, I don't feel desired and I'm extremely frustrated with my B/f

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22 March 2011 (F)

I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age - All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met her and it was love at first... (935 words)

I need some help on my boyfriend and his anger mangment

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi , my boyfriend has anger mangament and its getting extermly annoying , now i am proablly younger than you guys but i really need someones help , i tryed once to ask him about his anger mangament and he said engor me , and if i call hang up , and ill get over it. but the ... (363 words)

So basically this messed up, crazy sweet guy told me he wants to be my fwb, but it's my choice now. What do I do?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - awhile ago i met this guy; he was sweet enough, but a self confessed man whore so i brushed off his advances. our convos usually started with him asking if we could bang, but generally got into deeper more meaningful things once he got that out of the way. his gf, who he... (1176 words)

How can I make him fall back in love and stop contacting his exs?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am having problems with my relationship, well the thing is i am abit jealous of my partner which is normal for people to feel in any relationship, but the thing is before we started fighting we were great he showed me , cared for me but now it ... (213 words)

Why do men get away with so much where women get treated different.

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This question has been with me for some time now and would like to hear other peoples views. Why is it okay for a man to walk away from his responsibilities and if he sleeps around its okay its normal whereas if the woman walks away and sleeps around she's a bad mum and a whore ... (87 words)

Can her loss of love be cured by staying away?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a 4 year relationship with my ex-gf and she called it quits because of a loss of love interest. I'm trying to move on, but I would LOVE to get back with her. Friends recommend giving her space because she might be confused and not sure if she made the right ... (114 words)

If I start the NC rule, will she realize she still loves me?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a 3.5 year relationship with my ex-gf and she says she no longer loves me in a romantic way. I've contacted her occasionally (once or twice a week) the past 2 weeks since our breakup. If i start the NC rule now, will there be a chance that she realizes that the ... (85 words)

How do I become more approachable in dating?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello! I am quite in a predicament in terms of dating. I've been in relationships before, but after getting out of a long term relationship I seem to be having this confidence issue. Basically, I know I can woo a girl through words and actions, but recently I came to realize ... (127 words)

Is it possible to predict before marriage that a couple's sex life will suck 5-10 years after they get married?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Almost every one of my guy friends who has been married for more than 5 years or so has told me their wife has lost almost all interest in sex. Many go for a month or two without it onb a regular basis. They also tell me about friends of theirs who had gone for years without ... (281 words)

NC with someone who doesn't love you anymore?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex GF of 3 years broke up with me because she doesn't love me anymore. I want to be with her so i was wondering... Has anyone ever done NC with someone who says they don't love you anymore? was it a success or failure?... (50 words)

Did this pill mess with my period? What do I do??

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been having periods for like 7 years now and I think I know mine pretty well. They're usually pretty heavy. I've been on the birth control pill for nearly a year and they've stayed pretty much the same. This month, however, something's been a bit different. A few wee... (143 words)

Boyfriend hiding and texting his friend. how do I set boundaries without seeming too jealous?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all! I have been with my bf for about 15months now. My bf has a "just friend" at work. She has worked there 15yrs he has worked there 8yrs. She is married (4yrs) with 2 babies. She recently came back to work from Maternity leave. While on mat leave she called and tex... (383 words)

Why do people stay in loveless marriages?

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22 March 2011 (F) age - Why do people stay in a love-less marriage? When you know the other person doesn't love you anymore, why do you stay in that relationship? Is it because you think you can win them over? I think once the love is gone, it's gone. They might still have feelings for you based on... (121 words)

Sometimes he's flirty other times he seems almost annoyed! How do I know if he'd like to go out?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I am a 20 year old female college student. I seem to have developed a crush over one of my new friends here at school. I was introduced to him by my best guy friend at the beginning of the semester. The moment I saw him, I felt warm on the inside and had an instant ... (291 words)

She broke up with her fiance, do I sent an email offering my condolence?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty sure of what the answer to my question is, but I thought I could get a little input. Several years ago, my girlfriend and I at the time decided to break up.(Of course this is just before high school, so whether someone can call that a real relationship is ... (189 words)

Ex and I are still friendly, but he's hanging out with his ex, how do I react to this?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm sorry if this is long, but I would really like some help! Three months ago my boyfriend of nine months broke up with me because his ex girlfriend came into his life again. This girl left him for another guy and was his first love, I guess he never really got over ... (446 words)

Silent Love Triangle

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been developing feelings for my boyfriends best friend. Lets say his name is Ryan. Well, Ryan is also my closest girlfriends ex-boyfriend. They had a rough relationship and broke up on bad terms. Anyways, I know I could never be with this guy because I would hurt my ... (182 words)

I'm tired of looking over my shoulder wondering what my girlfriend is doing!

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together almost a year. I love her to absolute bits, but we have had some problems in the oast after she cheated on me. We broke up for a while, but eventually got back together after she said she would do everything she could to make things ... (386 words)

Wife had one brief sexual encounter before we married, why does it bother me so much?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If you were a man who lost your virginity to your wife and your wife admitted to having one small sexual encounter for 1 mintute or so and told the man to stop and then was managomous to you for the rest of her life would you let it bother you? Idk why its btohering me I am my ... (137 words)

Is is possible to fall back in love with someone?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi There: I have been in a relationship for 11 months. My son has a severe anger problem he is very violent, my boyfriend has broke up a few fights. He told me on March 12 that he is no longer in love with me, but he loves me very much. I broke upo with hiom. He calls me ... (129 words)

Boyfriend doesn't think I've ever had an orgasm?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend almost two years and he's said he doesnt think i've ever had an orgasm. I know that when we're done having sex i get this numb tingling amazing feeling from head to toe and thats what my friends say an orgasm is. But he says he's never felt my vagina ... (102 words)

How to blend my relationship with my family?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age - Hi Even though I thought was the end of the world I made it though and I am in LOVE. Its been a yr and 1/2 and all is perfect. My thing is that my kids and my partner met each other but there has been little interaction because I do not bring her home but now we will blend bo... (120 words)

Why when I orgasm does it feel like I have to pee?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is kind of embarrassing but I just need to know. When my husband does oral intercourse on me on the clitorus my legs start to shake and I tense up and I think I cum but then while he's still doing it I feel like peeing? And I read some say its female ejaculation, but ... (64 words)

I'm on 14 and I'm scared he'll dump me if I don't have sex

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy and we have been going out for a while now. I think I am falling in love with him. He is so good to me and makes me so happy. The thing is he wants to have sex and im not ready for it. I have never done any sex stuff before. I am 14 and he is 5 years older... (213 words)

Could I please have some ideas? I'm feeling rusty about what to do when trying to get a relationship going.

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have at last found someone who I am actually attracted to. I have not had a relationship for the past year because I did not want to, and found no one I really liked . But suddenly, out of the blue, I find someone who I really like . My problem is I dont know how to go about ... (189 words)

Ex says he wants to see me once more and tell me the truth.Should I go?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: What should I do? text my ex bf or not? am really hurt:(? ? ? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me:( he's hurt me so much, I loved him so much and he always told me he loved me. He broke up with me 2weeks ago and am really... (306 words)

I'd like to cook my b/f something nice. Any suggestions?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone in 2 weeks time my boyfriends parents are going away for the week, were together 1 and a half years now and i've never really cooked anything special for him, well while his parents are away i want to cook him something really nice. has anyone got any ideas fo... (57 words)

How can I get over her when I sit right next to her?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... so my girlfriend and i are both in highschool. Im a junior and she's a sophmore. We both met in the same class and hit it off instantly and soon started to date. Well we fell harsh for each other and wouldnt give up on one another.... unfortunately two months later i ... (312 words)

I'm taller. Friends are interferring. What can I do to ease his insecurities?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey let's make this short and sweeeet ok, so.. I reallllllly like this guy I LOVE this guy. He's my friends brother. And I'm a bit tall for my age because guys still haven't hit that growth spurt that makes them huge lol. So I'm about hmm 4 inches taller probably and I thin... (100 words)

I definitely wasn't ready for this new relationship. What do I do?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After recovering from a very tough break up, I started becoming good friends with this new girl. We talked a lot and really hit it off and eventually I convinced myself that I really liked her and was ready to move on and into a new relationship. We've now been dating for ... (463 words)

Do men get connected through sex like women do?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What kind of feelings does a man experience during sex? For men, is it love language? Do they express love through sex? How does sex play a role in love for a man???? Ive been seeing this man for a while and we didnt sex it right away. We waited. The first time I thi... (147 words)

How do you forget the mother of your children?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 7 years we have two kids she had a previous daughter..... we have been separated for 3 years now and I cant stop thinking about her I dream about her I feel stuck that I cant move on with life I am miserable we have joint custody of our two and she ... (107 words)

He fingers me and I feel like I have to pee, whats going on?

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22 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - How come when my boyfriend fingers me I always get the urge to pee? To avoid the problem I have tried going to the bathroom before hand but it doesn't help. When I start to get the feeling I run to the bathroom and pee but the feeling doesn't always go away. Does anyone have ... (110 words)

What does a man feel emotionally when receiving oral sex?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys....I read something once that "Giving a man a blow job is like giving a woman flowers" What kind of feeling does it give a man when she wants to give him a bj? Is it just a feel good sexual act or do you guys feel a connection with that woman? Do you feel a bond?... (147 words)

If I was straight why would I be having these worries?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this is probably going to be rambly but ive been worrying so much i just need to get it of my chest. ok so i guess the main theme of this is my sexuality. ive never had a crush on a girl before, never felt like ive been hiding my true feelings froma girl before, or gotten too ... (1255 words)

Both a boy and a girl have feelings for me. What are my options?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a really weird situation. Back in January a friend of mine (who is also a girl) kissed, it was something I had been interested in trying for a while and when we realized we both had thought about it we decided to try it. It happened more than once and eventually esca... (174 words)

How can she do all of these things that make me feel insecure and not realize how her actions make me feel?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 33 year old woman and I've been dating my girlfriend for 4 months. She has said to me on more than one occasion that she loves me and she can see a future with me. However: she blows hot and cold with me. There have been at least *four* instances where she just suddenl... (579 words)

Would it be ok to put a note in her mailbox?

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22 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl I love is coming back from a long vacation and I missed her so much but I didn't call her or text her much because I didn't want to bother her. She messaged me while she was gone just seeing how I was doing. She has said I love you to me before actually a few times ... (814 words)

Why have we started having "dirty sex"?

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22 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 and 1/2 years now and things are great but we find ourselves doing more and more "dirty" sex acts. So much so that "ordinary" sex just doesn't happen anymore. I'm not worried about my physical health but if someone could explain the ... (95 words)