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I can't get this guy alone because of his overprotective friend!

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Question - (13 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2011)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

O.K so There's a guy in my college whom i really like

but i m doubtfull if he likes me. I m not at all goodlooking i get nervous talking to him . He is really a good frnd of mine and i dnt want to spoil it .we are in the same group and often are together .

recently i also learned that he had a very dradfull past and ended up bitterly in a relationship . i dnt know if he is ready for a new one or not .

another problem is he has a frnd [a boy ]

bothe were in the same school and are really fast frnds this other boy really dominates him is always with him never leaves him alone . he is lyk this overprotective obsessive frnd of his so there is no way i find my guy alone though my frnds do try it to get him out when we are togethr

so there is no way i can be with my guy till he is around

i really dnt know wat to do ? should i ask him out or let things run their course ? should i muster up courage and tell him abt my feelings or wait for him to realize them ? if i do ask him and his answer turns out a no , it will be akward for both of us to see each other in college everyday plus our friends will be forced to make a choice and take sides which i dnt want .we have a doubt if his frnd is a gay who has this big crush on him . i mean both of them ended their relationships on the same time..

please tell me what i should do ?

how do i get rid of his friend?

should iask him out or stay quite?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

Firstly, this other guy is his friend. You have no business to try to get rid of him. Just because these two boys are together a lot does not mean they are gay. Do you have a close female friend with whom you spend a lot of time? Does that make you a lesbian?

So what if he did say "No" if you asked him out? Would the world end? Why would that mean your friends would "have to take sides"?

I think the only thing you can do is step away. Believe me, if this guy is interested in you he will find a way to let you know.

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