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writes:I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. Is that bad?
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reader, LaLysia  +, writes (14 March 2011):
That is awesome that you are a virgin! I hope you find a really great lady to share your first time with. I admire you for being a virgin and that you are a male. There are so many STD's out here that it's devastating. So good for you! Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): i'm a virgin too and i'm 23.. and i just met a nice guy whom i totally want to do it with .. so its awesome :P :) three cheers for late bloomers :D
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reader, Remniscent  +, writes (14 March 2011):
Bad??? Being a virgin isn't bad! Actually, the longer you're a virgin, the better it is (in my opinion). Don't rush to have sex, just wait until you find the right partner, otherwise you WILL regret it in some way or another.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (14 March 2011):
 I'm 27 and a virgin. It happens. It doesn't mean anything bad, just that you haven't found someone yet to share that with. When it happens, just let it happen. In the meanwhile, enjoy the free time to focus on work, hobbies, friends, recreation, study, whatever.
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reader, missy_musk  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 Im actually quite proud of you for saying this! No man i have ever known would ever own up to still being a virgin-no matter what the age! Being a virgin is in no way a bad thing, if anything its a beautiful thing that you have and one day you will be one of the lucky few that will be able to experience your first time with your chosen person. What makes you think being a virgin is a bad thing? There is a lot of stick going around about being a virgin and people are very quick to think that they are "not normal" or plain "frigid" for not rushing into losing their virginity. On average, over 90% of people regret losing their virginity at such young ages and an even higher percent regret how they lost it. I sense from you that your much wiser then most other people your age and you are blessed with the opportunity of being able to make your first time something special. So please do not feel ashamed because there is nothing to be ashamed of! I will tell you this for nothing, my first time was with some guy in the middle of a muddy field at night in winter, and believe me, there was nothing "nice" about it. Like many people, id give anything to get back my virginity, its one of my biggest regrets. A regret that you may have the pleasure of avoiding!! please feel free to mail me if ya ever wanna ask me anything!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): No, it's definitely not bad. There is no age by which one should expect to have lost one's virginity. It's not a race.
Don't let it worry you. Just like everyone else you too will find someone with whom you want to make love and all will proceed naturally.
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reader, lush2010 +, writes (13 March 2011):
NOT AT ALL... my friend just lost her virginity at 24 and she is HOT . I think its great that she waited until she met someone she trusted and loved
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