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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I not do this because of the age difference or her being in a very emotional state or do I so it to help her regain her self confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here is my problem and i have no idea what to currently do at this point. I apologize in advance for how long this article is but I wanted people to understand the background first. I have worked in a small shop for about a year with a couple of older women. One of th... (442 words)

Am I addicted to him? If so, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When you read the title you might probably think that I am promiscuous and flirt all the time. No, I am actually in a normal relationship with my boyfriend. I just need help because while the sex is very good, I feel empty the next day. My boyfriend feels content and happy, but ... (239 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to spend more time with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am at home for a week i have been away at school... i spent time with my boyfriend this weekend but it didnt seem like enough time... now i dont want to be the clingy selfish girlfriend so i didnt mention wanting to spend more time with him when he decided that he wanted to ... (224 words)

He is so quiet and makes me do all the work! Is there a chance he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Pls kindly take the time to read through,i'm sorry it's this looong. I've been attending this new church for almost a year and 3 months now with my younger sister and we are always together in church. After about 4 months of attending this church i started noticing this ver... (967 words)

Sex, I seem to really want it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin, and I've been with my boyfriend for a while. And alot of the time when I think about him. I just think, that I really want to lose my virginity to him. And I havn't really done much sexually. I've only gave him one handjob and hes fingered me twice. And yeh I'll ... (187 words)

He doesn't express his feelings anymore ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It was great at the beginning. He would tell me the most sweetest things, like why he likes me and how much I mean to him. And yeah, he does say 'I love you' to me. But not much more. But yesterday I poured my heart out about how much he means to me and all sorts and his reac... (146 words)

Dating a momma's boy... Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend does not see the harm in talking to his very protective mother about all our problems and assuming that i will blindly follow what his mother thinks, he thinks my mom "is full of crap" when it comes to relationships. his parents are a lot older than the normal age ... (553 words)

Do I join his crossdressing website?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question: my boyfriend is a crossdresser and I don't really have a problem with it, he doesn't do it that often in any case, besides it makes sex more fun. My problem is he is insisting to the point of guilting me, that I join his online TV community. Now I don't ... (142 words)

Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age - Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a month, then we decided to meet ... (613 words)

Ex tells me not to become the town bicycle. Why does he care who I date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just split up with my partner. We have kids together. He is living in our other house. He is constantly asking me if I'm dating and asks me "please don't become the town bicycle". We've only been split up a month. It's not really his business whether I'm dating or not ... (123 words)

Now and then! Next move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I'm a 21 year old male that met a girl 4 years ago back. then she was to young for me. she is 16 now and damn she is pretty. last weekend when I saw her my heart nearly stopped. 4 years ago she was totaly inlove with me but that was puppy love. now I am total... (147 words)

I'm away at uni - me and my boyfriend don't miss each other. is this OK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Basically ive been with my bf for over a year. We have a really good sex life, so much fun together, were really open with other and as soon as either of us have a problem we let each other know, before it becomes a problem. He's honestly my best friend and partner. Everyo... (906 words)

Drunken hookups are leading to unfulfilling sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been sleeping with this guy (who's 21) for 2months now and it is almost always a drunken hook up and he has failed to stay hard throughout intercourse everytime. We always get halfway through sex before he goes soft. I asked him if it was me and he said defiantly not but im ... (125 words)

Breakup with b/f has me worried he'll stick me with all the bills!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my boyfriend and if that was stressful and worrying enough now some people around me are saying that he will prob leave me with all the bills. My ex had bad credit ratings so I use to get things out in my name which means that according to contract I have ... (94 words)

My hangups with my body are keeping me from dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to get rather worried about this psychological issue I have about sex. I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment and since I'm a virgin the notion of NSA seems a lot more appealing to me tbh (I'm quite happy being single). Problem is, whenever I've me... (136 words)

This is going to ruin my relationship... How do I get past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to ruin my realtionship Dear cupid let me start things on a happy note for once i have a girlfreind that i love dearly and would do anyhting for she is my world my moon and my stars. ive only ever had one relationship other to her this was from when i was 12 ... (429 words)

Is this an emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advise desperately. I have been with my wife for almost 24 years and married 18. We've got 2 beautiful kids(6 and 11)We've had a good marriage for the vast majority of the time with some ups and downs. I lost my job recently and we started to fight more around the ... (475 words)

5 years, a child, no marriage because he isn't sure he can be faithful

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid i am a 29yr old female i have been in this relationship for 5yrs and we share a son together but he has not ask me to marry him yet because he says that he not sure if he can be faithful and he don't want to hurt me. He says that he wants these feelings to go away so ... (90 words)

Should I just go for it and see how it works out or would it just be setting myself up for disaster???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i like this guy and he made it pretty obvious that he likes me but im not sure if hes a good person to have as a boyfriend. Hes really nice to me but with his best friend, who i know really well, a lot of times hes a huge perv and can be kind of mean. He gets really mad ... (217 words)

If I end it with him I'll have no one at all... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have no one. i have fallen out with all my friends because of this boy i am seeing. i do not drive and only have a part time job which i only work 3 days a week. all i do is wake up and mop around the house and wait untill the weekend to see my bf as i only see him twice a ... (333 words)

Zodiac signs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not particularly a big believer in Zodiac signs, but I'm kinda bored and interested in knowing what my Zodiac profile is. Sun = Pisces Rising = Aries Moon = Scorpio If it helps, I was born 20th February 1995, at 07:50am. I'm just wondering what me being pisce... (103 words)

I lied to him saying I was pregnant to see his reaction...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I lied to my this boy I'm seeing that I'm pregnant with his baby after I took a test saying it was negative. When I told him he was upset and first thing he said was I'm booking the abortion. I've told him its already booked. I told him I was pregnant because I wanted to see h... (97 words)

Is he back with his ex and is not telling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im so fed up i feel i have lost everything. i met this boy about 5 months ago in town and we started seeing each other everything was fine, untill about a month ago everyone tryed to spilt us up. first it was this girls he was with before and then my friends joined in. due to ... (283 words)

Sleep talking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my partner for just over a year now and things are going really well. Our sex life is very good however on approx 7 to 8 occasions after sex when he has fallen asleep he starts to talk. He always says "I love you Julie" (his ex who he split up from 3 years ... (169 words)

Threesome dilemma, with a friend or with a stranger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here the background info: I have a boyfriend of over 4 years, we are very close, have lived together for about 4 years, and are doing very well. We both want to get married but are waiting until I am at least finished with my schooling for financial reasons. We are also about ... (510 words)

He's bisexual and he's asked me out... do I say yes???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help really, really fast, as I really don't have much time. This guy asked me out, but he's bisexual and I don't know whether I'd be able to handle all the crap I'll get. I really like him and we even made out. Please, I really, really need help xx... (52 words)

If this continues as an open relationship, how am I meant to keep my jealously at bay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half, have an active, what I would think as happy sex life, and we are.. well were, serious. Over the past few weeks, he became quite antsy with me, very blunt, snappy, not his usual self. I didn't ask questions, I tried to... (332 words)

Is he holding onto my things because deep down he doesn't want to lose me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help as I'm in need of advice/answers (only from men please). Have been in 2 yr relationship with a disabled man. I love him, yet he always plays mind games. I don't mind this, as I know that he's very insecure; On new years day i rang to say hello. He hung up on me and ... (168 words)

So counfused and hurt with what to do about "Bob"!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm kinda in a mess right now with one of my friends, we'll call him "bob". Bob and I have been friends for about two years and I care about him a lot even though he doesn't have the same feelings.We hung out a couple of days ago and everything seems fine except for we ... (408 words)

We're from 2 different tribes!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been attending this new church for almost a year and 3 months now with my younger sister and we are always together in church. After about 4 months of attending this church i started noticing this very cute guy, over time i developed a crush on him and wanted to catch his ... (983 words)

I'm scared of being naked.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to feel beautiful and desirable? But I hate my body so desperately, I find it very hard to get into exercise and hard to give up the foods I want, even though I don't eat that much of them, and have cut down a lot as well. I don't drink or smoke and I take care of my ... (137 words)

I lied about pregnancy and want to regain his trust.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I had a huge fight with my fiancee a couple of days ago and in the heat I busted out. I am pregnant! We had been trying to get pregnant since december so I felt awful... So a few days later when he asked me if it was really true I couldent keep it inside anymore and st... (209 words)

She called me small after sex...should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have never had complaints/worries about my size or performance in the past, but lately I've been feeling very insecure with my new lady. Sex seems great from my perspective, but the last week she called me small after sex. This comment came a couple of days after she t... (143 words)

I'm a pagan and he's a jehovas witness...can this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'll try to keep this short. theres this guy i really fancy and we got on brilliantly, well we still do. but recently i found out he's a strict jehovas witness. for most people that wouldn't be a problem, they'd still try and ask him out anyway but i'm a pagan, i wouldn'... (151 words)

Does acting and looking like a boy mean that I'm a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, i have a problem. Both me and my friend had and it goes like this. Both me and my friend are tomboys. We love doing almost everything that boys would do. We are both homeschooled so we get picked on sometimes and sometimes public school kids say how lucky we are.... (101 words)

Do I stay with Martin or go back to Rob?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i am soooo confused! I dated Rob last year for 7 months. The relationship was good except for the fact he made me question his feelings towards me. I told him after 6 months i loved him and he responded with 'thats nice!' not the responce i hoped for!! Apart from that thi... (322 words)

How do I get rid of my loose skin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

7 March 2011 (M) - i would like to know how to get rid of my loose skin, i have been trying for almost 3 years now and its still there, its putting me of, i cant even go swimming anymore and am not gaining weight either and am skinny and can see bones, so how can i get rid of this loose skin, if ... (85 words)

Would it scare him if I make a move again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have joined a dating site about 2 months ago and have recently started emailing a guy on the site. I was the one that initiated contact and initially he responded very positively. We exchanged a couple of nice chatty emails and then he went completely quiet for 2 week... (272 words)

Does he adore me or adore having sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been seeing someone for a short while. The sex is amazing, but for various reasons neither of us wants to get into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at the moment, we value our freedom. My question is, when a guy uses your name and says "I adore you" when having sex,... (110 words)

Am I going to be ditched?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Pls take the time to read my story. I am in a lot of pain. Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I am a Pakistani and she is too. I fell in love with her. She did not love me. I made her say yes to me a... (926 words)

I can't find a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been single for 2 months now and I am dying to meet someone but have historically had tough luck meeting girls I like. I have been with some really attractive girls but literally all my relationships have been short and ended in disaster. I am 30, have a great job, dri... (206 words)

I lied and told him I was pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my bofriend and i have been together for the past 7 1/2 months we broke about 4 months now and is not living together anymore but we continue to have sex, i love him so much and want him back more than anything else i know his heart desire is to get a child so i lied and ... (143 words)

Advice on living and working in London?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm interested in either working or studying in London, as i am currently unemployed and i love London. I am quite worried about the thought of moving away though, as i haven't lived away from home before, and i still live with some family members, and near other family ... (159 words)

How can he love his wife if he was cheating with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope you can help me I had been seeing a married man i to am married we worked together thats how it started. We were seeing each other for 5 mths he was telling me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me and even said he would leave his wife they have been married 20 ... (339 words)

He makes me so shy...how can I get more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid aunt, i am new on the website but i couldnt help myself not ask for your advise. i am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy that i have been friends with ever since 2009 i met him through a chat line and we began being friends he was uptight and all ... (312 words)

Need advice from the guys - Should I run since it seems he might be addicted to being a "torch bearer" or should I assume he has matured and gotten over his broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - In need of advice from the bloks (guys)....been going out with a guy for 3-4 months, he hasn't said the BIG 3 words yet but we have a lovely time together. From what I've gathered, his past relationships were with women that started out not liking him (the challenges...ugh) and ... (110 words)

Need your help to get back to being myself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had dated a guy 3 to 5 months and was totally into him and he too was ready to commit.But somethings got messed up and now we don't have any contact with each other.I really don't understand what happened as he didn't give me good reason for anything and the decision of ... (250 words)

I dumped him because I wanted more committment from him...but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for about 7 months and he ended things about a month ago. I wanted more of a commitment from him and unfortunately he wasn't able to give it to me because he wanted to focus on his career. Now I really miss him and I want him back. However, he doesn't want to get ... (94 words)

Is it weird that I want to be friends with one of my closest friend's bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird that I want to be friends with one of my closest friend's bf? They've been going out for a month, and I just met him. I just feel like him and I have so much in common, more then they have in common. Like we like music and art, but my friend doesn't as much. ... (211 words)

Is it possible that even if he did love her at some stage, that he could fall in love with me and get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am finally dating a guy that I have known and had a crush on since I was 12. We still share the same friendship group and share two best friends, Miss.X and Mr.Y, to make a group of 4 us (plus everyone else we know)... It all started about a month ago at my now boyf... (441 words)

Is this some weird game where he likes having me around when I’m useful to him but it’s not really a genuine friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago, I was away from home studying for the summer with a group of students. There was a boy staying in the same place as us who we all got along with. He bonded with the other girls a lot faster than he did with me because I was very shy back then and he seemed ... (782 words)

My guy gets pissed off so easily now. I don't know why and what is happening to him.. what can be the reason for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well its like this. i had this relationship with fazmi at first. we had the affair for abt ten or eleven months. we truly luvd each other. but we had to break up because my mum got to know about our relationship and she made a big mess. but i tried to explain to fazmi that i ... (654 words)

My boyfriend is 11 years older than I am! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i tell my friends and parents that my boyfriend is 11 years older than me. i really need to tell them. i cant keep it a secret for another year please help.... (34 words)

Does it seem weird to anyone else or am I letting my imagination and pms get to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I just have a quick question...so my boyfriend and I of about 4 years are very serious and live together and all that. We have both made mistakes in this relationship to kind of hinder the trust but we have buikt it back up and been doing great for a while...so ... (523 words)

They all warned me about my wife - but I'll feel guilty if I leave her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - First of all, let me start this by writing that I appreciate everyone's time you spent reading this and sharing my experiences. I will not bore everyone into every detail of my marriage; it won't encompass everything, and everything has two stories. Here is a short version of ... (613 words)

I feel so unattractive. how can he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I constantly feel fat and ugly, and its effecting my love life, I feel like my boyfriend is getting bored of me because of this. ... (25 words)

My ex is trying to wreck my new relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my ex's keeps bugging me and bugging me to dump my current bf and date him. I keep telling him no but he wont leave me alone and idk what to do at this point. I haven't told my bf cuz idk how he would react. What should I do?... (53 words)

He's asked me out on a date but he's so effeminate!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been talking to this dude for about a week. Get on great with him! Hes lovely, hes really funny and quite ambitious. The thing is, hes quite feminine, haha. I think hes gay like! And he did ask he out on two days ago for a date. Now I dont really know what to do.... (92 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I lied to him even though it might sabotage our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months, nearly 5. We have trust issues. He's never done anything to make me doubt his love for me but i've lied to him many times and I created a lot of lies to cover up everything... in the end, it blew up in my face and we had a ... (257 words)

I gave him my virginity, now I feel like I'm losing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - we have known each other for three years and kept relationship for four months. Everything is perfect, but when he asked if I had ever someone else in mouth, I said yes, and it was 8 years ago with ex bf. He shows upset though he tried to control. And the past experience made ... (190 words)

I'm in a mess and I've literally invited all the trouble!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, basically I'm a mess. I've been a bit of a screw up at uni and made some bad decisions for various reasons that I wont go into as we dont have hours! but basically I've got a horrible habit of doing things cos I can, Cos I feel bad if I dont and cos I want to feel ... (240 words)

I have suffered mental, verbal, physical and sexual abuse by my husband. Help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for over 20 years and my husband has been abusive through out thoes years i have suffered mental, verbal, physical and sexual abuse. i now sleep in the attic on a camp bed bacause that is the only way i can get away from him. as i do not want to be near him. ... (427 words)

Unexpectedly pregnant and not sure if I really want a termination....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here goes. Im in a relationship with an amazing man. he's 22 and im 26 We've been together for just over a year and i have fallen unexpectedly pregnant. We have discussed it and decided the best option in a termination ( I don't want you views on if you think its right or ... (170 words)

Is he not interested in my replies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate what he is doin'.when he txts me, i reply, but when i reply he takes long time to txt again, is he not interested with ma replies.this guy told me that he loves me.but i said no to him.now i'm catching feelings for him.is he really interested witth me??dear aunts help ... (72 words)

Is it too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl last wednesday through a society and got to chatting with her on wednesday and thursday. I felt like we had a pretty fun time coss i was making her and her friends laugh alot (like I usually do). I think id say i was quite friendly and I teased her several ... (125 words)

Should I message her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i m a really shy guy...during college i fell for a girl ..it took me 3 months n alot of pushing to go and tell her..she knew through common friends that i liked her. the time i talked to her she was really nice but said she's not interested other than beings friends is ok fr he... (257 words)

Should I ask him out or stay quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy in my college whom i really like but i m doubtfull if he likes me. I m not at all goodlooking i m fat i m dark and i get nervous talking to him . He is really a good frnd of mine and i dnt want to spoil it .we are in the same group and often are together . recen... (214 words)

Should I ask him to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now (yeah, I know x)), he's 16 and I'm 17 and I love him and I can really tell he loves me too. My problem is: we haven't had sex and we don't want to right now but we've got to half of the 2nd base (2nd base being touching ... (144 words)

I forged a note from my head of subject and she found it! Now what?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Oh dear, Please help me in massive state. I am doing my PGCE on second placement and getting a flat, so I needed a reference and I did something really stupid... I faked a letter on headed paper from my head of subject saying I was a drama teacher there and that I ea... (220 words)

My ex relationship left me emotionally and mentally drained, and her enjoying her life, what happened?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear reader, My ex and I recently ended our 7 month relationship. But it has left me with many unresolved questions and scars in my memory that I still continue to question and figure out myself what really went wrong between us. My ex is 11 years younger than me, she re... (1093 words)

Am I wasting my time on trying to get him back or what?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 20 years old i just called things off with a guy i was with for 4 years. The relationship was mentally and physically abusing. He did a lot of drugs, drank a lot and lied constantly. He made me have a lot of trust issues towards guys. I grew up hanging out with most... (475 words)

Husband has become upset with my past and searches the internet for past boyfriends

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My husband was a virgin when we met although I didn't know at the time as because he was 25 at the time was embarrased and told me he had slept with one other woman I had two kids and a few previous relationships. later in the relationship we briefly chatted about pa... (200 words)

Can someone contract STDs or mouth infection through oral sex?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have never tried any form of oral sex. I have a fantasy about it but i'm scared i might get any form of STD or infection of the mouth. Is it possible to contract the above mentioned diseases through oral sex? Also should i ignore the natural smell of the beaver or perfor... (85 words)

How can I be certain one loves me? And how can I stop the attention of the other?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Several years ago I met this girl on an all-county school trip. Technically, I met two girls, A and B, who were best friends. I fell in love with A and B fell in love with me. Cinematic, I know. And by love I mean something more like extreme random like. ... (430 words)

I just want to cash in on the little time that I have to be with him

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out on one date with this guy that i like. The thing is,he's been out of town for a few days and before leaving he sent a text saying that he would be back on the 9th and i should let him know when i'll be free so that we can plan something for the next time we mee... (144 words)

We broke up and she married someone else but I cant move on

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She was everything in my life.We had bben together more than 4 years.We planned to get married,but broke up.It was not my mistake or her mistake,we both were stupid.Now she got married and she moved on,but idid not and I can not forget her.Also I really feel weak when I think ... (79 words)

My boyfriend is angry because I wont send pictures of my private parts!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a boyfriend for 6months before evrything was ok we dont see each other very often but we text each other on sms and sometimes he will call me, but since a while now he has been willing that i send him naked pictures of myself and my private part ,we have not slept to... (166 words)

How to keep his interest?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this guy since longtime .. recently we got in touch and since then we msg, call, chat regularly .. (we stay in two different places .. so this is the only way we can stay in touch) .. recently he quit his job and joined a new Company. and since then we dont talk muc... (253 words)

I want to treat my boyfriend like gold but I treat him badly!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm super stressed by study, work and my family. I take it out on my boyfriend by being snappy, paranoid and unpleasant when really I adore him and want to treat him like gold. How can I stop this?... (39 words)

Could our behavior affect the baby?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, and thank you so much for taking your time to answer my questions. My wife is pregnant in her 9th week or so. It is an unplanned pregnancy, and she seems to have concieved after our condom had slipped off. My wife behaviours got very sarnge, and in one of the eveni... (236 words)

Am I a beauty or a beast?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i could really use some help as i am rather confused. I am 14 years old and i have had alot of problems in the past with my looks, i have always been really consoiuse about my weight and i have always been convinced i am real ugly. ... (547 words)

Doctor cut out part of cervix and now I've lost sensations!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age - I have a problem ever since my OB cut part of my cervix out i have lost sexual sensation. She was tring to to a biopsy in the uterus i could never deliver vaginally and she insisted on going through the cervix. Now I have lost sensation and she cut out a big chunck of my ... (83 words)

I am 37 weeks pregnant and boyfriend is totally ignoring me

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that I am pregnant by we were dateing for 3years,he broke up with me for almost a whole year I was deeply in love with him so the brake up was very hard for me, we kind of kepd in contact an what I mean by that he will only call me for sexs.... dumb me will do it cause ... (273 words)

Why did this man get his friend to send me mean texts?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I met a guy a few months ago who I thought had this great mix of everything I was looking for. We had serious physical chemistry. He came on strong, and well, just as strong as he came on, he was quick to dump me. We went back and forth talking/not talking, for the... (443 words)

Do I take up with my ex again?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - what is this? I have an X? He become my X 3 years ago, after we having irreconcilable differences. He was cheating on me, drinking and partying hard. we loved each other so much So i let him go, even when i still love him i cried my self to sleep almost everyday of my li... (215 words)

Fiance continues to talk to his ex wife

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its kinda of been an on going cycle with my fiance and i. He continues to talk to his xwife. I had caught him one nite calling her at midnite after been drinking. I get very upset. they been divorce for 5 yrs and half his belongings still there. I dont get it. Also the ... (202 words)

I have a bad pattern of falling for guys close to me

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i may have feelings for my close guy friend. i find that i can always tell him anything, or he can figure it out even before i open my mouth. he also tells me things that i know he doesn't share with anyone else, but that could just be him trusting me as a friend and ... (133 words)

Getting pregnant without sex?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Neither me or my boyfriend have ever had sex before, but we do other things together. I was just wondering how low/high the chances are of getting pregnant if he doesn't ejaculate near my vagina, but his penis touches it and rubs against it while we're fooling around naked? Is ... (70 words)

Is there a way to go straight?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 15 year-old homosexual. I was wondering, is there a way to be straight? Or could I be going through some strange phase? if I can't be straight, what's the best way to come out? Just say "I'm gay" out of the blue or start a conversation and somehow get them to reali... (58 words)

How do you know when a woman is trying to get a man's attention?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know when a woman is trying to hard to be the center of attention of a man?.. especially when he is already giving attention to her, why would she feel like she has to keep trying so hard?... could there be an outside reason why she has to keep him interested in her, ... (68 words)

Should I keep investing into my husband who wants his cake & wants to eat it to?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me. He asked me for an open relationship but I didn't want that. We split up, I moved out into my own apt. He still keeps me at arms length. We still have sex a few times a week. So, how stupid am I at this point? I know he is sleeping with ot... (175 words)

Can you collect unemployment if you move to another state?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know if you can collect unemployment if you need to relocate to another state. ??? I've bee at my job for 7yrs now in NJ and need to move to NC. Can I coLlect ??... (37 words)

I done everything for them....... and they threw it in my face !

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My problem began at the beginging of 2010. In 2009 i had moved school because i didnt have any friends in my last school. but too my susprize in my new school i made loads of new friends who i got on really well with and for the first time i felt like my life was perfect. ... (944 words)

He needs to know I wont take things out on him

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. This is a really long story and I'm not really sure if I'll explain this right, but I'm sure this is worth a try. I've had an amazing boyfriend who I love dearly for the passed two years. He has always been there for me and has accepted everything about me. I have... (412 words)

My son's father refuses to move out and I don't want my son to grow up in an unhealthy environment...

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its been 11yrs and I want to end my relationship with ny son's father. We are not married. I haved asked him repeatly asked him to leave and he is still here. I really don't want for this to get ugly because of our son. Our son sees, hears us argue all the time. Its not a ... (196 words)

Friendship slowly coming apart....

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and i have become so close until i set her up with this guy... well, now i'm kinda regretting that i ever did because now i am her second choice to anything she wants to do. It's like her new boyfriend is her best friend now and feel betrayed. I tell her how i feel ... (93 words)

Can someone please explain long term, online relationships to me, I just don't get it???

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am fairly new to this site but am really enjoying sharing my years of experience and advise with others. And I see a lot of questions here from the readers asking various questions about how they should handle a problem(s) in their relationship. But by the time I fin... (261 words)

I do not want to appear that I am throwing myself at him. How do I go about things?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age - I used to work with a man who helped me a lot with work issues that were unbearable. I eventually left but while there a two way mutual attraction developed. This started from 2009. I left in July 2010. Neither of us said anything verbally about it, however, on one occasion ... (321 words)

Is it abnormal that I'm having trouble moving on?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I dated for a year, we're both 15, and he was the first guy I really cared about. We promised to stay friends after we broke up, but we haven't spoken in weeks. We broke up two months ago and sometimes I really miss him and wish we were still friends. He already has a ... (130 words)

I want to see my husband with another woman!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to see my husband making out with another girl, the thought turns me on so much.Is it normal to feel that way?... (24 words)

Why is he acting all odd,sleeping with other girls and then contacting me??

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I live across the street from this cute guy, we were never really friends up until a couple months ago. The other day my phone rang, and it was my girlfriend telling me she slept with him, I ignored him, and tried to figure out what to do. The next morning my girlfriend te... (326 words)

How do I deal with a non-communicative partner?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a different country than my boyfriend for study abroad and have been for 5 or 6 months, with 5 months left until I return home. We've been together almost 9 months and what frustrates me most is his communication habits. He seldomly initiates texts to me, same with Fa... (238 words)

Ex sending mixed signals and now isn't speaking to me

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7 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - my ex keeps sending me mixed signals, he denied the woman hes with and hes still with her but pretends..hes not. He has even admitted shes unattractive..I have tried to distance myself but he is trying to make it civil as much as possible, saying he wants contact with me.. I ... (74 words)

Friend's boyfriend is thinking of breaking up because he likes me

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my friend met 2 years ago and started flirting last year. he started dating a girl well call her S. he got in a fight with S they didn't break up but he started flirting with me again. he went on vacation and we didnt flirt again when he got back. S's friend told her ... (129 words)

Will my girlfriend care if I change sports?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im just wondering what my girlfriend might think. Im a guy. I recently started playing rugby on a team and after realising i didnt like it that much i decided to go back to track (i wasnt too great at rugby). What do you think she will think of this? Are there ny signs i should ... (136 words)

I'm always on a desperate search for the next relationship. Infact, I haven't been single for longer than 2 months in the last 8 years.

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So I am needing some serious advice. I am beginning to think that I might have something seriously wrong with me and my ability to have a healthy relationship. I am currently 23 and I can honestly say I haven't been single for longer than 2 months in the last 8 ... (406 words)

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and I didn't have Daddy issues, I ju... (1566 words)

Why do I feel awkward when girlfriend does sexual things to me?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is, why do I alwase feel so awkward when my girlfriend does stuff to me sexualy. I'm comftorable with her sexualy because we have sex and I do stuff to her all the time (oral, fingering) and it never feels awkard or weird at all. But in the begining she didn't do ... (224 words)

I can't get hard when I need to!

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have a BIG PROBLEM doing me alot of damages. Ive been in a realtionship for 2 years and the last months i had problems getting an erection when i need to. Or get it really fast and then disapering. My gf broke upp with me then i got a head form 2 different guys in ... (116 words)

A thank you to everyone here who's helped me

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on dearcupid for 6 years now. Over the years, I have asked many questions, and have given the best advice I could from expeirence. I'm recently engaged to the most wonderful man I could ever hope for, and find that I can talk to him about everything. This isn't a ... (93 words)

Parents want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm not ready for that. How do I explain that to my parents?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am back together with my ex boyfriend after splitting up for 4 months. After constantly seeing each other (as we moved in the same circles), we became closer and decided to get back together, however before that we only dated for 3 months and our dating situation was ... (316 words)

The guy in history class is cuter!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my boyfriend but a guy who i have history with is way cuter and i really dont know what i should do ?... (26 words)

Is he serious? or just screwing around?

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7 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What is the line? I mean, how can I tell whether he is just being friendly, or if he really means it? I mean, how can you tell, so many guys today screw around that I can't tell whether or not he is serious.... (44 words)

If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is going to be something ... (679 words)

I told my husband our relationship wasn't working out, and we should move on! Did I do the right thing? I need emotional support!

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7 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, I spoke with my husband, and told him that things just weren’t the same anymore. I didn’t feel loved by him and things are just different now, so it would be better for us to move on. We have tried and tried but he just doesn’t want to change. He didn’t really say ... (307 words)