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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why has she started avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I've been hoping for some insight... I've recently befriended a girl (that is openly bi) who I really like and I'm not sure what to do now. She claims to have a bf (her other friends say she doesnt tho) but when we first officially hung out at school sh... (213 words)

I told a man pursuing methat I had someone else but I didn't, I just wanted him to leave me alone. So why do I feel badly now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hurt someone's feeling really bad...I mean it was harsh. I have been married for 8 yrs. My marriage was rocky in the beginning. I decided to get a friend who is much older than I. He is like my dad's age and married. I was attracted to his personality and sex appeal. We ... (293 words)

Will I ever be whole again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend for about a year and a half recently decided he couldn't be my boyfriend anymore. He is getting ready to graduate college while I still remain in school. Ultimately it is because he feels he can't do a long distance relationship and says how he "doesn't know where ... (578 words)

My wife doesn't give me blow jobs anymore!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so I have a question for you guys on here, I'm sure there are other posts on here about the same subject on here. I have been happily married for 6 years now and wouldn't change a single thing except for one. my wife does not give me blow jobs any more. we have a pretty healthy ... (125 words)

I cant make a decision about our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i will keep this short and sweet(ish). I am a 24 year old girl and I have been in a stressful relationship for three years. I love this man very much, I know him inside out and he knows me just as well. However, we break up. A lot. And it's always him breaking up w... (567 words)

Head ache after masterbation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently been having headaches after materbating, i dont know why, this is only recently its happened 3 times in a row now and i dont know why. iv had sex before and masterbated without any problems before. its only been this week. When i used to have sex with my ex ... (102 words)

Is this boy a waste of time and space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i need some help... i like this boy but one minute he is talking to me and then the next he is blocking me and ignoring me. i really fancy him and cant stop the feelings. ive had these strong feeligns for 9 months. the thing is when he talks to me he keeps talking about ... (168 words)

Wife cheated, broke the law, I just want to end marriage but hate divorce!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello: This has been going on for 2 years. Been Married 20. She IS controlling, manipulative and abusive both verbally and physically. She had affair/lived with another man/Filed for divorce 10 years ago. She broke the law, was convicted as a felon after 2 years of c... (271 words)

Bf not sexually atracted. blames his mom disease.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello guys! I have been with my man for a year and a half. best relationship ever!. Six months ago he got an scholarship and went to study abroad. in spite of the distance we were in contact all the time and were caring and loving as always. actually, we figured out how to k... (181 words)

Thoughts of him cheating..how do I stop these fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been feeling really down and depressed lately as I'm bored during the day and I have nothing to do with my days at all so now I'm worrying about every little thing :( I've been with my boyfriend for a year and three months now and we have a lovely relations... (189 words)

Does he love me, or am I being taken for a fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know I'm gonna look like the bad person in this situation but I really could do with your guys advice, okay so I've worked with this guy for 2 and a half years we've. Been REALLY good friends since we started working together there was always A LOT chemistry between us, I ... (310 words)

My Girlfriend still lives with her ex and child, and now she's pregnant with mine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Right....I need advice cause I don't feel I can talk to anyone else right now. I am seeing a girl and have been for a month or so, she is still living with her ex who she split up with a month before we started seeing each other(she moves into her new place in a few weeks) ... (163 words)

I like my teacher in a motherly sort of way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my teacher(s). I have always gotten on well with teachers, but with some it is more I don't intense, I have now realisedit is not sexual more motherly. I just don't know what to do, it all started about a year ago. I had sat at the front in my science lessons.... (588 words)

I feel like he's had an emotional affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, 2 weeks ago I discovered my bf had a rather intimate relationship with a female friend/work colleague. They did not have sex, but he asked her to send him provocative messages, which is how I found out - through an accidental email that had her calling him 'mas... (984 words)

I still care about my ex and I want to help her recover and move on because I don't think she has?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry about the length of my words, there's a lot of information to take in but your help would be really appreciated because I'm so confused. We're teenage, 17 currently and both go to the same college, with the same free periods. So much has happened between us. We w... (809 words)

He just can't get over my past ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me a few weeks ago. He never really gave me a reason why up until yesterday when he said it's all because of my past, he can't accept it and feels it's always going to get in the way of me and him. I've done some stupid things in ... (99 words)

Should I continue this long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. We live together and have been doing so for the last 2 or 3 years. Everything was great until we moved in without a roommate (about 6 months ago). Since then, my feelings towards him have changed. I feel like I am no longer i... (270 words)

My Bf's Mom has never liked me. yes I was sassy to her. Should I apologize?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my question is........ ive been dating my man for 4 yrs and i have never gotten along with his mother, she always had something to say about me, negative, even disrespecting me, when she be having a bad day and i say hi to her she will ignore me. i never stressed it because ... (166 words)

How do I stop my relationship with my Mom, with whom I used to be so close, from deteriorating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I really hope you guys can give me advice! My relationship with my mom, as a daughter, is going from bad to horrible. When I was a child, we did everything together from shopping to swimming. I miss that. I've become so, so horrible in terms of my attitude and control. I ... (99 words)

Can you suggest any good tips to help me cope with panic attacks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and coming towards the end of my first year at college. At the beginning we had to do loads of presentations which I hate doing. It got so bad that I started having panic attacks whenever it came to doing one however we stopped doing them after about 2 month and cracked ... (235 words)

I don't think I can fulfill what my girlfriend wants from me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend said that I am selfish and a heartless person, because I don’t think about her first. She began to list all things that caused her to be upset. 1. Week 1: Saturday to Friday - I go to work full time from 8 to 5pm and take one class online for my certification. T... (1381 words)

My bf and I have done everything but have sex, and he doesn't like to talk about it. Does that mean he doesn't want to have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and me and my bf have been going out for over a year now. I was wondering if anybody could interpret my bfs actions. He has me very confused. We have done everything sexually except actual intercourse. He is very shy but is happy enough to do everythi... (157 words)

Should I cut my losses? He's always oggling skinny young girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my man for over a year now and we live together. He says I am beautiful but is always commenting how beautiful other women on TV are. He has even commented how beautiful his ex is. He knows this all hurts me because I have low self esteem. I am a brunette and ... (184 words)

Should I accept his invite to visit his home? he's 23 years older than me. I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think about this ?. I recently started meeting up with a much older man ( he's 23 years older than me ) . I cant exactly say that we are dating yet, as we have only met up a few times for a drink. Recently, some of his friends, who are also a lot older than me,... (364 words)

Boyfriend wants son to move into our problem relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend I have lived with for the past 5 years now wants his almost 17 year old son to come and live with us.The Mother has made no effort in allowing contact between them and had only called once to ask for him to sign the boys birth certificate over to his Stepfathers ... (561 words)

Why does my Mom turn a blind eye to all the nastiness at home? It's getting worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive asked a question on this topic before but i dont feel i covered everything. My parents split up when i was 7 my mum and i lived on our own for two years then when i was 9 she met somone else who moved in with us. They argued when he first moved in with us, but just lik... (518 words)

Ex-bf is sending mixed signals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted on this before. basically my ex had a huge problem with my sex life before him, and it ruined our relationship. After about 3 months after we broke up, he texted me saying he had changed. The guys before him, didn't bother him anymore. So we tried talking...and I ... (393 words)

I am a Christian in love with a Muslim, and I am afraid of alienating my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for almost a year. I really love him and the time we spend together, our relationship just feels right to me. My only concern right now is religion, if it even is a concern. I'm Christian and he is Muslim. I'd like to consider myself ... (325 words)

Ex boyfriend spreading sexual rumers about me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently dumped my Ex boyfriend. I was with him for 3 months and come to relise he's a bit of a bully and that something I don't want. He's been spreading rumers that he's fin*gered me. Everyone is pretty shocked and a lot of people have lost respect for me. He's been ... (86 words)

I don't understand why my ex-gf acts like she does towards me. Can someone explain??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Dear Cupid people Sorry this is long, but it's a story with many twists! I've never been able to understand girls but my ex girlfriend has gotta be the most confusing. We were together about a year...proper in love she said things like "I love you more than anythi... (462 words)

Why does this girl I like keep texting me and then later ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know this girl for last 3 years.I loved her very much but she was not ready to commit.Then a year later i came to know she is in relationship already which she kept secret to me.I stepped back but as i already made a very soft-corner for her i could not ignore her compl... (111 words)

Why are people so judgmental?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are people so judgemental? On here there are a lot of aunts and uncles, who seem to think that because a young questioner asks a question about love and relationships, they need to discourage this young person from being grown up and thInking of the problems. It s... (196 words)

He texted his ex a happy birthday. WHY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age - I have a question : If you are with a man for 7plus years and find out he text his x girlfriend(mother of his 4 children) who he has no contact only ever other weeked to drop of and pick up kids with a Happy Birthday(and what ever else was said) at 7:30 am day of her birthday, ... (107 words)

He has no idea of my existance because he's in love with my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Im in a bit of a situation - basically i have such a huge crush on this lovely, sweet, cute guy, but he has no idea of my existence cause he's in love with my friend. He's very publicly fancied her for like the last 3 years, but she's not interested in anything other ... (95 words)

Should I keep up some level of hope for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start off by saying that I have had feelings for this guy for around two years. It's pathetic, I know. Everyone has told me to let him go and that he's not ever going to feel the same about me. But I can't help but feel that there's some reason that I'm not able to let ... (233 words)

My colleague tried to kiss me during an office party - now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, For the past few months I have been working with somebody on a project. He isn't my usual type and there is about a ten year age gap, (hes 40) and he is senior to me, but we started to get on really well. I enjoyed his company and will happily stand and chat and cha... (570 words)

Why does he kiss me on the check when he says goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean if when saying bye to a guy, they smile, pull you close and then kiss you on the cheek? I'm confused on would he do this even if he wasnt attracted to me? Or was he saying bye in a friendly way? i want to know what do you think.................. (54 words)

I want my guy to stand up to his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with this guy for 8 months, his life appeared to be going the way i liked it to go for me to get involved, then i moved to be with him. He has kids and an ex that wont go away she is always emailing and texting him to say they need to get together to talk about the ... (174 words)

How do I react to my 15-year-old friend who got pregnant...and wants me to be the godmother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I got a text from my friend, who is only 15. She said that she was expecting a child, a baby boy, she was 23 weeks pregnant. The father and I both used to be best friends for a while. He is also 15. They're both in the year below me at school. I'm not saying anything... (108 words)

Should I continue to pursue a relationship with a girl who is now going back to try and work things out with the father of her child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I been talking to this girl for the past 4 months and when I met her she just gotten out of a relationship with a guy she has a daughter with. This guy lives in another state and about a month ago he came down to see his daughter and in the process he proposed to her and told ... (353 words)

Girlfriend breaks up with me after I visit her in her country...and then she is warm and affectionate for the rest of my trip! What is going on with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! This is kind of a follow up question to my previous question. If you need more information please read through that question. So just one week ago while visiting my long distance girlfriend she broke up with me. Considering I was still gonna be there for a c... (715 words)

Married, Affair, Need advice on how to choose.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 45-year-old female married for 27 years with two grown children and 4 grandchildren. Two years ago my family went through something devastating with our son and it caused me to question whether I loved my husband or not. I started flirtling with other men and got ... (338 words)

Spotting in between periods, should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) This isn't really a relationship question, i'm just looking for some advice. For the last couple of months i've had 'spotting', as in bleeding when you're not on your period. I know its nothing to worry about or anything, but how much is a 'spot' supposed to be? I ... (66 words)

I found porn on my 53 year old dad's computer

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My dad is 53yrs old.. a very simple, sober and decent man who practices meditation daily. But today when I went on his laptop, there were loads of porn (hardcore) websites in his browsing history. Is it normal for a person like him to be looking at that sort of stuff? I... (70 words)

Should I still ask her out even though she didn't respond to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.i met a girl in school,we liked each other but didn't actually date.many people thought we were dating bcos we were really closed. I wanted asking asking her out but felt it was not yet time.she tried 2 make me more than a frnd but i didn't give in. Recently i called her n ... (93 words)

Should I have told her she's fun to be with, but I have no time for relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this chick for 2 + years. I've chased after her for a while recently, our shedules just kept getting in the way. but recently, she told me she was feeling bad. I asked her what was wrong, and she tells me the guy she had been sleeping with (her friend with ... (272 words)

Should I let this hate manifest and use it as a drive to push past her or is it unhealthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gf just broke up recently after a very passionate year together. neither of us fell out of love until after the unexpected departure. we were even still in love after the break up. then she got a new bf 3 weeks after and im nothing to her at all. First she tried the ... (178 words)

Does ignoring someone you are attracted to make the attraction go away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Just a quick question for you... Why would two people who are really attracted to each other avoid or ignore one another? And, does this mean the attraction will go away or will it get worse? Wondering what you all think!... (52 words)

What does "I care for you" mean to a man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What does "I care for you" in man language mean??? We've already said I love u. Is this another way of saying I love you? He doesn't say the "L" word a lot he says the word scares him. ... (41 words)

Was our first time "normal"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last weekend I had sex for the first time, I know the first time isn't meant to be amazing but my boyfriend was so worried about hurting me that he didn't cum,nor did I bleed, is this normal? ... (38 words)

I don't care so much anymore about my room mates but I do want to clear the air

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My two best friends and I had a massive fall out back in September and haven't spoken since. It has been massively awkward because we all live together and can't get out of our lease until May. Basically, I came out as a lesbian last June and although they initially said t... (875 words)

How to sort myself out for my relationship sake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my fiance are having a hard time at the moment and i dont know if she wants to be with me she has already split up with me and got back with me but she says im too obsesesive with her by texting her and ringing her everyday. i think i have the proplem because thats th... (105 words)

Husband has suddenly started calling his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi am married for 5yrs we have 3yrs old girl but my husband has recently started to call his ex girl asked him, told me that am jelours and what to watch over each person he is talking to and dont what him to have friends , i asked him if still love me he said he does but i ... (84 words)

What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. She's checking to be sure she's ... (103 words)

Is it ok to be Crushing on my 19 year old cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old, and i kind of have a huge crush on my cousin. she is 19 years old. when ever she is in the same room as me, she seems to stare at me. i dont know if its a sign of her liking me, or if she is just staring. Also, im wanting to tell her how i feel about her, ... (79 words)

Drama still with the baby mama..think he loves her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy that I have been talking to since September. When we first started talking, he decided to make me his girlfriend, but because I didnt know him that well, I didn't look at what we had as a "relationship" so I was still doing me and one night I wanted to go ... (231 words)

He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 month old son together. ... (355 words)

When boyfriend gets too stressed he asks for a break!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever my boyfriend gets stressed, be it work, home, or anything else related, he takes it out on me. When he reaches the point at which everything has built up, and he can't handle it, he asks me to give him some space to think things through. This could be one week, two ... (241 words)

9 happy years together, then suddenly says she don't want to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been with my gf for 9 years.. i finally asked her to marry me, this was 2 years ago. we have been looking at venues to get married now on the net, pricing things and that. then we went to look at a venue, it was rubish, so we stopped at another on way home from that one. ... (351 words)

Do they have a double personality and think they are innocent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age - say your partner who swears they love you was to do something again and again,knowing its a deal breaker and will end the relationship when caught,then wont own up,or start making you out to be paranoid or calling you emotionaly abusive when its been seen by your own eye ... (159 words)

He's done so much for me but I get moody!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i think he's more into the relation... (393 words)

What does "not serious" mean to you? No sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - When you women are dating, and you say you "aren't serious", but the relationship has potential, what does this typically mean? That you haven't had sex yet? To me, "not serious" means sex and/or serious feelings aren't involved yet. Yes?... (43 words)

My husband has been unwell for a long time and it disgusts me to have sex with him, as I'm just not attracted to him anymore...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dear cupid! I have a huge problem and I realy need help! My hb and I have been married for 10 yrs and he's been sick for 8 of those 10 yrs. We still don't know what his condition is. But he has dropped a lot of wieght to the point he's skin and bones. I've delt w/it but... (173 words)

I can't understand why she is happy to give handjobs and blowjobs to me all the time but is reluctant to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just come out of a rough relationship and an even rougher breakup. Recently, at a party, I hooked up with a girl who I have been close friends with since childhood. We didn't have sex but we did embark in other sexual acts on each other. Since then we've been in a sort ... (191 words)

Boyfriend's ex text him at 3am - should I let this go and if so, how do I do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I checked my boyfriend’s phone about a month ago and there was an indication that he had received a text from an old f**k buddy at 3am. We have been going through a difficult time recently and I had been feeling very insecure in the relationship due to my own behaviour; I ... (512 words)

Is this romantic? Will she appreciate it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We were engaged and together for 4,5 years. bad break up as she left me because she loves me but feels cold she said. 2 months since we broke up and next month is her birthday. Will travel 3000 miles to give her flowers and tell her i love her still. Is this romantic... (61 words)

He is unsure about me because of my diabetes, should I wait for him to make his mind up or consider this as the end of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met this wonderful person 6 months back. He was really after my look initially from what I interpret now. I told him at this time that I am type 1 diabetic and he said he didnt mind it. I asked him to ask his mom as I knew his parents might oppose. His mom did oppose a... (403 words)

I cant get hold of him to find out if it is over or not! Should I email his baby's mother to find out? Or shall I just wait and hope that there is still a chance? Or simply move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, this might be a bit long so sorry in advnce. my life is a mess at it all started when i met "my boyfriend" everything was ok for the first 3 months and then everything started to become confussing. it first was his ex girl friend still emailing him on facebook a... (719 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend for a mutual friend of ours, but I still feel guilty!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship which has not been working for a while and I longed to break away although I was emotionally very close to my partner. A few months ago I started having really strong feelings for one of his best friends who is also a very close friend of mine. W... (336 words)

I'm still a virgin at 20!

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im going to be twenty in 2 days and im still a virgin. is this normal? at times i lie awake at night and despise myself for it. other times i think its fine and i shouldnt worry. ive considered losing it to an escort-going so far as to make the appointment but cancelled at the ... (116 words)

How do I best maintain my relationship with my teenage son when I start dating after divorce?

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21 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I would like advice on how to make my relationship with my 13 y.o. son the best it can be after divorce. His Mom and I parted over a year ago, and were recently divorced. We have both moved on with new partners, and while I wish we could have saved our marriage, we had become ... (526 words)

I hate sleeping alone and I miss him!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Me and my boyfriend live far away from each other and only see each other on weekends. I'm so in love with him, so it's really hard when he's away. I also find it extremely hard to sleep on my own, so I need him at night time. Do you have any ideas on what I could do ... (72 words)

He makes me feel like I'm not worth his attention!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, it is a long distance thing and so quite hard to judge what is going on. When we first met he was texting me everyday around 5 times a day, he made a big effort on the first date and would text to say how much he likes me and looking ... (244 words)

Boyfriend wants me return or exchange a foster child, but I would like to adopt

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21 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I fostered a three year todler, with a view to adopt, against my boyfriend's will last year. We are now engaged to be married in next few months. he is still not for the idea of the boy being around. He is an active boy, and like any other child can be naughty sometimes. he had ... (199 words)

Do you think the man I am having an affair with is seeing someone else?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge me... I am married and am having an affair with a recently separated man. (We hooked up when he was married last year). To give a brief hx, I knew him from the past yet never hooked up. Well we did last year and had sex. I never thought I would be the typ... (854 words)

My boyfriend has gone abroad with his ex! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend left me for his studies abroad, just for me to find out that he went with his ex, just 5 days he called to propose to me, please what will i do ?... (35 words)

Emotional affairs - how did it turn out?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Please give me advice!!!! History- married 15 years to highschool sweetheart. Never dated anyone else really. I have 2 children 13 and 8. I am a very attracted women with a great career. My husband and have had out ups and downs but overall I Sm happy. I am not sure he us the o... (373 words)

My husband talks to his ex behind my back, what should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Of late my husband has been in constant communication with his ex girlfriend he calls her up to 5 times in a day and each call last for more than five minites if i ask him he says they are just good friends thats all and he tells me they will stop talking but they are now doing ... (74 words)

I don't want to be pushy about us getting back together officially, but I don't want him to think I'm not serious and meet someone else either!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to get back together with my exboyfriend we've been together for about 2 years but have been on and off since October. It's been a rough few months with terrible fights and names but somehow we still end up together. Were together now but whenever I ask him to make it ... (146 words)

Is he trying to play some kind of game?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So almost 2 months ago i met this guy, he got my number and we have texted everyday since. He asked me out once, then i asked him out(didnt happen because of floods) then he asked me out and we went out and had a good time. About a week and a half ago he asked me out again and ... (544 words)

How do I deal with my husband having more friends that are single girls then guys?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Well i have been married 14 years to my husband and i will admit i have some confidence and jelousy issues. my husband grew up having problems making friends with guys so he hung out with girls cause they were nicer to him and his child hood was ok but a lot of things but he ... (406 words)

How do I get over this break-up?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i get over a bad break up? My bf now ex dumped me over facebook by changing his relationship status into a relationship with another girl! it crushed my heart that he did that and i as balling my eyes out. I was talking to him on facebook yesterday and he told me he ne... (225 words)

He has asked me to change so many things for him, but he cant give up smoking and drinking for me! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - please help.. Im into a relationship for almost an year.. things started in a good sign in the initial phase, but later after few months there were lots of fights and misunderstanding between us and it was me who always give up 1st and compromised.. now a days he's very har... (278 words)

I really f***ed up and backstabbed my girlfriend....

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really f*cked things up with my girlfriend. Last weekend, she moved into a guys house. This guy happens to "used to" like her. She told me her reasons for wanting to, and I said whatever. (Ofcourse this pushed me towards the edge of emotional breaking) Anyway, she said ... (638 words)

I fancy my boyfriend's brother!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im falling for my boyfriends brother! we went out at the weekend and my boyfriend went home poorly so i stayed with his brother, he walked me back to my house to check on my boyfriend but we ended up going back out, as we got into town we walked through a dark alley an... (251 words)

I cant make my mind up on which of these guys I want to be with.....

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya... 5 weeks ago i told my bf that we should go on a break... as he lives so far away and we dont see each other.. but the promblem is that i have been seeing this guy (jim) (not real name).. , who makes me feel special and is always there for me.. unlike my bf.. i dont kno... (220 words)

I want to re-ignite that spark and try again, but what do you think is going through her head?

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago saying I was the perfect boyfriend, but doesn't love me the same way anymore. She tells me to move on and that she has already moved on and that she doesn't think, love, or miss me anymore. I'm confused because we h... (269 words)

Has anyone ever lost their feelings for someone, broken up and then feelings came back stronger?

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a total of 3.5 years (not including about 1 month in total for breakups) and recently she broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I broke up with her last year, September 2010, and about 3 weeks later, I nearly forced the issue ... (683 words)

Girls:Would you chose attractive physical appearance over a big penis?

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 , 6'3" tall, 200 pounds, athletic and i easily attract girls but i have problem that has been worrying me for a long time, i fit in the stereotype of a man with a big d**k,see i'm black,im tall, i wear a size 14 shoe and i have freakingly large hands,8.5inch from the tip ... (149 words)

How can I tell him I fake my orgasms without hurting his feelings?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i always lie to my partner that i reach orgasm because i didnt want to hurt his feelings or to get me the wrong way, you no how guys are like,how can i tell him without hurting his feelings... (39 words)

I have tried so hard to make this work, now enough is enough but I still cant bring myself to break up with him!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all.. I have a problem.. Help! I have known my boyfriend for a round 7 years and had some history of more than friendship when we were younger, i moved abroad and when i decided to come back he had a girlfriend who was pregnent with his kid. 2 years passed abd they had ... (236 words)

My husband takes everything the wrong way and now thinks I'm a liar!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am newly married gal.I am facing some problems with my husband because of culture differences and the living and speaking styles.because of which he dont understand my intentions and takes everything in wrong way.and now he thinks i am lier and do dramas if i do cry ... (96 words)

I don't know if I'm in love with him or just obsessed?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, long story short, I'm obsessed with this guy I knew in high school. I was kind of a weird kid, but he was always nice to me. He always tried to include me in conversations and groups and stuff, and one time he even came and talked to me while I was crying. I've liked ... (242 words)

I trust him but I don't trust his ex, and from his text messages it seems he met up with her at 3am last night! I cant talk to him about this so what should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some serious advice.i'm not the kind of person who would normally do this as whenever i have a conflict, i believe i am mature enough to handle it myself. but this is something that is really messing me up.me and my boyfriend have almost been dating for two years ... (411 words)

It looks like my best friend and my crush are getting together, but he still says things that confuse me! Help!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So im really confused i have a friend lets call liza and a guy i have a had a crush on since 3 years now lets call him bob. So liza added bob on facebook and shes a very good friend of mine. Me and bob use to always text until he gave liza his number. Today i found out she ... (119 words)

How can I get over my jealousy issues when he is around other girls? And how can I be more confident in the bedroom?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years now. We also have a son together. The thing is I can't seem to get over my jealousy issue and my insecurities of my self. He has alot of girls as friends and it irrates me when he touches them (mean a hug,or a hand on ... (316 words)

How do I talk to boys?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid:) im probably the stupidest girl in the world when it comes to boys. ive never had a guy like me back. ever. and its not that im not attractive to them ( see description of myself in my first question ) i just say stupid things. my friends tell me to tell guys i l... (152 words)

Does he like me or should I just give up on him?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy a lot.. But he has a girlfriend.. and he said he does not date black girls but he is black to he flirts with me a lot like he came up to me and started pinching me a lot and then he checks me out also and we talk just about every time we see each other do you ... (76 words)

Should I remind him of my feelings for him? Or should I just move on?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a slight problem. I have been crushing on this guy for about 9 months now. His name is James. He used to date my best friend; Allie, they dated for 8 months but then Allie dumped him. James and I still were friends after the break up even though Allie was a little ... (246 words)

Was this normal or a bit weird to bring this up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy for about a week now and the other night we were in his car just talking about life. Suddenly he tells me he is tired of keeping his hand down on his lap to cover "it". We weren't talking about anything sexual, so is that normal or is that a lit... (84 words)

I feel like a facebook stalker!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I feel like a facebook stalker. A little while back, something popped up on my newsfeed. A guy from my church who friended me a while back (in addition to quite a few other people at the same time) had posted something on his blog and he was sharing it on facebook. I ... (189 words)

Should I suggest he propose before I agree to another year of LDR?

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21 March 2011 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I will soon have been dating for 2 years. He’s got a job he loves (with a modest salary) in one city, and I am a grad student with a decent assistantship in another city 1.5 hours away. As time goes by, distance gets harder, especially for me. Even ... (494 words)

So much passion, but not enough commitment...

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a something that is driving me crazy... I recently met back up online with my first love from high school online and we havent seen each other in 15 years atleast, but we have talked a while now online and then started visiting one another... ok, here is the tough part: ... (226 words)

Afraid to sleep over at my boyfriend's house because of my snoring!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21yr old female and afraid to sleep over my bf house because I snore....any advice?... (17 words)

How do I ask him about this?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my man and i have been together for quite some time now, and he is the only man i've tried anal with. he is really into it- so i've been thinking of trying to play with his prostate gland. i understand what to do, the only problem is- how do i ask him? i want it to seem sexy ... (80 words)

I tried to talk to him about our problems but now he is ignoring me, how should I handle this?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week me and my boyfriend of over a year had plans to hang out, just like we usually do but he ended up going out with his friends instead and didn’t contact me to let me know, which is understandable I guess because he doesn’t have a phone. This made me paranoid but ... (284 words)

He told me to leave him alone but I still want him! What should I do now?

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21 March 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Hi there is this guy who i really like and the problem is that I'm in love with him and i haven't seen him in almost 2 months and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant..... ... (39 words)

I am a virgin and not pregnant. But why have I not had a period since January?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16, and I am really confused. My last period started January 5th, and I havent gotten one since. There is no possible way I could be pregnant, I am a virgin. What is going on with my body? It is really starting to worry me that I have missed a period, and it seems to be ... (89 words)

How does he feel as 'the other man' in my life?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not proud of this by any means, but I have fallen back in love with an old flame. He was my first real love and the man I lost my virginity to 19 yrs ago.. I am married. Although, the man I am married to I have not been in love with for a long time. We have been talking ... (148 words)

He has been in jail, yet I am studying criminal justice.....my family don't approve and it will affect my career, but I cant help the way I feel about him!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really know what the purpose of this question is, or even if it is a question, i suppose i just need some advice. Growing up I always had issues trusting people, throughout school i never had a boyfriend as i would not let anyone get close to me, i would just have ... (490 words)

My boyfriend is cheating on me again. But I love him so much and he said he loves me too!

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here is the situation, my boyfriend and i are almost 3 weeks now. and of course, i don't have a full trust on him. so i created a fake account on some social network site and started messaging him. using this fake account, i told him if he is single and if we could meet. ... (193 words)

How do I find out if he likes me for real, or if he's just playing games?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i've been hanging out with a guy who has told me that he likes me. my best guy friend has found out about it and lately he's been making comments about it as if he's angry at me. my friends tell me that he seems hurt by it, and it may be because he's jealous because he ... (113 words)

Under what circumstances is cheating forgiveable?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering when, if under any circumstances, cheating can be forgiven? If you broke up with your boyfriend of 2 years, and a year later were considering getting back together, and then found out that he had cheated on you early into the relationship, would you consider ... (73 words)

Am I the oldest person ever to not have a relationship?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 years old, almost 28, and I've never had a serious relationship!! I dated a guy for almost a year, 2 yrs ago, but that is the longest and most legit "relationship" I've ever had, but it wasn't serious. I'm cute, smart, and funny, I'm not a troll, and I'm not a st... (269 words)

Torn between two guys.......

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have feelings for a close guy friend of mine. the thing is, i don't think he has any idea. it feels like he's always playing games with me, ignoring me one minute and then telling me his deepest secrets the next. whenever we hang out alone he's the nicest guy i know. ... (170 words)

My ex wife and I want to give it another go, but I have just found out she is working as an escort! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife and i broke up for just over 12 months after a 2 year marriage,seperation was mutual and we both met new partners,she moved some 200 miles away to be with her new man but relationship failed,as did mine with new woman as i stil love my wife we have started to see each... (135 words)

I want a relationship, he is anti relationships, how can I change his mind?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i just met someone who i think is cute, he doesn't believe in relationships and has sex a lot and is interested in me. how do i make him love me?... (32 words)

Does he have feelings for me or am I more of a booty call?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy since i was 17, we met in a club and kissed, he's ten years older than me but neither of us knew until the next day. In the next 6 months we bumped into eachother a couple of times during social events/parties and became good friends, though we only seen ... (176 words)

Should I flirt back or get out of it?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) All Answers are appreciated. Well im 14 and i have decided that i want to wait till i am atleast 16 to have a proper relotionship as i want to be free while i still can. But lately things have been hard for me and alot of bad stuff has happened i have ... (585 words)

How common is the practice of anal stimulation among men?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age - how common is the practice of anal stimulation among all (sexual-orientation) men? Is it a common practice, done while alone, pleasuring self? and lastly, is it a practice that is enjoyed, but one that many men find embarrassed to admit to?... (41 words)

Do guys worry as much as I am worried about this argument?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seventeen and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we had a small argument last night and he is now avoiding/ignoring me. It's all I think about and I can't help think that it's my fault and that if I hadnt said anything everything would be fine. I'm just cur... (98 words)

Is he insecure? Should we continue our relationship?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 year college student and I've been dating a 22 year old college student for 4 months. A lot of guys ask me out because they're sexually attracted to me which causes our relationship to stumble. Im 5'3 122 pounds and he's 5'10 240 pounds and a bit chunky. Were sexually... (403 words)

Should I wait for X? Or go for Z?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 21 years old pakistani muslim girl i am in relationship with a guy X in my university for 3 years.. our relation has been really tough since the first day v are really different people with different choices n opinion n dont seem to get along ... the last time v talked w... (181 words)

I still can't get over my ex

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still in love with a guy I dated for about 9 months and I can't get over him, help! At the end of 9 months, he moved to another city and we said goodbye, but there was no closure..at least for me. This was two years ago. He was my first boyfriend, although I had s... (326 words)

I can't take it anymore, should I bring this up with her?

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21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently been posting questions here on dear cupid asking advice towards an awkward situation right after meeting my LDR for the first time a week ago after talking for over 4 years. Despite the awkward feeling that occured after our visit she has been drifting further... (155 words)

I care very much but she doesn't want a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm having a confusing situation right now with a female friend we cuddle when she drinks and the other night we had sex and I care about her a lot she's very close to me I care about like I've never cared about someone it doesn't feel like a physical thing to me we ... (150 words)

Should I tell him that I am head over heels for him?

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21 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like my guy friend who i had met about 8 months ago. hes everything i want in a guy, even though hes naturally a flirt. i always catch him staring at me and he always punches me and doesnt stupid little things. he trusts me enough to tell me about the girls that he ... (188 words)