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Sex with virgins; STD risk?

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Question - (13 March 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If I have had sex with three people and all of them were virgins, is there any chance of me having an STD?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

Did you use a condom? If they were all virgins, did you worry you might pass an STD onto them? You could be a carrier of something without showing symptoms.

So for your sake, and that of any future partners, go to a clinic, get tested and USE A CONDOM!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

Yeah it is possible. You can get an STD from oral, you can get them from hand jobs and you can get them from just rubbing your genitals together with someone, you can also get STD's from other kinds of fluid transfer (sharing razors, herpes can be transferred through kissing).

Plus while you may feel positive that they're virgins you have no way of knowing 100%, they could have been sexually abused as kids for all you know.

Just so you know, a lot of guys will say they are virgins just to get you to have unprotected sex with them. Because many people mistakenly believe that you have to have had sex to get an STD.

Go get checked and don't have unprotected sex again until you have a partner with official proof that he is clean.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

No. You can still have a bacterial infection that can be passed sexually and you can also have HPV (genital warts) from not having intercourse. Herpes is one that can be quite prevalent and not show any signs, 95% already carry the Herpes virus already, so if they are active when you had sex (most likely you wouldn't know). So I would go get tested. Just like people can still get lung cancer without smoking there are viruses and infections you can get without sexual intercourse. www.cdc.gov The only thing you can be positive is you can't get pregnant or get someone pregnant. Good Luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

unfortunately, i did get an sti when I was a virgin, stis can be spread with out having vagina to penis sex, oral sex, anal sex, and so on can spread stis

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (13 March 2011):

person12345 agony auntIf they were truly virgins then probably not. But there's no harm in getting tested at your next pap smear (which you should be getting every other year at your age since you're sexually active). Better safe than sorry, since a lot of STDs don't have symptoms, they just make you infertile.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (13 March 2011):

YouWish agony auntI agree with Tennisstar88. One of the subjects we're unable to verify is truth about the sex life. STD's are always a risk, even if the most that's ever been done by these virgins is oral sex. That is still possible to transmit STD's.

A good motto to follow is, "better safe than sorry".

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yes, positive all three have been virgins.

Does that make having an STD impossible?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 March 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntAre you 100% positive they were virgins? Unfortunately, people often lie about that, especially STDs.

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