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writes: First off I'm In high school. Been in a relationship for well over a year my girlfriend tells me she tells me (only on the phone) how she wants to marry and have my kids! Well I want to marry her too but idk there's a "but". Let's just say I'm the more sensitive one right and more emotional so I tell my girl that I love her alot everyday! I always like kissing her on the cheek and on her hands. But she doesnt kiss me cuz she doesn't wanna get trouble in school which is fine. What does bother me is that she doesn't act the same around me. She tells me to tell her when something's wrong but is it right to be the same problem since we've gone out? She doesn't express much love to me, it's rare to hear her say that she loves me in person, not very energetic around me but around her friends it's different. I don't wanna break her heart and tell her I feel she's not putting much effort and I've told this problem many and many times but she still hasnt changed. I even imagine having sex with other girls. Trust me when I say I've put a lot of effort into this relationship and I just feel taken for granted. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): This relationship is unbalanced - you are doing all the giving, and she is doing all the taking. "fishdish" has got it just right - time for you to move on.
Believe me, there are lots of girls and women who would just love to meet a sensitive guy!
Have a happy life.
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reader, tazzy101  +, writes (13 March 2011):
try playing hard to get .....if she says it bothers her dont do it .......give her a little space but still act boyfriend like but just she how she reacts when u let her miss you
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reader, fishdish +, writes (13 March 2011):
 if you're not getting what you put into it, and she's been aware of this imbalance and is not working on altering it, I think it's time you move on and find someone you don't have to prod into expressing feelings, there are certainly plenty of us expressive ladies out there!
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