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writes:Hi , have a big problem that is totally ruling my life at the moment . I have been seeing a polish guy who is 32 for the last 10 months, It started out as sex, we have become good friends, but i also have fallen in love with him. He knows this is very cool about the situation , but wants someone younger , which of course i understand , Last november i went to dignatas with my very best friend and helped him as i,m sure u will know what i mean. My polish friend has been through this with me, hence also the friendship. I know the 2 are linked, and try to space myself from him, but i have fallen for him big style and no amount of friends saying , stay away for a bit have worked,,, what should i do ????ps, the sex has stopped, he choose this
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 I'm very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how the trip to Switzerland must have disoriented you and left you vulnerable -- you'd scarcely be human otherwise.
I think you need to listen to your Polish friend. He's been a help and a support, but he's told you where he thinks his future lies. And he's backed those words up with action by cutting off the physical relationship. He's honoured you be being candid. As difficult as it must be, you should similarly honour him by taking him at his word.
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