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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help. He's texting his ex. I don't want to lose what we have

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. my boy friend and I have explosive arguements when he tells me he doesn't want me and wants to find someone else. He really makes me feel useless. we usually make up in the end. we've been together two years and i've found that whenever i buy him credit or he gets... (211 words)

How can I improve my self confidence and be happier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there are a lot of pleas for help on how not to be so lonely and how to make more friends but here is mine, another to add to the list! The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends wh... (678 words)

I met a great guy, and he took me out for a date, but he seems distant now. Where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at an inter-uni society thing and instantly liked him. This was 7 months ago. We flirted a lot and at the first social we kissed, nothing dramatic, just a peck, but still. Nothing was mentioned after that, we both were pretty drunk so I just let it go. But then a ... (335 words)

My baby's dad walked out on me, my friends have their own life, and I feel there is no hope for me to ever be in a relationship again....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mum. My baby's dad walked out when she was only 19 weeks old due to me finding out he had been cheating on me, for how long I have no idea but I was crushed. I have been single for almost a year now. I know I am not the first female to have been in this situatio... (192 words)

If someone starts ignoring you., what do you do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I met last year in April. And after we met, he asked me out a few times but I said no for 2 main reasons ; because I was still getting over my ex- boyfriend , and because I knew the guy was a bit of a flirt. But I wasn't nasty or anything. And some months l... (402 words)

I'm afraid I will regret losing him forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Maybe this is stupid, but I just can't seem to let go of him. We have so many issues, and yet I'm worried I'll never share anything special with anyone like I did with him again. How can you will yourself to believe you will find better after the first boyfriend? It do... (78 words)

I'm 38 and I still feel immature...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some help: I am 38 years old, and I am still so immature and hurt, and I don't know how I can appeal a decent man. After a lifetime of running after bad guys, in the last years I completely reformed and spent a long time into my own issues, and two years away f... (323 words)

I'm interested in this man...should I send him a casual text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

- Hi there, I met a guy for the first time on new years eve (so about eight weeks ago) through mutual friends (we all went out together that night) and we got on really well - he told me lots about himself and asked me about myself, then as the night went on he started buying m... (720 words)

I'm being as understanding as I can but what actions by me will help ensure her will come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My girlfriend and i met almost 4 yrs ago. Both just out of a relationships. I had a year to recouperate from my ex wife leaving and cheating on me. She left her ex and came straight to my apartment the same day because she had nowhere else to go. (My mom asks me if i wou... (518 words)

Should we keep seeing the therapist?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and recently began having some serious problems in our relationship. We began seeing a couple's therapist two weeks ago. My problem is our therapist. Not only did she tell me that it's my fault he cheated on me, but she ... (170 words)

We never have quality sex and she's talking about her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I recently got married and we have a 5 year old together, it seems like we never have "quality" sex, I mean we have sex but only for her to shut me up. She tells me that she lost the emotional connection with me, but about a few weeks ago I was snoopin through her ... (164 words)

My Gf really likes him. I may be the girl who hasn't shown interent in him. Should I reveal my interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about this guy I like? Everyone at my school seems to like this guy that joined last year. He started a bit late because he switched school, and a ton of people have "tried it on" with him. My friend really likes him, in fact I think a few of my friends secre... (397 words)

Guys: if he liked me, wouldn't he be making more of an effort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy has liked me for a year but i wasn't attracted to him back then until this year I told him recently that I like him too! and we both want to see how things go. When i text him he'll flirt back and be real sweet, but then sometimes he doesn't reply which is fine ca... (183 words)

I don't want her to fall in love with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently 21 i just broke up with my gf (27) We have had a long distance relationship for 7 months we talk and see each other on skype everyday or on the phone. I only seen her psychically maybe 1 month. We just broke up since valentines day of 2011, since then we so... (303 words)

He betrayed me and I can't trust him anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im in desprate need of some sort of help! ive been with him for nearly 3years and i just feel so helpless right now. i love him but i know love only is not a valid reason to stay with him.. we're each others first gf/bf, first kiss, first hug but most of all first heartb... (420 words)

When my boyfriend says I love you, I think "Do you?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help.. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. It's been a bumpy 2 years, and we still have feelings for eachother. Recently, just last month, he was moving out of his apt into his condo. I've went out of my way to help him clean his apt and pack, and just ... (415 words)

Do I throw away 6 years for someone who rejected me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a relationship of 6 years with my first girlfriend. The problem is I'm still hooked on a girl I've been in love with for over 10 years. She also happens to be a really close friend. When I met my current girlfriend, I was living away from home and at a time whe... (646 words)

Do guys not want the hassle of dating a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - is it a turn off to know that I am a virgin at 23??? I mean I am easily aroused and the thought of sex alone, even touching or blowing hot air on me makes me wet...and I have never had sex...and I just dont want that to turn a guy off from wanting to have sex with me, most gu... (147 words)

My Girlfriend seems like she is starting to get interested in someone else, what do I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been dating this girl for about a year and lately this kid keeps posting stuff on her facebook about how awesome she looks doing her sports and how he wants to go watch her all the time and occasionally asks her to go to a party or something. She always responds ... (222 words)

I keep cancelling dates but I don't want to be lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I split from my daughter's father/my partner 3 and a half years ago, I haven't slept with a single person since. I've never been in a rush to move on as I haven't wanted to introduce anyone in to my daughter's life. I have had many dates but never slept with anyone as I end up ... (308 words)

I'm worried he's just using me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my boyfreind nearly 6months... and he fingered me about 2 days ago for the 1st time... his fingerin me everyday since then :/.... and i dont mind to be honest even though his leavin me a lil bit sore... but o well... the thing im worried about is the fact ... (101 words)

Have I blown it and should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, A boy in my school - who I like - has been texting me recently.. It started with my friend texting him on my phone saying "Get in my bed" or something like that. When he texted me back, i explained that it wasnt actually me. After this, he began texting me quite alot, at... (167 words)

I'm not sure I can cum around this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a quick question about masturbation and sex. I'm still a virgin and have recently started dating a very sexual girl, i've given all I can give up to the point of sex and haven't received anything. I'm worried about not being able to cum. I can cum however I have to ... (101 words)

Should I meet my husband's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 15yrs and married for 5yrs. We have 2 kids, 3 and 1. My husband also has 2 daughters from his previous marriage, aged 27 and 22 who live with their mother and usually spend Sundays with us. I have a really good relationship with the older ... (323 words)

Will we last if we get together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy and I both know we fancy each other and have been friends for just over a year. We used to talk for hours, and get along ridiculously well and flirt every now and then. But it wasn't until recently that we both admitted that we liked each other, and there's so many ... (127 words)

Why do I like them some days, then the next day I don't!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I keep thinking about this guy all the time? I never used to be able to think of him as more than a friend until recently, what's going on? Also what confuses me is I know I like him, but then some days I wont like him as much as I did before. I do this with so man... (82 words)

He criticizes me and sends mixed signals, should I stay with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a year now... I am in love with him and feel so low when im not with him.. but I feel as though he is mentally torturing me. He doesnt liek me wearing make up and the other day he gave me an ultimatum between him and my makeup - he lately ap... (242 words)

Should I leave my wife? I'm more comfortable with my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a rather lengthy question I will try to keep short.. I have been married for 4 years and I have began having an affair with a girl 17 years my jr.. My wife is 10 years my jr.. I feel like I really love this other woman.. I have been open with her more than I hav... (381 words)

What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: nice guys do finish last :( ... (220 words)

Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are your thoughts? ... (49 words)

We just kissed and now she's back with her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i need some advice, right ive really liked this girl for about a year or two now but thing is she has been going out with one of my friends for about a year and before they started going out she liked me but then went out with him instead. Recently her and the boy broke up for ... (177 words)

2 months into my marriage and I'm already depressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so depressed. I'm 30years old and got married to a 65 year old 2months ago. We dated for 3years online, however i've visited and lived with him for a period of 3months condensed. This guy is weird- he has no friends at all, he doesn't watch tv or listen to music i.e 100% ... (507 words)

Will a guy ever find me attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Will I ever find a guy that likes me? I'm 14 (15 in a few months), and no guy has ever shown any romantic interest in me. Only one of my friends has had a boyfriend, but all of them have either been asked out or has had someone obviously crushing on them. I have am kind of ... (81 words)

Girlfriend always getting hit on and never invites me to work parties!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and I have been dating for almost 3 years,im 27,shes about to turn 26. About a year ago she started a new job at car dealership,as a receptionist.Now because she is on the 'frontline' of the company,she has to dress nice.Now i dont have a problem with that.But for the ... (328 words)

I married my husband but I still think on my ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a boyfriend that I loved so much we were together for 6 years and I gave him my virginity. I was young but I loved him so, but he use to be so controlling and very very jealous, that even though it broke my heart I broke up him. There was not a day I didn't miss him but I ... (201 words)

Ejaculation places of interest.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ejaculation Places of Interest What does it typically mean when: men have a fantasy about cuming on a woman's breasts? Why does my husband suddenly express this same fantasy? After one year of marriage do I have reason for concern? ... (46 words)

I can't control my feelings towards my brother-in-law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a Huge crush on my hb brother. I don't know what it is about him he just makes me go crazy. We don't flirt much,but we always catch eachother staring @ eachother. I don't want to have an affair w/him because I'm against it. I can't help my feelings I don't know what to ... (147 words)

My girlfriend's sense of humor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has mesmerizing sense of humor which can bring out something funny even of the most tense situation . Some time I feel jealous that why I can't match her sense of humor . Though, I'm proud of her having this natural gifted thing but I have no idea how to improve ... (79 words)

Is alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?! Or will it scare him off? We've had a chat about what both of us want. To keep it cool and take thing slowly. But I've found myself thinking about him even more lately coz I know we won't be seeing as ... (143 words)

I gave him my phone number but couldn't get his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man a few weeks ago when i was out with my friends and he was out with his friends. At the end of the night, he wanted us to have each others numbers, but one of the other guys who was there, had a go at him ( he thought i didn't like him hanging around me, whereas ... (385 words)

Insecure about the size of my penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:... (38 words)

Am I just his second choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I reconnected with an old boyfriend I dated 25 years ago. When we reconnected at the time, he was dating someone from another country. He ended it when we started dating. We have been living together for 6 months now and I have been raising his 3 kids and now I have found ... (251 words)

I don't think I should be doing all the chasing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm really confused about this guy. This is our story... Last year this guy me and this guy built a really good friendship, we have so much in common and would talk for hours and were friends with each others friends and I have fun in his company. Then one time I was jokin... (286 words)

I am getting tired of this hot and cold situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My SO and I have been together for almost 3 years. When we saw each other in December, he was going to propose but we had some issues and ended up fighting most of the time. In other words, he didn't propose and said I was holding back from him which is kinda true although ... (370 words)

I don't know what to do I really like this girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Known this girl for like 5 years, shes my best friend that is a girl, i have on and off feelings that i really like her however i have always had the back lying feeling that she was better than any other girl to me. Just now i really like her, however never known how she has ... (190 words)

After we made out he said he feels like we didn't click why would he say this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so there's this guy who lives where i always go on holiday, about ever month. we have known each other for a about two years. I recently started texting him and we did this like every single day and i got very close to him. we started txtin a little dirty, not terrible but ... (218 words)

I checked my boyfriend's phone and now he is furious!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Me and my bf have been going through a tough time lately, my behaviour has not been great and I have been suffering from anxiety and depression which I am trying to deal with by going to therapy. Anyway, last Friday I did something really stupid – he’d been out on ... (299 words)

How to keep this relationship fresh when we are far away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 24yrs boy before 1 week ago I had a girlfriend of foreign country we had a relationship about seven month I love her very much and she also loves me these days I miss her very much she says that she will wait for me I also wait for her but in middle how can I make this ... (73 words)

What does a man means when he says I will never hurt you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When you are in the heat of the moment with a man and you tell him you are falling for them and he says " baby, I would never hurt you" What does that mean? Does he mean he is falling to and can't quite say it? He told me he was so happy that I found him. But i just wan... (85 words)

My husband asked for my sister's phone number!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for over 13 years now. We have 3 kids together. My sister and I are best friends. She used to be living with us for 3 years and my husband never crossed the line with her. She is single and lives on own now. My husband usually helps her around ... (408 words)

I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay. Which wouldn't be a problem, I just don't understand how my boyfriend doesn't see it. Anytime I say something about it to my boyfriend he gets really defensive and says his friend isn't. I just find it convincing to think so because e ... (118 words)

What is the etiquette for a married woman's behavior in party situations where her husband isn't present?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - What is the etiquette for a married woman's behavior in party situations where her husband isn't present? My wife just returned from a trip with some girlfriends to Atlantic City. While there she won a bunch of money playing a game that she didn't know how to play when she... (671 words)

Does he like me enough for a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this guy for a while now and he knows this too. And all my friends says he liked me and he even has told me he does however I just have a feeling that he doesn't like me as much as I do to him, which is a problem. So he asked me out a few times and I was unable... (264 words)

He thinks I'm having an affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - please my boyfriend told me he is breaking up with me because i was told off of my friend, who is a male who told me he saw him with another lady. Now he thinks I am having an affair with the guy and tells me he wants to meet the guy before he decides to stay with me or not. ... (63 words)

Engaged, but thinking of someone else... is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I am engaged to a wonderful man and have been with him for a few years and everything is great, just recently though I have started talking to this guy who showed an interest in me romantically. I told him I was engaged and that nothing could happen but now ... (101 words)

If he doesn't want me as a lover can I still be his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well its sumwat about luv and friendship. I met a person through net chatting and we were seeing each other and mostly into each other and had a great time 2gethr. He proposed to me too and I was taking my time to know him though I was in love. At this moment some problems ... (308 words)

I feel as if he's just chewed me up and spat me out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, just looking for some advice... I've been living with my boyfriend who is from another country about 3 years and everything (I thought) seemed to be going smoothly. We have talked often about having kids in the future. However last night he dropped the bombshell that ... (274 words)

Me and my friend had lesbian sex 3 times but is she just experimenting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A month ago me and my best friend had lesbian sex ...we where very drunk i am a lesbian but i was not me who started it my friend kissed me i knew it was wrong but it felt good next morning we both said it meant nothing but the things is it as my first time with a girl so to me ... (121 words)

He married me for citizenship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age - The man I married is not who I thought he was since he is now in the states. We have had our ups and downs and I felt just trying to get use to each other since being apart for so long, but after 9 months of being in the states when he and I have a dispute he will go to ... (231 words)

I'm falling for a guy, but he's moving in 4 months!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hi, so I met this boy on halloween last year, and since then i think the longest we've gone wothout speaking has been something like 3 days? We always talk, about nothing and rubbish, and i was wondering why it wasn't going anywhere. Just after new year i got a fright and ... (332 words)

I'm in love with my FWB and need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be extremely long, so i apologize in advance. I have a FWB, and he has been a close friend for about a year and a half, and has also been a FWB for that time as well, but before that I was friends with him anyway as we had the same classes in school.A year an... (864 words)

Men say I'm creepy, crazy, and a stalker...Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well my problem is the very first time i went on a date i was scared so i was very stand-off ish then i started getting attention from the wrong type of guys but i really liked the attention so i gave away my virginity to someone who was just looking for sex. because of that i ... (362 words)

I don't know who got me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together and have been trying for a baby for months.I was last on my period on the 26th January which usually lasts about 5/6 days. We had sex a few times from the first week of february and broke up. I met up with my ex on the 12th Feb and had ... (133 words)

Help! Should I tell him I love him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi help me guys. There is this guy we've been dating 4 almost 2 months and we like each other now im falling in love which is a good thing. So i just want to know that should i tell him that i love him or must i wait for him to say that as he has never said it. Concerned... (61 words)

Should I reconcile with my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age - I separated from my husband almost 3 years ago there were lots of issues, I met someone else but he was married long story short he is still married and whenever I broach the subject of us being together I always get the same line I.e he has no money, waiting for the children ... (137 words)

How will you know for sure that puberty is ending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How will you know for sure that puberty is ending? I ask because I want to know when the acne will stop ( vicious breakouts about every month) what the limit of my facial hair/back hair (still none thank god) growth will be, I want know when I'll be stuck with my final pe... (115 words)

His drinking is ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 1 year is a heavy drinker - most days 1 bottle or more of wine (on his own, I don't drink) and worse at weekends. I didn't know this initialy, only after we started living together. He has a good job. I suspect he is a high functioning alcoholic. This is a ... (158 words)

What can I do to make myself more open to new friends and/or guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have already asked loads of questions here but I thought I'd keep going since I seem to be on a roll. I'm a 17 year old college student, I love college, both academically and on the social side of things. However, I am a very shy person and I don't make friends eas... (236 words)

He stood me up because he fell asleep! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy that i've been crushing on recently wanted to catch up with me for coffee. He said he would call me around noon and we'd decide on a place... I got ready and waited and waited...he didn't pick up my call and i got a message after 4 hours saying he'd dozed off and 'w... (101 words)

His actions don't match his words!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship with a guy who is older. He is 7 years older than me. We have being 'dating' for the last 4 month now. It defo just dating still as I only see him a couple of nights a week.He never takes me out through the day and ive never met his family. We had an ... (203 words)

Age gaps between your children - what is best?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys.. ive recently had a baby shes 3 months old and such a good baby. Me and my partner want a large family but not sure how much of an age gap to have between our kids. id like them close together but dont know if id cope. is it harder having small age gaps or big ones?... (59 words)

Sex positions with a curved penis?

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hay guys, quick question for you. Me and my girlfriend have great sex. But my manhood curves slightly which does limit the number of positions that are comfortable for us both. Any suggestions? Thanks :)... (57 words)

Her interferring mother has called off the wedding. What advice can I offer, when asked, and not make this fiasco worse?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was due to attend a wedding next week of two very dear friends. One (him) a relative of mine and she a great friend. It seemed a marriage made in heaven. They both have great jobs. Though she is a tiny bit more qualified than him. That was of no cinsequence. Th... (430 words)

Lopsided breasts stop me from wearing a bathing suit, anything I can do to overcome this?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my breasts are very lopsided and it has effected me my entire life. i only dream of surgery but cant afford it.someday i will. i have found a bra that wrks for me and surprisingly egnough i get them at victoria secret. its called the very sexy extreme push up convertable bra. ... (146 words)

Am I just his texting friend?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being txten a guy for the last month now. We txt all threw the day and he has being calling me a few times lately. We get on really well. I remember him from school but didnt know him to talk to. He is 21 and im 19. He works away from home and is busy with work. We keep ... (90 words)

She's playing both me and her ex!

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl I have been talking to for quite some time now had fallen in love. Yet she and her ex still love each other. Turns out for a while she was dating both of us. Me and the ex decided that she has to choose, we will be ok with anything she wants. We only care that ... (194 words)

My brother and I love the same person!

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I and my brother is in love with the same person. She is our first love. She's been cheated by her first love. She cant forget her,she still loves her. We are good friends of her and she's saying that she dont love anyone? What to do? ... (47 words)

My friend's boyfriend is messing around on her. Should I interfer?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Pink. I'm 18 and I have a boyfriend. My problem is not about my boyfriend, though. It's about his close friend Ralph, whom he also shares an apartment with. Ralph is 17, loves to talk, and, to hear my boyfriend say it, has a complicated sex life. The first ... (417 words)

Is it ok to take the plan b twice within 2 days?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend and I had sex for the firts time with out any protection, no condom and I am not in any birth control pill, I was my firts time and he didn't come inside me, I was so freak out because I defenately didn't want to end pregnant so I find out about the pill plan b ... (192 words)

What are the rules of flirting?

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am wondering about flirting. Is it a harmless activity that is just fun, or does it really play with peoples' emotion in a potentially harmful way? Of course, I think flirting is fine and even good if the flirter (the person who is flirting) has an interest in the flirtee (... (198 words)

I want to start our marriage on the right foot with trust!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I felt hurt when my fiancee told me 2 years ago that if he and his childhood friend were dating, he'd be married by now to her. I didn't say anything considering we were only dating at the time but it has been on my mind now and then. When he proposed to me, I forgot about it. ... (520 words)

If a guy won't wait does it automatically mean he wants to use you?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok,so there is this guy-ive known him about 3 months but we didnt see each other for a few weeks and now weve started seeing each other again I tried telling him I want to wait a few weeks for things to get back to normal before we have sex but he wont have it and keeps asking ... (101 words)

What do you make out of this? Do you think he may like me back?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a Sophomore in high school, and I have my Spanish class with a good friend of mine that I have a crush on, Tim, as well as my brother. My brother dared me to give Tim a lap dance (JOKINGLY!!) after I mentioned how I don't back down on dares. After school, Tim came up to me ... (173 words)

I want to win him back, what is the best thing to do?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - please let me know what you think about my situation - any advice is welcomed. last night my boyfriend of three years broke up with me. he started university the other side of the country last September and we talk three nights a week to give him time to do his work. he sa... (202 words)

Are there women's shelters for abused wives in USA?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance is an alchoholic, and a recovering crack addict. When he drinks he is painfully verbally abusive. I let it go for about a year because i felt he was just relapsing from not using anymore. It's been almost two years now, and although he'll go thru a week or two at a ... (350 words)

Was he just playing me? how could he break up so callously?l'

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm confused about something. About 2 weeks ago, at my high school, he confessed to me that he liked me. when he told me that, I was surprised, shocked and happy. He send me his number on Facebook so we can text. We texted all night about things I like to do. He would ... (393 words)

What's going on? She likes me in every way, except sexually.

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1 March 2011 (M)

age - My SO of about a year is 45. About 2-1/2 years ago, she had a hystorectomy. Our sex life has been pretty tepid, and we were both adventurous before we met. She says her lack of libido is due to her surgery, however I have seen pictures and read emails that verify her libido ... (131 words)

Am I crazy for thinking he has something going on with her?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am insecure in my marriage because my husband cheated on me before we got married. It was with a coworker of his. The last time we was out hanging out with the guys he spoke about her ta ta's. I shrugged it off because thats how men talk weather it be behind your back or in ... (273 words)

I'm confused by him, where do we stand?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive come to the conclusion that guys are very confusing. They dont seem to know how to express what they want from a girl. So i met a guy who ive known for a little while now. He is in the same organization as me in my university. He approached me through facebook by sending ... (390 words)

I'm afraid he will leave college at the end of the semester not knowing how I feel about him! Help!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really like this guy. We've known each other for about three-four years now. He's going to graduate college in the spring, and I'm going to in two years. We've been in theatre classes together this whole time. He's so much fun to be around. He's cynical and... (267 words)

Is she refusing to answer the question because she has been with someone else?

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend broke up 7 months ago but now we are back together.I havent been with someone else during this period and she knows that, but when i ask her the same she gets mad at me, saying she is not going to tell me anything about it and i can think whatever i want!! ... (73 words)

I broke things off with the second man so why do I still feel guilty?

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1 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with 2 men 1 15 yrs and the father of my daughter and the other for a year, I have finally come to my senses and ended the relationship with the other man, thing is I feel so guilty for breaking his heart. He knew I was in a relationship when we ... (261 words)

I want to get to know him more, but I cant do a LDR!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys!its time I wanted a more objective opinion on this matter.Thanks in advance for reading my question.I know it's long so answer if you're going to read all of it. Thanks. I met this guy online some time ago and whenever we were chatting it wasn't for long,just regula... (861 words)

Is there any hope for my friend against her in court?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all..I'm writing on behalf of a friend of mine. He's run into a mess of problems with his ex-girlfriend. Let me start off by saying that I never liked her, but because he's one of my best friends, I tried to be happy for him. After they broke up (two months ago), she... (418 words)

My boyfriend cant handle it when I get upset!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with a guy for 3 years now. I have noticed a pattern in the past year that when I get upset, he cant seem to handle it. As soon as I start to cry, he reacts, by saying he is completely stressed as it is and he cant handle any emotional upset. Or stuff ... (327 words)

How do I convince him about having children?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here is the issue. I have been with my boyfriend, who we'll call "C," for about a year and a half. We are getting an apartment together in a few months and are discussing marriage quite soon. The topic of children has come up a few times, but he says he is unsure. ... (64 words)

Husband on Craig's list looking for casual meetings

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have concerns about my husband. I keep noticing him paying attention to everything in his life but me. I realize the honeymoon has been over for half a year now, but I liked the way things were. I liked being his best friend. Tonight I was on a craigslist and found where he ... (151 words)

He was cheating on me for 3 months and even took her to meet his parents! I would leave but I am pregnant......what should I do?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years, me and my bf/ fiance have a 2 year old together, we live together. He bought me a ring we just haven't really planned a wedding yet! Here's my problem I really love him he's great to me so I never thought he would cheat o... (480 words)

Should I dump her or take the risk?

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello helpers, In a nutshell, this is my first serious relationship, and I have been unhappy with certain parts of it for a long time. Yet, I don't feel like it's bad enough to end it, and I'm pessimistic about finding another girl any time soon. I also know that she would b... (990 words)

The call of temptation is very strong...

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i am 33 years old, married and had one baby. i am happily married to my husband for 7 years, he's a good provider, a good husband and father. Negatives: his work does not permit him to go home anytime, he drinks a lot, and i felt that sometimes i am not importan... (357 words)

I want to extinguish the flame before it gets out of hand!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A few days ago I started talking to my sort-of-kind-of ex? he was my best friend on the entire planet, I could talk to him about anything, and then we mixed things into romance and it just didn't work... This was in June and we hadn't spoken up until a few days ago. I have a b... (114 words)

Should I move in with boyfriend in a rocky relationship or try to make it without him?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The situation here is a little complicated, so let me explain. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are both graduating college this year, and he will be moving across the country to take a job. I have no job lined up for next year and it is too late to appl... (210 words)

Have you ever had an awkward encounter with an ex?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and i broke up two months ago-ish and i see him every day in school, and run into him and his new girlfriend alot.. talk about awkward! If you have any similar experiences, i'd love to hear them.... (43 words)

I'm having an affair with a married man who's now in love with me...

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having an affair with a married man for nearly a year now, I am a single girl and this just started as a bit of fun, but in the last few months he has been telling me that he is so in love with me . He has been married for a year and a half and has been with his ... (237 words)

How to start dating after a long relationship?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - soo a little under 2 months ago, my year long boyfriend and i broke up, and i'm not sure how to start dating again.. there is a guy who i have a little crush on, but i feel so awkward and weird starting all over again, what are some tips? thank you soo much, best answer will... (67 words)

How long after his divorce can I meet his family?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering how long after my boyfriend gets his divorce. That i will meet his family not in a rush just wondering? Its been 7 month cents his separation. He does not know when his divorce is done. I do not bother him about it. I have ask twice. We have been to gather 1 ... (61 words)

Why am I in love with the wrong guy?

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1 March 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I just broke up with my bf because he wasnt trying hard enough. There is another guy I know who has liked me at a distance for several years now, and has been talking to me more and more recently. He's everything I'd want in a guy, and has all the qualities that my old bf d... (154 words)

Should we take things slow till his divorce?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i am going out with loves me. I love him to should we take things slow till he gets his divorce done? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (28 words)

Boyfriend seems possessive! Should I worry?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be worried that my boyfriend seems really possessive lately? Does it mean he's done something he knew he shouldn't have? When we first started dating (we have a long distance relationship while he goes to school) he seemed jealous but not over the top. He repeatedly ... (293 words)

Signals from a co-worker

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy that i work with but from what i know hes on the shy side.. im confused with signals i think hes sending me.. like i told him that i wanted to get on his last nerve(which was a way to kinda flirt with him) and he said i was getting close then i was like ... (161 words)

I can't convince her to leave her husband.

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble coping with the guilt I feel about the relationship my girlfriend and I have. She is married and has been married for 8 years, her and I have been seeing each other for 3 years and I can seriously say I love that women. When I met her I thought she was ... (367 words)

My ex dated my friend and now that they've broken up my feelings for her are still there!

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my bestfriends just broke up with his girlfriend, who just happened to be my ex-girlfriend. When they first got together I didnt talk to either of them, I said some things I didnt mean and made what I realize now what was probably too big of a deal out of it, but I ... (290 words)

Our relationship status is not public on my boyfriend's facebook account...he had modified the settings so that only I could see the "in a relationship" status!!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So its been almost 2 years that my bf and I have been together. We've had our ups and downs like any other couple, but what separates us from any ordinary couple is that we learn to work with what we've learned from our past arguments, however, a few months back, *warning this ... (299 words)

I don't like him anymore but don't want to hurt him

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Greetings to all! I have a slight issue that I would like to inform you about. I have this boyfriend, and he likes me a lot, or so he says, and I don't feel the same spark as I did when I first started dating him. We have gone out to the movies recently, and we do hang out a lo... (149 words)

I feel driven to do rash things. How do I find the strength to get through this?

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1 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I've asked for help before regarding ending a relationship with a third party but i never let it get easier for myself. the pain drives me to do rash things and today is one of those days. I still need a bit of help, he arrives tomorrow and today has been what seems like one... (254 words)

My non-exclusive boyfriend has an on-off fiance!

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please let me know what you think about my situation... any comments or advice are appreciated :) I found out the day after valentines day that my nonexclusive bf of 11 months has secretly still been engaged with his on and off Fiance. Apparently she has some control over him... (1568 words)

I'm insecure because of past relationships, but I don't want to ruin the current one

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real issue with trust. In my three previous relationships (in fact, my only three serious relationships) they have cheated on me or left me for another woman. I have done much soul-searching as to whether it was something that I did or didn't do in a relationship ... (508 words)

I love him, but I'm still insecure.

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online over 2 years ago...I fell in love with him and he me. I met him for the first time in real for 2 weeks in January and well im even more in love now than I ever was, we get along soo much better in real than what we do online and I can honesty say that, th... (332 words)

I'm afraid to embarass myself with guys.

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 17 and I am in college, so I am a lot younger than all of my friends, my youngest friend is over a year older than me. So all of my friends are a lot more experienced than me - with boyfriends/girlfriends and all. I've never even had a boyfriend before, and this ... (315 words)

He's already broken my heart once. Should I stay or go? He flirts with all the girl, but not with me.

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this guy for a while now, and I really like him. The only problem Is that he flirts with all of my friends during school and never seems to notice me. The only time he talks to me is when he mouths I love you. It is really starting to annoy me because ... (187 words)

Shall I just try to get over him? Technically he's not my teacher.

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it sounds like one of the usual "I'm in love with my teacher" scenarios blah blah, but just listen and help if you can. I'm a fresher (first year) in college and I'm studying Spanish as part of my degree. We're taught languages in small classes, so we know our teacher... (235 words)

After opening up and sharing his emotions with me, he is avoiding me! What is going on??

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for a couple weeks now. I wrote on here last week as I was worried that he went all off-ish with me after we had an argument... Since then, we met each other on Saturday night. My friends saw him in a few different places when we were out and they sai... (1064 words)

Should I ever forgive my insulting, cheating bf?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me for 3 months with a girl who is: ugly a bully selfish completely self-centered and then said he didn't so I just let it be because she could have been lying... Today i find out he is cheating on me with 4 of his exes. We are all in the same colle... (89 words)

Could he be trying to look at me at the corner of his eyes?

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1 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man who sits in front of a girl turns his head a few times, at an angle to look down where you can see his eyes, could he be trying to look at you? It seems he is not really looking at anything in particular. He is just turning just enough to see his eyes and they loo... (120 words)

We don't have sex anymore.

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1 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend don't have sex anymore and I don't know why I treat here great. She never has to buy things as I give her everything or do any house work and cook as I do it all i run her baths and give massages and take Her out for meals every day off work I get. We must ... (77 words)