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writes:I met this guy a few months ago and i kind of got the feeling that he liked me and i liked him back. So we would text and get to know eachother but flirt sometimes. But the thing was he wouldnt make a move and i wouldnt either i was too shy. But after a few months of talking i felt like i had to make the first move since he wasnt. So i texted him and we talked and i asked him why he talked to me the first time? And he responded by saying i think your cute and seemed like someone i liked to know. So this gave me the hint that he still liked me so i told him i think your cute too. He said":) so is their anyone your interested in?" and i said i think i like you, your a nice guy. So he said that he was interested in me too but was too shy to talk to me and tell me. So now we've been talking and he calls me pretty lady, which i think is really nice and sweet. During one of our texts he asked me to send him a cute picture of myself so he can put it as his caller id for my contact. So i sent him a nice picture nothing sexual just me smiling and he said ":) quite sexy, this picture is amazing". Ive never been called sexy but then again ive never been on a date or had a boyfriend and he knows that, i told him. Ive told him that im a good girl and he has said that thats good. So now he calls me sexy lady but when he calls me that i feel uncomfortable like he only wants my body. Its just that ive never had any experience with guys, im new to this whole thing and he has had girlfriends before( he's 21 and im 18), well he has had only 2 girlfriends but he has more experience than me. He is not a virgin and i am. Its not that im waiting till marriage to have sex , i just want to find the right guy. I know he is really nice and he respects me but its just that i want to take things slow. So why do i feel so nervous with this guy? I do really like him but dont know why im scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour probably right but im scared that ill do something that ill regret. It may seem right at the time but what if later i wish i could take back. Were gonna hang out this week but im scared that i dont have the same feelings anymore about him but not totally sure. I think nervousness and being scared has taken over my other emotions.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 I dont think you are scared of him, but more what he may do to you if you allow him. Its your body. Just because he has had sex with other girls does not mean he HAS to have sex with you. If you are not ready do not do it. Preferably do not do it for quite a few months until your relationship has built a foundation.
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