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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:so i've posted other Q's on here about a guy I have a thing for, but i'm not sure how he feels about me. one day he cant stop starring at me, messes up words when i come into the room, looks at me instead of who he's talking to, is playfighting with me and rubbing his knee on my crotch, teaching me to play cod for 6hrs straight, hardly ever bugs me, brings me up in convos with other people (asks where i am, how i am, how much alike we are,...). etc.the next he is completely ignoring me; to the point of looking away and going dead quiet when he sees me. I DONT GET IT!! ugghh. I'm shy, very shy. so is he usually. we're very much alike (to the point of saying the same thing at the same time when we barely knew each other). when he's asked if he likes me he doesn't give a straight answer, no yes or no. though his sister has came right out and told me he likes me, he's yet to admit it. anyways; today I'm in town shopping and my mum msgs me. she asks if i'm eating in town, I say i'm not sure and ask why. she says cause "blank" ate my dinner. I go "what? slap him lol" few minutes later she tells me she did, and he liked it. i'm in the processes of asking what they had when i get another text, "he wants more" I say "food?" her reply "he wants you to smack him. and he said no one can be around but you two when it happens." couple seconds later "and he says he wants to wear his party boy outfit" at first, I'm kinda turned on lol, but then I'm like 'no way she's serious' so i say haha whatever and yea. later i get back to the house, "blank" isnt there, but mum says he'll be back later. I'm in the kitchen tiddling and i hear the door open, I turn around and he walks in all macho like, biggest smile on his face. he keeps walking towards me, gets right up close (i kinda forget there are other people in the house) and says seductively "i have my party boy suit in my pocket." he wont stop smiling and i'm so flustered all i can say is "oh wow" and smile as i feel myself turn 1,000,000,000 shades of red. what the hell?! do you guys just do that or is there something there that i'm not picking up on? you have to understand, this guy is shy around me 99% of the time. he's not obnoxious or loud by any means. it's not like it's the norm for him to just out and bug me like that, he's always polite (which is rare these days)... my family loves him.! and i think i might be starting to... :S
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 It sounds like there is an attraction but he sounds young and not sure how to develop it probably due to immaturity. Help him out if you like him. Become his friend. I did not feel it was appropriate him touching you in a sexual manner. If you like him, do not allow him to do that again.As you become friends and talk more about general things, you could start to ask him out on dates and then take it from there.He sounds shy.
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