A
female
age
26-29,
*orrely
writes:i always run out of things to say when talking to my friends, which makes it hard because as it is, i only have a few good friends. is this something that is wrong with me, or is this something i can fix?if so, any advice will be appreciated. thanks! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Nope there is nothing wrong with you so stop worrying!!Making conversation isnt always easy! My advice is to admit to it. It sounds random but when I'm with my mates if I ever struggle to find something to say I just say that I'm sorry I am not very good at making conversation and they totally understand and start one for me! Just be yourself and maybe share what is on your mind (if it wont offend anyone) and just try to relax. Conversations normally come naturally as you get to know people better. So just start with small talk like "What did you do at the weekend?" or "So hows life for you these days?" and just listen and ask questions when you feel its appropriate and maybe relate your life to it and that will give you something to talk about! I hope I helped a bit :) x
A
reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): In life if you have a few good friends, then consider yourself very rich.No, there isn't anything wrong with you. Relax and be yourself, if you try too hard and try to think of things to say it will just look false.
...............................
|
