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I want to talk to a girl more but never get the chance to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - There's this girl I like and I'm pretty sure she quite likes me too. Nevertheless, we've only spoken a few times and I'd like to get to know her better. I have no problem talking to girls but the problem is I never see her so never get the opportunity to potentially start a ... (83 words

I want my marriage to work, but at the same time I don't want to go an another year like this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been married for 7 years now. But for the past year, things have been going bad in my marriage. i still have feelings for my husband but not the same love i had before. i don't think he feels the same way.we haven't had sex for a year, but i can't get the stre... (200 words

I know he's cheating but want the family-man back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - My Fiancee of 8 yrs is cheating on me, He does not know I know he is cheating, a lot of red flags have gone off so I did some checking into this "affair/ fling" he is having. The other day I caught him by surprised with his cell phone open. I asked him if he wanted his phone he ... (477 words

Should I break up now in anticipation of the long seperation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with a guy for about 6 months. I may as well live with him for the time we spend together. And I'm falling in love with him. I haven't told him yet... I don't know if I even should. The thing is, I'm leaving in 6 months for a 6-month-long trip, where I ... (281 words

Should I follow my heart back to my first love or stay with my current good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - well, i have been dating this guy for almost three months. We have been through a lot together, he was my friend through some extremely hard times in my life. and i appreciate it and do love him. but recently, me and this other guy and i have started talking again... my first ... (93 words

Could his sexual inexperience be the problem here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in our 30's. Up until 2 years ago when we met he'd never had any form of sex, including oral sex. He tried once in high school but couldn't perform. Since the beginning when we began having sex erections have been difficult for him. He loses them e... (446 words

Is it healthy to masturbate every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - i am 19, i started masturbating when i was 16 and the frequency was like once in month bt now i masturbate alot to say once in a day. Is it healthy. If not how do i get rid of it. .... (42 words

My overprotective parents keep me from spending much time with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i need advice.. Ok well me and ny bf have been dating for almost two years and we r happy the only problem is that i have overprotective parents i bearly ever see him. I only see him on the days we have school. Am afraid he is going to leaave me but he says he wont. We r ... (115 words

What should I do with a friend who did this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I want to hear what you are going to say about this :) I have a good friend,she's a year older,we happen to go to the same university and she's one of the people I trust. So does she. We are from the same town too. She had gone to visit her parents in this other town a... (555 words

Looking for holiday romance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, this is not realy such an important question, but ive been single for abit and going on holiday soon, im hoping for a bit of a holiday romance which will be great. Anyone have any tips? Thankyou.... (41 words

I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!

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11 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about going out and stuff and we both are ... (225 words

I'm in love with my son's married teacher?

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11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am in love with my sons married teacher. she is a very beautiful and kind person. she knows i am gay. i felt sparks between, we were getting closer by day, then when i asked her out for coffee, don't know what happened . she told me in a note that we need to keep a ... (138 words

Even after three years my ex is in my thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I cant stop thinking about my ex boyfriend(high school sweetheart).we have been apart for more than 3 years and all the thoughts about him are creeping back.In the deepest part of my heart i trully belive he is my soulmate.I am with my current boyfriend now and we have a child ... (92 words

Bleeding the second time after masturbation?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So i'm a virgin but i masturbate. I have only used penetration (a vibrator) twice, the first time it bleed, which i saw as normal due to my hymen breaking, but my second time i also bleed, and more than the first! I thought you were only meant to bleed the first time? Or if ... (94 words

I'm 15 and want to have sex...Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello Everyone, I'm 15 years old and recently I have started thinking about relationships and sex . . . Firstly I'm not in a relationship I prefer to focus on my studies for now and then think about getting into a relationship, which will probably be around 5-6 years fro... (216 words

My friends say my facebook friend could be dangerous, but she is so nice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, There is this person on facebook who is adding people from my school including me and that person has been emailing me saying that that person is a girl and is new to our school but never comes outside because she is too shy, and her profile account is as male. My friend... (95 words

Ever since I came out to my mom, we have had a strained relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - I can't stand it! I feel as if I can't be myself around my mum! Ever since I came out last summer We have had a strained relationship. Before she would ask me about girls and stuff and I know it is an adjustment but now I don't feel I can talk about myself and my problems to ... (158 words

His former girlfriends are calling me a boyfriend stealer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im dating this guy and he just so happens to be two of my friends' ex. He only dated them for like a day and they broke up because he told them he just wants to be friends. So theyre all friends. I've always liked him and I foumd out he likes me too so i asked him out. He said ... (151 words

I got over him before, but now I like him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really like one of my best friends brother. He's a year younger than me but very mature for his age. I liked him two years ago but I was very deluded, my best friend was fine with it then, it actually made us really close. I got over him. But now I like him again. I t... (214 words

My partner is abusive so I am going to cheat on him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it justified for me to cheat if my partner is abusive to me? I shouldn't say justified, but rather is it a good reason. I know I should just leave him, but i don't know how at this point. He hits me and threatens me and verbally abuses me. ... (50 words

My boyfriend has just told me that he lost his virginity to a prostitute!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I found out last night that my boyfriend wasn't a virgin, and for all the time we've been together I thought he was, since he told me I was his first girlfriend, so I just assumed... Since I thought we were both virgins, I thought the first time we had sex would be really s... (169 words

Any suggestions on how to reignite the spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Soooo my i have been dating this girl for about 6 months or so. Its long distance due to my college. Im about 2 hours away but we see each other every weekend. Just here this past week she told me she is getting bored of doing the same old things and that she wants more to talk ... (121 words

Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? Something in between?... (57 words

He manipulates me by saying he'll kill himself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together almost 7 years now. He has trust issues with me. Constantly doubting what i say, asking if i cheat/cheated on him, asking about my past relationship, thinking things have gone on when they have not. all i have ever done is tell him he is ... (781 words

What has worked on acne for you?

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11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - i have a very big problem with acne. i am 17 coming up to 18. when you look at me straight on my face is fine just the odd spot on my forehead. but on each side you just see spots. when im at home in the bathroom mirror they look fine but when i see myself in the mirror at ... (162 words

I love him so much and can't live without him, but my momma doesn't care!

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11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - so i've been dating the same guy for about 1 year and 2 monthes (i've been counting lol). but ever since day 1 my mom hasnt likde him one bit!im gunna call him 'bob'. now 'bob' and i have made some... uh... really bad choices but even so... most of them are my fault and he ... (104 words

I feel like she's treating me pretty cruelly and has no faith in me whatsoever. Am I wrong?

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11 March 2011 (F - I'm a 23 year old female, and currently living at home with my mother and my brother who is nearly three years younger. I have a boyfriend who I've been with heading for four years now, only he lives 150 miles away so we see each other every couple of months, or whenever we ... (744 words

Please tell me why some women and or girls, are willing to put up with such "crap" from men!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age - Ladies(and girls), I need your help! Please tell me why some women and or girls, are willing to put up with such "crap" from men! They lie to you, cheat on you, won't allow you to have a life of your own, and if they do? They act like wounded little boys! They expect you to be... (107 words

Why does this look deformed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - so i think there is something wrong with me :S to other day i was looking at my self in the mirror when i noticed something wrong with my nipple :S the one is compleetly deformed! it looks like it was cut 4 times and left to heal in a messed up way and i dont know why! pleas i ... (66 words

I'm totally psyching myself out of this relationship, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm totally psyching myself out of this relationship, why?!?!? Divorced w kids - dating a wonderful man who seems to truly enjoy being BF/GF - 4 mos relationship. The word "love" has not been mentioned by either one of us. I feel it but I'm ambivalent to say it before he... (152 words

At first I was happy to be engaged but now am worried that I am too young. Anyone have experience with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my partner for around 2 n half years and we are engaged I am only 19 and at first I was happy but now I'm having doubts. I am beginning to worry if I am too young as he's the only guy I've ever been with n I'm wondering if I'm missing out on life... (126 words

I'm having really weird dreams involving me and my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm almost a 15 year old girl and I have been having some really weird dreams about me and my boy friend. I love him more then anything in the world so some of my friends tell me just to ignore the dreams but its just so weird. I don't like just coming out and saying what the... (95 words

Dating a guy whose ex-girlfriend is nothing but trouble. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating this lovely guy for the last month. Everything between us is fine, but his ex girlfriend is causing nothing but problems. She keeps sending him messages saying how she is going out with her friends on the pull,etc. But the one thing that has got my back up the ... (184 words

Missing my ex-girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - It’s been almost six months since my girlfriend dumped as she thought I was not getting good job despite coming close to her set dateline. She thought without having a good job, I would be able to support her financially. I miss her too much and there’s hardly any day when... (137 words

Unhappy tired mom told "give me more sex and I'll be nicer"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - iv been with my other half for 7 years now we have a 2 year old but i feel unhappy my partner works and i stay home with our kid i do all house work, cook and take our child out every day but if i ask my partner to sleep in same room as out kid so i can have a decent night ... (220 words

Long distance relationship and huge age gap... can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, my name is Alexia I am 19 year old. I live in Canada and I am head over heels for a man who lives in romania, he is 36 year old...divorced and father of a little girl. I met him on vacation down in mexico only hours before my departure. We had just enough time to e... (81 words

He wants to keep our relationship a secret!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've been going out with a guy for a few days and we've both been happier than we can remember. I really, really like him, and he tells me I'm beautiful and does everything right. I've fallen hard. The thing is, he wants to keep our relationship sercret, which means I can't ... (128 words

I feel sorry for his fiancé!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My guy friend/co-worker has been engaged for 3 years. Lately he has been physically affectionate, tight hugs, lots of cheek kisses, caressing my face. I am not closely acquainted to his fiancé but I'm pretty sure this is not normal before for a man about to be married later ... (259 words

Ever since my friend told her I liked her, she has been ignoring me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - i am 16 and in love with this smart, beautiful and kind girl. i know for about 3 years now and i fell for her a few months ago. My friend, who is a very nice guy to her went and told her that i like her..ever since she has really reduced talking to me and treats like a no one ... (212 words

Men: Would your potential future wife's sexual history bother you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - I know that when a guy looks for a girl to marry the less sexual experiences the more that guy finds that girl to be attractive. If you were a virgin man would your future wife prior sexual history be a turn off? If your wife swallowed another man would any of this bother ... (57 words

Should I move ahead and leave him or wait and pray for a change in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - I and my boyfriends has been friends for upto eight years now. We started as just friends before we fell in luv. As first we didn't involve in sexual intercourse due to my fear of loosing him when he's fed up. But unknown to me my girl friend who has been warning me against him ... (232 words

He's kind of different now and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Today I had an awkward moment with the guy that I like. Today he was really tired today but was in a good mood so I was lucky. Well to start I was hugging him and I asked him if he thought I was indecisive and he said yes and then I also asked if I was overly emotional and he ... (430 words

My boyfriend wants to see my 'area'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm young, (not going to state my age) but I will tell you, i'm still in high school. My boyfriend, recently told me he wants to see my area. I dont really want to let him, because i think my clitoris is to large, and also my vagina lips are a little longer, i dont know what to ... (61 words

I am 16 and my penis is curved. I am worried that it will bend more as I grow. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old, Asian, male, and my penis is 5.5 inches. I know it's normal, but it has a curve. I am worried if it bends more with my growth. Any suggestions?... (35 words

18 years old, getting married in a few months and questioning it! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (? age 30-35 - I have run into a problem. I am a person who can be told not to do this (ex. if you ride that horse, you're going to get bucked off), but I still get on. I always have to learn the hard way. I am at the tender age of 18, and I am engaged and getting married in 5 months. ... (241 words

I'm a mess and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - I’m in mess. Me and my bf have been trying to make things work and it is getting to the point where neither of us know what to do. We have quite conflicting personalities but we are also similar in some ways. An example would be that I fell in love with him quickly whereas I ... (561 words

Are Asian women tighter?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Do Asian Women have tighter Vagina's??? My friend said that asian women have tighter vaginas and are much better sexually for pleasure for men? is this true x... (33 words

I messed up. I've changed, how do I show my ex I am different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - This is a long story sorry..... I have made the worst mess of my life. I've been with a girl 4 years she is now 34, the last year I moved to a different country to be with her, I stayed at her place where she lives with her sister, only temporarily, but ended up living there ... (663 words

I want to propose to her, but I don't know how or when?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - i love a 16 yr. Old girl , puja very much..Sitting next to me in the 10th boards, i m 16 too, how would i propose her, i' ve thought to propose her on 18th march 2011, the 2nd last xam, and wait for rply till 23rd, the last day of xam.. Plz help me, i luv her more than anything ... (65 words

Desperate for answers. Will someone please tell me why my boyfriend won't accept that I don't want to be with him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey there, I'd really appreciate as much help as possible. I was with this guy for 6 months and everything was great at first. He was sweet, kind. But then he started getting really clingy, so I told him to back off a bit as I preffered casual relationships. He did for a whi... (503 words

Happily married with kids, yet having obsessive feelings for my ex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm married with two kids. About one year ago i saw my ex and ever since i have been thinking of him. Now recently he has become an obsession to me, though i am the one who left him. I'm happily married and do love my husband but at the same time i have deep feelings for my ex. ... (61 words

My girlfriend lied about having stopped seeing her ex when we first started dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 51-59 - I've been with my girlfriend about 5 years, and we're considering marriage. When we first started going out it was obvious to me that she still had feelings for her prior boyfriend, but she told me the relationship was done. The topic didn't come up often, but she always ... (419 words

How can I turn my guy friend into my boyfriend when for months I told him I didn't want a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question cause I can't find the answer on my own! I'm dating a guy for 4 months now. At the beginning I kept saying that I don't want a "boyfriend" so he doesn't act like it, he doesn't invite me to go out with him and his friends, and he doesn't ask me much cause ... (150 words

Last week was fine, now they all treat me differently..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - I met a girl last week who i thought i liked, but i dont think she likes me and i dont think shes my type. Last week i was acting very confident and trying to make them laugh and all that but today many of the ppl I met last week seemed not interested in talking to me, and even ... (422 words

My parents haven't even met him but they hate him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - My parents hate my boy friend. my boy friend and i have been dating for a little over two months. I love him with all my heart but my parents don't like him at all. He is 17 I am 14, he has lip pierced, ear gaged, hair dyed black, etc. I love everything about him but my paren... (102 words

Been told I have spine abifida, my life's over and I'm only 15!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Please someone help:'( i feel as though my lifes over, i cant stop crying, i went to the doctors and have got told i have spine abifida, its in the lower part of my bck so it ok, but i also have a twisted spine, im an average bubbly teenage 15 year old girl and i never expe... (143 words

Competition from Girlfriend's Male Friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have a question about one of my girlfriend's male friends. For the sake of anonymity, let's call the guy "Tim". The day after my would-be girlfriend broke up with her ex, she spent the day hanging out with one of her long time male friends (who is a friend of... (1384 words

My girlfriend and my dad, how do I talk to him about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear friends, I'm in love with my girlfriend and things between us are really great ! But now I need to ask u guys about what to do about my dad. She really wants him to like her... He knows that we are friends ( he's not to happy about that either) and any talks with him t... (258 words

Obsessing over boyfriend who does not always text back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello! My question I would like to be answered by both men and women but I would like to know a bit more what the men think as I cannot understand why my boyfriend behaves like this and would like some insight. I text my bf quite a lot, and sometimes I text that I love him... (284 words

I am worried about my early morning erections while I am on school camp

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi, i am 14 and always wake up with an erection. I hear that this is normal and naturally i can't help but masturbate, but i am going on a school trip and we will be in dorms. i dont want peopple to think that i am sick. so what can i do?... (53 words

I get scared when boyfriend wants to kiss

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - i always gets scared anytime my boyfriend wants to kiss or have sex with me what do i do please help me he wants to break up with me.... (29 words

My ex- boyfriend keeps stalking me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - So i recently broke up with my boyfriend who i was dating for 2 years. I am really worried because even though we are not together anymore, he keeps sending me messages and calling me in the middle of the night. I think he is a nice guy but he really creeps me out these days, ... (80 words

Irrational insecurities around boyfriend going out drinking?

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11 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Here is my problem. My bf of over a year has started to go out drinking with his friends more. It is about once a fortnight. I have just noticed that he is going out more and I feel terribly insecure and wonder if I am being irrational? We have been struggling for ... (287 words

Does My Baby's Father Really Want to Be With Us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am guilty of over explaining. So I am going to try and make this short and sweet. My significant other and I have been together for three and a half years. Nine months ago we had our first son together. This is my first child and his third. We've always talked about ... (190 words

Separation and other woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age - Hello, My husband got another apartment in other state because at first he said that he is tired to commute 4 days a week. I was having alcohol problem that time and I even did not think this is separation. After a couple months he said to me, that this is separation, he ... (426 words

How can I manage to do what I like when giving a blow job when he doesn't like it?

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11 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - My bf and i are having great sex thou it is not a 24/7 deal. i get it when the mood set right and the thing i enjoyed doing with him that i never did like with any other man i had in the past, is i like giving passionate heads.I use to give the best heads for him in the first ... (188 words

I don't understand my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid i dont get my friend she and i make plans together but in the end shes done it without telling me for example she ask me if i wanted to help her sell makeup and i said ya then 2 months later shes selling makeup on her own,or when i told her we should go to the club ... (273 words

She lied and then said it was my fault

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - dear users, Yesterday i got into kinda trouble with my relationship. But let's start from a very beginning. Im a 18 years old guy that is very jealous. She is almost 18 years old and loves to play rpg with guys. The games are played by two players. Their characters have ad... (285 words

My gf is angry at me for cheating with her friend and I don't understand why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for a few months (we got together at the start of last year (and broke up until November). In early December she and her best friend came to stay at my place for the weekend. Her friend ended up getting very drunk and tried to sleep with me. I... (519 words

3 months after break up, does she want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - So this girl and i dated and i thought it was a good relationship. I really put everything i had in there i would be open and honest with her. I told her everything and i treated her the best i have ever treated a girl. We broke up and i went no contact for a couple days. I ... (421 words

Do girls realize that they have hurt and lost their rebound and want to have them back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with a guy for 4 years plus. She went through a lot of emotional hurt with him. He is emotionally abusive, controlling and possessive too. She broke up but then went back to him many times thinking that he might change. A guy used to like her and she too ... (156 words

He's not happy with me! What can I do?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend an I have been together for bout a year now we have a 6 month old daughter together as well, an I just started back too work about a month ago as a cna an he's a welder, we don't spend a lot of time together but when we do we tend too fight bc we don't live with ... (140 words

Why is he having a harder time with his second divorce?

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11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - When is my boyfriend have a harder time with his second divorce. They have no kids togather she treated him like shit. His first divorce had two kids... (28 words

If I am TOO shy could that end up pushing away a boy I like?

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11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - I really like this guy. We've actually never spoken to each other before, but he gets along with a guy friend of mine, so I know what kind of guy he is. These past weeks we've been exchanging glances in the hallways and during our P.E. period. I've made it pretty obvious... He... (104 words

How do I get him to understand without losing him??

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend havent been dating very long (about two months) and we already had sex. The sex was completely consensual on both sides. Now that we've had sex a few times, he always gets horny when we are just laying on the couch and he tries sticking his hands down my ... (189 words

I have fallen hard for my best friend's bf, what do I do now??

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, my brother had a friend and I he was always was like a big brother to me. Until he kissed me one night in Fifth grade and we decided that we had too much of a brother/ sister relationship to ever continue on with a serious relationship. But as we grew up I noticed we were ... (235 words

My girlfriend loves to drink which I hate, any suggestions here??

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11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey i have a problem im 17 and so is my girlfriend we are currently in a long distance relationship. My problem isn't the distance its she likes to drink she doesn't do it often but when she does she goes over bored last weekend i was very ill and ended up being hospitalized ... (192 words

He wants nothing to do with me, I've changed, what can I do to win him back??

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend from Germany just left me, actually because of my destructive behavior that he couldn't handle. Now he is moved out and staying who knows where, and plans on going back to Germany in less than a week. I changed so much at the end of the relationship and I still ... (270 words

He has a drug problem, I may be pregnant, I really love him, what should I do??

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11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Idk where to start i just need someone to really talk to i have no friends or family to turn to. ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now but ive known him longer than a year and at 1st or relationship was great i guess u could call it the honeymoon phase but now ive ... (149 words

How do I talk to this girl? I get so nervous.

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11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl i had a class with. We talked all the time in it but now that class is over and i never find time to talk to her during school. I feel nervous and dont know what to say to her. She is a year older than me. I feel nervous to go up to her while she is with her ... (69 words

Would it be nasty if I receive oral sex from his close friend?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello!!! In Just going to get straight to it, would I be nasty if I received oral sex from this Guy if I use to have sex with his friend? OK me and the Guy who I use to Have sex with we don't talk, haven't talked in Like 7 months. They both liked Me, but the Guy who wants to... (349 words

How do I acheive a flat stomach?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid...if a person wants to have a flat stomach, how many situps would you advice them to do a day? Thank you... (23 words

I'm love sick.

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - I feel physically sick from the sadness and loneliness when I'm disappointed and hurt by the one I love, torn between forgiving or moving on. Being faced with the prospect I'll have to leave them stimulates this sick feeling. How can I deal with this sort of physical reaction? ... (50 words

I was in love with my ex and I don't want to use her as a rebound...Advice?

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11 March 2011 (M age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex close to a half a year ago, but because we were talking as friends I never really dealt with it. So it has been about 2 months since I have been dealing with it and I have gone through everything from being sad, to angry at her (I was pretty badly ... (505 words

Should I move in with him?

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11 March 2011 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 1 yr.., is planning of moving to las vegas and he wants me to move with him? Which means that we will be moving in together. aS MUCH As I like the idea but at the same time it makes me wonder if he ever has plan of marrying me. I dont want to push the marriage ... (161 words

Does my age have anything to do with why he doesn't want me to meet his parents?

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11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - Iam 26 my boyfriend is 38 he is going through his second divorce. I have not meet his parients yet. Does my age have anything to do with me not meeting his parients?... (33 words

Is he controlling or abusive?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I have been seeing, not dating with this guy for a couple months now, we have had a couple fights, every time his fault, and he comes running back to me, one incident I tried to ignore him and he kept contacting me once to my phone twice to my face book. Thinking it was cute ... (261 words

Do you think it can work out between a 17 yr old boy and a 20 yr old girl?

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - Do you think it can work out between a 17 year old boy and a 20 year old girl?... (19 words

My boyfriend has a checkered past, should I be worried?

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11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has had a checkered past with other women. He went through a phase of lots and lots of flings. Had several going at once. One of them was a married woman who stays in contact with him. Should I be worried? Thanks!!... (60 words

Is there a chance that I could be pregnant??

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone, im hoping you can help me, well i have been on birth control for about 6 months because my boyfriend and i started having sex, however about a month ago we broke up and i stopped taking birth control to see if my period is regular because i also have unregular ... (131 words

I had a falling out with them and I just want to forget I ever met them, but why are they still in my head?

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11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey, well i sorta need abit of help erm im 14 years old and i suffer from depression it was pretty bad and i situation happened about 2 months ago where i had to be hospitalized. But since then i have made a massive improvement and am slowly putting my life back together... (452 words

He makes crass sexual jokes. I don't really mind, but does it mean anything?

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11 March 2011 (F age 36-40 - does this guy like me or do you think he's just joking around ?. i've seen him in a bar in my home town three tiems now. the first time i saw him, i started dancing with him, which he didn't mind lol. the next time i saw him, i walked past him to go to the ladies room, and he ... (384 words

I've been in a casual relationship for 5 years...I would like to date other me, but can't.

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11 March 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a casual friends relationship with this guy for 5 years. I would like to date other men seriously, but cannot bring myself to do it. My question is how long should a casual "romance" really last. What makes him really want to continue seeing me for so long?... (52 words

What do you think about his actions??

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11 March 2011 (F age 30-35 - So i been with this guy for about 7 months and in november he cheated on me and thot it wasnt cheating when he made out with another girl anyway so now i still see him always staring at other girls when we together and if i try to hug or hold his hand he will reject me and it m... (168 words

I'm not going to be the in-between sympathy person again! How do I tell her this?

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11 March 2011 (M age 30-35 - well I have tried my best to avoid this girl because I know it will hurt me to see the one I love hook up with another guy. I have seen it before and I felt so sick for about a week. well that was 2 and a half weeks ago and I only talked to her once since then to kinda blow ... (417 words

Horny teenager or potential boyfriend?

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11 March 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey im 15 years old and im abit confussed. I have a friend whos a guy and well i fancy him a little bit but i think i perfer him just as a friend but im now starting to wonder does he like me ? Im completely not his type ! hes into like cut... (657 words

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