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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boy friend has Alcohol cravings. Can anyone give me any tips on dealing with this and the meds given to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has finally gone to the doctors on his own accord to try to suppress his alcohol cravings. Once he starts he cant stop. Its not all the time but its definately more frequent these days and he definately needs help. I can't push him to do anything more at the m... (101 words)

What am I doing wrong? Guys ignore me. Would going blonde help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. It may sound annoying to some of you because there are bigger problems but I have a bunch of friends and I wouldn't say that I'm ugly but I'm not going to say I'm drop dead gorgeous either. I'm about 5'3" and I weigh about 120. So I'm n... (168 words)

My husband's gambling is out of control. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well where do i start? Ive only been married for 8 months, you'd think it would be bliss still.... far from it. Everything has been fine, with ups and downs that have been delt with but now its just seems like its all falling down around me. my husband had gambled th... (150 words)

He broke up with me, so I deleted him from Facebook. Now he's upset with me! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've written about a million messages on here for help and now something else had added to the story.. So to sum it up, everything was cool with a guy I was seeing, really well actually, to a point where he wanted me to open up to him about my feelings but I wasn't really r... (335 words)

How can I trust my girlfriend? I'm convinced she's hiding something from me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope someone can help me. I'm a 21 year old girl and have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 years. Recently, she has become friends with a guy at work who she told me has sent her texts saying he wants to sleep with her, keeps asking her out for dinner and tells... (494 words)

I don't want to be a relationship/home wrecker. But what can I do if I can't stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was really into this guy two years ago. I got over him last year and a couple of days ago I saw him again and we hung out. He was really flirting with me so I flirted back. He is with someone and their relationship is on the rocks. I knew my boundries but he just kept at the ... (98 words)

I think I like him a lot more than it shows. How can I get him to recognise that we could be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please I really need help. Things are so messed up now. I’m 17 and a junior in high school. Ok I’m going to use some fake names so I can explain it easier. The guy I like is “Mike”. I’ve liked him for 3 years now. Whenever I tried to get over him it never worked so I gave up. ... (1156 words)

Does he really care? Am I being too insecure? His actions say he cares.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy fell for me really hard, actually we fell for each other. But he found me. From day one I knew he wanted to be with me. It took me a little longer. I wasn't ready for a relationship because of what I had been through and certain circumstances. He waited. After asking t... (997 words)

How do I determine if he does like me? He's way out of my league.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i this guy, but he's way out my league. i'm not sure if he likes me back even though he smiles at me and we talk during class. no one knows i like him and i don't no what to do because i'm really shy and have low self esteem. my confidence is really low to what should i do ... (111 words)

How can I break free? I know I will not get stronger unless he is not in my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've let my relationship consume me. I let him abuse me for two years now, and now that I've distanced myself from, he's decided to start changing. I know he can't change over night, and I'm starting to get back to my old self. I broke up with him, but he's been such a huge p... (156 words)

Marriage, security, trust, boredom vs. Lust, freedom, excitement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I Have been in a relationship for 5 years. We are total opposites. I am outgoing social butterfly he is a hermit. I love being the center of attention, talk non stop and love to laugh. He hates crowds, very quiet, and has few friends. Before him, I use to go out with friends ... (640 words)

Shall I move out and hope that it wasn't really a 'drunken mistake' for him or shall I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is an extended version of what I asked before - please give me opinions on this!!! The question is do I stay or go?? I met this guy a while ago through the place I live - he works here. I always had fun with him in meetings and we got on like a house on fire :... (266 words)

I'm in love with a married woman, and it is interfering with my life! How do I rid myself of these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a guy who has fallen in love with a married woman. I’ve known her since 2003 when I started working at the same organisation as her. I’ll call her Michelle (not her real name). In the beginning I had no interest in her at all. I was in a relationship and my life was ... (475 words)

Is it normal for a man to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a guy to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"? I would think its okay but I guess I just wanted to question it just to make sure I feel okay about him not wanting to spend time today.Well casue I asked him if we could ... (110 words)

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to forever. He then called m... (190 words)

We've been dating for a couple months, but he won't tell anybody he is seeing me, or call me his girlfriend. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm wondering if anyone can offer advice on the following problem I'm currently experiencing. I've been seeing a guy now for a couple of months and it's only within the last few days we have been intimate. He arranged for us to spend our first night together in a ... (221 words)

Is this childish banter or chemistry? Are they one and the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - By asking this question I must already have guessed my ending answer, but want to clarify some things if I can do... I work with a large group of people and have done so for around a year, the majority of them have been there for two years. I get on with the girls I'd say r... (466 words)

My boyfriend and I have been offered to join another couple for a foursome. I want to do it, but I don't want to ruin my relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my biggest fantasies is a foursome and recently some friends of my fiances saw my photo on his phone and basically asked straight out if we would consider doing a foursome as they love those kinds of things. The moment he came home he told me and had a laugh about it ... (361 words)

My husband drinks, lies, and hides things from me. Should I stay? And is there hope that he will change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a big drinker that hides his alcohol and drinks in private. He started lying to me a lot as soon as things were not so good between us. He hid things from me-even a phone call he got from his friend-simple things basically too. He wouldn't talk openly with me ... (337 words)

I just had a date with an old friend that I've had a crush on! Is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a crush on an old friend of mine. After many years, he recently wanted to 'hang out' as he ended up working in the same city as me...so we went out for coffee yesterday. It was like the date with a guy that I'd always wanted to have...finally happened. :) So both of... (330 words)

I'm trying to be more old-fashioned, so that he will be more interested. How do I get through this experiment without going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in our early/mid 30's and have been together several months. I could easily fall in love and being around him just makes me happy, but he is less into me. We both see dating as being about searching for a marriage partner, and he is willing to work on ... (207 words)

He lied to me about going out with friends, and now I feel like he wanted to get rid of me. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been a couple for almost 2 yrs. We love each other very much and we trust each other and we're getting married. Thing is, we went out last night and he told me he needs to be home earlier than usual because he's tired. Plus he's got stuff to do for ... (432 words)

I need opinions, on the letter I'm about to send her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there Dear Cupid I have a question on Romance, I'm young and naive when it comes to this so bare with me. As of three months ago my ex and I were forced to split up by her parents. We have known each other and been best friends for 7 years now, great lovers for 8, we ha... (1109 words)

I cheated, how can I get him to want me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is based on me cheating on my husband. Well didn't have sex but went and stayed with another man and he believes I didn't sleep with guy but says I wanted comfort from another man. Is there anyway to make him want me again? It's been almost a year since I did this. ... (359 words)

Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a crush on me and has banned him ... (298 words)

Am I overthinking this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. We live about an hour and a half apart and have been discussing moving closer together recently. I have been some what hesitant because she is allergic to cats and my parents have cats and I fear that will be a huge ... (118 words)

He's cheated on me, now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so i act like i never heard it... (111 words)

It feels like he's just not committed to us...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, Why are some guys so afraid of commitment? My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to 3 years now and we're both still early 20's. My ideal marriage age is somewhere between 24-26 but recently, he just told me he thinks anyone who gets married before a... (113 words)

Just out of curiousity....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age - Can a woman who had a full blown hysterectomy, orgasm? She had the misfortune in her mid 30s. She's now in her early 50s and I'm not sure if she can or she can't. ... (34 words)

Enoughs enough, but how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, living together for one. During this span of time she's done A LOT of pretty awful things that have really hurt me. About a year and a half ago, she had a hickey on her neck - that wasn't from me - that she tried to ... (682 words)

My team mate and girlfriend are close, is it all in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I don't really know what to start but its a very long and complicated problem between me and my partner, mainly around me struggling with trust issues. I have been with my girlfriend for 2, coming on to 3 years now. Everything was perfect until someone in my soccer tea... (546 words)

I can't help but worry about an up coming stag do..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guy readers, on what really happens on stag nights. I've been with my bf for 5 months. Everything's going great, he's told me he loves me and that he's really happy we're together. We've planned a weekend away later this year, but ... (223 words)

How do I get my model girlfriend to listen to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, my girlfriend is a model and shes doin nightwear stuff like dresses for party and stuff like that. and sometimes she has to do photos with guys. im a model too but i hate it when my gf is doing stuff with other male models. i only do tv commercials so thats ok... (201 words)

Does my gym instructor like me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys Out of curiosity as I am confused about it. I went weeks ago to this gym class for the first time. As it was my first time I didn't know all the exercises the instructor(who btw is cute) was showing me all the time and paying no attention to the other people. At some ... (251 words)

We're not official, do I have a right to feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for 3 and a half months... we are exclusive but not official... there are a number of reasons why we can't be official but if circumstances were different we would be... as you can see the status of our relationship is a little fuzzy... when we first ... (253 words)

Is he just comfortable and oblivious, or something worse..?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together about 6 months. We had a real fairy tale, firey start! Over time I've noticed he doesn't hang on me like he used to (and I crave that), he doesn't return texts as much, he never even actually said happy birthday to me (w/no good excuse for not ... (100 words)

What's the deal with his friend who thinks I'm ugly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend has this friend. Let's call him Joe. So Joe keeps telling my bf that I am ugly. Now Joe has only seen me in person once. He also does not have a girlfriend, just a bunch of different girls that he calls up for sex. Joe constantly shows my bf pics of the girl... (158 words)

How can I gain the confidence to be a better partner for my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I gain confidence when it comes to sex? (if your only going to look at my age and say I am too young leave don't even answer I want some help, not people criticizing me!) I know what I want to be like and what I want to do. But the second I am actually with my bf I... (182 words)

Her past makes me question whether I really want to lose it with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically, before we met, my girlfriend was sort of a slut. Because of this, im questioning if I want to lose my virginity to her. As a summary, by 16 she had slept with 2 guys, given oral to 5, and used sex toys, such as dildo's and vibes to increase her pleasure. She al... (303 words)

I miss my home, I miss my mum, I miss being in the countryside, but there are commitments that I have to fulfill in London....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i just dont know what to do! I'm a 21 year old girl from the countryside in a small town, i live with my mum as my dad died when i was 4 and i have no brothers or sisters so me and my mum are very close. i grew up there until i left home to go to uni in london last year and... (259 words)

He says I'm crazy and insecure and I need help yet he is the one who cant get over his ex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to start.:( My boyfriend has this ex who he can't let go of. She has been a big problem in our life. She lives far from us but that doesnt seem to matter. When I found out I was pregant he promised me he was done talking to her and that he wanted t... (397 words)

I told him I loved him and he said he loves spending time with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please take the time to read I would really appreciate ANY advice... I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who does a lot for me and I've fallen in love with him. We've been together 5 months, get on great and have a good physical connection, only problem is I tol... (583 words)

Why do I miss someone who I was allowing to tear my life to bits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - okay so i broke away from a girl a couple months ago who was a liar, entitled, promiscuous and bloody selfish. finally my life is getting back to normal. but then....why do i still miss her??? i mean, i know in my mind that i am conjuring up an image of her that is an ideal... (110 words)

Is he shy or has he lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age - has he lost intresed in me or is he shy ? the man i really like we still look at one another an he comes over an will hug me but its one of theses do not touch each other body . just a hug around my the middle of my back an i do him the same way . i see him looking at me when ... (210 words)

I love him but can't accept that he loves me too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont knw how to get this out...i was in relationship with a guy since 6yrs until v broke up last month...it was me who liked him,drew closer to him,known him n made a love proposal but later i realised that he loves me more than i do..he has been a sweetheart and was d first ... (253 words)

He gave me hopes of a future together and a lot of love...and now its all zilch. Have I been played?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short. I met this guy last year in an airport, we connected and didn't see eachother for 8 months but from time to time facebooked. Then in January he found out I was visiting his home town for a friends birthday and suggested he take me on a date. 6 weeks leading ... (368 words)

What nicknames do girls give to their vaginas?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. im 17 F. i know its a bit silly but my girl friends and i were talking about what nicknames we call our vaginas and we wanted to know more names. we came up with pussy, fluffy and gina. can you help? ... (47 words)

My "friend" interfered between me and my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im fed up, i was with this boy and his ex kept on getting involved and due to this we always used to argue. we then decided to just ignore her but then she got my friend involved. the boy i was with has a baby from a pervious realtionship and now his ex and my friend has been ... (198 words)

How do I resist the urge to look up filth on the internet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. It's me again. I have a psychological problem or maybe just a bad habit. I keep looking up pornography on the internet (sometimes vision of drunk women being taken advantage of) and I feel guilty about it later on. I once spoke to an expert about it, and he was unable to ... (122 words)

Will my feelings for him return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A month ago I broke up with my bf of 2 years, we had some issues that we never talked about, and this led to a lot of frustration and irritation my behalf. During this period I lost my feelings for him. We met again a week after the breakup to talk, and we sorted out a lot of ... (149 words)

I'm feel like I'm in over my head already!

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this person not even a week ago through a friend. we were on a night out and to be honest, i hardly spent any time with him until the night was over and we went back to the mutual friends place although he was the first person to speak to me when we all met up. so were ... (235 words)

Life is passing me bay and I'm just standing still.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there are a lot of pleas for help on how not to be so lonely and how to make more friends but here is mine, another to add to the list! The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends wh... (678 words)

I have a phobia of sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a phobia of sex and cant sleep with a man at all. im very loney as i cant have sex so a relationship will not work out and i am scared to give birth so will never have any children. i have no idea why this is because nothing bad has ever happen to me at all. i cant ever ... (81 words)

I wasted my chance of happiness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to date this girl a year ago. I knew she was special from the start but i didnt take her seriously. So ended up not talking to each other for a year. Little did i know that she was actually really in love with me when we were dating and even after we broke up. So i feel ... (179 words)

He's always looking out the window!

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - He's always looking out the window. He read the paper, did his paperwork, chatted on the phone and would played games with friends, while stood at the window. He used to jump out of bed at the weekend to start washing up (in the sink in front of the window). He was laughing one ... (408 words)

I want to see my old friend but her husband won't let her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, I normally post about one situation, but finally I would like to ask something new! I have a long-time friend. We dated when we were in college. This was 16 years ago. We were friends first, then we became romantically involved for a few months, then were off and on for a... (410 words)

Does she think I'm insincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, got a small problem. I have never been in a relationship, but I am getting close to one of my good friends. I make it my policy to tell her everything that I do, be it seeing my other female friends or things i have done in my day. However I recently kept two things ... (320 words)

I caught my boyfriend looking at bikini clad women's pics and viewing porn!! Its driving me mad! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i woke up to find my boyfirend looking and loads of girls facebooks looking at nothing but their picture, expecially ones in bikins etc, he then denied it and said ment nothing, after he admited it he seemed really upset and sorry for what he had done , so i forgave he but have ... (134 words)

Unhappily married....what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I got married at Christmas past. For about six months before the wedding I thought that it didn't feel right but put it down to pre-wedding nerves. Since we have been married (only 2 1/2 months) I have become desperately unhappy. I don't want to be in this relation... (197 words)

When is the right time to stop flirting with her and finally ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently joined a club at uni and got to know the committee members. All of them are very friendly and very nice. I didn't have any problems talking to all of them and being my usual self by laughing and teasing them. I felt very confident and happy when I was talking with ... (170 words)

Am I being too sensitive over my bf's habit of revealing too much in casual conversations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a nice guy a couple of months ago. I have never married, he's divorced with 3 kids. We get along really well in most respects. My problem is he when he chats to me or my family or meets my friends, the story he is telling often involves (in my opinion) too many personal ... (215 words)

I am torn between my bf and my parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.i have recently told my parents my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend and asked for their permission to marry. i am really attached to my family and him also. At no point of time in my life have they made some mistake in my upbringing. They have given everything i needed. ... (197 words)

My ex-fiance suffers from depression and is hot and cold...but I feel like I want her back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, We been together 4.5 years in a distance relationship. We got engaged and we planned a wedding next year. I noticed lately she has been talking much about the distance and told her my plan was the original, me going there. Unfortunately when we had fights, I te... (550 words)

What are some ways to tighten your vagina, aside from kegels??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Blegh..Look: I'm sure I'm just "asking" to be mocked here, but the thing is..I was with a guy for a good while (the only guy I've ever been with). We've been broken up for a long while (about two years)and I've started dating a really good friend. We're doing really well tog... (158 words)

My bf says I'm the "one" but acts uninterested in me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and I love him more then ever but I'm confused. He tells me that I am the "one" always and that I'm different from all his ex's because there something special about me. Both his parents also tell me that they know that he ... (128 words)

Does he really really like me or am I just another girl to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have liked this guy this year. His class is next to mine and we are friends. He is a really friendly guy and talks to everyone. He is more close to girls than guys, but he is not a player type. He also has this habit of staring into to peoples eyes when talking (so its not ... (364 words)

Now he's blocked me and it looks like it's all over. First I dated his friend then him. How can I resolve this. Heartbroken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am totally confused and have never had to deal with anything like this. The story is sort of long but let me break it down for you. I met X, a younger guy, through a friend. I was going through a break up and while X was never someone I would be serious about, I thought it... (360 words)

He's irresistable. He's girl crazy. How can I make him fall for me?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this one guy in my university, who is so hot, sexy and so nice at heart who is two years older to me. he is irresistible for every girl. he is a real boy friend material, he is really too sweet with me. but the problem i have is he is girl crazy. he might have slept... (178 words)

He has a girl friend. He flirts with me. Could there be a chance for us? He's two years older than me

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, This guy and I have been friends for a few months, and we've already gotten close. He makes me laugh, and it's just so much fun being with him! But he's the kind of guy that would say flirty stuff, but you have to know that he's just joking around. But sometimes he... (231 words)

Should I just cut my losses? He makes so little time for me. How can I get him off the computer?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years is increasingly emotionally distant. I am one that needs bonding time, and he is a robot. He prefers to spend his time with video games and other electronics, rather than with me.I have told him countless times that this really bothers me. I am ... (163 words)

My parents are concerned but he's a great boyfriend. But I am worried I will get to resent him for being away so long. What should I do?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a Marine who is 21 and I'm 22. We've been dating "officially" for about 9 months now but we liked each other throughout high school. He deployed last October for 7 months and will go on his next deployment later this year . It'll be another long deployment overseas... (311 words)

I saw many signs to make a relationship. So why did she say no to me?

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i didn't fall in love but i like somebody. there are some girls and i like them. recently i talked with one of them to make a relationship. she quickly answered NO. many times i made eye contact and there was many signs to impress her and she knew that i liked her. i know... (74 words)

I'm 33, never dated. and my social skills are poor. Is there any hope I will ever get a date?

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 33 years old and have no real social skills and have never been on a date. I had really bad OCD when I was a kid and couldn't talk to people without repeating myself so I just stayed alone. I've been on medication since I was 13 for depression, OCD, and anxiety, so I've ... (419 words)

Is time all I need? How will I ever be sure how I feel about her? I keep doubting my own feelings

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - It's been just about 2 months since my ex and I broke up, and I've been feeling quite better. I've been noticing, however, that I've been focusing more inward, as of late. I feel as if each day goes by, i focus more and more on myself and look further inward, and I've been conf... (431 words)

He calls me mean names, says I do not love him. What should I do about my married lover?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a married guy. He has been married for six years and we have been having an affair for five years. He has two children with his wife. but he says that he loves me a lot. i also love him a lot.. i need him. i really need him and we both cant live without e... (323 words)

Is she interested in me? I do not see it, but would like other opinions please

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3 March 2011 (M)

age - I am a single who has a married couple as friends I am more friends with the wife, who calls me a lot and invites me over for dinner and with the both of them. She likes to drink wine with me she says I make her laugh and even says she saves my phone messages, to listen to la... (99 words)

How can I explain things to my wonderful supportive boyfriend and my friends so they can understand my depression has nothing to do with them?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always suffered from depression. It's not all the time, but it is fairly severe and hard to pull out of. My wonderful supportive boyfriend and other friends don't understand it and take it personally. They get upset because they can't make me happy. How can I help t... (63 words)

I want to lose my virginity. But she is adventurous and much more experienced. Is my disgust at this acceptable?

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Although I am semi-religious, I have never accepted the idea of saving yourself to marriage to have sex.. That may have worked back in the old days, but now, society has evolved in a way that sex is almost mandatory for a healthy relationship. That being said, I have cur... (508 words)

Are we in an emotional relationship or a physical relationship? I am confused. And she is upset with me.

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me give you a little background. I started dating this girl around 3 months back and I'm of Indian ethnicity and she is also of Indian ethnicity. We both hold some traditional views about sex before marriage -- that it shouldn't be done before marriage. I have little dati... (541 words)

Should I tell my best friend how far my boy friend went? He's told his best friend.

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boy friend and I have been dating for over a year, and we are in love. Yes, our relationship has gone all the way, as in sex. I understand he told his best friend, and I trust him too. I want to tell my best friend too, but I am afraid it will somehow, by the way my schoo... (83 words)

He only wants to be friends. He's angry with me. What is the best advice for me?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hurt Him - in a talk, he got angry..he thinks we better stay as just friends now He thought l am not mature enough for a relationship, that it will not work out So even though it is hard but he only wants to be 'just friends' now He doesn't want to meet me at this moment, but ... (218 words)

My life feels all mucked up. What can I do?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It was an accident!!! But... I kissed my SS teacher. Then he told me to leave. He was helping me after school cuz ive been out for a week because i was sick. And he was being really funny and nice and it was only me and him. He was sitting next to me and said "good job. Y... (145 words)

I feel like we're Romeo and Juliet. How can we prove to each other's worlds that we really do love each other and want to find happiness together?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this really sweet wonderful guy who is alot older than me. We met about two months before my dad passed away and he was absolutely wonderful and supportive. My mom liked him. His daughter liked me. We had some really bad events occur in the realtionship, and we behaved ... (194 words)

Should I just keep going along with it or should I just end it all and stop talking to him?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy a grade above me, and I'm pretty sure he's the one I'm meant for. Okay so maybe not forever, but at least for the rest of my years in high school. Anyway, ever since I moved to my current city (four years ago) I've been totally head over heels for this kid... (230 words)

The girl whom I fell in love with online was a liar and cheated on me. Its so hard to move on now...

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys let me explain. Back in january I got on a teen chatting site as I used to for about 4 or 5 months and met a girl (who I will call M from now on). I didnt take M seriously, she was just fun to talk to. She stopped getting on because she had semester exams and got back ... (760 words)

How can I move on from my ex?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I dated for a year, we're both 15, and we broke up 2 months ago. He was the first guy I dated for a long time, and we had sex a couple times. I miss him. I'm not sure if it's that i miss him so much as i miss having someone there for me the way he was, and he has ... (138 words)

My boyfriend accessed my facebook account behind my back...and I am mad at him! How do I approach him about this?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - oh man, okay. so i've been with my boyfriend for a bit above a year now, and i thought i could trust him more than anything. when i logged into my facebook today it said my account had been accessed by someone in the exact same location as where he lives, AND he's the only one... (131 words)

Is it fair for me to date other girls, knowing full well that whatever feelings I have for them, can never match up to what I felt for the girl I truly love(d)?

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3 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'd really appriciate the benifit of everyone's oppinions and experiances on this :) Appologies for the length. The problem started when I developed an unrequited love for a girl across the best part of three years and things didn't go well. Things between u... (216 words)

He talks about marriage, which for some reason terrifies me!

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy for what will be 3 months March 6th. He is AMAZING. He loves me to death and I love him just as much, if not more. And I want to be with him forever. Now, I know I'm still in highschool, so I'm being realistic and I know how we may not even make it ... (254 words)

Did I do the right thing in dumping him?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey y'all, So, uh, I don't normally ask for help, ever, but I just broke up with my boyfriend, Justin, and need help. I broke it off because he told my best friend, Erica, that he loved her, kept on complimenting her..... chest, and asked her to kiss him. He even said he ... (140 words)

Is kissing one's friends and fooling around a little ok, even if you have a partner?

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3 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Not exactly a problem, but simply out of curiosity: is kissing one's friends (as in french kissing) and fooling a little around ok, even when you have a partner? In my circle of friends it's pretty common that we kiss each other, a gesture that would translate as a h... (162 words)