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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My bestfriend always takes jokes too far and hurts me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Agony Aunts Please help a month ago a fell out with one of my bestfriends ill call him ken (not his really name)me and ken had fallen out in the past before because he used to make jokes about my personal apperance which soon turned into serious bullying. ... (907 words)

I have a perfect relationship since a young age, but friends have said I'm missing out..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i am now 19 and have been going out with my boyfriend for four and a half years. He is the only guy i have seriously been with and well, the only guy ive been with (vice versa). I have a tight knit group of friends and we have all been hanging out for nearly 8 years, so we ... (220 words)

Who should make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months and I got into an argument where he mentioned we need to pull back. SInce then we have not been talking to each other. It has been 11 days...What should I do? Be the mature one and talk it out or let him come to me since he's the one who initiated the ... (60 words)

What to think about now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well my ex ldr just called me up wanting to tell me some thing that she has hpv. I asked her what it was in now Im freaking out. And now I ask her if she is seeing some one else and she said yes. Why would you keep on calling me about gay ass shit I think she is trying to play ... (77 words)

He's cheated on me, am I overreacting by what I'm asking of him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im kinda confused and i hope that somebody can help me.ive been in a relationship with this guy for 5 months now. he cheated on me at the very beginning. but i did forgive him, because we hadnt been together that long and maybe he didnt take us serious at the time. Then, ... (310 words)

Is my ex trying to tell me something or am I reading into things too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About this time last year an ex of mine (who i was with for over a year a half by the way) split up with me and immediately found a new girlfriend who he's been with since we broke up. A month after we'd broken up he started a conversation with me out of the blue, and it was... (345 words)

I dated a jerk and my friends still think he is the best guy in the world...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I think the guy I went out with was a sociopath: His whole life was a lie. Everyone believed it. It was the worst experience I have gone through. The first year of the relationship was fine. Then all of a sudden this guy turned into a monster. I didn't know what was go... (184 words)

He got an erection from just cuddling?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ... (33 words)

I believe I have OCD and its only getting worse...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I'm a 15 year old girl, and I have serious case of OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder.) I have had it ever since i was about 11years old. I'm not really sure what to do about it, I have not been diagnosed with it, but all the signs are pointing in the the directio... (209 words)

Does No-Contact (NC) Works on failing relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Does NC (No Contact) rules really works. My bf of 2 years is not attentive to me as he was before, he often ignores me and i am the one who always initiate the conversation. I am planning to use NC for few days and see how that goes. I like to know whether NC works at... (72 words)

Boyfriend is afraid of work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have been dating my current boyfriend for about a year now. Very early in the relationship we decided to move to another city and live together (after about 4 months of dating). We have now been living together for about 8 months. I love this guy a lot but my problem ... (336 words)

I've fallen for another man, but what do I tell my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for ten years now, i always thougt i had found my soulmate. now im not so sure i have been spending alot of time talking with another man whom i have great feelings for and i know he feels the same way, he wants me to leave and move out of country to be ... (138 words)

He lied to me again..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple of months now, and we have been having an amazing time, I heard a rumor that he slept with my friend, I confronted him about and he SWORE to me he did not, explaining everything, and I just got it confirmed that he has been ... (103 words)

I want a boyfriend but boys in my area don't take any interest. what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want a boyfriend but ive tryed alot of stuff and i dont know what to do. Im 14 years old and ive been wanting a boyfriend for about two years now i know im young but i really want someone to call my own. The last boyfriend i had was two years ago when i was 12 i... (515 words)

Does he like me or hate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I used to text and meet up with this guy who lives up the road from me. He's 17 and I'm 15. Before he lied to me and said he didn't have a girlfriend and we kissed. When I found out he had a girlfriend I stopped talking to him and completely blocked him off and I even ... (378 words)

What is the answer for a sexually frustrated woman who isnt looking for casual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I still think about my ex a lot, and we had a rather sexy convo via e mail last week, and it has happened before. I don't want him back and he lives so far away. I never initiate contact (or very rarely). The ... (233 words)

Teenaged boy needs advice on sexual relationship with girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im 16 years old and in my first sexual relationship.i've been reading other questions off a similar subject and the sex life in question has taken months to droop. i am worried because i have only been in this relationship for almost 4 months and i am lucky if we even make out. ... (200 words)

Ladies can you tell me what is going on here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known this woman for over a year now, we go to church together at a smaller church. I had left for a bit, and returned, and decided to ask her to coffee. Finally after a week or so we met up, and it was great, and we talked for about 3 hours. When we left she gave me a ... (670 words)

Getting involved with married colleague??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is the first time I have used a forum for advice. I know a lot of people will judge me negatively but all constructive comments are really appreciated. I have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 6 months. I love him very much- we have been through man... (231 words)

He likes this other girl, should I still tell him about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in college and I like this very mature and nice boy who happens to be one of my good friends. I just realized how much I like him despite the fact that we are sort of different: I'm always out on weekends but he usually spends time with friends. Nevertheless, we ... (180 words)

When a man sees more than one woman..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I am seeing as another women he sees. I have asked him if he has a gf or sees others and he tells me no. He has no idea I know. So when we are together we have a good time. Laugh cuddle tells me nice things. He acts as if we are in a relationship. Tells me I am ... (107 words)

Never had a boyfriend and I'm feeling really pathetic

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I never dated anyone, never been really approached by anyone - I won't mentioned the weirdos in the trains that use to hit on everything wearing a bra - and I sometimes told a guy of my feelings, just to be rejected every time. I stopped counting the rejections after a while ... (467 words)

Any way to naturally enhance breasts by next month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of five months will be visiting me next week for the first time and am desperately in need of breast enhancement. . .i have a very small breast and i don't want him to see me this way. Pls can you guys give me any tips that will enlarge my breast before next ... (72 words)

My new boyfriend is waaay to clingy....help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that i literally just started dating. He's really sweet, and seriously romantic...If he doesn't let up i'm gonna go postal. We went out to a movie less than a week ago, he's texting me constantly, shows up at my work because he says he misses me. Texts me at 1 ... (128 words)

How much should guys know about their significate others day to day life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How much should guys know about thier significate others day to day life? My husband and I were channel surfing last night and i stoped on Dr. Phil just to see what the subject was about. It was about 12 am so there was not much choice on TV. He asked me "you watch Dr Phil" I ... (285 words)

I'm feeling weak and alone, will anyone help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately I began thinking to myself wow My life is pretty great, then suddenly things have been beginning to change, My friends are starting to seperate from me, suspicious I question this, Only to find out what they truely think of me, If Im happy they find me annoying, If I'm ... (171 words)

Should I wait or pursue her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm in quite a predicament at the moment. My love life, while not the most exciting, is pretty stable. My last relationship lasted over a year. I don't date too often, but when I do, it's usually long lasting a serious. I've liked a girl for a while now. I denied it and ... (173 words)

How can I get her to forgive me....she read an old email that I never sent.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend recently just looked through my email account, I have never given her my password or permission to look through my account. She saw a draft of an email a while back addressed to her. It was written at a time when we had split up and I was angry. It was a horrible ... (149 words)

What would you do if you were me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - lately my exboyfriend's been acting weird. Last monday i missed my bus stop so i had to get off at my ex's. As i was getting off I noticed he was standing where he used to wait for me when we were dating. As i was getting off i was talking to another guy and we were laughing. I ... (270 words)

My boyfriend goes to see his son and ex wife every few weeks and stays with them in the house for few weeks and it is killing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. I love him to bits and I know he loves me too. he has been divorced for about 9 years and he has a son aged 10. His ex wife and son live abroad. he works month ON / Month off, when he is off, he comes to see me for few days ... (363 words)

He wants to remain "just friends" but I want more...how do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy, who I met through going to Mind for help with confidence (he is 10 years older than me, and we tried getting close once a few months ago, at his flat, but because of his problems. The next day he told me he could only be a friend, and thats the way it has to ... (352 words)

Should I give him one last chance or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Finally my boyfriend want's to do everything to make me happy(Now) .I afraid it's too late .He has hurt me so much that it's just too hard for me to trust him again When he said something ,he did something hurtful else ,for years .I am thinking of leaving .I really don't care ... (98 words)

How do I keep my mind on my studies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is kinda weird but..here i go my exams are going on,and i just cant concentrate on my studies.i keep thinking about my bf,and i want to keep on talking,any advice?... (34 words)

Should my morals get in the way of feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I have been talking to this boy for a few weeks now, he added me on a networking site after he seen me at a party. We have a lot of mutual friends and all of them have told me about him, all have said he is very nice and easy to get along with and everything about ... (179 words)

Is there a way to help this penis problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello sir/ma'am, i am 23 years old and unmarried. i have a penis problem.. my penis is too small and not strong... when my penis erect he is only 4 inches long and not strong.. and when my penis sleeps he totally goes inward the body and i only see the cap of the penis ... ... (78 words)

I am always horny

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old boy I get horny for most of the day thinking about having sex with girls. I can't help it, but i love thinking about sex and thinking about having it. I masturbate at least 4 times a day I need a girlfriend How can i try and stop being such a horny person... (63 words)

Although he didnt cum, could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys , i am really in a bad situation.Me and my boyfriend played two days ago with no protection.Nothing went inside,he said he didn't cum , but i saw he did pre-cum.Is there a chance i could get pregnant if he pre-cumed near my vagina(even though he didn't cum that day,so ... (130 words)

Disappearing after a bad breakup

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, Im about to disappear. About 6 months ago my longtime boyfriend of 6 years decided to leave me for another woman. He moved right in with her when he left 'our' place. A couple weeks after that, I found out through an old friend he had been cheating with 'numerous' women ... (254 words)

I want our first kiss to be wonderful

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...im 16 i want advice should i kiss my boyfriend? he has already kissed me on the cheek yesterday.should i do it too? please give some tips and advice cause i want it to be nice and memorable,i dont want anything embarassing to happen. thanks... (46 words)

My girlfriend seems SO depressed! How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I really need advice about my partner. We're lesbians, just incase there's any confusion. I'm not really sure to start but basically I'm concerned about my partnr and our relationship. I love my girlfriend so much. I want to be with her for the rest of my life and... (543 words)

What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just wonder and this is my Q that do ... (85 words)

Should I leave the other guy and fix things with the boyfriend and father of my baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4816 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I need advice big time. Well I have a boyfriend I’ve been with for 7 years and we have a daughter whose 3. My boyfriend and I met when I was in middle school and we got pregnant at the age of 16 and had the baby and kept going to school. Recently in July I m... (505 words)

Bleeding but scared to see a gynae doctor

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this weird problem that Im a virgin 32 year old and still not been able to give in to my guy, even though I fantasize so much and so wanna have sex but even the mere thought makes me so wet that now I even bleed while Im with him and extremely wet that my clothes even ... (140 words)

Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

8 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking at it? If so, what exactly? ... (103 words)

I've been seeing this guy for 3 months, and I just found a hair clip in his bed that belongs to his ex. Should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. He contacts me every day, makes me laugh, is sweet to me and we enjoy out time together. I was really falling for him and felt an amazing connection I usually don't have with anyone. He asked me a few times to open up to him ... (321 words)

Am I imagining emotional abuse? I am so desperately confused! Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

8 March 2011 (?) age - My husband (of 16 years) is an intelligent, kind man. He does not drink or abuse drugs. He is not violent. He does not gamble. I can see eyes rolling and people asking, "So, what's the problem?" We've been together 21 years in all, and it's confusing and upsetting to find mys... (1214 words)

I think my friend is falling for me, and now I'm falling for him! I don't want to lose our friendhip though. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I know some of you will relate to this. I have a close friend, he's a guy. We've been friends for a long time, and as time goes by it seems like more than just a friendship, it’s like a mutual understanding. We are really very close. His parents know me, and my ... (205 words)

I can't seem to get a grip on him does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Does this guy like me? I'm usually good at telling if a guy likes me, I just can't seem to get a grip on this one. Whenever I'm with him, there's a strong sense of tension. Sexual tension? I think. It isn't helped by that bloody smirk he always has when he's talking with me.... (335 words)

Do guys say things to their girlfriends without thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for a year and a half now, he suffers from severe anxiety so every now and then he likes to be alone as he gets frustrated being around the same person for too long. today in the car he told me, "sometimes i want to marry you so i can keep you for... (77 words)

He's married, has a kid and wants me to have his baby. Will he leave his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy who is 14 years older then me . we worked together. so we started to hang out togther to find out that his lives with his girlfriend for over 13 years and they have a 11year old together . but i could stop hang with him because he understood me . So we did do ... (172 words)

Why cant this guy commit to this realtionship? Or is it age difference

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does actions truly speak louder than words. Ive being in a relationship for 4 months he is older than me. I dont see him alot even though we live really close to each other. We go out for meals and to the cinema and stayed in a hotel after a night out. He is really nice to me ... (315 words)

Do girls masturbate without thinking of boys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend. i am in a relationship for the past 1 year. we started speaking of sex and all for quite some time now. initially she would tell me that she loved someone else and had slept on the arm of her classmate in d school while in class. but now she says all that ... (110 words)

How long should I wait for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl a year ago, things didn't work out via pointless drama since then, and she moved away for school. (She was moving away anyway) As we were friends before and decided to continue being friends we kept tabs on each other occasionally. A year later she comes ... (270 words)

Boyfriend wants everything his way and doesn't care about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting really annoyed with my so-called boyfriend. I just can't reason with him anymore... even when I try to be fair and do things equally, it's still not good enough. For example, if we're arguing over which film to watch, I'll say "Okay, we'll watch your one this time ... (100 words)

My girlfriend lied to me about being a virgin and its really eating away at me now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I am in a comiteed relationship from last 4-5 years. When i had sex with my girlfriend for the first time i knew that she is not virgin, i often used to ask but she always refused, but some time back because of my forcing she told me that she was not not a virgin a... (211 words)

I don't know how to approach my boyfriend with this issue.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had sex before but am with someone now who i trust enough that i have started to consider losing my virginity to them. We have touched on the subject briefly but i'm not so good at talking about my feelings in general so he doesn't actually know that i'm a virgin. ... (159 words)

After everything he's done, now he wants me back..I don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so we broke up a little bit after our 5th anniversary because he said he doesn't want to ever hurt me. after TWO MONTHS of practically no contact (we did speak two times on the phone 4 a little while) he sends me a message saying he regrets breaking up with me, he slept with at ... (491 words)

I'm in love with my female teacher and at a complete loss about what to do? Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and have been in love with this teacher for about 2 and a half years now :/ I first met her when I was 13 and I didn’t like her very much at all. Then she became my teacher. In that term I realised that I didn’t hate her but instead I desperately need... (650 words)

He doesn't reply for hours!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My problem is that my boyfriend always texts back after an hour or two or even sometimes not at all in the odd rare occassion - sometimes i text him again later on to see if i get a reply, normaly which i do - usually saying he is sorry and he is doing something... b... (417 words)

I'm having body issues and I don't know how to control them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have got so much great advice on this website, I don't feel very uncomfortable asking this. I have a minor issue to overcome, I get 'over excited' at nothing which leads me to be insecure. I'm currently getting to know a lady better, when ever we are walking in a par... (197 words)

Dissillusioned - I think she's cheating but I have no proof..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Like my name says, I'm disillusioned and confused. I married my wife 27yrs ago and knew she wasn't a virgin. It bothered me at first but after she told me how it happened, I decided to live with it, after all, I also lost my virginity to someone else. About 4yrs ago I had to ... (295 words)

She is obsessive & I don't know how to handle it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriendd and I have had a relationship for the past 17 months. but she has become so obsessive , she never let's me see my friends..because she thinks they are a bad influence..when they're not. she gets jelous when I lay eyes on another women, and I never have time to ... (103 words)

I used my partners email to set up a Facebook account, now I have no privacy..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have no privacy when i first set up facebook account i did so useing my partners email add,it was his idea.an also i did,nt have email add cus i only recently started useing a computer.unknown to me i did,nt know everytime i got contacted on facebook my stuff would end up ... (149 words)

Why is he apologising now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My Exboyfriend texted me to say "I am truly sorry for all that I did to you. I hope things are well, I miss you (petname)." He cheated on me and left me for another woman 6 months ago. We were together 6 years. He has sent a couple messages like this in the past couple months ... (66 words)

Is she avoiding me because she is not interested in me? Or is she embarrassed about our "fun" night together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, this feels stupid but here we go. This girl is a friend of a friend, they are not like my best friends or anything, infact i bumped into them at a bar. There was attraction as I find her extremely attractive and there was this slight nervousness always. In fact I ador... (814 words)

How can you tell if he loves you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - he is 5yrs elder to me.. (im 22, he is 29) .. treats me like a kid, cares for me, calls me often .. I have totally fallen for him for the way he treats me .. I know him for many years thought we were not in touch. its only recently, after I met him we are in regular contact.... (98 words)

Anyone have any tips on stop being stiff and nervous around attractive women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm getting better at socializing with strangers, but women that I find attractive are still a wall that I'm struggling to overcome. Anyone have any tips on stop being stiff, nervous, and afraid that they're judging my every move and next sentence that stumbles out of my mouth? ... (123 words)

My relationship is causing me so much stress, that I can't think straight. ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

8 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry up front for the long post. I have a lot on my mind and this is as short as I could possibly make it. I'm having trouble trusting my girlfriend lately and frankly, as things stand now, I have a strong urge to break up with her. We've been together for a bit over a year ... (1212 words)

We like eachother, but we can't be together..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to confess. My boss and I get along very well naturally and we soon became friends. He has a girlfriend and a kid but his gf left his 2 months ago and brought the kid with her. He was devastated and felt alone and i was kind of alone as well and we started hanging ... (946 words)

Is what I've seen in porn true?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, Aunts there i have a question in my mind, it may sound silly, but still i just want to know the opinion from different people. I've heard that the intercourse can last for more than half an our before men cum. is that true? i mean, don’t men get tired or even hurt... (139 words)

Not only is my husband of 13 years registered on a dating site, he is looking for transvestites, transsexuals and cross-dressers!!!

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have recently found out that my husband of 13 years is registered on a dating site, and if that isn't bad enough he is looking for transvestites, transexuals and crossdressers. I am so upset I haven't been able to eat or sleep, I don't know how to deal with this. I don't ... (66 words)

My dream girl is kinda seeing my friend (but denies it, as she doesn't know he's told me what's gone on). What can I do here?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, Hoping for a bit of help on this one...So, a couple of days ago there came an oppotunity to meet one of my sister's firends for the first time as we both know a mutual friend (A guy friend). It was on a night out at a nightclub and I didn't speak to her much and tha... (627 words)

My girlfriend is mad because I did not share a secret with her. What do I do?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What do i do when my girlfriend of 6 months doesn't trust me any more due to me just finding out a secret from my past? As soon as i found out the secret i told my present girlfriend and she is upset because i didn't tell her sooner but i am just aware of the news as she ... (72 words)

Everyone loves me...except the one I want.

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm just a high school student . im famous in our campus because i'm pretty, smart and talented but i've never been interested with having a boyfriend .. until i realized that i am in love with my guy best friend. he knows it for a friend of mine told him. what should i do? ... (69 words)

Can you no longer be considered a virgin if there is no penetration?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you define virginity? How do you lose it? I know the most known reason when there is penetration by the male organ? How about plain masturbation? Can you still be considered a virgin if a man touched your p***y or did cunnilingus but no penetration occurred? Just wo... (58 words)

Is there any point in pursuing anything other than friendship with him?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there's this guy at one of my jobs whom I like a lot. The other day, he mentioned how he should take me out sometime but, "Not as a date", which I hoped was a positive sign. Later on, I approached him and asked if we could make it a date. He then explained that he ... (107 words)

My boyfriend hasn't told his dad about us for 3 years

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for three years now. We started dating when I was 15 and he was 16. Now three years later I am 18 and he's 20 he still has not told his father about us. He is Muslim and I am catholic and his father is somewhat religious. My parents ... (199 words)

I pictured my life with him, how do I move on?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im really depress and this ant good for me cause Im 37wks pregnant by my boyfriend that I been knowing since I was 16 now im 21 im so deep in love with him but he left me 2wks ago :"( im cryn over him most of the day he dnt texts are call mei didnt do nothing for him to ... (125 words)

Depression: red flag?!!?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - well, I found this guy on a dating website, we got on pretty well, he asks to meet me (after a really long time, like two months) we meet, it's OK no more, he seems a bit down and mentions two broken marriages at age 38. The second date is better, some sparkle, he asks me out ... (239 words)

He wants to take pictures

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time we go for a real hot time, he always wanted to take pictures of me playing with him. He said he is having more pleasures on that. Just like a porn picture. Is this normal? Is he a perv?... (44 words)

How should I tell him to back off

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to hurt him, but he doesn't seem to like to take anything I say seriously which is possibly leading to a bad situation. I met someone at a college party. He asked for my number, which I declined because I never date anyone I meet at a party or the pub. So ... (192 words)

Why on earth did my boyfriend want to inspect my hand?? It was so weird!!

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a quick little story and would like some opinions! I was with my boyfriend today and he asked to see my hand, I put my hand out and he said to put it up to his. So I did and watched him almost like inspect my hand. He especially did so to my fingers. When I asked ... (150 words)

Could something be going on between my wife and her co-worker?

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8 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My wife and I both 38 were distant for about 8months or so...married 10yrs with 3 kids, BUT I still wonder???????? Her friends husband(co-worker) had been texting each other every day at least 25-50 times.Sometimes no kidding 80 times a day.. I am not the jealous type. I ... (221 words)

I look like a 'porn star' but I want to attract older man, because I am serious inside. Should I tone it down a notch?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question I am a 24year old woman that is attracted to older man mid thirties especially 36 37 year olds. I love the confort of a mature man. BUT i was wondering I am very self conscious and typically look like a always nice and dressed up. Some people say I have thi... (239 words)

I don't want him to be bored, I just don't want the complications that come with sex

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months and as it usually happens in any relationship the subject of sex came up... I told him how I didn't think sex in high school was a good idea for many reasons pregnancy, not being really emotionally ready, parents finding out ... (175 words)

My exwife has trained my 9 year old daughter to hate my fiance.

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My 9 year old daughter has been trained by my ex wife to hate my fiancé. My daughter refuses to be near her so, when my kids are with me, my fiancé is not. To make matters worse, my daughter's therapist seems to be enabling the hate. This has been going on for almost two years ... (103 words)

According to him I am selfish...

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - To anyone that can help, I am so lost and feel so alone. My husband of 6 years and I have not been in a good place for a while. Many things have happend over the past 2 years that have put a strain on things. Just when I think things are ok, I don't know what happens to ... (210 words)

My friend told me he likes, but I didn't realize I was gay until he got a girlfriend. What should I do?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so this may be a little long so please bear with me. I've known this guy (I'll call him C) for a long time. In the fall of 2009, he told me that he is bisexual. I of course didn't have any problem with that. After he told me, I began to see him in a different light, I ... (256 words)

Online dating: IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls! Advice?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl through a dating site. We've been IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls, that I'm what she's been looking for all her life. She said fate brought us together. We've been exchanging fantasies about hugging and kissing each other, ... (172 words)

How do I deal with my motormouth future father in law?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been spending sometime with my fiance's parents while he is away for work. They are very nice people but I noticed that my father in law is a control freak who wants things his way. Everyone in the family including my 37 year old fiance is scared to disagree with him. He ... (352 words)

I'm 14 and I don't know how to react when a girl flirts with me. Advice?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I need some tips for dating, flirting, and talking to girls I'm fourteen and it's kinda weird. I don't really know what to do when a girl flirts with me. Some suggestions on how to act and flirt with girls please?... (41 words)

I like this girl, but her dad is my dad's boss...should I undercover date her?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - See, there's this girl that I like a lot. I'm only 14 so I don't think much of it. Her dad kinda sorta is my dad's boss, and I know her big brother personally. So I feel it would be awkward if we dated. I also get mixed signals from her. One day we hang out and we kid around a ... (124 words)

I ran into an old lover? What do I do?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is a year ago I ran into this guy I was seeing 20yrs ago. I was married at the time I was young and inexperienced didn,t know anything about life. My husband was a Navy man and was sent off to sea, make along story short I meet the other guy while i was out and abou... (163 words)

Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it about 3-4 times per week, ... (308 words)

I want to prove my parents wrong and defy the distance and make it work

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i just got done talking to my mom about my girlfriend brianna. Brianna and i live a little over 3 hours apart. We met online using a website for meeting people in high school and college. We have been dating for a month and 1 week now. We both love each other and talk ... (198 words)

I want my daughter home but this is tearing me apart!

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i had a bad problem with alcohol when my kids were 14 and 13. both left home one of there own accord and moved to their dads who they didnt see since they were 3ys old and the other a girl left cuz social services put such a strain on us we ended up in a big fight and she ... (214 words)

I am confused between two people.

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8 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am confused and would be grateful for any inputs that you have. I am 29 and live in NYC although I come from a country originally pretty conservative. I am bisexual. Here is the problem. I am confused between two people. There is a young really beautiful girl wh... (185 words)

Were we right to tell?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend, *Elizabeth* has been my best friend for years. Since we started high school, she's changed. She's sent suggestive pictures, drank, and made out with lots of guys. She's still a virgin, though. Today our two of our best friends and I told our counselor about the phot... (159 words)

Fishing with my married friend?? Is it okay?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a divorced female 30yrs old and am friends with a guy 31yrs old at work who is unhappily married and has 2 small children whom are his world. We get along great and joke around all the time and even text each other on the weekends comparing what the others has done in fun. ... (166 words)

What should I do about my mother?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my mother wants everyone to feel sorry for her she just got knee suregry in october. and it is now march she doesn't want to go back to work so she lost her job and now we are losing the house. I know im old enough to live on my own but im strugling to get through school s... (198 words)

Is there any sure fire way of knowing if he's at all interested in me, besides asking him?

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for awhile now, and I've just recently been getting to know him better. He always smiles at me and says hi, we text each other once in awhile, we always seem to catch each other's eye in class and stuff, but is there any sure fire way of knowing if he's at ... (128 words)

I get paranoid there's a camera in my bedroom!

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8 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't really about love or relationship, it's about health I suppose, I'm not sure what's wrong with me! Here's the problem, every time I go into my bed room, I have to check in every corner that there's not a camera watching me?? I get really worried that a tape of me in... (122 words)