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female
age
41-50,
*naciah
writes:Please help me I'm in love with this guy he loves me very muchThe problem is me I,ve started to be very jelousy. How can I stop This couse he is now complaining of my jelousy.wht can I do to stopThis I do not want to loose him we have a great relationship And we are very happy thou we not staying together.he is in Pretoria And I'm in Nelspruit do you think that the distance is the couse this Jelousy.any help is appreciated.
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reader, Dr. Mephisto  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 Jealousy is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of presenting emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. It is not to be confused with envy.Jealousy is a familiar experience in human relationships. It has been observed in infants five months and older. Some claim that jealousy is seen in every culture;however, others claim jealousy is a culture-specific phenomenon.Jealousy is a dangerous emotion. The only cure for jealousy in a relationship is to find out where the jealously stems from, be it a lack of trust or confidence in the relationship or even because of previous hurts. To combat this negative emotion find out what causes it and find a way past it. More information about what your jealousy entails or when its triggered would be useful for a better more specific response.
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