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writes: I have really hurt my husband. It is so bad that I'm embarrassed to say what it is. I'm truly sorry and I would do anything to fix it. What can I do? I don't want to lose my husband. I'm scared. Please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): if you do not say what you did then we cannot give appropriate advise. it will just be guessing games and assumptions and frustrations.
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reader, Remniscent +, writes (14 March 2011):
By your words, it's almost certain that you had sex with another man. Just apologize, make it up to him in any way possible AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!! The damage is done, so it's no longer up to you what happens. Just cross your fingers and be carefull. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): As "TEM" and Vintage64" say, it's impossible to advise on the unknown.
It's not as though your husband will know what you're telling "dearcupid", so take a deep breath and provide a little bit more information. Be brave.
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reader, TEM +, writes (13 March 2011):
I'll take a stab at it and guess that you violated your marriage vows in one way or another. As Vintage64 has said, it's tough to give advice on such limited info. However, if you hurt him you should apologize, ask forgiveness, and promise never to do it again. Perhaps start there?
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reader, lush2010 +, writes (13 March 2011):
the advantage of writing on a site like this is that youre totally anonymous. So have some faith and tell us what happened so we can try to advise you. I promise i wont judge you ... no matter what it is that you did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Without knowing what you did, I don't think anyone is going to be able to help.
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