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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I stop talking to my older co-worker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling for a work colleague whose quite a bit older but I dont know if I am. When we were genrally talking he said he had a baby but never mentioned if he was still with the mother. We get on really well and we always have a laugh and have been talking every day ... (274 words)

Trying to date and maintain my friendships has become very difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm having some friend issues. In the past my friends have said that I become this totally distant person when I'm dating someone because I only spend time with my boyfriend. This isn't entirely true. I do admit that I tend to spend more time with a significant othe... (575 words)

Can someone fall in love with a hooker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think that someone can really fall in love with a hooker? I have been doing this profession for over a year now and I have had few clients that I liked but this time I feel that I really have fallen in love with this guy, I can't stop thinking of him...and I thin... (140 words)

If you're single, do you have a problem with messing around with a person that's in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had a theme this year of hooking up with girls that have boyfriends. Obviously, if I know, I don't really pursue anything... she cheated on him, why not on me, right? However, that won't stop me from messing around with those girls. What about you? Do you mind hooking... (75 words)

Is it ok to tell your friend that you love them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Would it be alright to say to your best friend from the opposite sex that u love them. Not as in "I am in love with you" but just that you love them?... (33 words)

Why is sex not pleasurable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To put it simply, Me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a lot of times, but i have not once had an orgasm but i told him i have :/ what am i doing wrong? Why is it not pleasuring me? And should i mention it to him?... (49 words)

Finding out if a girl likes you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I met this girl about 1 month ago when her and her friend came to this dudes house we were at. I thought she was really pretty but only the first meeting so no serious feeling rose. The next time we met was last Friday and we really hit it off, she lat on my lap, kis... (151 words)

We don't have much to say online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i just got back together.We dont see each other much in the week as he lives a little while away so we mostly talk online or by text. When we used to speak online we always had loads to talk about and we'd tease each other but now the conversation is the usual ... (116 words)

Which is more enjoyable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Girls? I have 2 questions in mind, seems impolite, but i got to ask. 1-What do you feel when a man ejaculates inside you does bring an end to your sexual urge? 2-Which is more enjoyable is it anal or vaginal sex?... (50 words)

Would you rather have backstabbing, dis-loyal, untrustworthy hipocryitcal, patronizeing and rather mean friends or none at all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) Im just need a little help about a situation i am in. ive sort of already made up my mind but i want to know what you lovely lot think :) Would you rather have backstabbing, dis-loyal, untrustworthy hipocryitcal, patronizeing and rath... (306 words)

I don't want to send dirty texts to another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 5 years, so trust isn't an issue. He is out of state and wants me to do something crazy(sexual) to get him turned on. Nude pictures have already been done and he told me I could do anything except cheat. He even said I could ... (102 words)

How do I build a wall around my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age - I am in love with a complete shit who takes and takes and never thinks of anyone but himself even his family are scared of him how do I build a wall around my heart that he cannot get through?... (40 words)

Why does it turn me on that he doesn't pay any attention to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On a starting note, I'm 17, so for me, this isn't life or death, I'm merely curious. So I've been paired to work with a guy on my course, called Chris, but for some reason, I don't know what it is, he will NOT comunicate with me, he will not look me in the eye, he will not pay ... (131 words)

Best friend flirts with me! How do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Guna keep it short and simple. How do I stop my best friend (who knows I like him) flirting with me! He has a girlfriend whom I am really close to also and she looks at me when he acts like this in a way to say WTF are you doing! I hate feeling like I'm wedging betw... (109 words)

Two years too old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and the boy that i like is 18 is he too old for me? ... (18 words)

Six hours watching naked women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - is it a problem when your man sit in front of you and watch a naked women web site for six hours... (22 words)

I love my girlfriend, but the only thing holding me back from "taking the plunge" is her weight...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Allow me to first say, I FULLY understand the amount of unhealthy pressure and anxiety that society puts on women to look perfect. That being said, here's the low down: I'm 24, she's 22, and we have been dating for roughly 2 years now. I have always been a health nut. I al... (402 words)

Do I just tell him it upsets me when he doesn't respond?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, and he harldy ever rpelies to my texts, I find it quite annoying, Sometimes i really need him to because i'm feeling down and need cheering up or just want to check if he is okay. How can i ask him to reply to me more ... (66 words)

Ex doesn't believe me, doesn't know if she can trust me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - help and advice please needed, my x and i have discussed getting back together, but she says she doesnt believe me about things and that she doesnt know if we can make it. how can i prove ive never physically cheated on her just made silly mistakes on fb and thru texts, b... (110 words)

He thinks I look gorgeous, I think I look like a tart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 30 wants me to wear short skirts and tight clothes. He loves that look. I have explained to him that I dont mind wearing fitted clothes in order to show off my figure but I don't want unwanted attention from men in general. He says he is proud of me and ... (154 words)

She's waiting for me to ask to be her girlfriend but I'm afraid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello.... i have this friend of mine (girl) and she loves me and i love her back ^^ and im soooo afriad of asking her to be my GF and i really wanna just get it over whit cuz we kinda are GFs and BFs but not official ofc we arent kissing (yet) but doing orther stuff like going ... (101 words)

My partner verbally abuses me, ignores me and insults me....yet I feel like I'm addicted to him and cannot do without him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf broke up with me for the third time a week ago and this time i thought i got over him. He called me two days back and begged me to take him back. I told him i cant do this anymore, but he was keep on insisting, i guess i agreed. But i dont feel good about it. H... (185 words)

He seems so unenthusiastic...should I meet him again or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i went out on one date with Mr A. It was pretty nice...:) Actually he and i go a long way back; we were in the same school back when we were kids and now we are both working in the same city. The date was nice...but there was no spark. He was very nice ... (281 words)

Partner's daughter doesn't want to see him anymore because he's with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been with my partner for 4 years now.....we meet when both our marriages were ending, and we had a affair. He is the man of my dreams.....my solo mate, the one that make me smile from ear to ear. I love him to bits, he is my whole world and my life is 1000 t... (254 words)

I miss my ex so much that my current boyfriend can't make me happy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, now i've come to a dilemma. I'm 16 years old but I consider myself mature for my age. I was with my ex for nearly five months and I loved him up until the very end when i felt smothered and ended it with him. He didn't take to this very well and naturally was very angry at ... (376 words)

Does she actually love me or am I just the bodyguard??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im going to try my best and keep this short. I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2 months and recently stopped seeing her because I knew I liked her a lot and it hurt to see her kiss another guy. but after not talking to her for 2 weeks and ignoring some of ... (642 words)

My bf has gotten too comfortable and now ignores me. Do all guys get like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 1 year always ignores me. We talk about all the time and he promises he would change, but never did. This time i really got fed up, so didn't call him at all for a week. Usually i'll be the one who does the calling. He relized something is wrong. he called me... (143 words)

Can I trust my bf after his text messages to another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for more than a year now. I am 18 and he is 23. I have never had a problem with the age as ive worked in a bar for years and have always been into older men. Lately things have been rough. I began checking his phone as i had a gut feeling. i found he ... (397 words)

Guy I am dating talks to me but doesn't want to make plans to meet. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about 6 weeks. Things seemed to start really quickly we text all day everyday and saw each other about 3-4 times a week. He always seemed to take things further, always asking to see me, saying really nice words, he even had a few pet names for me. T... (193 words)

Is it normal to be nervous about getting a pap smear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner is having a pap smear test done and feels very nervous about this. She wants me to hold her hand while it is being done. Can I ask if other women are nervous about this and would like to know what is involved. I think she is worried that she will be very tense in... (102 words)

How do I keep my routine-hating gf entertained?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, and we've been living together for the past eleven months. Most of the time, things are great - we have fun, joke around, support one another, and respect one another. But every once in a while - it's been maybe four ... (359 words)

Will sex help relieve my stiff joints?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have very stiff joints, especially my arm and shoulders. I would to know if sex can help relieve the stiffness and also if it is worth going to the GP to help relieve this.... (40 words)

Should I get involved with her even though she has two children and has financial problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I could really do with some relationship advice as I am unsure whether or not I am being wise in my actions or just letting my selfish attitude get in the way. Around five months ago I was asked out by a female friend of mine. She is a really nice person and I do like ... (475 words)

My mother is trying to destroy my relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been 3 months now since I've been dating my sister's cousin male.. but my sister and I don't have the same father but same mother..and her cousin is in her father's family. My Mum is boycotting my relationship with that guy I don't know what to do. Should I stay with that ... (84 words)

When we fight boyfriend says really mean things. Does he mean them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so silly writing this but here goes...I've been seeing this guy for just over a year now. To be honest I've never been completely sure about him as he seems to have some issues, but I do care A LOT about him and he does make me happy, most of the time we're together. ... (469 words)

Is all this worth staying in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I just re-broke up with my now ex. We were together from 2006 to 2010, and had many problems throughout the relationship because of "my past". It wasn't that bad, I was a virgin until I met him, only that before being with him, I had some fun with a friend to whom I gave "half ... (683 words)

I thought I didn't want him but know I realize I do, how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do now ?? One night, I ended up kissing him my best friends boyfriend who I have always been very close to, the next day he broke up with her. After all this I carried on seeing him in secret, slept with him had a good time with him, nothing really serious although... (453 words)

It has been a while since I've dated, any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't dated in a while, and by a while I mean almost 2 years. I've had some opportunities in that time but I get too nervous or scared because the last guy made me feel like something was wrong with me. I think I want to put myself out there again. There's this guy... (121 words)

I only last seconds during sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am confused, when my girlfriend gives me a hand-job I can last up to 25 minutes, but when we have sex I only last a few seconds, is there anything I am doing wrong or any help I can get... (41 words)

I'm not sure what the point of a physical relationship is, is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i really really need some advice. I am a female, Muslim, about 22 years old, virgin, never had a boyfriend and I live in Asia. I study in a college with co-education system. But i don't have male friends, because I'm from a conservative family. I am perfectly sure i am not ... (95 words)

I need to put out the fire!!!! How do I get him out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. How do you get over someone you are INCREDIBLY attracted to? We are both in committed relationships and can't be having these thoughts. But I think about this guy all the time and fantasize about being with him. I can't get him out of my head. The attraction b... (133 words)

I have a problem trusting guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was once in a reletionship,and I gt hurt so bad,now I've gt a problem trusting guys.what should I do?... (20 words)

My boyfriend doesn't care when other guys hit on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy in my biology class keeps flirting with me and wont quit. I told him to stop I have a boy friend but he doesn't care and he wont leave me alone. My boy friend saw it today at lunch because the kid tried to lay on me in line and I pushed him away. I went on the othe... (109 words)

I really like him, should I tell him so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, How can i get this guy to like me ?? Or how can I tell this guy I like him ?? I've liked him coming up to a year now, i have slept with him a few times and he has given me lift places and I've taken him places. Anyway the other day we went away for t... (267 words)

Is being friends with an ex worth it if you want to be more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex broke up a month ago and now she has a new bf. im pretty sure she is either attempting to string me along or hasn't let her feelings for me diminish because she shows no respect for he bf by calling me pet names, telling me i mean the world to her, and how she ... (188 words)

I'm dating a lovely new man, but am terrified of getting hurt again, and want to walk now while I still can!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. I would appreciate any advice on the following. I came out of an abusive relatinship not to long ago. It has been on and off for months, and I suffered with really bad depression with it at the end of last year and was off work in bed for weeks. It had all started off ... (367 words)

I know its my fault but I'm not in love with my wife anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I am 40 years old married for 17 years, I have had an affair 2 years ago there was no sex involved but still it was serious. My wife and I split up for 6 months my wife forgave me and we are trying again. Problem now is I love my wife but I am not in love with her... (90 words)

Am I pushing him away by asking about marriage every couple of months?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Just wondering what your opinions are on my current predicament. Thank you in advance for reading and advising. I'm 27, my boyfriend is 32. When we began dating 2 years ago we were clear that we didn't want to date for long as we'd both been through upsetting b... (467 words)

I like the guy but I don't want to be in a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been in a steady relationship for a few days now and i really don't know what to do. i do have feelings for the guy and like him and that but i dont like being in a relationship itself so what options do i have? do i go along with it and hope i get over this silly li... (80 words)

Would you rather be single, or with someone you don't know is lying to you about having cheated on you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it better to be alone or in a relationship with someone who has betrayed you in the past by cheating, and who continues to lie about having been faithful and committed throughout the relationship? Is it true that what you don't know, can't really hurt you? Is it really OK to ... (70 words)

Out of town trip is turning into a complicated mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I have been invited to someone's birthday night out which is in a town about an hour away from where i live. I have only met this woman once. She is a relative of my sister in law. I met her at my brother's and sister in law's wedding last year. In a ... (353 words)

I don't want to hang around just because her kids dad is here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i am changing the names in this so no one knows who it is directed to... my girlfriend and i have been dating for the past 8 months. we have known each other for about 3 years now. she moved in with me about a month before we got together and now we r stuck living at my moms ... (228 words)

His ex didnt want him till someone else had him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So after a horrible breakup with my boyfriend of many many years I meet this nice guy at work who also went through a bad breakup. (Long story short, his girlfriend of 4yrs whom he has a child with leaves him while he's at work to come home later on that evening and find ... (701 words)

Father in law is creeping me out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello All!! So I have a problem. My father in law. He is starting to creep me out. He has always been very interetsed in me. Meaning he always trys to make conversation with me any time we are around each other. I am young and shy, so i dont really create conversation easily. ... (672 words)

Boyfriend of 7 months is not into sex anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 7 months is not that into sex anymore. He says that he still wants to be with me but is just not that into sex at the moment. Its not a huge deal but I am concerned. I don't want to push the subject too much but need some feedback. I have breast cancer and he ... (209 words)

When I masturbate, no sperm comes out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 13 and I have erections but when I masturbate no sperm comes out. I'm scared as I have been kicked in the balls twice; once this year the other one last year. I don't want to go to the doctors because my Mum will know and I'm really embarrassed about it. I need advice ... (59 words)

My fiance always asks her exes for help, without asking me first!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 years, and we've been talking about getting married. She says I'm the man of her dreams, that she loves me, that I'm the only person who really cares about her, that I have everything she wants in a man, etc. But, she is still fri... (644 words)

How do I tell him that I'm starting to feel smothered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for give or take 7 months. Ok so, I moved into my own place a couple of months ago. For the past month, he has been sleeping over almost every night. Also for the past month, he has been laid off of work. I wake up really early in the ... (231 words)

Is it possible that he's cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, and thank you. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Started off amazing as most relationships do. He was so charming, complimented me and loving to me. It didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. Once we got to know each other longer things dr... (423 words)

Do you consider watching porn cheating?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can watching porn be cheating? Random question.. girls/guys some thoughts??... (11 words)

Should I let him go, so he can be with someone closer to his age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a mature beautiful woman. I've met a man 14 years younger than me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I have had many relationships. He has not. He is the first man that I feel is my match, my love. He knows I would do anything for him. He cares for me the same. The ... (168 words)

Do you think he will want biological children in the future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I, both 24, were talking about kids yesterday and he said that he wanted to adopt 3 kids. And he wanted one to be named after him. And I asked him if he wanted to name his biological child after him. He said his mom tells him that he shouldn't have kids because ... (494 words)

My wife feels more like a sister to me than a wife, and it doesn't feel right to make love to her!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a big problem. Over the years my wife and I have had many issues. I left her 9 months ago because I lost my feelings for her. I now find myself wanting to be with her and my children. I realise I do have feelings for her, but they are up and down. I moved back home a ... (212 words)

My wife's friends husband flirts openly with her...and she sees no harm in it. Am I the only one who thinks this is weird?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife's best friend's husband will openly flirt with my wife at social gatherings at there home. She says it is just his way and I have excepted that, even though I find it dis-respectful. My wife says it means nothing. Recently I have learned that she recieves flirty ... (134 words)

Is this a break or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I met this guy online who pursued me for 3 months. He'd call every day, sent me flowers, sent me text messages to read in the morning explalining how beautiful he found me, etc. He asked me to become exclusive 3 times and each time I didn't feel ready. He said that he ... (401 words)

Should I still be having sex with him or am I being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I have been together for 12 years and we have a daughter together, out of the blue he said he couldn't live with me anymore and moved out. We have been getting on really well and still having sex. I also know he has taken a girl much younger than him out for a dr... (83 words)

The debts have been piling up and I have to file bankruptcy...but I don't know where all the money is going!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with this man for 20 years, married for 14. We have children together. For a few years now he's been wracking up credit card debt like crazy, with nothing to show for it. The debt is more than we make in a year. I don't get it. It's not coming into the house, ... (202 words)

How could he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a GUY do this? wow am still shocked.? I was with him for 5months..it was great then I had this feeling that he was hiding something, I asked if there were someone else he'd tell me there's no one else I love you so much I'd never cheat on you he sore on his mums lif... (386 words)

Whose fault is it? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i m 21 yrs of age, i had always been somewhat a reserved kind of person.to be frank till today i havent made much friends as in whom i would call true friends. i had a best friend when i was in high school but now doesnt even talk to me pretends that she doesnot know me ... (283 words)

When do you end an otherwise wonderful relationship? I am sick of waiting in limbo for us to take our relationship to the next level

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now, since I was a teenager. Sure, we've had our rocky patches, but we've worked things out each time and we've seen each other through everything. We spend quality, one on one time together every day and we're each o... (481 words)

I feel trapped in my relationship. Please help me move forward.

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am gay 20 year old. I have had a partner for 3 years now. Over a year ago I found someone online and went to his house wanting a friend. He made a move on me and I pushed him away and left, 3 months later my partner found out from this other guy and believes a lot more ... (147 words)

Please help me, should I stay with my lazy fiancé?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I have been with my partner for just over two years now and he proposed to me last october. I really love him but I've been having alot of doubts if he is really the one for me and if our relationship will ever last. I have been having major arguements with my ... (748 words)

I like my ex, but I am in love with my guy friend! What should I do?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently in love with my guy friend. We text every now and then. Sometimes every day. But sometimes, he just doesn't text me at all. We never did confessed to each other that we like one another. But i heard from his best friend that he said he liked me. It's been 5 months ... (177 words)

How do I respond to a girl who is too forward?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been working at a supermarket for 5 months now and one of the cashiers has recently been giving me a lot of attention. It started with random talks a few months back but more recently her efforts have been kicked up a notch. It started with a wink, now there are lunch ... (327 words)

I'm with a great amazing guy but I still think of my ex!! What to do please??

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met this amazing guy, hes caring, funny and really sweet, he makes me feel really special, takes me out for meals, compliments me and does nice things for me. I like him alot but thing is, I still have feelings for my ex. I was with my ex for six months, I was the one ... (147 words)

My 5 months guy isn't fast at showing his feelings or emotions. How do we move things on more??

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like a guys opinion on this too. Ive being in a relationship with this guy for nearly 5 months. He has just recently committed himself to this relationship and I am pleased that he finally has as it took some getting there. He is 7 year older than me and I am 19.... (216 words)

I dumped her 8 times and now I'm fuming that she has found new love?? Any thoughts??

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Last year I casually dated a girl on an off for 10 months. She fell head over heals in love with me and worshiped the ground that I walked on. LSS I took her kindness for a weakness and abused the hell out of her and dumped her for the 8th time in the cruelest way. I'm numb. ... (188 words)

I have a problem in my family that is affecting my child? Please help?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a two months old daughter, i have a problem in my family.. i am really upset because of that.. i am not able to feed my child properly, she is not getting enough milk to fill her tummy.. please give me some tips to overcome this.. are there any tablets so that i get ... (67 words)

Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him go that way? ... (67 words)

I'm interested in him but not sure as he is confusing?? Any thoughts please?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i know him since childhood .. he is 5 yrs elder to me and I used to call him Anna (brother) .. thtz how any girl here calls a guy who is elder to her .. anyways .. after he finished schooling and left school in my 5th grade we hardly ever met or spoke to each other .. have met ... (641 words)

How do I stop getting wet so easily?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman and every time my husband touches me, i get wet easily. What do i do?... (20 words)

Hey, did I have an orgasm?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been really horny for the past couple of days and I've ignored it but this morning I decided to sit legs spread in front of a mirror and experiment because I've never really had an orgasm or a really intense orgasm by myself, just masturbating on my own, even though I ... (153 words)

Booked a trip with my ex-bf but there's still so much baggage and bad feelings. Is there any way to have a good time?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago now due to his jealousy problems about my past. While in a relationship--although things were never great--we decided we wanted to travel together. well these plans got pushed to one side when we broke up. But in the pas... (240 words)

Should I feel guilty for sleeping with a guy who has a gf?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I feel guilty? Ok, I met this guy last summer. For some reasons I cant afford a relationship right now. So he and I were being casual. We just hang out sometimes and share bed time to time. Actually I thought he's kinda player because one of our mutual friend... (346 words)

Having an open relationship while being in love?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 20 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been recently engaged and I couldn't be more happier. But, the question arose of him wanting an open relationship. At first, I was hurt by him even telling me he wants other women se... (202 words)

He wants a girlfriend who will hang out with his friends

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22, we've been together almost six months. He tells me that I'm all he has and his friends are not even his real "friends." I was spending the night at house the other day, hoping to be alone with him but he invited his friend over, ... (214 words)

I'm worried about the age gap with a married man

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old girl on the verge of commencing marital relationship with a 32 year old man. I have known him for around a year but I love him a lot. He has great family values and I love that about him. Nevertheless I am worried about the age gap. Should I be?... (56 words)

After everything that has happened I'm not sure I can go back to him

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I don't know what to do. My ex who broke up with me in September cause he couldn't see it working now says he wants me back. Part of me says to say no while the other part says go back. I don't know what to do. I still love him and want to go back but because of ... (71 words)

We complete each other perfectly, but are both married. Should I confess my feelings & walk away, but from whom?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok first of all, please don't judge. I honestly never thought to be in this situation because I am a faithful person. But now that I am, I need advice. Background info....I met HIM 11 years ago, he was unhappily married but stayed for his kids. I was single, we dated for abo... (507 words)

He won't let me leave him!

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. He abused me for the first time through my pregnancy and since then when ever we have a fight where I want him too leave he finds a way to be aggresive. I don't want to be with and havnt wanted too be with him since after the first ... (412 words)

My married lover says he's living in the same house but different rooms

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a married man since 2008. He is upside down in the house by $200,000 and cannot qualify for a shortsale. He tells me he is getting a divorce and they live in the same house but different rooms. They have no kids. They are not sleeping together and it... (130 words)

Shy boy, bbw lover

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im very attracted to bbw (big beautiful women),but im also extremely shy so i need to know how i can build up the courage to actually talk to a woman or whats a good dating site for meeting bbw.... (39 words)

Can I make my nose smaller without surgery?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hai, i m mike and i want to ask you a question my nose is broad what can i do about it. My nost make me feel unconfident,can there is any way without sergery to make it perfect?... (38 words)

How to convince EX that you are not controlling anymore?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you convince an ex that you are not controlling anymore? I've realize that I was controlling and I don't know how to fix it =/ I'm definitely more laid back now than before. ... (35 words)

He's a nice guy other than his possessiveness!

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confused what to do in my relationship bcuz he treats me gud n evrything n i kno he ws trying to change but sumtimes he looses his controll. he is a very jealous person he duznt lik me wearing short skirts.pants or revealing tops . also he claims wen thers another guy ... (144 words)

I desperately want to save my marriage, but I don't know what to do...

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have recently separated. We've been together for 23 years and married for 18. We have two children. My husband initiated the separation, but, for reasons I won't go into now, there are many things that I have done to help create the problems. Basically, we had ... (278 words)

How can a stranger change you 100%? Has anyone ever felt this?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a really corny yet real question to me that I want to ask for everyones opinion? Please let me know if anyone has ever felt this way. But before I can describe it I'll give you a backround BEAR WITH ME PLEASE I need ur ADVICE. Backround: I just finished my gradua... (964 words)

When a guy says a girl is "cool," what does he mean?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, Two questions, what do men mean when they use the term "cool girl?" I recently told a guy I have been seeing that I like him, his response was " I like you too, and you are a cool chick", do I take that as he likes me as a friend, or he is romantically interested in me... (61 words)

What can I do to improve my erection or sexual performance, short of taking ED medication, and what effect will the advised measures have on me?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm looking to maximize my physical sexual potential, and have seen a good deal about kegel exercises made. However, I'm still unclear as to when they can be effective. As a 17 year old, what, if anything, will Kegel exercises do for me, and if they can't do anything, what e... (172 words)

My boyfriend doesn't enjoy having sex with me on my period

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had sex twice on my period meaning during one month of it and during another month of it cause he said he had never done it before and he never said whether he liked it or not most guys I have been with did not care if I was on my period or not they ... (218 words)

Whenever I voice a complaint to my gf, she says it's petty. What should I do?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What do you do when your partner makes you feel that everything you discuss with her is petty. Things like voicing how you feel about her dancing with other guys, how she makes me feel when she says i am talking nonsense when i am being serious with her, making sarcastic ... (58 words)

Relationship is spiraling down and I don't know what to do to fix it!

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Spiraling relationship. I want to help so bad. He keeps having these changes of mind about us and I don't know what to do. Remember: He's the outgoing one, I'm quiet. I always try to start a convo but I get speechless! And it doesn't help that he barely says anything. Shouldn't ... (103 words)

I don't understand why my parents can't be happy that I've found someone like my boyfriend.

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Due to the fact that I am still in high school, my parents disapprove of my relationship. They think it is too serious for my age and that it will keep me from doing things like going to college. Here's the thing, NOTHING will EVER keep me from going to college. NOTHING... (285 words)

He blew all his chances with me -- is it right to cut him out of my life?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay ; ijust need to know if idid the right thing. Ibeen talking to " AR " for about a year now. it may be too early, but ifell for him HARD. IConsider him my first love. Right now, he's in newJersey and I'm in Florida. Well, a couple months ago, AR told me that he found so... (208 words)

Does breaking up with him mean bad Karma for me?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So after being with my boyfriend of almost a year (4 weeks till anniversary), he broke up with me. I mean its not like i was sad or anything. Because i was already planning on it. See my boyfriend moved 3 1/2 months ago to another state. He said he was going to come this month ... (328 words)

He gives off signals that he rejects me. Should I just be happy that we are together?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 dating a man who is 39. He's been in previous relationships that ended in them having children, his woman taking all his money then saying bye, "I'm leaving you for someone else and I'm taking the kids" I understand his issues, I'm patient with him. But for some reason i... (220 words)

Caught in a torrid love affair with a married woman but she refuses to walk out of her loveless, boring marriage. Why???

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay....please refrain from excoriating and vilifying me because I know that I'm not supposed to partake in this endeavor, but I'm a little too deep into this game. I've been seeing this married woman who is five years my senior for about three years now, but during the last ... (211 words)

He is my best friend. We've talked about finding the 'real thing' but could he be the 'real thing' for me?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Are we in love, me and my best friend ? He is my best friend, I consider him the male version of me, he says the same about me being the female version of him, we know that's true and it's obvious to anyone who sees us together, always suspecting we are a couple but the t... (299 words)

I'm confident in other ways but lost when it comes to girls. How do I fix this?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old guy and I've been single all my life. I've never had a girlfriend, never dated and have never really kissed anyone for that matter. Most everyone I know would say that I'm a friendly, easy to get along with, genuine kind of person. I've even heard that I'm ... (636 words)

We fought, but I miss her. How should I talk to her?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so just wanted to see what it meant if i was friends with this girl for a year and a half. we fooled around at the start of our friendship but shes been in a relationship with a guy for years and told me nothing would come of what happened between us. We've had alot of ups ... (213 words)

I have a good friend who I've liked for years, how do I tell her?

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a friend who i have "liked" for years she found out for a while but i told her i "liked" another girl madison (assumed name) and i want to tell her not perticularly go out with her but she is butiful how do i tell her... (49 words)

What is the next step?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I dont know where to start with this... So my friend posted up some pictures on fb and there was the most attractive guy in one of them. She went ahead and tagged his fb in so i checked it out (ok seriously im not being a stalker... admit it u do that too), and I was ... (174 words)

Kissing other people is becoming a cycle.

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15 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, really need some help and to just get this off my chest. Been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she cheated on me (drunken kiss) while she was overseas on some holiday and told me and she regretted it, apologized etc. It took me awhile and a lot of fights to get ov... (264 words)

He's being extremely confusing and jealous, should I break up with him?

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15 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is really long and complicated but I'll try to cut it as short as I can. I dated this guy in high school my junior year (I'll call him Brad) for less than 2 months, maybe a month and a half. It wasn't anything that serious, we drifted apart, things got really awkwa... (697 words)