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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend hugs me and tells me not to get with other girls, and even lets me see her naked.. but says we're just friends...

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have this coworker. I've been attracted to her from the first time I saw her. The second day I started working their I got her number but we never got to anything serious becuz she switched to nite shift. Then she called me the other day for a ride and then we randomly ... (226 words)

My ex keeps asking after me...

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I'm going to visit my friends for a week...staying in the town where my ex girlfriend lives!!!! Recently I hear she has been asking people when I'm next in town etc and that she wishes she could talk to me..... I can't understand why she keeps asking about me si... (167 words)

How can I look good to him compared to all the women he's been with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so theres this guy that i like and he is...well extremely experienced. his total last yr for hooking up is my complete total. but i dont really care about that. my thing is he has a ton of girls to compare me to!! so my question is any tips on making me seem....really good. ... (60 words)

Was I a controlling Ex? I need insight on our relationship/ breakup

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29 March 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Ok. If anyone can help me, i would really appreciate it. Me and my ex recently broke up for good. I dont want to be with her, but i need help understanding what happened between us, because im trying to meet girls again and am scared of all of the things she told me about ... (488 words)

I want to try gay sex but I have a gf.

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29 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - ok so im straight ive been in a relationship for three years, i think i was to have sex with a man im very curious but i don't know what to do? can any one give me any advice on what to do pleaseeeee??? HELP!!!... (46 words)

Why won't he send me my pictures back?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend broke up with me thursday because he says that i dont trust him and he not answering my calls i asked him to send me my pictures that i sent to his phone of me and my kids he dont want to send my pictures he said that he would so i can leave him alone and he have not ... (132 words)

I don't know how to handle keeping this relationship a secret and not coming on to strong..

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy who I like, and as much as I flirted with him for a joke, I always felt something for him. I figured he was straight, and the other week he asked me out. Now as you can imagine I was over the moon, but things were weird for a while, plus things happened when ... (290 words)

The "ups" and "downs" or condoms... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been having a few problems with erections. I have been with this girl for about 6 months and at first because I was new to sex I had problems keeping my erection. I gathered this was due to performance anxiety. Then after about 3 weeks after getting closer to her I ... (211 words)

He kissed me and then told me he has a gf ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im a girl aged 16.My problem is that i saw this guy,i just wanted to kiss him the minute i looked at him.Eventualy he came to me and aske to have a word with me.he told me that he liked me but ddnt ask for my number!!after that we stared into each others eyes and lips and he ... (108 words)

I act immature and stupid around my teacher, how can I stop?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. i've had a crush on my drama teacher for almost 2 years now. i'm not one of these people who thinks that they're in love or are contemplating telling the teacher how they feel. i don't want him to know and i'm aware that these feelings will fade over time. The ... (155 words)

My depression ruins all my relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ,I've had anxiety and depression ,my entire life... Every relationship I've ever been in ,I've pushed the guy away with my worrying, flip outs and not feeling good enough... And right now the best guy I was ever with just broke up with me for that exact reason.... And ... (86 words)

He broke up because he didn't want the hassle of a girlfriend anymore

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About 10 weeks ago my bf broke up with me after nearly 2 years of being together. His reason? He didnt want the hassle of a gf anymore, wanted to do what he wants when he wants. Basically he wanted space. He is a huge mummys boy and plays footy and and goes to the gym ... (479 words)

Is it normal for a man to go a week or longer without sex?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 32 yr old female and have a 41 yr old boyfriend. He can go a week or two weeks without sex. Is that crazy? His work schedule is 5am til 9:30pm 3 nights a week. Sad part we stay across the street from 1 another.... (47 words)

Mid-life crisis, depression or right to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for nearly 17 and we have a young son. We recently went through counselling on account of me getting seriously interested in sex over and above anything I've been interested in before. The interest began getting obsessive to ... (900 words)

I said I wanted children someday and this guy freaked out, but now wants to date again. How do I go about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay - will try and keep this short - but are affairs of the heart ever short though... So - met a great great guy at a house party about 4 weeks ago. We talked and laughed and just got on really well. As he is a lecturer where I work - he plucked up the courage to ask m... (667 words)

How does a bisexual girl ask another girl out?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Bit of an odd question: I have a female friend who says she's bisexual, but is right now leaning towards liking girls more.. if that makes sense. But she's not open about her sexuality, I mean she doesn't purposely hide it, I don't think, but she doesn't exactly ... (174 words)

Facebook guy trying to make me do stuff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my name is matthew and im having trouuble online on facebook with this boy he's trying to make to do stuff on cam and he is asking me to have sex with him and im not gay and i dont know what to do if anyone can help me it would be appriciated ... (53 words)

I want him to leave his live-in girlfriend for me

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - here goes.........I have known this guy since november, he is a farmer and lives in the valley where i work. i run into him on a daily basis, we meet up nearly every night, and share hobbies at the weekends. we are so made for each other and are head over heels in love. ... (227 words)

I'm looking for good ideas for a date night

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need suggestions for dates. So me and this guy have been talking and we like each other. We've been trying to get together for almost a month now, but things don't work out. He works all the time, and money is tight. I'm in school, money is tight, and I don't really have ... (170 words)

His photography is creeping me out

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend recently took some pictures of my teenage daughter and her friends in a running race. However for the last couple of weeks I have noticed that most evenings he continually goes back to these pictures for hours retouching them in photoshop and then saving them. I... (134 words)

On off on off on off relationship: I need to break free!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all.. i have a bit of i problem i would like to solve. i feel terrible admitting it but i have little to no will power when it comes to dealing with my ex. she has pretty much made my life hell the past year and i don't know how to make this stop! she leaves then come... (305 words)

I'm in love with my teacher... I think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - basically i have a obsession with my teacher. whenever hes behind me i feel sick and like im going to faint, when i'm in his class i'm quiet but he doesn't notice me? he notices the naughty ones, should i start being naughty? and well to finish this of, i have a picture of him ... (71 words)

Advice for the first time.

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner want to make physical relation with me and it will be my first time experience so what are the cautions which i 'll keep in my mind.... (29 words)

Right now he doesn't love me back. Is there ever a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you help me with a confusion of mine, please? I can accept an honest answer... whether it's the one I want to hear or not. However, it would be great to hear from people who have stories about this topic that they can share with me. Suppose that you have feelings ... (166 words)

I don't want to stay with her, but I'm afraid what will happen if I divorce her. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old and I've been married for almost 6 years now. While my wife is a wonderful person, a great friend and I do love her dearly in a "family" type of way, I feel absolutely no passion or physical chemistry in our relationship. She is an attractive girl, but ... (333 words)

I haven't heard from him in a while and I am very worried. He's in the Army.

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. On November 1st, 2010 I met a man who is currently in Iraq in the Army. We met because I am a volunteer through a website (send care packages, cards, etc to soldiers who don't normally get anything). He was requesting books so I wrote to find out what type of books, did a ... (362 words)

He thinks he's gay. Is there any hope for this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with a guy for 8 years and have a child together. Recently he came to me and said that his confused and thinks he's gay. I told him to find out if he is or not. The other day he came to me and said that he gave a guy a bj, he said he liked it. But he didn't have sex ... (142 words)

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. He continued to say no and ... (506 words)

Does this sound like my LDR BF has fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I live in separate countries, we've been together for 5 months and everything was great at first. But he'd have his days where he's all nice and lovely. Then the next he barely says two words. But lately I feel like the gap between us is huge! I tried speaking ... (152 words)

What does 'lets take a break' mean?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?... (18 words)

I love her. She doesn't even like me. I don't know how to deal with it.

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 16 and i love this girl. She knows this...she doesn't like me...after knowing this she hates me now...she hesitates to talk to me and talks to my friends and other guys more...her friends like me...they think I'm a nice guy and i mostly talk to her friends more than her... (157 words)

I am going to move in with my BF. I need help breaking the news to my parents.

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help on how to tell my parents I'm moving out. We don't have a bad relationship but at the same time I have never found it easy to talk to them either. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and he has asked me to move in with him as he has his ... (184 words)

I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to say goodbye but you see you came... (288 words)

I am very scared for my best friend. Please tell me how I can help him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My Best Friend and I are both 16 and are from pretty different backgrounds. I live in a more or less comfortable middle class background where I go to private school, and he lives in a lower class background, where his parents are separated, his Dad has schizophrenia and I'm ... (295 words)

I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i feel in love, but i knew the... (623 words)

He wants space. Will I be able to heal if I have to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over him? I was with my fiance for almost three years. In that time we had a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to my mental illness. I cheated on him whilst I was ill and then tried to kill myself when we broke up, and then again a few months later. That was ... (191 words)

Am I being silly worrying about the comments after a nose job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to get a nose job for my benefit nobody else! I've thought about it for years and years and I've saved up. My parents said if i want to take the risk then go for it and they will support and look after me when healing process! I'm eighteen nearly 19 so i want to ... (232 words)

I need money. Is gay porn the answer? I don't want to cheat on my GF.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i am in serious dept, i haven't got a job and have £103 every 2 weeks. with my balance being so high I cant make the next step with my girl friend. i watched a program on MTV about porn stars lives, there was a guy on there whom who was straight but did gay porn, i feel ... (107 words)

Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet, just hugging and kissing and ... (137 words)

Was I just a sex friend that he threw away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have been talking to this boy for a couple of months and the first two were good and then his ex came down from out of town. we were not together so it did not bother me that much then. we stopped talking for three weeks so in Jan we started back talking and of course we ... (214 words)

I'm so confused and I feel so stuck. I need any advice I can get!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got out of an abusive relationship. As soon as it turned abusive I left for the safety of myself AND our 1yr old son. For about 6 months I have been seeing someone else. The guy is actually one of my best friends. I've known him for years, I guess there has always... (428 words)

My boyfriend accuses of cheating and calls me a slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but I dont feel loved. we have been bestfriends for many years prior to our relationship and I think he cant cope with my past relationship. I was with this guy for many years back, and I gave talked to him about it. it was a bad ... (376 words)

Can anybody give me some advice as to how I can go about making my dream come true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem like a weird question but I really need some help. (I'm from the UK) and my ex is from the US. We split up around 10months ago. However when we were together, we was starting to plan my move over there etc. When we split up, I wasn't just gutted about us but also ... (145 words)

My man can't give me an orgasm

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend has a very active sex life though thier is some problems Wev slept together a good 40 odd times hes came every time but iv only ever had 3 orgasms Its not that hes not good in bed coz he is but he just cant go long enough Wev spoke about it and it do... (193 words)

My boyfriend masturbates while I'm sleeping!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i have been waking up to my boyfriend masturbating beside me in bed, he obviously thinks im asleep, and if i move he quickly stops and waits, checks to see if im still sleeping then carries on, and at the end im not sure if he is completely finished but sometimes i ... (236 words)

This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted and dirty even to myself for fal... (146 words)

How do I get him to French Kiss me?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf and i have been dating for a while and i so badly want him to French kiss me.....Sadly have never done it before so i don't wanna make the first move. how can i get him to either french kiss me or get the idea that i want him to?... (53 words)

I love him, but we argue. Should I let him go and see if he comes back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - .."if you love something let it go..if it comes back that's when you know it's meant to be". I'm in love with my ex BF deeply and he does love me but things aren't working out as we argue to much atm because we both have other things on our minds. I don't want to be b... (127 words)

He says he is coming, How do I handle his response?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid! Sorry if this is extremely long . I met this guy online some time ago and whenever we were chatting it wasn't for long, just regular small talk. I wasn't even paying attention, but generally I considered him to be a nice dude. Well, some months later (prob... (893 words)

He won't make the first move. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy so much. Sadly, he has no girl friend. A friend of mine likes him a lot though. I had heard so much about him, like he almost courted someone last year but then sadly he was rejected and the girl became the girlfriend of another guy. Well, I think he noticed ... (501 words)

What should I say to my parents so they will let me be more independent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are very strict . They don't allow me to have a job. I'm 16 years old and they still think that I'm a 5 year old girl. I want to work and raise money, I want to be independent, but they refuse. What shall I do? Help me to convince them that there's nothing wrong ... (60 words)

She doesn't want me. I don't know how to cope with this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love her a lot. But she's not trying to understand me. I was the one who proposed to her first. But she told me that, she can't see me like that. She was in love with a another guy. But it broke up due to some reasons. I can't forget her. Her presence kills me. I can't do a... (84 words)

My feelings for my teacher are overwhelming. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I don't know whether I'm in love with my male English teacher or just having crush on him but I do know that I have feelings for him and it's more than just an admiration or respect.. I've been feeling it for more than one year now... I'm really confused on what to do... ... (118 words)

He told her I was his friend, not his girlfriend. I don't know what to think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have gone back together after four months of separation. He broke up with me because he found it so hard to manage his life after being so financially struggled and he just had so much arguments at that time. He also had another girl when we weren't together. ... (305 words)

Anything wrong with our ages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Can a 17 year old who will be turning 18 in a month date an have sex with a 19 year old?... (22 words)

The thought of having sex scares me. Is there something wrong with me?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I am pretty sure I could live without sex. I am a bit concerned as to whether it is normal that I don't want to have sex, or do anything sexual pretty much. I've had a very good upbringing, liberal parents and I'm studying well at university now, working ... (208 words)

I don't know how to tell her. Can someone help me with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. I am crushing on a girl right now. We met one and a half years ago, but never talk and aren't close. I don't see her often, so my main form of communication with her would be through digital means. I have been rejected a couple of times before, and I know the feeling ... (235 words)

Guy friend is coming on to me and it is making me uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my best guy friends keeps telling me i look hot and I'm not very comfortable with it. I've known him since elementary school and he has never said anything like this before.....I'm not sure if he is just joking around or not because i got a bf and he has a gf. what c... (59 words)

LDR GF does not reciprocate my feelings, but there is this close friend who...

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been in a LDR for about a year now. i love my gf and she loves me the same. recently i have found myself doing quite more "sweet and romantic" things more than her. its bothered me for a while and now i cant take it any more. i thought i would just ignore it but it ... (200 words)

Is it wrong not to trust him because of one mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, My bf and i were together for 3 months and then he dumped me, he told me it was because he was afraid I was gonna dump him. We were broken up for 5 days and in those 5 days he had another girlfriend so now I don't trust him as much as I did before. Is it wrong fo... (83 words)

Confused by my girlfriend's behaviour.....what should I do?

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - she was my best friend in school...met her after 6 yrs..now we are in a relation for about 5 months. we like each other a lot. she clearly loves me, but doesnt say so [very rarely she tells]. she justifies if she says "i love you" she has to keep up, but she's worried about he... (496 words)

Should I stay with a great guy in a LDR or look closer to home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a great guy while working in another city for 3 months and we started a relationship which we continued long distance for the past 6 months. He's wonderful, nothing wrong with him, and I love him but I feel I don't want to be in a LDR. I want to have a relationship with ... (127 words)

My best friend is dating the girl I have liked for over a year!

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl that has been my best friend for pratically a year, iv had a secret crush on her for pratically a year. we took a break for about a week (because we spent almost every day together) and when i come back shes dateing my guy best friend!!!!! i coudnt be madder at ... (313 words)

Pregnant with 2nd baby - partner can't find work - worried to lose the relationship over this?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Pregnant with 2nd baby - baby 1 will be 1.5 yrs old when this baby comes out and this 2nd baby was unplanned - pill failed and condom broke. My bf currently can't find work in my country. He now thinks he should go back to the US and work in a previous job where he and his ... (411 words)

How can I tell her that I'm bi and I like her without freaking her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m bi, a teenager and and I have never told anyone, all my friends are straight and they definitely don’t understand me so I’m a quiet girl, but I do smile and laugh a lot. I just moved to a new school for a few weeks and I’m quite close to the girl who sits next to me in cl... (325 words)

The constant emotional abuse from my parents has led me to project their negativity against my B/f into my relationship, which I'v now almost ruined. How can I repair the damage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now and over that time, I've become increasingly frustrated with the fact we haven't moved in together in all these years. I'm in my mid-late twenties and still live at home with my parents. Their favourite hobbie i... (872 words)

So here I am now, nearly four months after, still feeling hurt and rejected at being forced into ending something that could have been so good....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

29 March 2011 (M)

age - Hi all... I was dating a woman (40) from July to Dec last year. It was so incredibly intense at 46 years of age I can honestly say I have never experienced anything like it in my life. She was everything to me - I loved everything about her and my feelings were met with th... (618 words)

My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (?) age - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have been pretty hard finacial... (390 words)

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He keeps me a secret from his ... (280 words)

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

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29 March 2011 (F)

age - Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish and he did nt think he would g... (358 words)

My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous.

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can any ladies help me get over this problem. My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous. I feel that he prefers them to me. I watched him looking at women for example we were sitting at red light traffic, a lady was crossing on his side ... (779 words)

I don't know what more I can do about our kids, should I shut their dad out of their lives completely?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i tried so hard for my kids to have a dad but all he wants is going out drinking even when we break up i tried getting him to spend time with them he makes everything hard. why cant i just drop them off for a night and come back the next day. he has to make it hard for exam... (149 words)

Should I take the blame for this going wrong, even when it is her that has become distant with me?

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have posted a few times here, but now I can truly say I am nearly a broken man. I have been trying to get to know a friend of mine, she is 4 years older than me and has had 2 relationships, 1 for 9 years, the other for 1 year, both failed. Initially, about 6 months ago, we... (425 words)

We argue all the time for no real reason! How do I deal with this so we don't end up breaking up?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship with this guy I absolutely love. He is amazing but sometimes our relationship is just full of arguments and im not even sure why they all start. We both love each other so much but its beginning to look like it can come to an end if things dont ligh... (181 words)

Was my long distance girl using me? Or is it something more?

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey this is in regards to long distance realtiolnsihp/ romance. any help or expect advice in this area would be appreciative I posted a while ago about how i maintained my distance from my long distance lover (girl) because of fear of heartbreak / and me getting cold... (498 words)

Should I move on with things? Or do I wait for him?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The man that I have been seeing for the past 3 months left to travel around South America for the next 6 months about 2 weeks ago. We were very much "together" before he went away and spent as much time together in those 3 months as possible. I had it all worked out in my head ... (303 words)

Does this make me or him the selfish one here?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this make me or him the selfish one here? So im in a LDR and we talk everyday, miss one day and we kinda miss each other and 2 days is just hell. Anyways...I talked to him for a little while on saturday and on sunday he was a no show...didnt think to much into ... (458 words)

We have crushes on each other, but she has a boyfriend! What should I do?

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm in class with this girl. I've always thought her to be cute and a crush started to grow. She has a boyfriend so I never thought much into it. We exchanged numbers and started casually txting but as time passed the messages became flirtatious and we both realized we had ... (173 words)

I don't want to overeact and ruin this relationship, but I am having a hard time trusting him!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a long distance relationship. The last time I slept with my boyfriend he gave me a yeast infection and now I am finding my self getting tested for all std's. I am finding so many inscurities rising to the surface as I think he also has given me an std before but i dont ... (181 words)

I like to dress to show off my body, but my girlfriend insists I dress conservatively! Who is right?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a gay 23 yr. old girl, my gf is insisting that i dress very conservatively as she's afraid i will attract other girls. but i like to dress to show off my body. who's right?... (36 words)

Guys: at what point in a realtionship can an audible fart be forgiven?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a pretty silly question, but at least it's light and funny and fairly easy to answer. Guys, I have noticed, have no problem running around with all of their bodily functions flailing in the breeze. Many ladies are not quite so comfortable, myslef included. Guy... (82 words)

Should I lose my virginity to my friends with benefits guy?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Long story short i have a Friend with Benefits we have met before, but we Haven't yet met up for 'sexual favours' and I know that he just wants me for sex and sh*t, but that's all I looking for anyways but I'm a virgin (he knows this) whats your opinion?... (67 words)

His experience makes me insecure...

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29 March 2011 (F)

Why did he make me wait 3 whole minutes before having sex?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said "cause we are going to do it!" I ... (201 words)

I know I need to break up with him, but how do I do this when I have my son to think about?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances when i do pay my half. i get so ... (235 words)

Tips on getting over a breakup?

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one] I'm a bit depressed over a recent breakup looking for the best tips to move on. I kind of have been talking to a few girls, is it ok if I'm not over my ex completely? Also, what are somegood movies ... (68 words)

We have a baby, but I'm worried about our future...

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have an issue about me and my fiance. First off, we have been together for almost two years. We also have a one year old son. I became pregnant really early after we started going out and although it was a surprise for both of us, we got engaged when I was pregn... (325 words)

Why hasn't he said the "L" word?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now. He told me once that he's never felt this way about anybody before and it scares him sometimes how much he likes me. We've both met each others parents and went on holiday together, and I feel like I may be really ... (155 words)

How do I get him to ditch his ex once and for all and date me properly?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i meet a guy and while we sarted haveing casual dates he came back with his ex ( open relationship, her idea he only agreed to return because of the memories), i was hurt but i liked him so much i agreed to go out with him after the sweetest dates in the world he has reveled ... (129 words)

I'm witholding sex from him to show him how angry I am about our sex life and him watching porn!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Well, I'm going to admit this on DC because I don't think I can say it out loud. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He looks at porn pretty much every time I leave the house. I know because the history on his computer is always erased. He also has a ridic... (244 words)

What is going on? How do I confront him?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and he is 25. We have been dating for 5 months casually. We live an hour apart and I always drive to him, he never drives to me. I know all his friends. He knows no one in my life. During the first part of us seeing each other it was agreed that we were exclusive y... (389 words)

How to get a Christian guy to notice you?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a question and need help! I have taken notice of this guy at my church and would like to know how to get him to notice me as well. He is very popular and I'm a little more shy and really don't how to go about talking to him. What can I do and say to get h... (88 words)

Has he lost interest in me?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am falling in love with this man, and he used to feel the same, but I think he may have gotten over me. I think this is my fault. I tried to tell myself I didn't love him, so I began to ignore his flirting, glances, and just him in general. Now he pretty much ignores me too. ... (94 words)

I wanted to make her first time special but I couldnt keep it up! Help!

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 m and in the most perfect relationship I've ever been in, it's been 6 months now and I am madly inlove with her. But- I was molested about 3 weeks ago.. and since then alot seems different, i have anxiety and can't really leave the house if I'm home alone etc. but t... (317 words)

My ex has moved in with the girl he cheated on me with, why do I feel so hurt by this?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my ex (whom I dated for 5 years) and broke up with 8 months ago, has moved in together with his current girlfriend whom he cheated on me with (the cause of our breakup). This has shocked me as we never made that step as a couple because I always wanted ... (306 words)

What do I do about my boyfriend's female best friend?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here is the deal- My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. His best friend (we will call her Stacy) Stacy and him were best friends in middle school lost touch from high school to college and have now in their late twenties reconnected and ... (215 words)

Preventing razor burn?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I can't shave my vagina without it getting bumps or razor burn. It's not like I'm having sex or anything I just don't like the razor burn. Is there anyway to help it? (And i have tried soap and shaving cream already)... (43 words)

Is it wrong for a 19 year old girl to date a 17 year old guy?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started casually seeing a guy, but I don't want to take it further because I am 19, and he is 17. Is this wrong?... (34 words)

How am I ever going to have sex if fingering hurts so much?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. However, I have been sort of getting together with this guy who is attracted to me and I'm attracted to him, even though we aren't dating. It's not a big deal to me. It's just for the fun of it. Anyway, he has fingered me a f... (201 words)

How do you know if you are ready to have sex?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 14 years old. I have had a boyfriend now for almost 6 months. He is truly amazing! I love him with all my heart and I would do anything fo him. :) The thing is that I'm a virgin however he is not. He has had sex 3 times with the same person about a year ago. He isn't ... (146 words)

I have slept with 6 guys, and it is soon to be 7, is this a lot of people to have slept with at my age?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and have had one long-term serious relationship, and a few shorter less intense ones. I have slept with 6 different guys, 3 of them boyfriends, 3 of them flings or one-night-stands. I am sort of considered a slut in the small town in which I live, because most of ... (143 words)

Should I confront my ex about his cheating?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 7 months since we were constantly at odds with each other due to his controlling and possessive behavior towards me. I recently found out via facebook that he was cheating on me (or vice versa) with the mother of his child. I am so angry ... (123 words)

Not comfortable receiving oral sex

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have had a few sexual partners but have had a certain problem with all of them, i don't feel comfortable recieving oral sex. Its mainly just worry that i will look/smell horrible. I do wash down there, but not overly, nor do i use freshness products. I think my look and... (179 words)

He "wants space" - do I just move on?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Backstory: Moved to university last September with my ex, we split a few weeks later. Not long after met Q (obviously not his real name) and we started flirting but then I found out that he was sorta seeing one of my best friends. He told her he didn't want a relation... (666 words)

3am text after a week of not talking.. I have not replied...confused

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I had it really good lasted little bit more than a month than it started goin downhill when he called me on valentines day and I was angry with his bad news..we never dated or went out. But I told him I had to go and he kinda giggled little and said call me some ... (354 words)

Can't choose between two guys!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my situation is kind of long but any help would be greatly appreciated. I have been dating this guy named Sam for about a month and it's been nothing serious, we just go for coffees or dinners. He pays sometimes, I pay sometimes. Super, super casual. We barely talk abou... (637 words)

My ex is trying to hang out with me again, but I have a new boyfriend.....should I be friends with him or is he trying to get me back?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i was dating this wonderful guy for about 3 and a half months. i lost my virginity to him after we were only dating for a week. i knew that it was too soon and that people would think i was stupid for it. but i couldn't see myself regretting it. well, then i found out ... (311 words)

Is there something wrong with me?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old girl who is a virgin, but last week I was fingered by a guy I actually really like. He was gentle and he understood that I was a Virgin and that I really had no idea about what it was I was supposed to do, but the weird thing is - it hurt. It didn't hurt while ... (185 words)

My boyfriend cant please me in bed!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal.... Me and my man has a great relationship together except when it comes to being in the bedroom....we have sex about 5 times a week (trying for a baby) but the thing is we never have sex at night in fact he never even comes to bed with me at night at all i... (290 words)

We were together, and now we are best friends, but are we really best friends or something more?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So My current best friend and I dated for almost 3 months (october-december) and we broke up in January. Our relationship was AMAZING. I thought everything was perfect, like it was the first time I felt someone had liked me just as much as I liked them. We are perfect for ... (876 words)

I really thought we'd just be together in our own little disfunctional way for the longterm

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was fifteen i (thought) i fell in love with a friend, he became my boyfriend and we went out for almost two years. It was never exactly perfect, i'm not an emotional person and found it difficult to talk about any real 'feelings' and he never really pushed me to talk ... (345 words)

How do I get a woman in the mood for sex?

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29 March 2011 (M) age 41-50 - I want to have sex with a girl how should I get her in the mood? ... (18 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to be in to what I do

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid Forum, I'm a 21 year old musician/singer/college student currently in a relationship that hosts average ups and downs. Lately, there is one thing that is really upsetting me.. Music is the one thing I am truly passionate for in this world, singing makes me... (288 words)

Is it true that only time is a healer?

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering how you get over a break up? I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in January and it is still hurting. I know the break up was right for me as I am at Uni and the relationship was getting difficult to keep healthy and happy. We did get back together at... (185 words)

I feel like I'm not as good as her ex!

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29 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im having a problem... my gf and her ex never had to use a condom during sex... i have premature ejaculation therefore i use a condom to help me last longer..she tells me she doesn't mind at all but it bothers me.. i feel like a loser.. i feel like im not as good as her ex... i ... (61 words)

Why cant I just get a straight answer.

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay to me this makes no sense. Like im sure there is a good reason but im not getting it and it bothers me. Theres this guy that I worked with and we kind of hit it off had been working together for 3 months or so only talked at work then he got fired. We started texting ... (395 words)

After hiding it for 2 years, my brother finds out I'm dating his friend and hes not happy about it!

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Help!!! I've gotten myself in a bad situation. I've been talking to my big brothers friend for three years behind my brothers back. It wasent supposed to last this long we just planned on having a one night stand but things didn't happen that way we both fell for each other ... (152 words)

Boyfriend needs a break because he has alot on his plate

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29 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite a while. (4 years) We've had our ups and downs like any other relationship however I feel like we rarely do anything anymore. He never takes me out. He never makes plans for us to go out or do anything. He just always comes over ... (318 words)