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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm too attached to my boyfriend and it is affecting my relationship! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im recently in a relationship and i cant seem to control myself, i feel so attached to him i need help, i need advice. i always find myself calling him wanna know where he at, i cant seem to concentrate at work and when we go out im always looking at hm to see the way he looks ... (132 words)

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to set the scene here, and I'm sorry if this is a lengthy question! Okay, so I am a freshman in Highschool; I started a couple of months ago, but two months before school began, I was enrolled in Marching Band. I loved it; every day we practiced in the heat on the ... (256 words)

I will always love my ex. But should I try to move on now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met the most amazing guy three years ago and fell hard for him. He was my soulmate if there is such a thing. I felt like I knew him all my life and he was everything I ever wanted. We broke up because of his drug problem two years ago. We still love each other but it still... (118 words)

Should I wait until he makes a move? He's read, but also ignored by message

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I use to date this guy for 7 weeks. And I fell in love with this dude and he did too, but he broke it off. because my mom is so over protective. And it sux. I really want to be back with him. I talk to my mom about how she is so over protective with and so she wants me to sh... (201 words)

Online dating. 17 year older woman. how to come around the hurddle of special friendship for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, I have communicating with an acquarius woman for more than 3 months now.I am 23 and she is 40. Despite the age difference we have talked about everything. Her life, marriage, children, her passion, dreams, EVERYTHING!! Same with me. We have told each o... (212 words)

If he's married how do I let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Need help. I have dated a guy for two years. Since i was 16 and he was 19. He always told me he loved me, that he wanted to marry me and he treated me well. We have been through a lot but i can honestly say i love him. A few months ago he went abroad and hes parents told him ... (195 words)

Should I be worried about my teacher's behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in year 8 and i am confused is my teacher being a perv or friendly ..? well long story but my friend S. he has touched before a lot of times i didn't believe her until mr.I sent me out of his lesson. mr.I came very close into my personal space put his hand on my shoulder ... (177 words)

Would a girl laugh at my penis when its not erect?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i wondering if my 6-7 inch dick (erect)is big enough to do the job? when its not erect its maybe about 2 inches. i kind of feel embaressed when its not erect. i feel like a girl would laugh when she felt it not erect.... (45 words)

He's been talking to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm super confused with my relationship. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and its been an up and down relationship. He cheated on me with another girl and it took awhile to get over that but i finally have and she is no longer in the picture. But just recently ... (303 words)

I'm losing all my guy friends to their girlfriends. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I may be overreacting here but I seem to be losing all my guy friends because they are getting girlfriends. I mean this at school only. There are about 5 of us in the normal group who talk at lunch and break. One has been in a relationship with a girl in my year for... (134 words)

Is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! I've been going through Freshman year looking for one thing: a guy. I've seen tons of cute-faced boys but none really notice me. I'm a little overweight, with non-highlighted hair, and no second/third/fourth piercings on the ear. The only thing I really do is wear black ... (288 words)

Is it weird that I don't like to kiss the guy I'm sleeping with unless we're in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only been sexually active for the last year and a half, and I've only dated 2 of the 8 guys I've slept with. Nonetheless, I've come to realize that I don't feel right kissing the guy unless we're in a relationship. Is it weird that I put kissing on a higher emotional ... (69 words)

Troubled son--what do I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age - I have a 16 year old who I am now so ashamed off. He has really gone off the rails. I have been a single mum for many years and my current partner stepped into his life when he was about 6 yet he does not appreciate or respect him and keeps saying he is not his dad. He i... (490 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I kissed another guy? I tried to tell him but he cried

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 6 years off and on has hurt me sooo much over the years. and i've broken up with him numerous times for that reason. but we are together now and i do love him and i think we are pretty strong and can get through anything. but one of the times he hung up on me ... (205 words)

Sweet man or sociopath?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - if a man is charming does it always have to mean that they are trying to schmooze? my new guy is rather over the top charming towards me, i have told him it makes me uneasy and he said he flatters me coz he wants me to like him. he is not a silly man, he is 50 years old, very ... (125 words)

Should I reunite with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confused my whole family broke up due to domestic violence 7 years ago , and i have just got back in contact with my 2 cousins . my father has gone back to turkey should i reunite with him ?... (42 words)

Put your hands up in the air if you agree that studying SUCKS!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaaaa!!! It's almost end of March and I have the most agony test during the end of May and they determind whether I get in University or not (another word I'm doing my AS) It's bloody annoying because I've lost motivation and whenever I do a mini exam I always get a ba... (170 words)

Does staring equal liking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy... He is alwaays trying to joke around near me and everytime i look over in that direction, he is staring at me. Does this mean that he likes me?... (33 words)

Social Anxiety, Vainess, Shyness, Nervousness of girls, intimidation, how do I overcome all of this???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old guy, I find it soo agitating when people stare at me in public, at school, in the mall, on the bus, when Im crossing the street, etc. What I don't get is why me...???? Am I a creature from outer space that people haven't seen before, because quite frankly...I ... (269 words)

After rejection, I now feel nothing

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23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone... I would really like some help because I am feeling very confused and I could use some good advices! Well, I was 10years old when I first fell in love with my best (girl) friend and I made the terrible mistake of telling her. She freaked out and after that we ... (277 words)

My girlfriend is afraid of me cheating on her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have to go overseas for college soon and even though me and my girlfriend love each other and want to stay together, she's afraid that I'll cheat on her while I'm at college even though I just want to make her happy. What should I do? How can I prove to her that I only ... (64 words)

Boyfriend doesn't do anything for me. All we do is have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesnt do anything for me, his never taken me out or buy me a gift. And when im at his place he doesnt even make me food al we do is sex. Im tired please help ... (38 words)

Why is he becoming more sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there! Okay, I'm in a sticky situation! I started Highschool not too long ago and within the first week, I started to like a sophomore boy I met. He's so gorgeous, and very sweet and calm, despite being one of the popular skaters. He was a great study-buddy, and I could ... (157 words)

He hasn't changed his profile to say he's with me,yet I can't forget him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It's a long story. So anyways. I met some guy on bearwww (a gay bear site) almost year ago. Things went well but with one seemly minor slip up. I didn't talk to him months and ignored him. He came back and things were fine until last month. He has said he was with someone ... (173 words)

Am I just not ready for sex? Or am I asexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female who has never had a desire to have sexual intercourse. When I had my first boyfriend when I was 14, we did everything sexual but intercourse. We both agreed we weren't ready for it yet. Then I had another boyfriend and I told him the same thing. He ... (672 words)

Would it be wrong to date my sister''s teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old...lets get that out of theway and i had this 8th grade history teacher that was literally gorgeous!!! My little sister has him now and hes only 31 now. I have talked to him (and flirted a little) when i saw him while picking up my sister from school. We talk ... (90 words)

On-line girl who is interested

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23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a grown girl, I'm 24 and I've never been on a relationship, ever. to be honest I was fine with it because I was busy doing some other stuff anyway I always been interested on boys, guys I still find myself looking at a gorgeous boy when I see him the thing is there's ... (320 words)

Planning for the future -- how bad is the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i know this sounds stupid, but I'm genuinely curious... exactly how painful is sex? i mean, does it compare to anything? i plan in saving myself until I'm 18, or even marriage. but i still wont to know because knowing me, I'll hate it and probably ask him to stop. would th... (81 words)

Husband loves me one day, hates me the next, wants divorce every time we fight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1279 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I’ve got a lot going on in this question and I’ll try to make it as short as possible- I apologize if it’s too much to follow, but I feel like it all has to get out. My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 9. We were both previously married ... (1550 words)

Obsessed or massive crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - There's this guy. We aren't really friends or anything but we have spoken. From the conversations we've had, he seems smart, interested in you and what you have to say and has a great sense of humour. I've known of him for about 7 months now, but I've never really tried to get ... (443 words)

How much is too much when not official?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone! im seeing someone, have been for a few months now, we are exclusive but not official and because of circumstance have decided its unmanageable to make a proper commitment to each other. i really really like him, but the trouble is it's the first time ive even ... (160 words)

Introducing the kids - good timing vs. bad timing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My birthday is coming up in the next month, my BF is fairly new (4-5 mos) and he hasn't met my kids. I'm waiting to see if this blooms into something serious. I'd like to invite him to my home for my birthday dinner with the kids since he's now a part of my life. Should I ... (120 words)

If he doesn't find me physically attractive, who is he visualizing in his mind so that he can get aroused?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age - I thin that the title to my question really say it all, the rest of this is background. While my husband has never come out and said it in a complete sentence, he does not find me physically attractive. He says that our sexual relationship, for him, is about an emotional con... (153 words)

Strained relationship with mom ever since I came out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't stand it! I feel as if I can't be myself around my mum! Ever since I came out last summer We have had a strained relationship. Before she would ask me about girls and stuff and I know it is an adjustment but now I don't feel I can talk about myself and my problems to ... (158 words)

Why do we reward bad behavior in people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to know is why do we like/love/ reward people who behave badly? Why is it so entertaining to see people behaving so poorly yet we seem to praise them ? Why do we ignore people who do good is it because they are boring? ... (47 words)

Help with bro-code

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Need help with the bro-code :S One of my close mates R has a younger brother T and me and T have been flirting quite alot, by that I mean touching, looking at each other and non stop eye contact. R isn't the most comfortable with me being gay but we are still good frien... (72 words)

Give me an idea for a text to cheer up my bf!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is something really sweet that i could text my boyfriend to help make his day better?... (18 words)

I wasn't ready for a relationship so we agreed to be friends--but now he ignores me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I met this guy recently and found out that we've crossed paths several times before we actually met. We're in the same program in university, we share the same group of friends, and we've been to the same get-togethers and parties. Up until now we never met ... (334 words)

He says I'm on thin ice with him. I know its my fault and I don't want to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do anymore. Im i dont know im lost. Im truly in love with this guy (were in a long distance relationship) and I think Ive just lost him. I uhmm well Im not the most attractive girl in the world but Im not ugly but Im over-weight and thanks to that and t... (604 words)

He wants to marry me, but I am afraid that will ruin our open relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok ive been in a relationship 4 almost a yr. in the beginning it was up and down and we fought alot, then we had a huge fight over something really small and then a month later we made up because we both couldnt live without each other. anyways now its really cool we ... (248 words)

Should I date a guy who is recently divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this is gonna be quite long and a bit weird so im sorry. ive been friends with this guy for years. i mean we grew up together; he was an older brother. he got married out of necessity because he got this girl pregnant and he felt bad so they got married. i think in the b... (268 words)

Husband and I are fighting, he's masturbating, (no, not while we're fighting), now we're not talking...is divorce inevitable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. my spouse and i are in our late twenties and have very busy and high demanding careers. we married about 7 months ago but have been together for 3+ years. over the past month, we've fought constantly. over everything. mainly because there's not enough intimacy. i have ... (219 words)

My friend is always on my mind -- I think I'm in love and I don't want to screw it up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think im in love with my flatmate, im not sure how she feels about me. My other flatmates and friends keep saying we look like a couple. She is always on my mind and when she is around im always happier, she always comes onto my room and we talk for ages. On holiday at the ... (111 words)

Easter and a new relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We're new into the relationship and Easter is coming up and I just want to do something cute and fun for him. I bought some small plastic eggs but I'm needing some help on ideas to make it fun. Should I put notes in the eggs? Or candy? Or what? ... (74 words)

Do I forgive him for cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me. From the very beginning we both made it clear how fond we were of each other. We both agreed that honesty and trust was the number one thing we looked for in a relationship, especially me i made it very clear to him that i had been ... (290 words)

Gay sex with second cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya i am a gay boy who needs some help. i am gay, so is my cousin (2nd), can i have sex with him? please let me know =)... (35 words)

I just want to know if he's interested so I can ask him out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy and he's always around me everytime it's lunch at school. One day I smiled at him because I always see him or his friends gesturing to him pointing at me. So a couple of days later he walks up to me looks me in the eyes and slowly starts to smile and tha... (206 words)

After 26 years of marriage my husband left me for another woman

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age - 3 months ago after 26 years of marriage my husband left me for another woman.The first month we had hardly any contact but now we speak and see each other every day. He says he still loves me and that no one will ever compare to how he feels about me. He only knew his girlfrie... (150 words)

Co-workers said he was with someone else, but he denies it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Need some advice on what to do. Me and my partner have been having trouble for the past two years. We had been together for 18 years and have an 17 year old son. Just after Christmas we had an heart to heart and he explained to me he was feeling depressed and his approach... (912 words)

Is he interested or trying to play me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've known this guy for about a year or two and I've started to develop a crush/obsession. Some of the girls in my clique have developed feelings for some guys, all of whom hang out together; I've recently told them I have a crush on one of the guys, too. We're al... (446 words)

My stepmother and I are in a cold war!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently me and my step mother have been arguing, and for two weeks we haven't spoken to each other at all. Last night we had an argument, my dad involved, about a couple of events that happened in school that caused damage to some of my property. I had said to her that I don't ... (353 words)

My ex goes to lengths to conceal his identity, but paints me as untrustworthy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age - I am very confused over trust issues due to the level of secretcy my ex will go to to conceal his identity,his comings and goings,his whereabouts. he constantly uses any information i disclose or he finds that he thinks is related me to use against me to make me look like im e... (70 words)

Is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and i have dated for 4 years starting in college. We got along great, even after the initial infatuation had worn off. We were together all the time and truly enjoyed each others company. We were each others first real loves. We recently became long distance since she ... (328 words)

I am a masturbation addict!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

23 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - About 2 years ago i was in a very good relationship which lasted 9 months. In that relationship, the sex was absolutely unbelieveable. We could please each other any time, all the time. But when we split up i wasnt having sex so, for the first time in a long time, i watched ... (151 words)

I want to ask her out, but there's only 3 weeks left of school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this girl who lives in the room next to mine at university in residence and she and i usually talk if we see each other or waive if we are in a hurry. anyway about 2 days ago, my roommate and i want for dinner and i noticed that she was sitting alone so i asked ... (174 words)

I want to show my sick ex that I care, but it's difficult because he has a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, hoping for some more excellent advice. I have an ex who isn't too good at the moment. He has major back problems and premature arthritis due to a bad car crash 5 years ago where he broke his back by crushing a lower vertebrae. He has always had pain in his lowe... (331 words)

Wife has cheated, but won't tell me the guy's name!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age - wife confesses one night stand while on trip with her girlfriends. she says she has told me all there is to tell but won't tell me guys name. whats up with that?... (33 words)

If he loved me at all why would he treat me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and have a 7 month old son. I can't seen to get over my boyfriend, when he says he's leaving me I feel so heartbroken and upset I don't know what to do with myself. He always come back and hasn't said he's leaving in a while but today he said he is even though I haven't ... (553 words)

Are there second chances at love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - First off, I want to apologize for the length of this question. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in December because he decided he wanted to be with someone else. I was in a depression for close to 2 months and anytime I tried moving on, it felt so wrong. I was eng... (336 words)

He has a girlfriend and won't dump her for me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont know how to word this so long story short.... the guy i like likes me to, he says he loves me bt he has a nother gf but wont dump her........ What do i do... (38 words)

I love him but can't keep up with his hot and cold act!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been living together for about 5 months now and I am so confused. I love him so much but I don't understand why sometimes he doesn't show that he cares. Sometimes he makes me feel so special and other times like I don't exist. He works out of town Alot so most... (376 words)

Why didnt he call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why didnt he call me? A few months ago i was seeing someone i had known from my teens, we d always had a thing for each other and i hadn't seen this man for 15yrs. I had recently become single and as far as i knew he was single as he lived alone. He asked me out for old t... (232 words)

Why is he being so distant toward me? What am I doing wrong? Is there really a reason why men do this sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be long, but I feel like I have to let this be known, heard. I'm tired of hurting. But I don't want to end this relationship. I love my Freedom (well, his name really isn't "Freedom", but to protect his privacy I will call him, "Freedom". I must note, however, ... (710 words)

Will my ex come back to me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try and keep it short. I broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 weeks ago. we had a great realtionship together which lasted for 11 months, it was both our first long relationship with strong, passionate feelings involved. we cared for each other alot, we was even planning to ... (807 words)

My friend has a psychological problem and I feel I enabled it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) age 41-50 - A colleague at work is very psychologically unwell. I have known for some time that she was finding things tough (she has been coming into my office and crying almost every week). She has had an extramarital affair, and an eating disorder, and has not been coping at all. I ... (586 words)

Should I quit while I'm still young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My life feels like a vicious circle. My partner and i have recently decided to start a fresh after a 3 month break. We have had a on off relationship for the past 8 yrs. We have a couple of kids together who are both still young. It was he who suggested we try again, i had me... (263 words)

Guy and feelings--how can we get you to open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I tell my guy I like him and that he turns me on but I don't get that from him. The other day I got him to say he likes me and he said that he's already told me that he liked me and cared BUT I certainly don't remember that. You ladies know when a guy says that!! That's not ... (97 words)

My exgirlfriend contact me after 3 years and I now feel like crap

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know its sad but my first ever gf dumped me 3 years ago and I cant get over it . She dumped me over telephone just saying she didnt care for me anymore. She said that she didnt want to be friends either so I basically cut all ties from her not talking to her at all. I ... (378 words)

My b/f took his ex's side over mine and now I don't trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this might be long sorry... ok so ive been with my partner for over 3 yrs the first few months were amazing then one day im in class and get a text from him sayin that it was childish of me texting his ex abusin her. he never asked me if i did he just full out accused me i told ... (240 words)

Why am I jealous of my son spending time with his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My 16 year old son has his first serious girlfriend whom he has been dating a few months. At first I liked her well enough but lately they spend so much time together I have been feeling jealous of the time and affection that he gives to her and not me. I am happy he is happy ... (120 words)

How do you tell a guy you won't go any further in the relationship until he is well off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a really nice divorced man a while ago and we started a relationship in which we were both happy, and even discussed marriage and children. However lately I have realised how much it actually costs to raise and school a child. (I don't have children) I own my home and my ... (166 words)

After sex it takes him about 30 minutes to recover,is this normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner is 20 turning 21 and after he cums hes penis starts to die and it takes him around 30mins or more for him to have another erection is this normal? or dose he have a problem i don't know for he was my first sexual partner please help... (50 words)

12 year old looking at porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my 12 yeras son is looking on porn on his computer its that normal... (15 words)

My wife lied and told me her previous marriage wasn't finalized after I had married her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, now check this out. A year and a half ago, I got into a relationship. After she moved here, she began spending time with another man.....a "friend" as she put it. We got married, and 6 weeks into it, she comes to me with the story she has discovered that her previous ... (202 words)

Like me? or just playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl last saturday through a group of friends. Since then, she has shown alot of the signs when a girl likes someone (given me her number, texted me, written about random stuff on my fb wall, commented and liked some of my fb stuff, accidentally called me before bedtime ... (168 words)

Why does boyfriend keep me a secret from his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being in a relationship for the last 5 months. This isnt an easy relationship as I dont get why my bf never asks me to meet his family. We live really close to each other but he never asks me round his house unless there no one there. This guy is 26, why would he want to ... (133 words)

Partner has photos of naked models on his phone. I feel crushed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i`m in a right state here,please,please help. i have been with my partner for 12 years. we have 2 children and enjoy being a family. we do have a healthy sex life and i love him with all my heart. on sunday he showed me some pics he`d taken on his phone,when i started to ... (186 words)

Is it worth trying things with him? His ex wants him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like him, he has definitely been flirting according to all body language signs and some comments and things, all my friends have been trying to get us together, but I just found out he is still in love with his ex who he broke up with a couple of months ago. She wants to try ... (84 words)

Money the route of all evil?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

- Hi everyone. I need some advice please. Last year I had breast cancer, and recieved an insurance payout. Thankfully I have just been given the all clear. My partner was mostly very suportive at the time, although we were having financial difficulty's, and argued a bit abo... (211 words)

Why do I still have strong feelings for my ex? Should I break it off with my current bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so please bare with me it's kind of long. I am a gamer chick who loves to play role playing games and live action role play "Larp" and when I first started back in July 20, 2010 I met up with a guy who was older than me by about 12 years. Well, on the second day of meeting ... (846 words)

Younger sister needs advice. To date or not date the ex of her older sister? SWOT analysis please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A lady in the same family dated a guy, and they later broke up, because the lady left him for his friend. now the guy (who was dumped by the above lady in the family) wants to date the younger sister of the lady in the family. what is the younger sister going to do? is ... (107 words)

Is this guy in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When a guy tells you he 'loves you to bits' does he mean he is in love with you or loves you as a friend? Ive being in a relationship for 5 month and my bf has being telling me this. He has only said 'love you' a couple of times. As I dont see him that much I dont know if loves ... (72 words)

Why does this good looking guy at the gym always stare at me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The first day when i was joining my gym i noticed this good looking guy who was behind the staff room door just staring at me, it was off putting because i didn't know why they were or even who this guy was!? I thought nothing of it that time really, but then every time ... (211 words)

A man always knows whom he wants, right? else why the delay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I have known each other for seven years. He is five years younger to me, though we have never felt the difference in any way. Lately the past year we have been hanging out a lot, almost every other day. Around 6 months ago i sensed our interaction changing, ... (523 words)

Crush found out I liked him and asked why I never told him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my crush of 3 years finally found out i like him. Not by me though he found out by someone else. He asked me why i never told him. I told him my fears. But i really dont understand why he would ask me if we are going to continue being friends. Like it would really makes no ... (96 words)

B/f breaks up with me, says I'm not his type but calls me every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been best friends for 1 year and then we started dating.After 5 months he dumped me via sms saying that he thinks he made a mistake.we didn't have any contact for 8 months.I was devastated and sad because I lost an important person in my life.He showed ... (185 words)

My boyfriend always teases me and I really don't think he's funny

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age - My bf always seems to have to do something to poke at me or to tear me down a little bit. He thinks I just don't get his sense of humor. As I am the butt of his inane, slightly bullying humor, I guess I don't find his humor sweet and cute, especially when he repeats the same ... (426 words)

I feel I'm wasting my life with my girlfriend, I want to date others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupids. Im really was just wondering what your opinions are, Im twenty and I dont really go out much, because I lost most of my friends because of my girlfriend. Weve been together for five years and really I know I shouldnt have gone back at all but I did. I love her ... (182 words)

The woman my ex cheated with sends me photos of them together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help please. I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago. It ended badly (I caught him cheating) after 5 years of being together. I contacted the other woman (that's the nicest I can say about her is that she is a woman) and told her what he was doing to the both of us, ... (186 words)

I confessed to my wife that I went to porn sites and now she doesn't want anything to do with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have problems, my life, sucks and im to blame for it. I messed up the relationship with my wife, and my family. Let me get to the beginning, my wife gave birth of our first and possibly last child a little over a month a go. A boy whome we both love and is infact the only ... (464 words)

Do gay guys flirt with straight girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So their is this gay guy i work with and I am head over heels for him. We flirt a lot together, but my friend from work told me that he is gay. Now i am just so confused because he was flirting with me, playing with me, tickling me, hugging me,playfully holding my hand and ... (111 words)

Was I out of line for telling ex I don't want to see her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend/now ex-girlfriend broke up with me and started hanging out with a new guy friend of hers that had in the last few weeks made me jealous. I'm not going to make the assumption that they're already having sex but cuddling is a definite yes and she's stayed over at ... (138 words)

How do I make cheating boyfriend realize I may not always be around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex tells me he doesnt want to be with me right now? what does that mean i love him a lot but i need to be strong how can i make him think that i aint going to always be there? i mean thats why hes says not right now right? i mean the only reason we aint together cuz of him ... (162 words)

If he really loved me...why did he travel so far away from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A man that I have been seeing for over 3 months has just gone overseas for between 6-9 months. The night that I met him he told me that he was going away in March so I have known the whole time that we have been seeing each other that he was going. Things started to get quite ... (255 words)

How can I stop getting distracted by hot women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - As a single guy how can I stop wanting to date every hot girl I meet?! Its distracting, seriously. Not to mention the ones whose numbers I get we become friends and all the while in my head I'm thinking about how gorgeous they are and how I wanna date them. Is there a cur... (61 words)

I am 18 and I don't feel anything when I am with women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm 18yrs and it's like i've got issues with gals. I don't seem to fall in love with anyone, like i dont have feelings or something but still i feel incomplete. My question is what are the feelings i should get when approaching a gal. Is it sexy ... (58 words)

I can't hav sex with my gf...because she reminds me of a horse.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey aunties I feel really terrible about something about a dashing lady that I've been seeing for almost 7 months. That's why I'm here looking for advice. We get on well, have lots in common and here lately we've been getting frisky. We haven't had intercourse yet which isn't ... (292 words)

Have I permitted him to keep me on a string? I'm confused as to why he declared his love, yet made no attempt to take things further...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been mad for my guy friend for years. Since we were kids. We never dated while we were at school. We saw each other through our other loves and losses, moved in different directions, and lost touch. Neither of us married. A few years ago, he found me on a social... (405 words)

Did this guy stop talking to me because he found out I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so i really like this guy but he gas a gf... We used to joke around and talk but all of a sudden we stopped... Did he find out that i like him and is he creeped out?... (39 words)

How should I deal with my obsession for a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl a while back (we stopped dating cause our schedules didn't really match up) but then I graduated, and she graduates this semester. But I don't have a car, and shes like 40 minutes away. I haven't seen here in months, but we email very now and then. Anyway... (221 words)

My ex-bf says he might want to get back with me...but in a few years!! How can I speed this up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had one boyfriend, but he decided to break up with me 3 weeks ago after being together for 19 months. Before he broke up with me, he told me he didn't want to break up with me... then why did he do so? He said we could still be friends. I was told why he broke up with me... (312 words)

Can having frequent anal sex cause incontinence later in life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have done anal five times now. The last time was a couple weeks ago but I'm wondering how much you have to do before you risk becoming incontinent? I don't want to be in my 60s and not be able to hold my crap inside me til I can reach a toilet. Thanks.... (60 words)

How do I get him interested? And why can't I stop thinking about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and currently 16 weeks pregnant, with a guy who wants nothing to do with me or the baby, but thats not why im here. Over a year ago i started talking to this guy i've know for a while,grew up in a small town, and we hung out once at my house, just drank an... (157 words)

I broke up with him, but like his younger brother. Should I now tell the younger brother I like him better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I felt that he was too clingy and needy, stupid reasons I know, but when he got another gf, I had a freak out. We got back together (kind of) and have been really close, but when we first broke up I began to start liki... (175 words)

We just broke up. Any ideas of what she might be thinking or what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and we're no longer talking. She said a day after breaking up (in an annoyed tone) that she doesn't love me anymore and there's no chance of us ever being in a relationship again. I did nothing wrong, but apparent... (169 words)

He's gone back to his country. I am pregnant. Should I tell off my abusive ex or stay a lady ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 27 year old female. My abusive boyfriend has just ended our relationship. I don't know why he left me I guess I blame myself because I was jealous, but he lied about the computer and talking to other women on porn sites. He hurt me, then went back to his country. I a... (201 words)

Shall I really try to forget her and move on? She's confusing me. Is there hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I'm in a really weird situation here. It's a long story so I guess I'll just start from the top. I've been friends with this girl S for a few months now. We've mostly talked about music and other random stuff. Then she got a boyfriend, which I didn't care about becau... (411 words)

What are the signs a guy might be interested in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What are some of the signs a guy is interested or attracted to a woman if he is not personal with her and they are just merely aquainted, how can she tell? what are the signs? and also what if he is shy? how would she know then?... (48 words)

Stuck in a crush/friendship limbo...plz help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I finally told my crush that I liked him! And he said he liked me too...but he was too busy to give a relationship the attention that he should. I saw him today and he said hello and gave me a hug as usual. So I guess I'm just supposed 2 pretend nothing happened then? I feel ... (120 words)

Can anyone explain his mood changes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted on this before. basically my ex had a huge problem with my sex life before him, and it ruined our relationship. After about 3 months after we broke up, he texted me saying he had changed. The guys before him, didn't bother him anymore. So we tried talking...and I ... (394 words)

Is protected sex before marriage alright?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Is protected sex before marriage alright? Or sex after marriage will be better?... (13 words)

Too available for my girlfriend? or She's too clingy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend expects to talk for hours every single day. I've run out of things to talk about and uses that against me. We only see each other about 4-5 days a month on weekends due to the fact she works in another city. I'm not in school right now nor working so I'm pretty ... (261 words)

Why does he put his friends before me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP "/ my boyfriend is 18 and acts like a idiot and goes out drinking with his mates (im 16)and he has no job and lives on his own he always has people around his flat and in his car i want him to get his act together and start acting like an adult as he tells me that he ... (112 words)

I lost my virginity and now he says he doesn't want a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Two nights ago, I had lost my virginity. The first time, I really do love this boy, even though we had have a rough past. Very rough. He's the type of boy I had kissed when we were in about grade 7 and I had felt a "spark". He hurts me to the point I feel like nothing will ever ... (228 words)

He cheated but now treats me like I'm evil?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. i used to ask question on this site before about a partner just live like friend.Now i kicked him out as i found out that he send flirting msg to other women,they met on face book and was class mate long time ago.My ex texts that women has a nice breast and he ... (309 words)

My dating life is in shambles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 17 and I work at a fastfood place and my dating life is in shambles. I meet this African guy that I work with he's from west Africa and at first he would always look at me, smile and talk to me so I thought he liked me but at the time I never brought it to his attention ... (192 words)

Is he leading me on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this guy I really like and have been making a lot of effort to get to know him better and spend time with him. There is a considerable age difference and I am confused of his feelings for me. We seem to discuss and share a lot of interests in history and culture and he ... (159 words)

I don't enjoy sex at all

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for 3 years. We have a healthy sex life but the problem is i dont enjoy sex at all. i think it uncomftable and unpleasurable the only bit i like is the fact i get to hold my bf so close and were so cuddly afterwards. does anyone know i could ... (89 words)

Stuck in the middle between my best friend and his ex

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23 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend has recently dumped his girlfriend and now they keep on fighting all the time. He doesn't seem to be able to let her go and she just wants to move on in life. And well lets just say he is borderline stalker territory. Anyway I am am stuck in the middle of my best ... (97 words)

My mother is mad at me because she found out I was having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i am 16 years old as is my boyfriend of seven months. about a month or so ago we started having sex. we love each other very much he is not using me and he is a really great guy and we have a great realationsship. but last week my mother found out we were having sex from ... (172 words)

Was I really being pathetic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is this right? Am i being pathetic? Me and my boyfriend were having an argument because i was feeling rather down and i just wanted to feel good about myself, but he wouldnt say much nice only your beautiful and he wouldnt say anything more because he was 'too busy watching tv' ... (166 words)

She thinks I'm fat and ugly and my penis is too small...yet she just wants me to be there until she finds someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - hello , do i ever need help . okay i met this girl 6 years ago - she was involved with a guy that was a deadbeat and now is a deadbeat dad of 2 ... anyway we became real close friends and we spent more time together (plutonitcally)? than the 2 of them did and she was always h... (554 words)

I am marrried but am in love with my ex. Should I confess my feelings to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

23 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and having an affair with an ex, who is also married. My marriage has been going downhill for the last 2 years. My husband and I have argued and talked many times and divorce always seems to come up. But when it comes down to it, I think my husband just doesn't ... (224 words)

She has already told me she loves me, and that she wants a long term commitment with me... So why the hell can I not be happy when we are apart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I met the girl of my dreams about 3 months ago. Things have really been very good. I thought I had been in love before, but being with this girl has already shown me (in such a short time too) that what I thought I knew or understood about love is all wrong. For me, she ... (319 words)