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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant sleep with my boyfriend's snoring!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey readers, I don't know what to do - whenever I spend the night with my bf, his snoring and loud breathing keeps me awake so I can't get to sleep til, like, 5am! I don't know what to do about it. We've been together 6 months, and he knows he snores sometimes. He likes to hold ... (165 words)

Help for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now and i feel ready for sex, we've tried before but it just hurts me alot, so i was wondering if theres any advice for first time? i heard taking paracetamol helps.... (43 words)

My best friend is hitting on me.

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my best friends keeps trying to tickle me, touch my knee, put his arm around me and he knows I have a bf. He is starting to creep me out and i dont know what to do anymore, I have told him to stop, told him to leave me alone and he just wont. I'm not sure if my bf knows ... (109 words)

I'm 20, married, and have a 2 yr old. I have no car so I'm stuck at home all the time, and my husband doesn't help out at home. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am 20 yrs old. I got married when I turned 19 I have a 2 yr old daughter. I’m really confused, I don’t know what I want and I don’t know what to do. I’m not happy, that much I know. I have no vehicle, and I sit in this house with my daughter literally 24/7. People don’t ... (431 words)

Is my current relationship lowering my self-esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid Please read the entire post I had one bf before the current relationship. My ex-bf was extremely clingy type with no self-esteem at all. I broke up with him and he still send me messages. My current bf is the extreme oppoiste of my ex-bf. He is very aloof, neve... (231 words)

Am I jealous of my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'll try to keep this as brief as possible. so im 19 years old and my best friend is the same age, we have been best friends since we were 13 or 14 and sometimes we just kind of drift apart a little but always come back and its not akward its like we just saw eachother ... (251 words)

He cheated on me but I'm so attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everybody. I have a problem I could really do with some help for. I am currently dating a guy I have been out with a few times now, he cheated on me the first time we went out and I often question why I even speak to him now. However whenever I am around him I just feel ... (98 words)

He told me to take the money and go shopping, is something up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a stay at home house wife, take care of my daughter while my husband works. Recently he got some extra money 400 dollars, we split the money. My money is going for my daughter's bill from the doc. that our insurance did not cover.. Heth the way he is spending his half? told ... (109 words)

Hot chemistry building between us, why did he stare deeply into my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age - I met a man over a year ago and an attraction began but neither of us did anything about it as it was all flirting via body language. I move away and accidentially met him at the train station and he acknowledged me but stared deeply into my eyes for quite a while. It made me ... (149 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met this girl a few weeks ago in my course and managed to ask her for lunch one afternoon. We had a nice chat, talking about our families and interests etc. Following lunch she said we should get lunch again the week after, so I asked for her number and left things from... (179 words)

My family controls my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and still live at home and i cant tak eit anymore. i can move out and have no where to go, my whole life is being controlled by everyone in the house. My sister gets angry at me over small things calling me and swairing at me that pushes my confidence so low (and there is ... (180 words)

I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship! As I get older I get more and more desperate, turning to internet chat sites etc. Please advise me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship. Is that weird? It's not that I don't want one, trust me I do, but it just hasnt happened. Also as time goes on I find myself more and more attracted to men who are older than me by 5 to 30 years (age 49 is my limit, lol) a... (135 words)

My step-dad is emotionally abusive to my mother, half sister, and myself. How can I help my mum leave this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need advise desperately! This question isn't really about me it’s about my mum. My parents split up when I was 7, and when I was 9 my mum found someone else. He wasn't really the perfect step-dad for me. I didn’t really like him much, never really have, but I liked him ... (362 words)

What female habits do guys find attractive/unattractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What habits do guys find attractive/unattractive? I know every guy is different, but I'm interested in what guys agree on when it comes to a woman being attractive. I'm interested because certain habits I have annoy some, but interest others, e.g playing with my hair... (55 words)

I wasn't ready for a relationship after our first date, but now I am ready. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I asked a girl out about a year ago. She accepted and we started out well. I didn't take the date seriously because I was actually not ready for a relationship at that time. The reason is that it was my first date and it was distracting me from reading my books, but she ... (116 words)

My married lover's wife found out about me, so I went over to their house and confronted him. I told her everything, and now he won't speak with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hiya, I'm Sharon, I'm 41 and broken hearted. I was seeing a married man that I've known since school days. He texted me and called me for years. Then last year it became intimate. He is a lorry driver and I'm a door step collector. Our jobs have given us plenty of hours to be ... (423 words)

Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. Should you be honest about your feelings or let the past go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a short question. Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. I am aware that he cannot change it, and perhaps I am over-analyzing or exaggerating things. I am not sure if the answer from him would affect my feelings or not. Basically, should a person share ... (104 words)

I found photos of my husband at a big fancy party that he attended without telling me! He said he was going to play pool with friends! I'm I crazy to worry about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age - My husband went to a birthday party for his friends' wife without me (I knew some of the party attendees, but have not socialized with them in over ten years, not because of a falling out or anything, just because of busy lives). He went to this party while I was sick in bed ... (418 words)

My Clingy Ex Boyfriend Won't Move On! Please Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so about 6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. To be honest I should not have gone out with him in the first place, because I only really ever saw him as a good friend, but I was only 16, it was my first long term relationship and I had no idea how it was ... (411 words)

He dumped me! Does anyone have any tips for me to stop thinking and crying about this? How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had asked a question recently here about my boyfriend (of 1 year and 2 months) ignoring me and what I should do with him. Well on Monday he broke up with me. It really hurt me and it's still hurting me! His reason was that he was having problems with his family and he didn'... (209 words)

Did our two year relationship mean nothing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex got back together and in November and split again in December when he decided to kiss my best friend when he was drunk and out with his friends. But a week later I ended up staying at his house as we were on a night out with mutual friends. One minute he wanted ... (139 words)

I only feel happy once I know that there is a plan for us to meet up again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm driving myself crazy with doubts and need some advice before I drive my bf crazy, too, please. We've been together 6 months now, things are really great, he's told me he's really happy and that he loves me:) We both work shifts, so see each other around our work ... (617 words)

My best friend took my boyfriend's number from my phone while I was sleeping, and now she's texting him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I guess I'll just get to the point. There's this guy I REALLY like I even think I might be falling in love with. I will call him “Steve”. I was at my cousin’s house along with three other people (one of which is my very best friend). I showed my best friend a picture ... (201 words)

My boyfriend threatens to hit me, and breaks up with me when he wants to sleep with other girls. He wants me to move in with him. Can he really change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope that you can help me. I can't trust my family or friend’s opinion because they're obviously going to take my side. Alright so my boyfriend of a year is asking me to move back with him. I love him very much but he has done so many awful things to me. Through our ... (447 words)

I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age - I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me. What can I do? This has gone on for 20 years. I am sick of it! Now he has a heart condition and does not want sex at all. This has gone on for about 3 years. He does not even want to kiss, hold hands, or anything. He just ... (197 words)

How do I impress his mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 , my boyfriend is 28 ..He tells his mom eveything , and we've had a few problems well we've been together 5 months he's been living w/ me for 3. Now we live together in Our apartment . His mom is very Business like . Im scared that iiL say the wrong thing or do ... (141 words)

I don't understand these feelings I am having. I'm don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't know if my feeliings have faded. I need some guidance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help... I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know what I’m feeling. It’s like I’m... (142 words)

Is 14 too young to be in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to sound realy wierd... but is fourteen too young to be in love? I know it probably won't last and I really doubt my boyfriend and I will be together 'forever' but is it possible my feelings can be really deep, and that he also recipricates them? Sorry if I sound ... (64 words)

Question for Men ONLY!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for men only!!!! Did you go back to your girlfriend after pulling back from the relationship for a while?... (23 words)

The guilt is killing me, how do I tell him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 21 yrs old i had been in a relationship with abc when i was 14 that relation lasted for 5 yrs.we got physically intimate but never had sex. but at the end i broke up with him because i was not ready to commit, we continued our friendship though( he was and he is still... (325 words)

We are both married and attracted to each other. Should I be friendly with him or keep ignoring him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids. Is it possible for two married people to be friendly with each other if they both know there is an attraction between them? I am experiencing this. I am attracted to a man I see regularly. I am certain he is also attracted to me. I used to be friendly with him b... (444 words)

Not sure what this grey mucus-like fluid is.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi gang. Me and my girlfriend were preparing to be 'intimate' with each other. I was about to start when I noticed a substance coming out of her vagina. As soon as she noticed it too she became very self concious, but after a while I managed to get her to let me look. The flu... (96 words)

I found out my boyfriend was flirting with another girl on line!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesteday i found out my boyfriend has been flirting with another girl online. Saying he wanted to meet up and have sex with her, and even accepting pictures of her nude and masturbating to her over webcam. This girl then decided to email me and sent the conversation. I have no ... (298 words)

He can never say anything to me face to face!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - ok so the guy who left when i told him i loved him came bak almost two months ago to tell me he love me too and that what he was looking for was always right in front of his face..things have been going well but i have trust issues he knew that but when his phone rung this ... (302 words)

Is he flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, What does it mean when a man says 'I'm all the better to see you.' (with a slight smile) in response to what my simple 'How are you?' It's just that it's not a very common phrase so... And also, he was talking to me about his job and he mentioned that he left a work po... (169 words)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year relationship, he cheated at least... (200 words)

Its been 2 years since it happened, but my husband talks like my affair happened just yesterday

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was transfered 2 work from a different twon for 6months leaving my husband i got involved with a man whom we even had sex, my husband got 2 find out everthng.its being 2yearz bt he talks lyk it jst happend,i hav no say n the house now its 2much he comes midnite if i askhe ... (76 words)

Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses after all his lies that he ... (181 words)

I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting shady!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go out and get something to eat i wanted to go to the olive garden i had money and everything It was his day off today and I wanted to see if he wanted to do something instead of sitting around doing nothing but he said no ... (278 words)

Is it midterms or is she just avoiding me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this chick seemed to hit it off really well. Hung out a good few times, 4days in a row actually. However now she has big exams coming up so we can't really meet up.. and it's always me that initiates texts. I'm kinda wondering if the midterms just an excuse to avoid me ... (114 words)

Do I have to have a father's name to claim single parent benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently gave birth to my daughter, and I am confused as to who is the father of my child. However, I'm only 18 so I will be claiming single parent benefits and I was wondering if you had to have a fathers name to be eligible for this claim? I can't really afford a paternity ... (71 words)

My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i should react to this? ... (59 words)

She lied to me and I was completely honest with her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I just need some help and advice. I am m27 engaged to someone I truly love and adore f21. Both of us know each other for last 8 months. I cleared and said everything about my past and she did the same as well. Now 3 days back, it came to my knowledge that she... (132 words)

I've never felt the connection like I did with my online guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 yrs ago i got talking to a guy on a social networking site, i did not know what he looked like or anything about him, but instantly liked hes personality and i was kind of drawn to him, i can`t really explain how, nothing ever happened between us and i`m sure that he ... (272 words)

His family won't accept me and now he wants to see me in secret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - good day! im 32 y/o, a mother with four childrens and already separated. i had a relationship with a bachelor guy who is 28 y/o. at first everything is fair and smooth on our relationship. he shows me so much love as well to my kids, who also loves him back and accepted him as ... (288 words)

Is age difference a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a student in my first year of university . I have never been in a relationship before because I used to focus on my study all the time. in my first day with my first class at the university I fell in love from the first sight with my teacher. I thought "this man will... (203 words)

I feel like a ghost and my life has been swallowed up by being married, living my wife's dream

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in my mid-40's, successful, have a pretty wife, 3 kids - but it feels like I am living someone else's dream, not mine. It seems to me that many, perhaps most, of the men in my situation, at least whom I know are in the same boat. We are living our wive's dreams. Most of ... (677 words)

Boyfriend broke up then texted me saying "I hope you get over me soon"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did my ex boyfriend text me this? please help? ? ? ? My boyfriend of 5months suddenly tells me he doesn't want a relationship cos he got so used to the single life before we got together and he might cheat on me if we stay together, he doesn't want to hurt me in the long... (240 words)

My b/f knows I'm falling for my boss. Should I tell my boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am 19 years old and currently married to my partner whom I love but I have started to fall for my boss who is 20 years older than me and he has a girlfriend I am really upset about all of this i do not want to hurt my partner.. He already knows about my feelings for him ... (72 words)

He doesn't want to marry me because I never let him win??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I'm in shock and lost for words right now. My boyfriend/fiance of about 6 years off and on finally told me last night that the reason he has been so hesitant on marrying me is because he has worked his whole life on his business, and if he ever got divorced his wife or me or ... (256 words)

Am I leaving him when he needs me the most?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He's 4 years younger than me, with us meeting when I was 22 and when he was 18. He is my first love and we had an amazing dynamic relationship. 8 months into our relationship, he started flirting with other girls. I didn't know a... (675 words)

I have a boyfriend. Is it normal to have a crush on someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for one year and i truly love me him, he's like my best friend, we have the greatest relationship. I just started a new job and theres a guy there thats super cute and really nice. For some odd reason I can't stop thinking about him, ... (90 words)

What if your girlfriend isn't the normal person that you like in general?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - what if you're girlfriend isn't the kind of a person you really like in general, the type that gets you irritated, and yet you love(atleast think so) her? ... (28 words)

How to create an emotional bond with a man? (need advice from the guys, please)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How does a woman create an emotional bond with a guy? For women, we'd want to be kind, thoughtful and generous. I hear that those things can be a turn off to a guy, so how are emotional bonds created?... (41 words)

Can memories of the past make me feel something again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's my story: I met my first love after 8 years. He was in town and he wanted to catch up. I've been dating someone for over a year now and we are going strong. Since i am over my 1st love...i thought it was ok to meet him. I met him...and i felt nothing apart f... (155 words)

I should move on but I think of him all the time. Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Not sure sex buddy or more? I was living in Sydney and meet a guy who was nice, and would all ways bump in to him in the most random places and call me at random times,but like me had commitment issues. For months we would hook up on a night out and occasionly when ... (269 words)

Is he playing mind games like my exes?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, hope you can help me.This may be long so i apologise in advance. I have been with my boyfriend now for just over two months and so far it has been quite a bumpy road... I'd known him for three years previously and we got along well enough. Anyway I realised, quite ... (1033 words)

I just need a friend, but he wants more..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to tell him that i am not intrested in a love relationship,and i just need a friend who cares for me.... (25 words)

Why would he give permission to sleep with another man if he loved me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel totally stuck in a rut situation. My relationship broke down recently, we were together 7 yrs on and off with him going between 2 homes mine and his mums, he is 42 and his mum 72. We parted at xmas and have recently starting getting along better. The problem is we have 2 ... (349 words)

She's shy and now won't even be my friend, how do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily. We just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship. She is a bit shy and doesnt like this, that someone is saying that we are in relationship. So she ... (203 words)

How much space should I give him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my Bf for 4 months, but we were best mates for 3 years. The 1st 2 months were perfect, we went on holiday together evry thing was great then Out of the blue a local girl announced the baby she has just had is his. DNA test been done, He has started seeing the ... (426 words)

Am I ready to start over again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a friend of a coworker during the summer. We both had bad breakups last year, so I finally had someone who understood. We became close. I knew that by the end that he had to go back home interstate. So I thought that would be the end. He left a few weeks... (207 words)

I don't want this guy to move on, but I miss my freedom as I'm only 16!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, thanks for taking the time to answer this question, as much help as possible would be great. First off, I work with this guy in the same pub. We met this way, and started dating. We then soon got together. I have now been with him for 6/7 months, and don't get me wro... (558 words)

Do I leave my abusive wife or stay and suffer for our kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I are from different religions. We have been married for 16 years and have three beautiful kids together aged 8,10 and 12. Initially things were great but the last eight years have been the most miserable of my life because she has been forcing me to do certain ... (295 words)

My fiance dated his cousin in the past, and I think he is still in love with her. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I am 24 years old. My fiancee's past girlfriend is his cousin, and as she is his cousin he is still in contact with her. I think they were in a serious relationship and he has not forgotten her yet. I don't feel loved when he says he loves me. He is always ready to help ... (249 words)

I have an intense urge to wear female clothes when I'm having sex with my girlfriend, but she is fed up with this. I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m a 23 year old guy with a very normal life. I have been quite lucky with a number of gals I have had in my life and I’m completely straight. But I have this great urge inside to wear sexy female dresses, and this started during my college days. I have been in a serious ... (241 words)

I feel my teacher is being two-faced, and she will be writing my resume at the end of the year! How should I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, any help would be appreciated. I'm from Singapore and am currently preparing for my national exams. Recently however, I've come under fire with my civics tutor as I did not inform her about an upcoming service learning event. To make a long story short, she told my ... (244 words)

I want more of my boyfriend, but he says we can't fall in love. What should I do to be with him more, make him happy, and keep my mind off of him?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have my first boyfriend, and I have taken the initiative to maintain this relationship. There is a 7 year age difference between us. He is charming and loving, but insists that I not fall in love with him and that he can’t do the same for me. We have more of a sexual ... (159 words)

This question is for the guys. What does it mean when a guy says "I never meant to...(e.g. hurt you).)

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the meaning of "I NEVER MEANT TO"? I thought I knew the meaning of the phrase, “I never meant to”...but now I realise that I don’t. This question is mainly for the MALES. Guys, what is the meaning of the sentence, “I never meant to...(e.g. hurt you)”? For example, a... (115 words)

Stuck in between friendship and relationship

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello :-) Hope you can all help me , i'm really unsure of what to do. This guy is my best friend, we met 2 years ago and in the beginning had a sexual relationship which gradually turned into non sexual and friends. This was mainly due to him meeting girl which never work... (537 words)

What does this body language mean?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a question about body language. What does it mean when a girl stands up with her legs crossed facing the opposite direction? ... (25 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I kissed my long lost crush. I feel guilty now, and I need advice!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am a 24 year old girl. I fell in love with a guy named Anubhav when I was in high school. Neither could I tell him nor was I able to forget him. After high school I lost all his contacts and never found him. 3 years later I went for a relationship with another guy named ... (578 words)

He forgot so much, so I ended it, but now I want him back.

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me please, i just did something stupid. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for five years now. Recently, he started giving excuses with being together. He stopped texting,forgot my birthday and I got paranoid. I asked him why and he said work so I told him to get ... (168 words)

My boyfriend is still visiting prostitutes - help!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years is still visiting prostitutes despite us both going to counselling and him promising it is in the past. He left his email open recently and I saw a contact in there which was written on a piece of paper last year.... basically its a secret email address ... (310 words)

I want to be approachable, but how!!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm quite a shy person, but when i'm with a group of people that i know well i come out of my shell. i really want to have this talkative, fun personality with whoever i'm with, because if i'm in a group of people where i don;t know so many of them well, i sort of freeze up and ... (330 words)

I made a couple of mistakes, but now he won't take me back.

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started going out last April after seeing each other for a month. It was amazing and then at the end of November I ended it because I felt that things were going to fast as he wanted to move in with me and said he wanted to marry me and have children later ... (367 words)

Intense urge to have extra-marital affairs!!

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't have a great history with females. I have lacked confidence and have only had a sexual relationship with one woman. So far, I feel like I have missed out on this aspect of life. However, for the first time in my life, I feel more confident in myself and I can sense ... (159 words)

My girlfriend's behavior is manipulative, mean and controlling and I feel helpless because my pride, respect and self-esteem is being crushed..

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm not sure what it is i'm doing wrong. i've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. she's 5 years older than me but personally, i've never cared about age. gradually over the years, like many relationships, you are either good or you start having certain differen... (700 words)

Is he a genuine guy? Or does he just want to get in my pants?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so their is this guy, we are best friends. Only for the last couple months. I have been very stressed out recently with school and friends, I have panic attacks and stress attacks, and he has really helped by pretty much just being there But in the short time we have bee... (188 words)

Is love for real?? What did you feel the first time you fell in love?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if love is real. I mean is it? Seems that we all just end up in bad relationships with people that dont care.. I was wondering what other people felt the first time they fell in love with someone special?... (45 words)

I'm not sure how to take this

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner who is 27 for a year and a half now, he suffers from severe anxiety so every now and then he likes to be alone as he gets frustrated being around the same person for too long. today in the car he told me, "sometimes i want to marry you so i can kee... (83 words)

Is it worth patching back with a emotionally abusive and a possessive bf?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with this guy for about 5 years now. She went through a lot of emotional hurt, got slapped once by her bf, and she cried a lot as well. Went through many break ups, but patched back with him. She claims he's possessive, insane and madly in love with her. ... (116 words)

How do I handle someone like this?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP! I can NOT stand my boyfriend's sister. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and just recently, I have started to have these negative feelings towards her. Don't get me wrong, she can be nice and very helpful when it comes to advice, but there's just ... (192 words)

Will she stay with me?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in a relationship with a girl aged 17 and i am 21. i am not good to look at but as my friend have said, i have a lot of sex appeal. besides i am a middle class boy and my girl belongs to the class which is the wealthies in india. she is a very beautiful girl. she has lots ... (139 words)

Is thinking of someone else cheating?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - dont you think that masturbating thinking of someone else when in already in a relationship with another guy is cheating on one's partner? ... (23 words)

Dumped for being too clingy after a 2 month relationship, should I text her after a month?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is pretty long so im sorry in advance. Me and my ex dated for 2 months and i was her first boyfriend, we're both 18. She dumped me after 2 months saying things like we're not meant to be and i dont feel the same anymore etc etc, but she really wanted to stay friends, cried ... (449 words)

Is it wrong to date him?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister's husbands nephew and I had a serious relationship a few months ago. (including sex) later I got to thinking about how wrong it was but everyone says it's ok. the only connection between me and him is that my sister is pregnant by his uncle making them 1st cousins. is ... (72 words)

Should I break up with this guy because he is SO busy?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy (he's 26) and I (I'm 23) have been talking for about 2 years now. Him and his friends call me his "girl", but we've never had "that talk" to say we're exclusive. We've just had this implied strong connection since we met a couple years ago. Anyway, things were good for ... (288 words)

Is he or has he been cheating? How do I not run back to him? Please help

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Has he cheated AGAIN? how do I stay away from him? My boyfriend have been together almost 3 years and we have one child together. We have both cheated on each other. Unlike him i came forward and admitted it. I hassles him for a whole year only to find out he cheated on me tw... (430 words)

I'm angry at everything and everyone!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age - I need help! I am angry about everything! Everything irritates me and upsets me, to the point that I'm never happy. I stress out so much and I can't think straight and I don't know what to do, I don't want to live like this anymore. I'm sick of being manipulated by people, I... (473 words)

My ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend so why does he follow me?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i broke up about a year ago. He got with a new girlfriend right away and is on and off with her. About 6 months ago he cheated on her with me. But he got back together with her and acted like a total douchbag begging and pleading for her back just like the ... (354 words)

I'm crazy for him and I need him

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I am a 17 year old Bisexual male. I have these two friends, "Stephen" who is my age, and his younger brother "Tyler" who is a few years younger than us. They are both the quiet type and i'm really the only guy they hang out with. Anyway, this is dealing with ... (842 words)

Is it normal to have a high sex drive and then suddenly it drops off?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - For the longest time I have always had a high sex drive. I got together with my current boyfriend and he had a hard time keeping up with me, but always tried and now just recently I feel almost no sex drive at all its there but not intense like it was and that I will go crazy ... (150 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I'm crushing on a guy at my new job! Is this normal? What should I do?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very nice. The thing is I keep ... (104 words)

How do you know if a boy is jealous?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you kow when a boy gets jealous? I have a boyfriend and I was wondering if hugging and talking to other boys makes him jealous? (I hug them because I've known them since preschool and I squeeze them really hard to hurt them. Like playful hurt. Its really funny though t... (109 words)

He doesn't trust me, I'm pregnant, and now every tiny thing turns into a fight...

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm from tennessee, i just moved to new york to be closer to my mom. i met this guy up here, we started talkin and hanging out...ended up gettin serious fast..in the mean time, not ready to settle down i was Texting other ppl also not thinkin anything about it...well one day ... (309 words)

I found an email that proved my husband lied. Did I do the right thing?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a situation with my husband a while back about a women and some lies that he had told me. We tried to fix the situation as best as we could and moved on with our lives. It still hurts once in a while but I try to not let it bother me. But, the other day my hus... (231 words)

I am helping to raise a child my girlfriend conceived while we were broken up. She needs me, but I feel used, and want to leave!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So a little history about my relationship. It's been really rocky. My girlfriend and I have never had an easy relationship. We've dealt with a lot of lies and cheating, and we've been on and off for five years. In a month that we broke up, she got pregnant... (306 words)

Have not talked to my boyfriend in 4 days

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me give some background. Two years ago my boyfriend and best friend had a falling out. My best friend told my boyfriend that he better not hurt me or she would try and find someone to beat him up. I can understand why my boyfriend doesn't like her, it's perfectly clear. At ... (419 words)

How do I get my friend back? We were friends, then dated for 2 weeks, and then she dumped me! I desperately need some good suggestions!

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help. I have posted a few times on this issue, and I am still mentally and physically destroying myself over it. I'll summarize: We were good friends for a year and a half Ended up dating for 2 weeks (sex included) Had no issues whatsoever Suddenly, she tells ... (327 words)

Do all teenage boys masturbate?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - This is kind of a weird question, but do all teenage boys masturbate? Like 13 year olds? I'm 13 and I do and I'm afraid I'm the only one in my class who does. So do all 13 year old boys masturbate?... (42 words)

I am having an affair with my friend's wife! Is it okay to keep on with this relationship?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age - I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently there was one occasion where I ... (170 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I am falling for a guy in one of my classes! Any thoughts or suggestions?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him dearly. We have had our issues and we even broke up once (only for a few days). However, we have managed to form a pretty healthy relationship and we are in a really good place right now. So here's the issue... (170 words)

Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what people will say and think about ... (114 words)

When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy girlfriend!... (47 words)

My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no matter how drunk, I wouldn't ... (187 words)

My boyfriend makes me happy and treats me well, but it feels like something is wrong. Please help!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years this month and things between us are good. I care about him a lot and I can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. I don't think I feel about him as I should and it kills me... (181 words)

My boyfriend is always busy with work! I feel like second place. What should I do?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always very busy as he runs his own business. While we have had our problems due to him practically ignoring me and backing away from promises we have worked them out. As we always try to communicate our feelings and concerns. The main problem is that I just f... (216 words)

A friend kissed me, I told my girlfriend about it, but I'm still anxious!

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a long distance relationship and last weekend went out with some friends. I was quite drunk and so was one of my friends and she kissed me. It took me a couple of seconds to react mainly due to my drunkeness but I pushed her away. I then proceeded to call my ... (152 words)

Should I ask him out? Should I tell my friends about it?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I like this guy (big surprise) and someone told me that he likes me too. I trust this person and know they're not lying. We are both really shy. That's one reason I don't want to ask him out. Also, my friends don't like him, at all. So here are my questions: Should I ... (81 words)

He asked me to move in with him, now he wants his space!

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend asked me to move in with him in December to help out with some family issues I was going through. We both agree that the move happened too soon, but neither of us wants me to move out. He wants more space. Either I spend the night two nights a week somewhere, or ... (129 words)

I'm seeing my ex's brother in secret...is this the right thing to do?

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9 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, i had been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a bit years, i had kind of rushed into it. Through the time i was going out with him i got to know his brother, my boyfriend worked a lot so sometimes it was just me and his brother in the house and we would have long ... (485 words)

Every time I come out of a relationship, I'm never truly happy again until I find somebody else. Why can't I just get over it?

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9 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've not long come out of a relationship that I was very sad to lose. My most recent ex is a lovely girl who made me very happy while we were together, but I must accept that unless a time comes where distance and university are no longer obstacles in our relationship, we ... (220 words)