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Should I follow my heart and date the guy I love?

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Question - (13 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ellow1357blondie writes:

I am 100% in love with this guy...I cannot imagine life without him he is just...amazing I love him. We tell each other that we love each other daily. So, about a month ago he technically broke up with me, we decided to wait for dating until we can see each other more, this upcoming summer. Soon after the break up, he got a new girlfriend which absolutely broke my heart..throughout that relationship we still kept ours strong...but I was still fully aware of the fact that he told this girl he loved her. They just broke up yesterday. I am in love with him...but because of the other girlfriend thing, should I go back out with him.? He also has some...trust issues, he doesn't believe quite everything I say yet. Which is conflicting because I also have trust issues but I have learned to trust him completely. Basically everyone we know says we shouldn't date....but should I just follow my heart with him?

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A male reader, Remniscent Canada +, writes (14 March 2011):

I am 15 and I know from experience that any relationship you make now, don't expect it to last more than five years. However, even if you know they aren't going to continue forever, if your heart says to date him, then follow your heart. Now just incase, do keep an eye on him, if he gets distracted when seeing you, he may have his eye on someone else. Refer to your friends and ask them to keep an eye on him.

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A female reader, Whos that chick xxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2011):

Whos that chick xxx agony auntI think that you should follow your heart and talk to him especially as he has just broken up with a recent girlfriend as he may want a little space right now but let him know that your here for him no matter what happens and if he doesn't want to go out with you then friendship is better than not having anything at all :)

i hoped this help abit x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011):

Sorry, but you are way too young (though you won't appreciate me saying it) for all this complicated nonsense. Let me assure you that you are not in love and, judging by your "boyfriend's" behaviour he is definitely not in love with you.

Let me spell out for you what Romeo is up to - he dates you while you are around, he moves away and dates another girl, he moves back and wants to date you again ... he is a little player!

Listen to your own words, "Basically everyone we knows says we shouldn't date ..."

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