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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did he think I was desperate when our mutual friend gave him my number? And why did he accept the friend request on Facebook if he thinks that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

- Hi, I am 23. I met a guy (aged 24) on New Year’s Eve through mutual friends. He seemed really nice and we were getting on well. He was texting his ex at the time though so I didn't let it go any further than just friendly conversation. I found out a couple weeks ago that h... (471 words)

I feel like she was expecting me to make a move and was surprised I didn't! I am new to dating again, and I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for some dating advice. I met a girl online. We have had 2 good dates and the weekend was the third. We had a great night out and we ended up at her place. She said I could stay but no funny business, so I probably took that to the extreme. I think she kind... (349 words)

I'm 20 and pregnant. Happy but worried. I need some reassuring words to know this is going yo be okay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I'm pregnant. I am on the pill and I've never missed one, although I am on anti-depressants so maybe that has stopped them from working? My doctor never mentioned it, so I think I've just been really unlucky. Except, I wouldn't class it as unlucky because I'm loving ... (152 words)

I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. I'm in my early 30's, she's 21. Can this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Not sure what to do but last night I slept with the adopted daughter of my estranged uncle. Among the obvious issues here she is also only 21 years old. I am in my early thirties. I have only recently met her in the first place. Turned out she is not only gorgeous but has an ... (209 words)

I am still in love with my ex, and I need advice to get over him! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I still love my ex. I was with him twice, and it’s been 10 months since we split up. The thing is, I can’t stand to suffer in silence so I managed to confess it all to him. I really just want him back, but I know it’s not going to happen, so I really want to get over him. I... (128 words)

He's wonderful, but I'm just not very attracted to him romantically anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a man since October. He is interesting and kind, I can find no faults in him. We live 45 minutes apart, but it's not that much of a big deal. Lately I have only seen him once in 7 weeks, and it doesn't even bother me... Sometimes I even feel relieved when I ... (86 words)

Does anyone have any advice on how to handle the periods of separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I never believed that long-distance relationships could work but i have somehow found myself in one. I met a man who hit me like a bolt of lightning and i knew i couldn't walk away. When we are together everything is wonderful but i'm finding our time apart increasingly hard. ... (123 words)

I got pregnant from a one night stand. Can I pass this baby off as my boyfriend's?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a serious relationship for the past 2 and a half years with my Algerian boyfriend except for the last 8 months I’ve been living with my mother in a different country . Of course things haven’t been going too well for us since we’ve been apart and I went out one ... (168 words)

He is willing to finish with me rather than let go of the very things that are hurting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age - Am i overreacting in thinking that my boyfreind's cheating on me? I think he's gone from looking at porn sites(now16 in all,no problem,we've watched some of them)to having sms txt and calls to his mobile phone.He's very careful not to leave his mobile around in my prescenc... (221 words)

Has enough time passed between her "promiscuous youth" and now for me to trust that it really is the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my current girlfriend for a few months now, and aside from a couple of rough spots things have been going well. Those rough spots were pretty bad though... Once after a lot of drinking, she said I was "small" compared to her past lovers...of which she has ... (289 words)

Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex? Is he confused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age - Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex, and saying she hasn’t had sex with anyone since me? I know this is a lie and so does she. She cheated for the last years of a long relationship. Is she desperate, as her last boyfriend dumped her? I believe she is ... (62 words)

I want to be someone worth loving, not a maid! Is this going to change? When will I just say enough is enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, together over 3 and he is still dependent on everyone else. He doesn't pay any bills (if it’s mentioned he says he'll only pay for his own food), he has his mother do his wash, but he doesn't see how spiteful ... (243 words)

My boyfriend cheated on his last two girlfriends. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Pretty much since the beginning of his relationship I knew he cheated on one of his exes..."Cheryl" with another girl named "Chelsey". He ended up dating Chelsey for five years until she cheated on him. About 10 month... (181 words)

A guy fell for the 'fake' me on Facebook

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 months ago in september, i created a fake facebook profile with a fake name and fake pictures of a girl. In september i met this guy and we started a relationship. Now he is very serious and wants me to visit him, we almost make 6 months, i need to get out of this situation ... (57 words)

Friendships never die.....................or do they?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, im not sure how to write about this. My best friend and I have been friends since we were 18 years old. We have now been friends for 20 years. We have shared many highs and many lows. We are completely different in terms of taste for guys, education interests and ca... (676 words)

I want to ask this girl out without ruining our friendship. How should I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - Dear agony aunts, I seem to have a problem. There is this girl that I like and would like to know what's the best way of asking her out without ruining our friendship, as we both seem to make each other laugh etc. Any advice is greatly appreciated.... (50 words)

This a question for the girls. I lost a lot of weight and l have loose skin. Would you date someone like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - This is to all the females: I am 20 years of age and would like to know if girls would go for a boy who is skinny and has a bit of loose skin? I was fat and lost a lot of weight quickly and in the process have loose skin and I am skinny. I tried to get rid of the loose skin d... (91 words)

How do people move on so quickly after experiencing a lost love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been healing for a long time from a severed relationship. I look at people around me who seem to just get up and start dating the next week. I look at Hollywood celebrities who after losing love just seem to move on to the next one so soon (Halle Berry, Kelsey Grammer, ... (76 words)

Returning from deployment and know that the LDR I've been in doesn't have a future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - heres my situation im curently deployed and bout to return to the states iv been seeing this girl sence i left the states weve only corasponded threw email and chat i honestly dont see it working out between us but she a good person and dont wanna hurt her anyone have any ... (69 words)

My partner of 10 years insults my family all the time, and I find this hurtful! Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age - My partner of 10 years is often insulting about my family to the point where I get really upset. We are both in our 50's and have had several falling outs about his attitude. If I mention my son, daughter, sisters, brother etc. he doesn't reply and seems indifferent. Today,... (261 words)

My boyfriend genuinely cares about me, but has issues with porn and looking at other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. When we initially started dating he seemed flawless! After we began to get serious I started finding porn stashes in his room, and caught him staring at women. It really hurt me, to the extent of making me feel crazy and jealous. ... (342 words)

Friends with benefits... With my ex?! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex dated for 2 months. We had a great relationship, it was fun, cute, and made me really happy. His friends are friends with my friends, and we always hung out. It worked out great. And before we dated me and him were great friends too. He decided to end things back ... (298 words)

Why did she contact me in the first place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So last week I get a random text from a girl I hadn't heard from in a couple of months. Our conversation goes something like: Her: Hey stranger Me: Hey you're still alive. Her: Barely. How have you been? Me: Okay I'm in the middle of exams. You? She never replied. A c... (127 words)

One week we are so in love, the next week everything has changed?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone My question or advice requirement is as follows Over 6 months ago I met a beautiful stunning girl who was from USA - she was working in Manchester and I live in London We had an amazing time and it got serious quick, we chatted we txt we called every... (375 words)

I started seeing a friend that I have had a crush on for years. She is now back with her old boyfriend, but she's pregnant and it could be my baby! Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for six years and we've always been really good friends. I always thought she was gorgeous and wanted to be more then friends with her. She started dating a friend of mine when she first got out of high school and they dated and lived together for about a ... (520 words)

We've only been married 8 months and our relationship is suffering! How can I get him to give me more attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have been married for just 8 months. We haven’t even completed a year. We already feel like we've been married for years and can’t stand to be with each other in the same room! We fight very often. He always has time to have drinks with his friends and runs to them ... (257 words)

Would it be weird to add him on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some advice about a guy. I went on holiday to Spain and stayed at a hotel. I noticed a good looking Spanish guy who worked at the restaurant as a waiter. There was alot of eye contact between us. I made it clear I liked him and he caught me looking at him. ... (250 words)

Should I be patient with my wife as we try to work things out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My and my wife have been together 11 years, married 5 have 3 awesomw kids, About a year ago my wife told me she didn't think she was in love with me anymore, she ended up moving out,then I found out she was seeing someone who said he was my best friend, ,well they are not ... (183 words)

Would you ever want your ex to apologize to you after a breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - would you ever want your ex to apologize to you after a breakup? me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. and we haven't talked in about a 1 month now. so we had a really bad break up and she's not responding to anything im saying. so i decided to stop talking to her s... (167 words)

One day of my new boyfriend and we are getting in lots of fights!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I got a boyfriend yesterday but now that we are dateing we get into a lot of fight and he makes this relationship akward . and we are greatfriends but i am not worried that it will ruin our friendship cuase it wont cuase this has happend to su before , and stuffs, buh should i ... (84 words)

Is it impossible to think I might be able to marry a virgin or at least a very inexperienced girl?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is marrying a non promiscuous girl a rarity in todays world. I am a virgin man looking to marry a virgin or someone with very little sexual experiences. Is there a possibility that this may happen or should I not care about this.... (43 words)

How do I prove my husband is impotent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Please read the entire post I am basically from India married for 6 years. I never had any sexual exp before marriage, i.e. i was virgin when i got married, never had a bf too. I was scared of sex when i got married, since i didnt know how that works. So i... (431 words)

What if he forgets about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months. I'm 19 and he's 34. We have had a lot of problems in our relationship, however, one of the things I'm completly sure about is that I love him and that he means everything to me. But he never has time for, he's always busy. 5 days ... (186 words)

I think he's cheating. Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and mybf have been together for 2 years now, we fight for months on end but we make up and things are good for a few days untill he get sketchy (by sketchy I mean secretive and sneaky) I've only just started to notice this the past few months. When we can't be together... (264 words)

I want him as my boyfriend or nothing at all! How do I tell him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I’ve been talking to this guy... I like him a lot. But he lives about an hour and a half away. We talk everyday, he calls me his future girlfriend, and stuff like that..but lately I've been feeling like I can't just keep talking to him.. I want him to be my boyfriend. I ... (170 words)

I found my teacher on a gay dating site. I'm interested in him. Should I contact him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well, I'm in my final year of school and will be heading off to uni next year. Since I'm almost 18 and still a virgin (it's somewhat difficult to find other gay guys) I figured I might as well sign up to a few dating/hookup sites and see if anyone was interested in having ... (224 words)

My boyfriend isn't sleeping with others, but I suspect he is using me. Is it common for guys to only use one girl at a time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If my boyfriend is not sleeping with anyone else, does it automatically mean he's not using me? I know he doesn’t see other girls, but I still feel as if he's using me. Is it common for guys to only use one girl at a time?... (48 words)

I just started seeing this girl who I met on Facebook. She cancelled our date today. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a girl for the last 2 weeks. We met on facebook and I really like her. There seems to be a spark there already. Trouble is, I’m very paranoid. We went out Friday night, had a good night and yesterday, she told me she would cook me a Sunday roast today. ... (175 words)

Are my emotional problems from a break up the problem? Or am I just not attracted to this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've just entered a relationship with a new man. he is sweet, kind, caring.. in fact, it is very hard for me to fault his personality. I love spending time with him, i love the things we do together and i love his friends and his family. But i do not know whether i can love ... (199 words)

I'm very happy with my man, but his contribution to our sex life is insufficient...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. im a 24yr old man and he is 26. i work 9-5 and he works and studies. we love each other immensely. unlike a number of gay men i have met, ive never been someone who puts sex before love which is why i am still ... (396 words)

Married couple and opposite sex friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Facts: I've been married to my wife for over 20 year. About 15 years ago, her female friend was dating someone? Back then we were had regular BBQ in my house. Her female friend broke relations a year later. My wife kept taking to them on a regular basis. About 7 years ... (476 words)

In love with my best friend who is probably getting married to the wrong girl..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in love with my best friend whom I have know for like over 4 years. We were attracted to each other 4 yrs ago but nothing ever happened. Then we started seeing other people. I broke up with my guy a year ago and he has been having issues with his girl friend for ... (367 words)

If a guy is using you, would he actually add you on facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok,if this helps,we're both 23 and he's a uni student.I'm not sure it will but hey...Anyway,my question is if a guy is using you would he actually add you on facebook-I mean,what if his other girls are on his facebok too and I contacted one of them?He's not stupid,but mabey he ... (85 words)

Am I losing my faith in love because of my boyfriend's ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i live together, been together three years. in this time ive dealt with his lack of honesty, his flirting, lying about his whereabouts, and one birthday and this valentines he made no effort to express anything towards me not even a text, but he had time to ... (348 words)

Why do guys always go for girls who treat them like trash?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a question, why guys never respect the girls who are nice to them and always go after the girls who treat them like trash.... (30 words)

My boyfriend is verbally abusive and I don't know how to make this relationship work....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My be of 2 years constantly abuses me (verbally)/ignores me often. I seem to put up with this without getting angry. I never get angry when he does this, but i do get hurt and i cry my eyes out. We talked several times about his behaviour, but nothing changed. I love ... (89 words)

Why can't my family just let me make my own decisions, and learn from my own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sick of my family and some other people i know. Some of my family once went mad at an older man i liked, who also liked me, because he had done some things in the past that they thought were bad, and i think they were mad because of the age gap too, and recently, some ... (248 words)

Girlfriend has started sharing her past with me and I wish she wouldn't!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically I'm insanely jealous about my girlfriend's past sex life. She is my first, and she has had 4 before me. Now, at first I didn't care since I didn't know who those people were and I didn't know any details. I was happy with it staying like that. However, one day we ... (365 words)

How can I get the most out of life when I don't feel comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends whom I have known for years. Other than that, I find it so hard to interact with people. I always get the impression that people think I’m a bit of ... (638 words)

Boyfriend never makes the effort to see me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi :) Ok so here's my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 18 months and love him very much. He's in his final year of Med School and will be a qualified doctor in July. Obviously he is very busy at the moment with studying and I do my best to be there for him and ... (202 words)

How do I tell him I'm not up for a casual roll in the hay??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy i have been seeing exclusively for the past few months recently told me that he didn't think he was in the right place for a relationship, mainly because at the end of the year he is leaving uni and going abroad, but that he does really care about me and wanted to ... (329 words)

My friend has become distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Friends please help me.i have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily. we just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship. she is a bit shy and doesnt like this that someone is saying that we are in ... (216 words)

Is my boyfriend is too controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now. We were practically best friends before we got together, we helped each other through everything and spoke all the time. We were like boyfriend and girlfriend without actually being together, so it wasn't a shock when we did ... (275 words)

How to get over extreme sexual shyness/disinterest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm beginning to think I have issues with sexual repression. I can't bring myself to talk dirty with my guy by IM even though I want to do it to make him happy (he gets frustrated with me when I tell him I can't go there yet). Elaborate sexual fantasies make me uncomfortable. I ... (150 words)

Both times I tried to have sex I was drunk and failed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I've only had tried to have sex twice and both times I was drunk and both times it failed I'm 20 and I don't know if it's nerves or what I've always had shyness issues and stress issues and now it looks like I have profiemance issues. The second time I was basically focused ... (84 words)

Hes got bad qualities, should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy i really like, we're friends, not really close though. He's nice to me and that's why i started liking him in the first place. I don't think he likes me back but i'm not very sure. Are these qualities really bad, and should i stop liking him for this: he sai... (140 words)

How can I stop from losing my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 19 and gay and have been going out with a guy for about a month and we've gotten to the oral stages of sex, and it was all good the first time, but the since then i've been unable to orgasm (he has) and the other night neither of us did, we usually do this all late at ... (98 words)

Does the things he say mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im in year 11 at school and i have had this crush on a guy for 7months now and i cant stop thinking about him im falling head over heals in love with him, but the thing is, he had a gf and i didnt know about it and stupidly i told my cousin that i liked the guy and he ... (427 words)

Its not love so why is he always on my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay long story short. We know we both like each other and we haven't spoken in a few weeks or seen each other in a couple of months. Anyways... Recently I've found that at times i think of him aaa lot and he is constantly on my mind. It's annoying because i don't know why i... (97 words)

Somehow I misunderstood her feelings thinking she cared for me as more than a friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I wonder if you guys can help me. I met this girl a few months ago and we got on really well. we exchanged numbers and for a while we texted everyday. I asked her out and she agreed, But she told me she was in a relationship but wasn't happy and wanted to get away from the... (346 words)

I'm leaning towards having casual sex but am unsure if its the right way to go

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, i'm 17 and i'm thinking about 'casual sex' i'm a virgin, but when i like a guy i get too attatched and im sick of it, it affects my college work, my moods my other friendships. I don't like the way they have power over your feelings but i guess i can't ... (225 words)

How do I prove to my husband that I haven't been pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (?) age 36-40 - how do i prove to my husband that i haven't been pregnant? what test to i have to undergo to prove that i haven't been pregnant?... (27 words)

I need some advice and persuasion in to how to woo this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Good Evening to all Aunt Agonies, Im now troubled with a relationship status that im unsure where its heading to. Theres this girl i got to know during a casual gaming session, it all started off with just plain gaming buddies and we slowly progressed off to meeting up for a di... (566 words)

She likes me but has feelings for another guy too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I met a girl on holiday a few months ago and I really like her. Yesterday I told her I liked her and she said she likes me too but the problem is she also said that she has been after another guy for 5 months and still has feelings for him. What do I do?... (57 words)

Husband so discouraging all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,My husband keeps discouraging me all the time. He is very happy when he does it but he doesn’t know that it hurts me so much. He keeps on comparing my works with someone in his family, at one point it brings an aversion towards that person. He makes me feel as though I am ... (107 words)

I don't trust him and I think he's cheated!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there.. I need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend a year, I have known him for a long time and have known that in most if not all of his previous relationships he has cheated. We have a great relationship most of the time, have a lot in common and he is great with my ... (678 words)

She's always on my mind but she's taken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal. There is this girl I know, and I know it may sound whatever but I really think she's the one. The connection is unbelievable and she is so supportive of me and my career. When I'm with it just feels right, she is just the right girl. I'm pretty sure she ... (126 words)

Met the right guy at the wrong time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met the right guy at the wrong time :(. Last year I found the most amazing guy, of whom I could of quite easily stayed with my whole life, but I lost him cause I had baggage, and by baggage I mean my mind and body loves someone else, I couldnt shake these feelings of this... (107 words)

Explain the phrase

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - can plz anyone explain this phrase to me in simple eng. catholic up-bringing... (14 words)

What is this aching feeling inside?

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - In your opinion am I being jealous? So.. My best friend, of which I love, is going out with an amazing girl and he doesn't deserve her but that's a different story... Anyway when she posts about them two or someone else does I feel a deep aching in me that I've never felt ... (131 words)

Boyfriend cheated on last two girlfriends...should I be worried?

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6 March 2011 (F)

I'm I overreacting or is my boyfriend up to something?!?!

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i want to know if i'm overreacting or is my boyfriend up to something? so yesterday me and my boyfriend were good we were talking and texting than he said he will talk 2 me later cause he was going 2 eat so i waited a hour and a half passed so i text him saying hey ... (261 words)

What's wrong with being sexually conservative?!

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I felt strongly about the kind of misleading advice / negative overtones that are often present in the responses to people who've been sexually conservative (or abstinent) and are disturbed to find their SO (significant other) have not. They are often told to "suck it up", ... (1449 words)

Why do I keep having unpleasant dreams and how can I get rid of them ?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It bothers me a lot, I dream all sort of creepy stuff, like rats, mud, humidity, me being hated (in the dream), me being chased by horses, cows, me naked in public etc. I also have pleasant dreams, but in the end they turn out bad. I don't read into dreams, but when I wake ... (138 words)

Am I losing feelings for my boyfriend?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just saw a concert and it was amazing and almost felt life changing the only problem I have is that I really wanted my boyfriend to be there with me but he said he was not interested in going and that the person I was seeing was not his kinda music, so i just went with one of ... (300 words)

Nothing works to keep me from going too fast

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i premature cum. i tried many many ways of trying to last longer but they all never seem to work for me not thinking about it, thinking some thing unrelated to sex, going slow, etc. and non of them really work. i need help. me and my gf had sex and i can't even last 5 minute... (67 words)

Ex said we cant be together because we fight too much

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My exboyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. He was there for me every single time. Budt suddenly we broke up because we were fighting . after we broke up we stoped talking for three months and suddenly he called me and wanted to see me. we had a good time and ... (145 words)

Should I trust my guy if he's staying out late?

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a long distance relationship. He's in France, I'm here. We're both dudes. Last night (saturday) he went out to a gay club with some buds, said he'd be home at 3 am so we could skype (which we do everyday), and didn't get home until 6 am. That's late. On the one ... (214 words)

How dangerous is fingering?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is fingering a bad thing? does it just happen to a girl? is there something else that goes along with that? how dangerous is it?... (25 words)

He asked if I can shave down there, should I be offended?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - if my boyfriend and i have agreed to try fingering and whatever else goes with that should i be offended if he asked me if i can shave my vaginal area because he hates hair down there? do most people shave down there??? is it more sanitary?... (47 words)

I'm bored and feel like breaking up

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year 2 1/2 months but I got a problem. You see I love her but I get bored with her. We are in high school but it really just feels like a friendship. One day she didn't come o school and I was amazingly happy. Don't get me wrong she's ... (171 words)

He said he's done and wont disturb me again. Does that mean he's quit?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He said he loves me and i said no.he used ask for his request.but one day i think he was annoyed he said "i'm done i won't disturb u again enjoy your life" this all means he quit, does he really love me.and honestly now i'm catching feelings for him.he sometime used to dial at ... (72 words)

Same sex adult siblings showering together

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question that is a bit odd, but am wanting a non biased third party view. My boyfriend and I got on the topic of siblings showering together after seeing a mother and daughter skinny dipping in a pool. He told me that when he was 6 his dad and his dads brother ... (336 words)

My boyfriend chooses bars & friends over me, what should I do?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been on and off for 3 years now, long story short the last time we got back together has been almost perfect. He even surprised me with a promise ring on Valentines Day. Everything was going good until he started to recently choose his guys friends over me and the bar ... (421 words)

How do I get rid of the smell down there?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I get rid of a smell 'down there'? I've had my period twice, but even before I ever got it itstill smelled bad like my discharge or my blood smells gross. I take a shower once A day and I wash with soap there but even when i am sitting in a chair I smell it. I can't use ... (106 words)

Is she losing her baby?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So the deal is, "Nessy" has been pregnant for 3 months with her boyfriend of 2 weeks before sex (not under my advice). Anyway, she confirmed she was pregnant with several pregnancy at home tests, as well as missed period. Now, three months into the pregnancy, she Is spotting... (116 words)

How to let go of hurt, pain and fear

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you move on after 13 years... Its just hard.. but the part that is hard for me is the unknown, and being alone. I love my husband but im not inlove with him and do not like who he has become or the neglect he has shown me over the past 10 years.... I know this is the ... (82 words)

Two hearts one body.

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and i have a friend of mine who is like my one of my best lady friends and me and her are very close. We first met on a art posting site. at first i thought this was going to be some random person who wants to be my friend but as time progressed we became really ... (154 words)

The man whom I had a baby with was never a part of our lives; now we're both married to other people and he suddenly wants to see his daughter after years of no communication

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is pretty long but please bear with me as I feel you need to know all the details. Six and a half years ago, I started a relationship with a pathetic excuse for a man; we were both 17. Four months in, I found out I was pregnant. He wanted nothing to do with it so he broke ... (874 words)

He says I have to accept him so why cant he accept me?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dearcupid.I need you to advice me.I'm so confuse now. I don't know what to do. Me and my fince been together for 3 and half years on and off.We're agure for 5 or 6 times aweek.That's a lot!He make the problem for every little things.If he kiss me if my eyes are open. If I ... (329 words)

How do I lose weight in my thighs?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys... im not one of them people who are obsessed with their figure and saying *OMG I GOTTA LOSE THIS HALF KILO.. coz im not like that... im not being vain but im happy with how i look.. thing is im really curvy; therefore fat thighs, u just develope them easily.. all i w... (106 words)

Should I never listen to anyone just to be with the one I love?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I've been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We met online and everything was great at first. We're so into each other. He lives a world apart so we don't meet on a regular basis. At first he thought about coming to visit me. I was hesitance so I said we better w... (341 words)

I Don't Like His Friends!

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I adore my boyfriend. He's everything I ever wanted and more than I ever thought I'd get. However, I do not like his two best friends. His one friend is CONSTANTLY smoking weed, dumber than a stump, an is always doing pointlessly stupid things. His other friend is a reco... (226 words)

How can I stop snoring?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys.. i been on residential trips before, and all my friends and family tell me i snore like a donkey :( that was a while ago because i had breathin problems.. however i stopped snoring a few months ago and i was really happy.. but now i got another trip this month ... (82 words)

We're supposed to get married in a month and she doesn't trust me!

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance doesn't trust me! About 18 months ago I was a little out of control with my spending and hid all my banking records from her. I finally built up the courage to tell her about my problem and of course she was upset. Now I am completely open and honest and she even ... (309 words)

Is he cheating or just stupid!

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6 March 2011 (F)

age - Hi I hope you all can help me. I've been with my husband for 5 years. We had a very healthy sex life. 4 months before our wedding the sex decreased drastically. We've been married for 3 years and it has dwindled down to every few months and it's not very passionate. He ... (338 words)

I'm Freaked Out by Beer, and My Boyfriend Drinks (Reasonably)

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I come from a long line of alcoholics, and addiction traits run in my family. As a result, I really hate beer, as I'm watching my grandfather rink himself to death with it. I live very healthily, not drinking and never touching anything like a cigarette. Enter my boyfr... (176 words)

What to expect from an adult who was ADD a child?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. He's messy, disorganized, a bit hyper, and really bad at time management. He can be impulsive sometimes too. I always just figured that that was due to his age, and he would grow out of it, or at least learn some ... (183 words)

Does this mean he's breaking up with me?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and my bf are together for the past 2 years. For past few months our communication has become very sparse, if i don't initiate the conversation, we don't communicate for days. 2 days back he called me and he was upset over something and asked him why he was upset, ... (160 words)

Is a phone call too much? modern technologies and dating

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I really need a suggestion: this guy I met on an online dating site, we exchanged a few emails, no more than once a day, then he asked me out and we met, but several days before the date and after no communication. First date was awkward but nice, and the day after he... (303 words)

He lied to me, I ended things but now I miss him alot

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I've dated my boyfriend for more than 3 years, some months ago I decided to break up with him.During our relationship I've found out that he had lie to me in some occasions, like if he went to a party without me and when i asked he denied it on my face, also he meet ... (213 words)

How do I proceed with this situation?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im in university and me and my housemate have started to get closer. we joke have a laugh all the time we talk alot sometimes go out for drink and i really like him also i feel this connection(i sometimes feel he likes me then i don't).what shall i do next?... (51 words)

Reconciling with my wife after a break and think a threesome would help

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok me and my wife broke up for 1 year after a 3 year marriage,break up was basically down to her family and we both agree on this and have been cut out of our lifes,we have recently started seeing each other again,we live apart but have been spending odd night together at each ... (128 words)

Female in love with gay male friend!

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 19 yr old female. i think im in love with my gay best friend (male). what to do?... (24 words)

He cheated and I don't understand how he could have done this to me

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex left me for another girl after 31/2 years. how can someone just do that how can he... he even kept me on the side until i showed up at his house and his new giel was there. earlier that day i told him to choose her or me and he said me....when i caught him i told him ... (191 words)

What are some things I can say while talking dirty to my guy?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy wants me to talk dirty to him on IM, and I totally freeze up every time I try. I know it ticks him off that I can't follow through and I feel so guilty about it, but every time, I panic and my mind just goes blank. I think part of the problem is that I've never so much ... (161 words)

Seeing him for a year but not sure if he likes me

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for just over a year. I am having a hard time distinguishing if he really like me or not. Let's start from the beginning. I met him at work, the boss's son. We would hang out after work, have sex, go out to dinner (usually would pay tip or help ... (579 words)

What do you do when the person you love has moved on?

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and m gf broke up a month ago and she is already dating someone so what do you do when the person you love has moved on? how do you fight what your heart says and finally let them go if u were really in love with them. She wants to be friends and we met up last night and our ... (191 words)

How do I become closer friends?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy since late December. He's a friend but we're not that close, more like hi and bye friends. So in January he asked my friend, Tara, if i liked him because i was acting weird around him( i always stumble words and get nervous around him,i'm a shy girl). My ... (172 words)

My boyfriend always ignores me... what do I do?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I hung out and everything was fine. Since we didn't have a lot of time to hang out, he made plans to hang out with me today for the day. He left my house and went out with his friends and came home. He messaged me that he was home but I was sleeping ... (139 words)

Where do I go from here? What should I do next week?

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6 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long and complicated story, but here goes. My boyfriend and I got together in almost two years ago - we started out as the most perfect couple, but about a year into our relationship, he went to university and things changed. We drifted apart; I have a difficult... (996 words)

How should I proceed.. My husband has gone astray...

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6 March 2011 (F)

age - I have just had my birthday, my husband gave me a small bunch of carnations and a card which he just left on the counter. The next day while cleaning up i found a receipt for the flower and card and on the receirt there was a second charge for flowers. I thought that maybe the ... (289 words)

Did I break the man code?

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6 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was hosting a massive blowout college party. My best friends little sister came into town with some mutual friends. My best friends sister started to kiss me and I didn't stop her at first and before anything else happened, I stopped her after maybe 5 or 10 seconds. I ... (207 words)