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30-35,
*l0ndb0y
writes:I think I have issues with love. Every time I fall for someone I really like (and they like me back) I start to act really weird. When I am around them, I like them and feel loved but when I'm away I start to judge my feelings for them and start to become sad and a bit angry. Sometimes I get like butterfly's in my stomach but they aren't happy, they hurt and make me feel like being sick. I then start to loose my appetite and always feel low and its all over a person I like. If i broke up with them a few days later I will be fine but become lonely again :/ what should i do?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (14 March 2011):
 You need to figure out where this is coming from. Start with your relationship with your parents and how you grew up. If it was unstable and filled with loses, as I suspect. Look up information about people with abandonment issues to see if it fits you. Whatever it is you should probably get some couseling to work it out.
Because not only are you hurting yourself by acting this way, but you are going to continue to hurt the women you care about until you do something about this, its not going to go away on it's own.
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