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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be worried about her sharing herself with other guys or wanting too try?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf watches kinky porn, pretend rape, and a couple guys on one girl. what could this say about our relationship or the type of person she is? We have amazing sex and are physically attracted to each other and intimate at the same time. ladies, should I be worried about her ... (61 words)

My family life is beyond miserable!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so im 20 years old, and my family life is beyond miserable. at age 13 i learned my mom was cheating on my dad, so i told him thinking it was the best idea. It wasn't, instead he started to rape me and use me sexually as a way to get back at her, it still hasnt stopped no ... (154 words)

She wants to meet this other guy and I'm NOT happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Btw I love this site. It's helped me make a lot of decisions about my relationship, but I still have some problems. Me and my girlfriend have had a couple of problems. When we last broke up she spilled the beans about things she's done that were somewhat unfaith... (214 words)

Is it possible that even although he wants to... he just can't get into a relationship with a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, so, I'll try and cut this as short as I can; my boyfriend and me have been for a couple of months now, we have been friends before, not very close ones though... and basically everything works out quite fine, but there is one thing worrying me.. So he is... (650 words)

Advice Please!!! I'm stuck between two men...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck in a situation with two options, both seem right but its hard. option number one....I'm engaged to a wonderful man....Lets call him M, he's sweet,fun, handsome and we have a goodfriendship. I love him, but there are a few red flags that worry me about him, he is kind ... (310 words)

Affair advice please... however wrong it is? I am in it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Well here goes again I have asked advice now twice on this matter and have taken advice in different degrees. My story is long but i will keep it short. I promise this will be the last phase. I have been seeing a married woman now for 6 years. I also have a partner. Yes i kn... (699 words)

I miscarried and it was HER fault!!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - recently i fell pregnant now im only 14 so initially i was freaking out about it. i had told my boyfriend and he was going to support me on wanting to keep the baby. i told my best friend everything and she was happy for us although i never told my mum. everything was going gr... (215 words)

My boyfriend looked at porn before we had sex. Should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The other night I was really in the mood, and thought that my boyfriend was as well (we were texting each other all week long about these new condoms we couldn't wait to try). When the time came, he said he wasn't in the mood and that he needs to relax for a bit. So I go to the ... (275 words)

Is it abnormal that I have this urge???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a happy relationship for a year and a half with the most wonderful guy in the world. It seems to me like I have commitment issues because every few months something little happens (not like a fight, we can get through those. It's more that we feel like we're ... (143 words)

I feel insulted by his porn watching!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupids, Ive got a bit of an issue on my hands, although I know its perfectly normal, it keeps bugging me... To cut a long story short, weve been together for a year and a half, and weve recently had a baby together (I gave birth 2 weeks ago) but I was on his laptop rece... (156 words)

In 2 short weeks, my emotional life changed completely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Last summer I had a short, but bright romance which turned me upside down. We've known about each other for about 5 years, we've seen each other, but never spoke in a personnal way. A year ago he started texting me, then invited for a drink - in a couple of weeks my emotional ... (245 words)

What is involved in a woman having a physical examination?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just turned 16 so i have to get a physical i was wondering what do they do for girls? I know for guys they hold there penis and make them cough so im worried the girl's physical might have something to do with there private parts. Thanks.... (49 words)

I really regret breaking up with him now. What can I do?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an amazing relationship for nearly five months... and we broke up five months ago. I broke up with him bc my dad didnt like him but i dont even care about that any more. right after we broke up, i was a mess and i texted him every once in a while freaking out. i also just ... (90 words)

I would LOVE to do this in front of a girl for real!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi.. i have been using a webcam for a few years now.. I kinda have an addiction. As time progressed I started doing very kinky stuff on cam.. It turned me on so much.. Things like wearing stockings and knickers... and many other extremley kinky things.. I'm a good looking ... (170 words)

Is there a chance he has ED???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I wrote a post about this a while back and how the guy I am with takes forever to finish during sex, and normally can't finish without oral stimulation of a hand job-- and even then sometimes he just has to finish himself or to speed the process along himself so that I ... (257 words)

Does he really NOT ever want a girlfriend???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I really like this guy and a lot of times he seems like he likes me but he is really into sports and always says that he doesnt have time to have a girlfriend. Whenever I mention subtle things about him getting a gf hes like ha me? girlfriend? im never gonna have a ... (67 words)

I need ideas on what to cook for him that's really special!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to cook my boyfriend something great for dinner :) because he got a new job but not to sure what to cook. He is not picky and likes everything, but I want to cook something, that he will be like wow you cooked this for me?? So I hope you guys can help me think of ... (71 words)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me - for no reason!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, got a bit of a big problem. I've been with my bf for over a year now and we still haven't had sex. I'm a virgin, but he has done it quite a few times with his ex. When they went out, they had sex after about half a year, so why is he so reluctant to do it with me? He ... (136 words)

I think I like someone I've met online - How to meet up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, just joined here with the intention of asking this question because where I would generally muse over things, I gotten to know certain people so wouldn't feel comfortable, especially considering the topic at hand specifically concerns one person from said site. I'm ... (740 words)

Am I just wasting my time here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. Please could you give me some advice? My boyfriend gets depressed often although it hasn't been for a while. I have tried being as understanding and loving as i can as i too can get like this. Only thing that is bugging me, when i felt down a while ago, he was the complete ... (276 words)

"Okay!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! Okay, so I have a problem that needs tackling... For those of you that don't know, there is a public chat site where you can talk to strangers.... a few months ago I met a fourteen year old boy who was really nice and sweet. We met up on Facebook and I gave him my itouch ... (164 words)

Doesn't anyone have any kind of loyalty to their friends anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Doesn't anyone have any kind of loyalty to their friends anymore? I recently found out that my so called good friend was trying to have sex with my recent ex boyfriend. And I've heard plenty of other stories about ex's trying to sleep with their former girlfriend or ... (123 words)

I don't want to be useless at sex when I'm only 17.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, Im 17 and I have recently began a serious relationship with a lovely guy. We re currently two months in and completely besotted with each other. However I have a problem, I don't think im very good sexually - I've had sexual experience before (in my last re... (129 words)

We fixed our quarrel but now he hardly calls!! What to do please??

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i recently had a quarrel but we fixed it and now he hardly calls me, i'm disturbed.I need help. ... (22 words)

All my friends are 'doing stuff' I don't want to though... reassurance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I am 15 and so are all of my friends, at least five of them are doing things with there boyfriends which I would Never do! For example some are being friged? One has been licked out and one has given a hand job - Even when I fall in love I wouldn't do thos... (154 words)

I made out with my friend but worry it might ruin our friendship. How do I move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I got drunk and we made out but we both have a boyfriend. I told mine and he was okay with it but its a little awkward between me and my friend. I hate myself cause I didnt stop when she started and cause i kinda liked it but now i'm afraid it'll ruin our ... (86 words)

Confused feelings over a female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of confused about my feelings for a very good (female) friend of mine. The thing I know for certain is that I really really like her. What I don't know is whether I want to go out with her / ask her out. Sometimes I feel like I'd really want to, but sometimes I'm ... (271 words)

What do you guys suggest I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age - hi feeling down cos my ex says he wants to see how things go.. ive told him how i feel about him over the phone.. now he wont answer any texts i send.. so now i have texted.. you dont seem intresed so i bear no grudges againist you, please could you come and pick up your things ... (137 words)

Something just doesn't feel right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We see each other weekends, and sometimes during the week,when we not seeing each other,we chat on an Instant Message application.Normally she lets me know she's online to chat.Its usually in the evenings when we come home ... (366 words)

Why do I still love this woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, a girl whom I love went out with boy who was using her. No one dares to say hat to her but I was the only one who was silly enough to tell her the truth. She was really angried but later they broke up and she came back to say thanks to me since i was the only one who ... (219 words)

Why is she fighting this hard to keep me in her life when she has a boyfriend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going through a rough time with dealing with my ex. we broke up unexpectelfy in january and she started dating a new guy around vday. she goes days without talking to me and then will contact me out of the blue and disappear after a few short words. i tried going no contact ... (200 words)

Concerned about girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so my girlfriend and i have a great relationship, we are intimate, get along well and love each other a lot. But the last few days she doesnt seem herself. Our 2 familes kind of had it out over the phone because she came to my house to get away from her family, and her ... (270 words)

I feel I'm living without hope of ever having a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been single 8 months. I am attractive and a good person. And many men do fancy me until they find out that i am 32 years old - This relates to men my own age, as well as giving or taking a couple years. I have everything to offer but i cannot find any man that wants... (264 words)

I don't believe in soul mates and things like that but I feel like she's the other half of me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy. Went out with the girl of my dreams for 3 years, and spit up nearly 4 years ago. And I STILL have strong feelings for her. We had an amazing relationship, but in the end we split because we agreed we had, had our time so to speak as we were only really young at... (299 words)

Boyfriend makes me feel so underappreciated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I'm ready to have a break down, My boyfriend an father of my son makes me feel so under appreciated, we are both unemployed an collecting unemployment he makes double I do I asked him to help pay for things he won't do it I pay for everything an have no money left ... (247 words)

How do I wean myself off him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of a strange question. I'm in a relationship and we've been together over 2 years. It has recently become apparent to me that I might be a tad more emotionally invested in the relationship than he is. I don't want to break up with him. I, however, would like to ... (107 words)

How can I really make her want me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right so to make this less complicated I'm gonna use fake names; I'm a girl and bi. There's this guy I know called Noah and we're always flirting, kissing and cuddling. We have love you more fights and hold hands. We're not in a relationship. There's also another boy, Luis, an... (194 words)

Travelled 1000's of miles for the love of my life .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl when i was in college. Initially we were very good friend and then we fell in love. After college she went abroad for higher studies and I took up a job. We shared 3 yrs of relationship but half of it was long distance. She used to tell me that she loves me a ... (441 words)

My Ex is now my friend but he keeps mentioning our past sex life and I'm uncomfortable. Please help??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf broke up with me 5 months back. I was devastated for sometime and i got over him. We are good friends now. But my ex-bf keeps talking about our past sex-life with me. I told him that i am just a friend and i dont want to do anything sexual with him. He says ok and then... (107 words)

We've been broken up for about 3 months. I can't tell if she has really moved on, or if she is trying to fill some void.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I had been dating for a year. We broke up on Halloween and still talked/hooked up for about a month. At the end of that month we had a big fight and immediately following she started sleeping around....a lot. Multiple guys per week, some in their 40's. (She is 21). ... (307 words)

I have cut contact with her. Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in the first week of my final year of university, the first week of her first year. We had a wonderful relationship and seemed to be really happy together throughout. In the final weeks of the relationship we started to talk about what would happen after I finished ... (225 words)

How do I make more converstaion with this girl without her feeling overwhelmed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 16 and i like this really smart and beautiful girl...she knows i like her and she doesnt talk to me that much as she talks to other guys more...she is pretty social and friendy and nice to people...the thing is that she probably doesnt talk to me much because she knows i ... (84 words)

We broke up, I told him what I really thought about him, but now I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month and half ago but I'm still in love him. I miss him so much and I really want him back. When he broke up with me I was so hurt and angry that I said some really mean things to him. At that time, I told myself I could never go back ... (198 words)

My wife is pregnant and our sex life has stopped. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife had a great sex life but shes pregnant one and half months from now. We both missings our days but we're afraid of losing pregnancy. What should we do?... (33 words)

My husband threatens an affair everytime I say no to sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never had as strong a sex drive as my husband (married 8 yrs). I know it's always been a problem, but for the last year everytime I say no to sex. He tells me he's gonna go out and have an affair. This really hurt me and when I told him so he didn't apologize he said ... (320 words)

New to dating and questioning his intentions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of rusty when it comes to dating. Actually I've never dated. I've always been friends with a guy, then we'd go right into a relationship. I recently met a guy while I was out with friends. Given the circumstances, guys you meet out are almost always just hook-ups... (307 words)

She broke her promise not to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I tell my friend CR all my secrets she is like my sista. I was texting her the other day I was thinking about breaking up with my BF because of all the drama in my life right now. She told me she wasn't gonna tell him either. When I got to school today he was acting weird. Th... (165 words)

Fiance doesn't love me anymore, says he hasn't for a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - please help my fiance has ended our relationship after 5 years and i dont know what to do. im so in love with him and i miss him so much. ive tried to limit contact but we have a child together so its really hard as he wants to speak to him everyday.he is a brilliant daddy and ... (142 words)

Ex came back making promises and left again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am not the prettiest girl on earth but 5 years ago, I met my handsome boyfriend in university. We started talking for 3 months and one day I kissed him and since then, we started going out. We were 19 at the time. Since the beginning he wasn’t really respectful. He w... (1642 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want me to use our picture as my Facebook profile picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My LDR boyfriend told me today that he didn't like me putting a picture of us as my Facebook profile picture online. After he added me he told me that he had all kinds of people, good friends and almost strangers, on Facebook and he didn't want to share his personal life wi... (278 words)

How do I make him "in love" with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ahm, I'm really worried about my boyfriend... We are together since we were 13 years old (now we're 17), but the last months he was really weird, I mean, we're out of school now, he's at university right now and I'm at home 'cause classes begin on September. He said he ... (146 words)

Does age really matter? It bothers me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know, it's a very common question. But does age really matter? I am a woman dating a men a few years younger than me. He obviously doesn't mind me being older, but it always bothers me! I hate thinking about his age, for awhile I didn't want people to find out we were dat... (107 words)

Why do men play mind games with the women they like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do some men (single or married) play mind/head games with the women they are attracted to but not in a relationship with? What's their deal? And why all the game playing??? Why do they pay attention to a woman and then ignore her and go back and forth? Are they trying to ... (68 words)

Why am I so sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I'm 15 almost 16 and I have noticed that I am quite a sensitive girl, although I don't always act like it. I easily get upset and little things make me feel really unhappy, for example I'm a good girl in school and clumsey me forgot to hand her homework in ... (136 words)

We're not supposed to have sex before marriage but we want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity a couple of years ago, and was in a serious and long relationship which was sexually active. However, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years and soon after I became a Christian so I know I am not supposed to have sex before marriage. I now am dating ... (196 words)

My husband is a compulsive liar and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i need some constructive advice and abit of psychological insight. what do you do when your partner is a compulsive liar? I am married with a young child, me and my hubby have been together for 3years. Ever since i met him he has lied to me, most of which are little white ... (762 words)

How do I convince my girlfriend she needs to go to the doctors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My girlfriend had a dodgy discharge recently and we know its a vaginal infection. She knows it needs to be treated but she keeps pushing the topic aside or agreeing but not doing anything. I know she's doesn't like going to the doctors, no one does but she needs to... (88 words)

He doesn't say, "I love you" on a regular basis after 2 years! Not normal?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. I am a very affectionate and loving person. He is not too affectionate and it annoys me. It makes me feel like he doesn't love or care about me. Another thing that bothers me is that he doesn't say, "i love you." I have to say it ... (364 words)

Why can't I go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend over 2 months now and things are going great apart from one thing, I can't cum for her apart from masterbating :( She has given me blow jobs and we have lots of continous sex but I just can't cum and it's really getting to me and I can tell its r... (111 words)

Long distance and trust issues...what to do or say??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How mad should I be at my gf? She let some guy write his name on her cleavage once and now she said she cheated on me by kissing another girl. I really love her and don't want to break up with her but what should I do? This is long distance for now because I'm in the army and ... (76 words)

Would it make me feel better to call my ex g/f who is now married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 21 years old, male!! My ex girlfrnd (the only one) is 25 !!! We had a very close relationship for 3 years or so, before our break up!! She is the only girlfriend i hv ever had, i really loved her a lot, i still love her... After our break up i was really broken and i ... (159 words)

I know someone is cheating so do I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If your brother's fiancée is cheating, do you get involved? How many times do you say something before you start keeping it to yourself or do you continue to let your brother know what she is up to? ... (38 words)

My baby is nearly due and baby's father is in a real panic!! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This is for the men or women who have dealt with this . Is it normal for first time dads to panic and get "cold feet?" Basically semi lose it even of they are in their 40s or 30s? This is what I am going through right now . Baby due in August and daddy to be is freaking out... (75 words)

I found texts from another girl on my boyfriends phone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I stayed over my boyfriends the other night and he mentioned a girl's name in his sleep call her Barb. I didn't say anything to him in the morning and it's not the first time Barb's name come up. I was curious so when he was in the shower I went through his texts. Theres a ... (140 words)

I love him but he scares me. How can I get him to do right by me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much. Even if he had failed me from the very first time he told me he liked me. He gets mad at me for no reason most of the time. Like he would break up with me out of no where, then we would get back together and for him, it's as if he never even hurt... (297 words)

After 2 weeks my boyfriend has suddenly gone cold?? Please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and we already have problems. He used to text me all the time and slowly stopped now he isnt texting at all. I wanted to hang out spring break and he promised he would but he didnt. I had a fight with him about how i got my grades ... (138 words)

2 months together on a trip with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago now due to his jealousy problems about my past. while in a relationship although things were never great we decided we wanted to travel together. well these plans got pushed to one side when we broke up. but in the past couple of m... (216 words)

Is it possible to love but not be in love anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend and father of my children for 5 years and it seems like I have fallen out of love with him but I still love him just not in love is that possible??... (38 words)

Could this be an opportunity for my ex and I to get back together soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months back, I started seeing a close friend of mine. We had this unbelievable chemistry, and I'd never felt that way about anyone before, Unfortunately things went a little faster then I hoped, and jealousy from our best friend began to intervene and we split up and we ... (235 words)

Can thrush lay dormant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought I knew a lot about sexually transmitted infections, but now I think I need some advice, please. I know thrush/candidiasis is not a sexually transmitted disease as such, although partners can pass it to one another during sex. So, it seems like my bf has developed ... (300 words)

Cheated, broke up, and unable to move on

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided a week later to break up. That was ... (124 words)

How do I get over to painful experiences? - I'm just crushed and messed up.

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel messed up. I had a boyfriend of 4yrs who went off with my best mate and that really messed my head up. Especially since he was my first love. Although it has been years now I still cant get him out of my head. And another relationship since that has turned out really b... (291 words)

Is great sex a "must have" in a potential husband?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've noticed many posts on dearcupid by men suffering from retroactive jealousy. One aspect of it that bothers me is insecurity with respect to whether or not the sex is as good with me as it was with prior men. She's made comments at times that lead me to believe the sex ... (194 words)

Should I attempt to persue my college prof as I'm unsure how interested he may be? Any thoughts welcome please?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for my college professor. I am uncertain as to whether or not he has feelings for me. I have just a couple of weeks left until I finish college and will no longer be under his supervision. I'm hoping that I can see him over the summer - maybe we might go for ... (477 words)

Love hurts...Is she interested in me?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl i like used to look at my eyes and i did the same, many a time i used to burn her talking to other girls. But 2 days back she addressed me as her brother ,we were friends since last 1 year ,can you give me tip to know whether she like me or a game?... (58 words)

How do I stop being extra possessive about my girlfriend?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i am a 21 yr old guy. i m into a relationship with a gal 1 and a half yrs younger to me from past 3yrs. i think m extra possessive. i always comment on her clothes which are deep neck or short waist. i don't like this cuz of which i irritate her to wear stole or long ... (131 words)

She doesn't show much interest, should I just give up?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girl I am trying to get with still. I compliment her as much as I can, not trying to score points but of genuine belief, she often says I am 'crazy, mad' etc etc. I have still persisted, but today for some reason I have snapped, I haven't let her know it yet, but I am ... (149 words)

She said she'd be my girlfriend if she was single...which she's not

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Falling in love with your best friend is usually a bad ending waiting to happen right? But what if she already told you that she would say yes if you asked her out? hen am I good to ask her out? should I go for it now? I need some help. She is my best friend in the entire w... (140 words)

Is he contemplating having children with me?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been dating this wonderful man for 5 months now. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. We are discussing having a future together and the issue of children has come up. He is not for it nor against it, the same as me. Lately he has been saying (whenever we ... (77 words)

I'm having a hard time with boyfriend travelling and being far away from me

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14 March 2011 (F)

- My boyfriend is in the states for 2 weeks working. He is having the time of his life at the moment. He was recently away for 6 weeks in europe. He phoned me everyday and I got the feeling he really missed me. The travelling is killing me. This time feels different. He does send ... (156 words)

Does it seem like I don't trust him?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here is my issue, my bf is on a dating site and several months ago i asked him about it and he told me he only has it as a fun thing and that he does not subscribe to it, he gets messages and fans etc but would need to subscribe to the site if he wanted to send messages... ... (335 words)

B/f won't give up option of being able to see photos of girl he cheated with

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. For four months, he cheated on me with a good friend of mine, and lied about it even when I asked about it. When I first found out about it, we agreed to stay together, but he told me that he was absolutely not going to ... (388 words)

Hit a deep low in our relationship, but I just don't know what to do anymore

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been together with my girlfriend whom I love very much, for almost 3 years now, we're in a long distance relationship, and have a 5 year age difference. But lately it hasn't been going so well and over the weekend it got really bad. A bit of info first, we're in a lon... (1372 words)

Should I follow my head and chose the nice guy whom I "like"? Or go for my ex whom I love(d) but who hurt me?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused. I don't know what to do or who to pick. I'll tell you the story... I'm 17, and I was with my ex for 7 months. We were really happy at first. My family loved him and we got on very well. He then turned very controlling, he'd want to know where I was, who... (393 words)

I don't see how we are going to work out physically!

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I started dating a woman a few months ago, and emotionally our relationship has progressed very quickly, while the physical aspect of things has gone very slowly since her past relationships haven't ended well. My problem is that I have a small penis, roughly 2 1/2' - 3' ... (314 words)

Partner's comments about sex with his ex make me feel insecure

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14 March 2011 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for five years. When we first met he was not long split up with his girlfriend and although I thought he was over her he was still in love with her. After we first had sex he said that it was not as good with me as with his previous girlfriend, he ... (345 words)

5.5 years together yet he still can't get over my past

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. First of all, I would like to thank you for taking the time to read my story. I am a 23 year old girl. I have been with my current boyfriend for the last 5,5 years. The problem is that he cant get over my past. He was my best friend during high school, and the we go to... (1355 words)

Why do some people deliberately try to wreck other people's lives?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Any advice about people who deliberately try home wrecking and try to destroy other peoples happy relationships and happiness in general, why do people do this/. is it jealousy? or some other deep routed problem? if you see somebody happy in life i can not relate to how another ... (120 words)

Is it ever too late to say you're sorry to a friend?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to have this best friend, and we were close. You could possibly say that at times our relationship felt more than your average friendship, and it was a little mutual. We were always together and would find any excuse to hangout. Unfortunately, from one moment to the ... (586 words)

How can I make this one in a million woman interested in me?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 20 years old and I am in love with a woman about five years older than me that I work with. However, there are several factors that stand as obstacles and I am not sure if they can be conquered. She is of Jewish faith, and I recently found out from another coworker ... (123 words)

To my utmost horror, I'v realized my girlfriend still does cocaine. Should I stay and try to make it work, or leave?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been together for 13 months, and have only had a handful of fights. we're both pretty upfront about what we've done in our past-- one instance being that she tried cocaine a few times. we talked about it, and i told her i cant control her past, its no ... (259 words)

Ex comes to me when he is having dating problems

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you do when your ex comes to your when they are having girlfriend issues?? my ex is kinda having an affair with a woman who is involved with another man, she keeps telling him she is going to leave her husband for him, and then she changes her mind so he tells her whe... (269 words)

They ignore you because they like you???

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Say you showed a lot of interest in someone for a whole year, but they often ignored you when you tried to get their attention. So the next year you ignore them back and stare straight past them like what they did to you. But when they send a nice message you reply with a ... (226 words)

He told me he didn't want me but he won't stop.why

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi guys 17 months ago i walked in on my first love having sex with his xgf and i was so hurt i overdosed woke up the next day in the hospital mental ward. my stomach was pumped but i don't remember. i had to stay in the mental ward for 3.5 months and go to therapy for 9 months ... (368 words)

Condom before or after foreplay?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question: when engaging with your partner, should men put a condom on before foreplay or after? ... (24 words)

A friend who wants to be more than friends?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering if a friend of mine wants to be more than friends. We started out as coworkers a little over a year ago and have become good friends. I'm 25 and he's 30. We have many things in common and we hang out a lot after work. I'm confused though because sometimes I get ... (587 words)

Will he betray me?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend whom i met online. we have never met. we have been talking for a while now over the phone and its recently that we decided to be more than just friends. i trust him but there are days.. Especially cause he is younger than me... i'm 23 he's 21.. i feel like ... (179 words)

One night stand with friend was great. How do I know if he wants to do it again

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Had a one night stand with a man I like a lot as a friend. It was great, and I quite sure that I would like to see him again. How do I make sure whether he feels the same way ?... (42 words)

Is role playing common among couples?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 8 years now. For past few years and more so in recent 1-2 years, whenever we have sex, we role play and act like different individuals, everytime we have sex , we play different roles. Sometimes I think is it because he doesn't find me sexually ... (107 words)

Is this innocent? Or is he trying to cheat on me?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I read my boyfriends private facebook messages and he sent like 4 messages to different girls about how they should go out for a drink sometime. They are girls that he knows but they aren't "friends". Is he trying to cheat on me or is it innocent? ... (47 words)

Everything went great until the ex came back....

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've started to date this guy I knew since we were young. I didn't see him for more than seven years and one day he added me on facebook so we started talking and eventually to date. I admit at first that I wasn't comfortable to date again as after being single for a yea... (306 words)

I crave for sex to those I'm attracted to even though I don't enjoy sex.

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Iam 18 years old. Lost my virginity at age 12. Had 2 kids before I was 17. I have had sex with over 30 guys and 10 girls. I crave for sex to those I'm attracted to even though I don't enjoy sex. It. Effects my 3 year relationship. I have cheated on him over ten times all ... (440 words)

A guy and his actions, what do they mean?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - random list of facts about a guy and his actions; what do you think they mean? - him and his friend ambushed me while i was coming out of my washroom, and he pushed me up against a wall and shoved his leg between mine so i was straddling him. - he stole my phone and took ... (777 words)

I thought I loved Joey, but then why am I still hung up on Zach??

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So here's my problem... I'm 16 almost 17 and have been dating this guy for a year now (we'll say Joey) who I really care about and get along with amazingly, not to mention he treats me better than anyone has in my life. But the other night I went out to a club wi... (280 words)

Do women ever chase men?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think that guys are the ones who always want to chase women? Do you know of any examples of situations where the woman was more actively pursuing the guy and it ends up working out? ... (37 words)

Why does my ex want me to hate him?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had broke up 9 months ago. In this 9 months i really had a suffering time. I miss him alot ,i wanted him back. but, he just wouldn't talk to me. he wouldn't accept me as facebook friends and any other social website. I was feeling so depressed. I wanted to ... (218 words)

One year later I do still miss my cheating ex

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24 and I broke up with my first real boyfriend about one year ago. We dated for 5 years and I seriously thought we would get married one day. I miss him so much yet I know I can't ever get back together with him because he cheated on me. Two years into our relationship ... (623 words)

Am I wrong to get involved with an engaged man?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok...heres the 411 Theres this guy...ofcourse...we get along great, we're in the same line of work, and when we're together all we do is laugh. I've been single for a while and I'm really picky. Its rare that I like someone. All this seems too good to be true. Right??? ... (242 words)

I don't understand about my boyfriend's friend!

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with myy bf for three years but I'm a little confused. My bf has this friend who will have sex with anything lol pretty much literally. When I met my bf he waas with that guy. That guy tried to have sex with me but I was interested in his friend my now bf. This guy ... (289 words)

Staying over at my guy friends house.

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 15 nd how do i persuade my mom to let me stay at a guys sleep over even though i say hes gay. I have had recent sleep overs but when i came home i had to ask my mom for a pregnancy test. so now she doesnt trust me. I am trying to tell her i wont do anything but she just ... (84 words)

What is sexy to men?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - what is your ideal weight and look of a woman? I am 15 and i wanna know what men think is sexy. I dont wanna look tramp-ish but not too nun-ish. I wear short shorts and tees often and I wear regular converses. I have mid length brown wavy hair. I have a curvy figure. im not ... (77 words)

I hit my wife. how do I regain her trust

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently got into an argument with my wife over our sex life. to make a long story short im very affectionate and she isn't. but the argument got very heated and i slapped her then slammed her head into the wall. i cant express how much i regret this. ive never thought i was ... (135 words)

She has no feelings for me now but wants to be friends

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend just broke up wit me. i liked this girl for years . we were friends for 4 years then when i asked her out she said yes . before breaking up wit me she told me that after breaking up wit her ex boyfriend she promised her self she would never fall in love again . ... (121 words)

I'm not sure if I lost my virginity....?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure if I've lost my virginity or not because every time I look it up all I ever get are stuff about heterosexual sex. yes, it happened with another girl. which is why I'm not sure about it! I'm very confused. I'm not even sure if it'd count as fingering, but she inse... (83 words)

Was my friend just being catty because of her own dating problems?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, there's this boy that I've known for a few months now. We get along really well, and we've been flirting quite a bit. I didn't really want to admit to anyone that I liked him because I wasn't quite ready to admit it myself, but after I did I told one of my closest fr... (461 words)

Ideas to find alone time away from parents eyes?

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having a lot of trouble getting alone time, and being able to have a sexual relationship at all because our parents are like watch dogs. Hints towards getting alone time to express ourselves sexually?... (40 words)

Oral sex...how can I "wow" him??

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend are going on three months now, and we have talked about takeing the next step... oral sex. and we are completely comfortable with eachother and im only slightly nervous because it will be my first time giving/recieving it. any tips to "wow" him?... (48 words)

She wants to leave me for another man

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - what do i do if my girlfriend wants to leave me for anthoner man and i love here to death but she says she cannot take my mouth any more what do i do?... (34 words)

Husband is a chronic liar and I cant handle it!

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK so my husband is a cronic lier. I all the time find him in white lies and it makes me crazy. I love him but I can not handle the lying. We have only been married around a year. I have 2 kids from a previous marragge and he has 3. All are older but our 2 youngest. mine 12 his ... (277 words)

Torn between two guys...what do I do??

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, this is going to be verrrrrry long:/ soo about four weeks ago my boyfriend, E, of 1 year and 4 months broke up with me because we were fighting a lot. He wasnt really happy so we started fighting about our relationship. So we broke up. Then a few days later he said he... (458 words)

How do I make her realize she lost the best part of her life?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had been dating for about 6 months or so and it has been really good until about two weeks or so ago. This past week she has been distnant and very aggravated. She said she was getting bored of her life as a whole along with the relationship. Well I came ... (397 words)

Boyfriend cannot get past my previous relationships

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14 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my bf of over a year just can not get past my previous relationships. what can we do? I love this man he is my everything (and his love is mutual). i had a hard life when i was younger and made so many mistakes that i will regret for the rest of my life. he knows everything ... (304 words)

I don't know how to start!

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Just to clear things up, I am fifteen, in grade 10 and she is in grade 11. We are in a very small high school (started last year, but since it's French - not emersion, completely - it has already exceeded the maximum occupancy of the building at 140 people), so here goes. ... (186 words)

Boyfriend depressed and going through his second divorce

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if you could help me. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately. He is going through his second divorce. We used to see each other once a week, I have not seen my boyfriend in a month. He told me i deserve batter, i told him he deserves a good woman like me ... (116 words)

Myself, My girlfriend and her ex!!

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a girlfriend that i love, but she keeps asking me to open up but the thing is i don't know how to? And also she sais that we need to be close so that we will work out, which i understand, but when i sit their and cuddle up to her she gets up and does something else, ... (166 words)

Mind games with facebook

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a problem. my boyfriend has removed me from facebook a few times when we have had arguments or broke up. i feel like he is playing mind games with me. do you think i should just forget him altogether ?. i think what he did is really childish. why would he do that ?.... (57 words)

I really like my sisters best friend, what should I do?

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I really like my sisters best friend and I've known her my entire life. She has a boyfriend, but idk how much longer they will last. I really wanna have sex with her, or at least see her nude. She's really hot, like amazingly. And my sister said she kinda likes me. What ... (58 words)

I want to forgive him but I also don’t want to feel like an idiot because I do feel played....

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is long so thanks for taking the time to read this and I appreciate your input! Alright so me and my bestfriend started ‘unofficially dating’ mid-January after he started showing feelings for me in November. I was reluctant at first because of our friendshi... (1005 words)

Fun inexpensive activities I can do with my ex boyfriend

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex are trying sort things out :) I wanted to know what activities we can do that are fun and dont cost alot I seriously can't think of much accept the beach, cinema, I would love any ideas given as we both like sport,hanging out,playing games and music :) ... (56 words)

I don't believe my married lover when she says she's not having sex

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14 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair for almost 7 years now. I love her dearly and i think the feeleing is mutual. We have never committed to each other due to us both having kids. Mine is 5 and hers are above 18. She has 3. However Christmas 2009 at a party we were in effect caught... (272 words)

What do I do about my ex? He's really hurt me!

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about my ex boyfriend? please he's really hurt me:(? I was with him for 5months..everything was great then after 4months he started been weird and asked to go on a break and I said ok. He begged for me back and he asked for another break again we got back... (343 words)

200 miles away and he says he can't offer a relationship

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14 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I like, he is gorgeous, kind, he's 5 years older than me but we have loads in common. I know he likes me back and we've talked about dating. This sounds fantastic I know, but there is one problem; he lives almost 200 miles away. I would love to have a ... (125 words)