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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does it mean when a guy says he does love you but he doesn't bother talking to you very much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok So I have this boyfriend and its really complicated because it's a distance relationship so thats already a extreme added conflict. However we are like most couples. But he does this thing where we will be fine and then after a while he kind of drifts away and doesnt text as ... (167 words)

I have a tight foreskin, do you think my girlfriend will mind it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My foreskin doesn't pull back at all, it only has a very small hole in the end. Do you think my girlfriend will still want to give me a hand job or oral sex when she sees it?... (38 words)

I'm afraid to see my first boyfriend again because I cheated on him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My first boyfriend treated me the greatest. I was not sexually attracted to him tho, and when he tried to do stuff when I wasn't into it I felt horrible and guilty. I tried to break up with him a couple times, but when I was leaving the room he would cry and it broke my heart ... (371 words)

Does the old boyfriend deserve another chance? Or should I go for the new man despite the fact that my sister was in a relationship with him and is unhappy about "us' together now...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been in a relationship for 5 years. He was wonderful,charming,sensitive,everything a woman could want. He was my best friend. A year before we got together he had lost his young wife to a health problem and was devastated.After 5 years,he could still not get over her or ... (502 words)

He said he couldn't tolerate being a dirty secret anymore and cheated on me...should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age - Hi - I’m feeling emotionally hurt, confused , anxious and vulnerable. I’m a gay man who’s been in a long term relationship for 16 years. I love my partner deeply, but we’ve had one major issue in our relationship - I’m not open about my gay life to my family, and in particula... (433 words)

I feel we should be spending more time together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this question is only for people who have been in serious relationships. I need a non bi-est opinion on whats right. My boyfriend and I have been together now for about 7 months and we are in love. We never really argue but when we do its the same argument and it comes ... (259 words)

All talk, no action

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known this guy for many years now. Intially I was attracted to him and let him know about my attraction. Since then, he has been contacting me to share intimate details of his life. We have had a chance to see each other at functions but in public, he would ignore me ... (195 words)

I have nothing to talk about with my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I married 3 years ago.i have 2 children.when i used to talk to my husband before marriage,he seems to be questioning about my character.and he always blaming me that i dont know this that and bla bla.but also i married him hoping that he will love me after marriage as he was ... (135 words)

I'm interested in two guys - help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short i met this guy(a) like two years ago we havent stablished anything serious yet but he says he can see himself in the future with me...He had an argument not long ago and he totally vanished from this planet. Now during that time i talked to a guy(b) that ... (133 words)

I can't stand my friends - but I don't know why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What is wrong with me? i hate spending time with my friends...and i even avoid answering the phone incase its them. they're not mean to me, and i feel so sad about this.... (33 words)

Is he in a rebound relationship with his current G/f, does he still have feelings for me or is he just playing me for a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex are still good friends after we broke up almost 7 months ago, although now he has a girlfriend that he claims hes in love with. He spends alot of time with her or which is what he says, and then when hes not with her hes talking to me. He always talkes to me at sc... (147 words)

Unrequited love....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a very good female friend of mine. We did not know each other two years ago, She has changed my life completely : taught me how to be a nice and normal person. Before that I was just a person who has barely any emotions. I love her a lot but she only treats me a frie... (225 words)

Disgusted and fed up with my pathetic, sexually aggressive, miserable husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years. We have a one year old son. And I am unhappy. I have second guessed my decision to marry him since almost day one. I had a miscarriage withing the first month of our marriage. I didn't want to have sex for a couple weeks and... (528 words)

Is there anything else I can do or do you all just think I'm crazy and wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so this girl and I have been.."talking" for the past 4 months. we're actually pretty serious about it all though. We met and things were great. We were great friends. Then things started getting a little more serious and we liked each other. Long story short, we were ... (363 words)

Need help in dealing with a long distance relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I would really appreciate any advice here especially from people in the same situation. At the moment, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and in September we will be going out of London to other cities for university. However, it isn't as... (199 words)

Token Penis Size Question

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - No serious insecurities here, and I know this gets asked constantly but seriously A good, caring guy with a great personality and good career who totes your average 6 inch 5 around penis or A good caring guy with a great personality and good career who cares a 8 inch 6... (80 words)

I like him, but he's unsure of his feelings; I want a relationship, but he wants us to be Friends with Benefits. What do I do now??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, everyone. I am really confused about my feelings for my best friend and was hoping maybe you guys would help me. We became really good friends when we started university together. At first I didnt like him, just as good friends. When we became closer, I told him I was a ... (704 words)

Can anyone help me identify my sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) So this is about my sexuality, and I want your honest opinion, because I really am ok with myself, and I dont really want answers simply saying "Whatever you think, give it time etc." because I really really dont know! And I've given it three years, of course, I wont ... (411 words)

Pregnant and my boyfriend dumped me. What can I do to make him pay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is very long and drawn out and I'll apologize in advance for this, but here goes. My ex and I started dating about 8 months ago and things moved very fast. We loved one another and talked about a future together and marriage but wanted to wait until our school... (570 words)

Should I contact my father? My mom has fiercely protected me from him all these yrs, because he had sexually abused my older half brother and half sister...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When i was 6 years old my biological father was put in prison for sexually abusing my older half brother and half sister. After this my mum took out an injunction preventing him from coming anywhere near me until i was 18 years old. After this he made numerous attempts to ... (363 words)

My fiance has moved on saying he doesn't love me, I'm on anti-depressants and my life is a mess.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - im suffering with depression and im on the maximum dose of anti depressants i can have. my fiance has broken off our relationship after 5 years cos he doesn't love me anymore. i dont know where to go from here. im on auto pilot at the minute. i work and i have children to look ... (138 words)

My husband thinks it might be a good idea to go to different schools and to be apart from each other for at least a semester but I feel like this option might result in us breaking up....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey there everyone. So...My husband and I got married when we were 16. Despite popular belief, it wasn't because we were having a baby or anything - we just knew we were supposed to be together and our parents trusted us. Anyway, now we're 18 and seniors in high school. We ... (283 words)

The more I've got to know my husband, the less I like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for over a 1.5 yr ago i..e we signed the marriage certificate almost 2 yrs ago and i moved with him 6 months after signing him. Few months after signing him we had fights regarding issues with his friends as i could not spend al... (479 words)

Is it possible that gold-digger can turn into a mature and loving wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I have a small question “is it possible that a gold-digger turn into a mature and loving wife” I ask this question with a reason, as I want to give my wife a second change (ok I am lying I want to give myself a second chance). Let me give you a brief history about my... (715 words)

I fell out with my ex and now I'm losing our mutual friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi sory this can be a bit long but i need ur help !! i was in relationship with a guy for 3 yrs later i broke up with him because things werent working out for me, rather i was not ready to commit.i had casual relations every time but this turned out to be taken seriously ... (442 words)

Sick of being left out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so the title says it all. In my group of friends, I am the only one without a partner. Many of them are together within the group! My best friend has been seeing a guy for over a year, and my other friends are well past the six month mark. I'm always left out, ev... (185 words)

I was still erect AFTER intercourse... is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help, i had intercourse for the first time, we both enjoyed it the other day and i was wondering is it normal to ejaculate when ur popping her cherry i did! if so how come i kept an erection after until we stopped and was still erect for about 5 mins after? plz help is ... (66 words)

Help me be more indepenent!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship of two and a half years. I love my boyfriend, but I need to start being more independent. I don't have many friends, mostly because I just don't have time to socialize with school being a big priority. I am also a bit socially awkward and get shy when... (257 words)

How can I stop thinking about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this woman I know that I mentioned in my last question. I referred to her as Ali. I haven't seen her all week and it's starting to get to me. I miss her so much but then I just remember that chances are she doesn't miss me like I miss her. I always tell myself that she... (145 words)

Competing for the same girl. I'm serious about her but he's not! advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I and my best friend are in love with the same girl.I love her seriously and madly but my friend loves her for fun.what do i do?... (27 words)

'veiny' looking marks make me shy about showing my body

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have these wierd veiney lines along my hips...i dont know what a boy would think of them. i dont wont to have sex yet, but i'm pretty sure that they'll still be there when i do. im just so afraid of what he will think of me.... (48 words)

Girls: why do you get emotional about sex???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do girls act like they hate all boys, when they themselves know that the guys they are choosing to be with are known to only use girls for their bodies? This is a question i've been wondering for a while. Girls want sex more than guys. Period. This is due mainly because ... (175 words)

I thought we were the perfect couple but he's broken it off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in total devastation I have been with my fiancé 5 years in march. the day before me and him was meant to be moving into our flat together he told me he didnt love me anymore??? I was heart broken and I still am. Then the day after he rang me up crying saying he was so ... (272 words)

Online relationship; different sex drives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in an online relationship. Without getting into specifics, we've been going steadily for over 10 months now. But there's a schism, it seems. Despite me being "the male," her sex drive is, by far, much stronger than mine. Typically, it's the male with the stro... (395 words)

I need practical suggestions to help get over my crush on my married boss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 42-year old divorcee. I had a crush on my boss who is 15 years younger. But the biggest problem is, he's married. I think he's also interested in me cos' had been getting many hints from him! I know it's wrong, so I tried to "disagree" with him as often as possible in our ... (116 words)

Two years and I still don't know if he's the one??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend in 2007 we went out for almost a year then i broke it off due to trust issues. We got back a few months later. We've been together now for almost 2years. I love him but i'm stil questioning if he's the one. We get along, we understand each other and we love ... (160 words)

I can't stand feeling this way any more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my life is a mess and i cant stand it no more, all i do is wake up and mop about my house i only have a part time job so only work 2 days a week, i dont drive and due to not having a full time job, havnt got enough money to learn. me and my boyfriend are going though a really ... (148 words)

Can anyone tell me how I can be less needy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone! Here is my problem. Me and my bf have not been getting on too well, and there have been a lot of issues lately. He has asked for some space from me this week, I last saw him on Sunday, today is Thursday and we are meeting up on Saturday, when I expect and hope... (337 words)

In-law can't seem to understand to get out of our house

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem is that my fiancee and I plan on getting married next year,but I don't want to marry the guy if I'm going to live with his dad till death do us part. I love him,he's a great guy but I can't deal with his family situation anymore I want my privacy. So here's the stor... (439 words)

I'm in love with 2 guys. Which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Am in love with two guys, one of them have all the quality i need in a man as a husband but the other one does not have all the quality but he's my first love, very rich but i don't think he loves me so much but i love him,the second one don't have money because he's still a ... (71 words)

I'm worried that he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I Have been with my boyfiend for nearly 4 years. Our sex life is pratically well..non exsistant! this started to happen since maybe september ish time last year ( 2010)sex maybe once a week is accetable?? or not even that every couple of weeks! For the first time ever 3 weeks ... (399 words)

I feel like I am being tested all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a a difficult situation. I believe that I have trust and faith in my husband, but also feel like I am being tested all the time. I am pregnant with our third child, my husband is in school full time, so the stress level in our house is already high. The problem is I ... (322 words)

Married and can't forget about this other man.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have strong feelings for a married man. I am also married. I just cannot seem to get him out of my head. I have had these feelings for him for about a year now. He feels the same way. The problem is it is affecting my marriage. I am at the point where I am not paying atten... (594 words)

Should I stop talking to him since he confessed he's with someone else and is happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone please help me.....I am 15 years old and my friend is 18 years old we know each other from 1 year...we met online....I broke-up with my boyfriend...My boyfriend was older than me (26)...He never loved me....He said that he don't like me...I was depressed...my ... (153 words)

He won't be intimate with me, but he has no problem watching porn when I'm not around!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a man over many years, regularly avoid sex with his wife? We would have sex about 2 times a month at most. I would try to initiate about 3 times a week, but get the "i'm tired" excuse. We argued alot about sex, I felt like something was wrong with me, but he wouldn't ... (187 words)

I feel as though I'm meant to do something else. How can I figure this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confuse lately,i'm taking up a course in college but i have this some kind of feeling that i'm not suited for this course,it's hard and there are times when thoughts of shifting cross my mind especially if i'm failing in an exam or i find it hard understanding a certain ... (140 words)

Whenever I see people from school they laugh at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I deal with this? It's been five years since school but sometimes I see some people from school who hated me and whenever I see them they laugh at me. I live in a small town and i'm finding this hard to deal with. It's affecting my self esteem. Can you please help me? ... (67 words)

We used to talk about anything but now we act like we don't even know each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was good friends with a classmate of mine since 16. When we were 17, we went to different classes but we still kept in contact. However, towards the end of the year, she suddenly stopped contacting me. I thought it was rather abrupt but I thought it was due to homework. But ... (151 words)

He wants to get married, but I don't trust him enough yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years. We had alot of problems in the middle of our relationship and it caused major distrust. We have been working on rebuilding the relationship for about a year. Trouble is, I still cannot commit to marriage to him and he ... (198 words)

How do I know if I'm bi-sexual or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 17 year old girl. i think im bi-sexual but im just not sure! in my group of friends we have a lesbain, and as a joke my other friends and i lead her to believe i was bi, but now i really think i am, but i dont know how to know for sure. ive had sexual experiences with... (237 words)

What should I do to proof to him that I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 , and I'm in relationship for long , we love each other so much and we're dreaming to marry in future , he always next to me and he do anything i want ... but the problem is we always fight even if it was a silly reason , he always tell me i don't feel that you love me ... (87 words)

Why does my mum want to meet my BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 4 months with my b.f and I just turn 18 and his my sister cousin male they all know him but not so well my mum says if I want to go out with my b.f I have to bring him for my mum to meet him but she talks with my b.f mother but still she wants to meet him why is ... (68 words)

Why does a guy act like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The end of November I met a guy online from a neighboring state. He was 2 months away from his divorce being final and I was 1 month divorced. We were going to take it slow since all of this was new for us. But, we really hit it off. He wore his feelings on his sleeve and ... (453 words)

Love triangle with my ex and his new girlfriend......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got with my boyfriend when we were 14 and we split up when we around 16. He got a new girlfriend and we went our separate ways for a while. However, we share the same friend circle so are nearly always in contact, and whenever we are together something sexual happens or we ... (106 words)

How can I stop being so possessive and move on from the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in love with a man for just under 3 years, we started off whist we were young, lost our virginitys to each other, however during the early stages of our relationship i constantly got bored and would look for something else, my psychologist says that as i had an ... (500 words)

Should I turn a blind eye to his online activities? Or am I right to be hurt by this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age - I have found that my husband of 13 years is watching beautiful naked women masterbate on a site called Twistys. He also watches some porn. I find this out because I check the tool section of the computer and it will give the date and the actual video (somehow is stored under ... (241 words)

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my guy have had a few breaks in our reletionship and i have a feeling he was invloved with somebody while we were on 1 of those breaks, he started a knew job and he was getting txts, phone calls ect and we wasnt living together at the time so i think he may have been ... (175 words)

Should I speak to him or avoid him, knowing what I know now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi..in my class there is a guy who in the beginning passed lots of comments on me being with his friends..(not bad comments)..he used to watch me always during class hours..(my friend said this and i have even noticed couple of times)..and my comates started comparing us..he ... (77 words)

Are my ex's family being inappropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My son's bio father, we will call him Cord, his family randomly called me the other day over and over and over and over. WHen I listened to the voicemail it said,"Wow you sound really down on your voicemail. You need to call us. (pause) I need a FRICKEN job and I put my app... (172 words)

Why would he want me to parade around in revealing clothes? Is this because he never had many girlfriends and only watched porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My lovely boyfriend who is 35 hasnt had many girlfriends and when we first met he had a huge collection of porn which he has now deleted from his computer. He says he doesnt need it any more. However, he seems very keen on me wearing really high heels very short skirts whe... (232 words)

I don't want the excitement of the affair to end but I know it is wrong! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a married lady of 31. i am very happy in my marriage except for the fact that my husband cheated on me wid an office collegue. but his affair was only restricted to chats and phone calls which i caught later. some months ago i began chatting with a married man. we were ... (325 words)

Apparently my boyfriend has changed his relationship status to single!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months. Him and I have had our fights but have always over come them. Now as i came to school today I am told by several of my friends that he changed his relationship status to single. I am freaking out cuz i am worrried... (114 words)

Why did my ex acknowledge me after all this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I would appreciate your help because this is puzzling me. I split with my ex a couple of years ago- he finished it. It was a very messy breakup and he called me terrible names and told people things about me that weren't true, like I was stalking him, sitting on his ... (243 words)

My 16 year old daughter wants to move away to be with her boyfriend, what is the right thing for us to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Our 16yr old daughter wants to leave home to live with her boyfriend and his family. They are both 16 and have been going out together for about two and a half years. He, the boyfriend, went to live with his mother after the xmas holidays. His mum received a good job offer in a ... (290 words)

Too much damage done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - We have only been together for three months and she has gone to Australia for a month, I have said to her that I think we should have a break till she gets back because I don't know her well enough yet and vica versa that way she can do what she likes and so can I without the ... (212 words)

He kissed a girl during a game of truth or dare, I overeacted and now he is mad at me, how do I fix this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have only been dating about six weeks. I'm only fourteen, but I have the strongest feelings ever for him. He recently though went on a 'rowing' camp and kissed a girl there in a game of Truth Or Dare. Honestly, I thought he was better than that. He has ... (104 words)

What do I do about my stingy boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - what should i do about a guy who never spends money on me,never buys me gifts but simply wouldnt leave me alone? I buy him gifts a lot...his attitude is geting on my nerves ,really need to feel loved.... (40 words)

Are guys turned off by girls making the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a mutual guy friend and we hit it off really well. we've only been out alone once since but it was very comfortable and he asked for my number and also flirted with me a little. it seemed like he was interested, whether it was dating or just hanging as friends. however, ... (89 words)

Me and my ldr feel like were drifting after first meet. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - About 4 days ago I asked for some advice on here regarding my first meet with my ldr. I don't really want to explain the whole story again but for those who want to know here is the link http://www.dea... (770 words)

The guy she cheated on me with is her only friend, I don't want her to lose her friend but I cant trust her with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 10 months now, and I am struggling badly with insecurity. My girlfriend had a 'friend with benefits' up until the point we started dating. However, about 6 months into our relationship, I found that she was cheating on me w... (473 words)

Am I failing somewhere?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a lesbian relationshp, just met this girl a month ago. We love each other, she broke up with her 2yr girlfriend bcoz of me and i also broke up with myne....now we are having this huge problem together, she does not reach climax, our rounds last for more than 30min to an ... (91 words)

Where do we go from here? Finally she might like me but I don't know what to do now!

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 yr. old freshman in highschool and I need some advice on what to do about what is quite possibly the best thing that's (almost) ever happened to me thus far in my life. Her name is (girl) and I'm absolutely gaga about her. We've been friends for a while now and... (257 words)

How do you trust someone when you want to but you've been hurt and feel insecure?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, a quick bit of background: Me and my girlfriend have been together about a year now, and I love her more than anything I know. However a little while ago we broke up after she admitted she had cheated on me, and I felt I couldn't trust her. This kind of stemmed from the... (334 words)

Is it possible that she truly loves me after everything she has done?

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17 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - a while ago i had asked a question that concerned my gf having drunken intercourse with another man she hardly even knew soon after our break. now when we got back together she has told me she had always still loved me very much and was completely devastated when i told her i ... (87 words)

Broken up but ex hasn't changed her status

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So girlfriend of one year broke up with me 3 weeks ago but hasn't changed her status on a social networking site.. All communication has basically been dropped since I know I have to get over her, especially since she's befriended/gotten quite close to another man (who knows ... (81 words)

B/f not ready for marriage but wants to move in together but I'm unsure about this!

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and half and our relationship is serious. A few months into dating we talked about marriage and back then he wasn't the biggest fan of it. A few months ago however when the topic of moving in came up I told him that I wasn't sure abou... (389 words)

Can you fall in love without knowing?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to fall in love with someone without knowing it's happening? ... (13 words)

Signs a guy likes you in a long distance relationship?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - what are the signs that a guy likes / is interested in you when you stay in two different places .. also he is quite elder to me (5yrs) .. and he knows me since long time through families .. so there won't be any obvious flirting .. are there some signs I should watch ... (128 words)

Is retroactive jealousy caused by my own limited sexual experience?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for two years, she's had two previous relationships and a one night stand. I don't really care about the relationships, but the one night stand really bugs me, I keep imaging it in my head and think about it constantly. I believe this is what is ... (161 words)

I want to help my nephew with his personal problems, what should I do?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My 18 year old nephew wrote this on Facebook and when I read it, it broke my heart. He is the son of my brother and he's living with his momma and stepdad. He's growing pretty rotten I see btw he writes. I starting to keep in touch with him and would like to give him advice. He ... (173 words)

Does kissing a best friend change things?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm confused. I've been close friends with this guy for about two years. He's one of my best friends and we've always treated each other like brother and sister; giving each other nuggies, Charlie horses, making fun of each other, etc. Over the last couple months when we'd go ... (268 words)

Do I go back and raise my children with their very dependant father, or do I let what I have found with my highschool sweetheart grow?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to work out what I should do. I was married for 13 years to a man, call him Pete, who hurt me so very deeply, he had an affair for 6 months with a very close friend, and at the beginning of our marriage he was out all the time drinking, doing drugs, and having one night ... (955 words)

Am I overeacting?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a friend of mine that i really trusted...once she went to my boyfriends house to visit...she opened a conversation about our relationship and asking him questions about our relationship and staying stuff that i would never in a million years say or ask her boyfriend ... (229 words)

How do I make a good impression on his father?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a great guy for 4 months, I'm 19 and he is 20. He's met my family and they really like him, he can be a little shy but he feels much more comfortable now. In fact he invited me to a concert (out of town) with him and his parents next month! I'm excited but also ... (120 words)

Advice on how to explain to him that I wont have sex with him before marriage?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a bf and we're now 5 months together. So far, everything is going well with us. We encounter problems and yet we manage to fix things up and that's good. I have just one concern in regards with one of his requests from me to do for him. He wants me to slee... (139 words)

Is it all just porn?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Just wondering, are there "Real" women who like and enjoy getting cummed on her face or in her mouth? or is this all just porn?... (25 words)

Am I a lesbian because I think of girls when I masturbate?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl, and recently found out how amazing masturbation is...but lately, when I do it I think of girls in my school. I have a boyfriend, but rarely ever think of him while I do this...does this mean I might be lesbian/bisexual? Is this something I shou... (60 words)

She is so desperate for marriage it is freaking me out, I bought the ring but she wont stop pushing me and let me propose!

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of almost 3 years has been divorced twice (once was really young and it was a dumb mistake). We met online through dating service. She has 2 kids. The father is out of the picture completely. I have never been married and have no kids of my own. Since our first ... (204 words)

Should I feel jealous and annoyed that there is porn everywhere?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i am geting anoyed with my husband's porn. not only has he purchased many dvds of porn but its everywhere on our computer, on our ps3, one our phone, and he even orders it through our cable! I found all this out about a month ago on our cell phone bill ... (161 words)

Should I give up on him or should I wait?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so theres this guy i REALLY love. We never went out or anything but i felt something special in him and he saw that something in me too. Things were getting somewhere and then he moved. I still really love him and im constantly thinking about him and what coulda been. I ... (213 words)

I want to be in a relationship with him before some other girl gets him, but I also don't want to rush him! Help!

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, the guy I like and I have become close lately. After he broke up with his girlfriend, he told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship, and I was completely okay with that, because I had just been broken up with too. So I was surely in no place or position for a ... (346 words)

If he likes me would he really let me go?

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17 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - The guy I was just dating for about 4 months told me sunday that he doesn't feel good about us because i might be leaving for grad school out of state in three years and he doesn't want to fall in love with me just for me to leave. i told him i might not be leaving, and how i ... (268 words)

Back with my ex, but during our time apart I started to have feelings for another guy....now I feel so guilty!

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently ( 3 weeks ago) my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He said he didn't have the time for me and that we should go separate ways and told me to find a new boyfriend. He's 34 I'm 19. I'm deeply inlove with him, I was devastated when he said that.. I felt like my ... (230 words)

He only wants to be FWB, but I think I want a relationship!

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17 March 2011 (?) age 26-29 - So basically I liked this guy for a year and he didn't like me and we became good friends meanwhile I kept flirting with him. Then on valentines day which is also his bday he told me he liked me so we went out and made out (only kissing tho) we were on and off dating for about ... (258 words)

I want to be supportive and help boyfriend out but I'm starting to feel used

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to get some perspective on whether I am being unfair to my bf, please. We've been together 6 months now, and things are going great. He's told me he loves me, and I feel like I am falling for him. He's also told me I'm his 'rock'...but I'm not sure that's a good ... (523 words)

Every couple of months he goes weird for a few days....is this normal?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now. He is great and we get along great. It's just every couple of months he goes weird for a few days where he seems like he is avoiding me and my messages and we don't see each other, I know I worry to much but he has ... (98 words)

My live in g/f doesn't feel comfortable with children but my 2 have moved in with us. How can I help her?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for over three years, now. She’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. She’s so generous, kind, thoughtful and is always putting everyone else’s needs ahead of her own. She supported me for a year while I was going through a rough patch ... (634 words)

Should I wear makeup on our first date?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I wear makeup on a first date? We met at a party and wore full-on eye makeup with lots of shimmery eyeshadow and fake eyelashes. However, I normally just wear mascara (for going to school, casual hangouts, etc). We're having dinner this weekend at a casual yet dim... (86 words)

We've talked about our problems but nothing has changed.....what should I do?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is long , but if you read this and comment i really appreciate it...Ive been with my bf for 2 years. Before we dated we were best friends , he always had a crush on me and we dated when we were 11 , im 18 now btw. And anyways one night i just fell in love with him ... (266 words)

How to stop vaginal noises?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - every time i have sex (ive only been with one partner) my vagina makes noise, how can i make it stop?... (21 words)

Spicing things up?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - sex is gettin kinda boring so what are some tips to "spice" things up abit?... (15 words)

I don't want break up with him, but I cant stand being on my own all the time!

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7mths now. we're freshmen in college. we don't get to spend time together b/c he's been online with frats all year. he's trying to rush everything with this frat stuff and he can't be patient enough to wait until his sophomore or ... (286 words)

Is there a benefit to dumping someone before they dump you?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there any benefit to dumping someone before they do. I could tell my girlfriend wanted to break up but she wouldn't. I did it first but didn't really want to. Was this smart? I want her back. ... (38 words)

My friend is a lesbian and tries it on with other girls, but she has a boyfriend! Should I tell him?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, one of the girls in my friend group, so my friend, is lesbian, like she's said so, and come onto one of our other friends-who-is-a-girl. however, she has a boyfriend, also in my friend group. her boyfriend doesn't know she is, but like 90% of our 15 to 20 or so friends ... (199 words)

I want to talk to him to test the waters, how do I go about doing this?

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17 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, so there's this guy i have a crush on, he's a sophomore i'm a freshmen, we have like 10-15ish mutual friends (real life not facebook), but we've never like really talked or been introduced or anything. he may or may not know who i am, i dont really know. I want to talk to ... (181 words)

Should I get to know her more and make a move, or let it be?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is a bit complicated. I recently (about a year) met this girl who I've somewhat spoken to on my college's campus when I hang with a certain group of people in a snack area. Even more recently, we've began to talk more and even hang out off of campus. First thing ... (140 words)

Is this other girl just a friend to him or something more?

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I like this guy at school, and he's super nice and sweet to me. He always says hi and smiles whenever he sees me, he texts me (even though he's apparently bad about texting people back, according to some of my friends) and I've caught him looking at me a number of times. ... (124 words)

LDR--we don't communicate as much now and its freaking me out

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17 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now and for the past couple of weeks I feel like I've just been stressing out about every little thing he does (or doesnt do). We met on xbox - which is a gaming console for those of you who aren't familiar with it. And ... (894 words)