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writes:I was at college waiting to see student services and this guy came up and sat next to me. After a minute he asked what number I was, so I told him and went back just waiting, to be called out. Later on he and his friends were talking and I heard his friend say, ''just talk to her and then ask her,'' I don't know who they were on about but….When I was talking to my friend I told her that I was feeling light headed and started to fan myself. Straight after I said that, he said, ''it’s hot in here and they don't even open the windows''. Then this girl came by, they were talking and then he said, ''she’s next, go with her,'' referring to me. When we were asked who was next I said me and stood up but she went and started to talk to another woman. I said something to my friend, and he replied, and told me to go and stand with her. So all I want to know is, is was he trying to make conversation or am I just reading too much into things. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 erm well its really hard to tell if he was trying to talk to you or else he was just being helpful. If you see this guy around much and you like the look of him then next time you see him why not strike a conversation up with him and see what happens. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): He'd ask you your name and tell you his if he had even a remote interest in ever talking to you again.
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reader, maddison +, writes (20 January 2011):
 I dont think he was trying to make conversation in the one to one was more being polite in general because as you said everything was indirect and at times you were unsure if he was talking about or to you or someone else. Personally if i find myself in situations like that i always end up talking to everyone in the room perhaps thats what he was doing this time. If your unsure next time make eye contact or comment back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): I think you are reading a bit too much into such a brief encounter. But if you see him around, then give him and smile and say hi. Be friendly. Who knows, if may lead somewhere.
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