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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I have feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a lot of people and I am a pretty shy guy. Besides working with her the other complication is she has been talking to this guy thinking about dating him he is married and has two kids with a third on the way supposedly he is looking into getting a divorce but even though I'm an older guy I've never dated anyone so this situation has me a bit intimidated and puzzled about what I should do?Any advice or just insight into this situation would be greatly appreciated.p.s a asked this question once before but got no replies if you want more info please ask.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (20 January 2011):
Big red flag that she's basically pursuing a married man. I'd avoid her even if she's really hot.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Do you hang out together outside of work? Alone or otherwise?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): She doesn't sound like a very nice girl if shes able to split up a family. Otherwise, I personally think you should wait to ask her out untill you feel completely comftorable with it because if she declines it could make work awkward.
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reader, Sensesfail101 +, writes (20 January 2011):
i wont say yes. i wont say no. heres why. i dated joey from work for 2 months and then found out he cheated on me. i hated going to work after that. he was popular guy. i was quiet girl. kinda ur situation. another thing i dated a guy named jase and he was from work and hes popular and he is the best thing thats happend to me. its been 2 years and we are still together. so its ultimately ur call. if u have a good feeling...go for it. if not....dont. i know its not much help but its just wat happend to me
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (20 January 2011):
 She sounds like the kind of girl who wants the unattainable (aka married man). She won't be satisfied by a stable relationship with a person she can be with guilt-free and drama free. You really don't want to get mixed up in that sort of thing, ESPECIALLY if she works with you. It wouls probably be better to find another interest
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