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writes:okay so im 4 months pregnant.and my boyfriend and i had a little break up like 1 and a half ago and we worked things out.but he said he only did it because my mom asked him too but she didnt she told him that if he wanted to work things out with me he could that was his choice.but the thing is. i had just found out that he isn't happy and that he will never be happy because he made the mistake of getting me pregnant.but he says he loves me and he stays the nightwith me when he can.so yesterday i didn't talk to him none that daywhen he would text me i wouldnt text back.then later that night he came to my house.he new something was wrong with me and he insist that i tell him.so i told him that it wasn't right that he only worked things out because my mom asked him when she didnt ask him she told him if he wanted to fix things he could. so then he said thats not the only reason i wanted to fix things and i said why and he said because i really love you..how do i talk to him more about this without him getting angry or anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): You don't say how old he is but you are very young and having a baby with someone who shows little commitment to you. All very sad. Basically you can not rely on him. Words mean nothing if the actions are not there. Hopefully you have a supportive family to help you through the coming months. The bottom line is that he is going to be a Dad and has to realise that that means an involvement with you on an ongoing basis. So sit down and talk, with family too is needs be, so that you can work things out.
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