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*ry alone mandy
writes:Why must it hurt when you fall out of love? That person says he loves you, you have their heart always and forever, or they make you feel like you are the most precious thing on this earth. Then after you and him have been together for months and then he breaks your heart in little bitty peices to the point that when you are ready to try to love again you cant put your heart back together again. Why do us girls even try when it comes to meeting the perfect guy that is right for you? How do you know that when you have found your true love and that he would break your heart like the previsously one did? Reply to this Question
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reader, lynxy +, writes (20 January 2011):
 i guess that's the risk of loving someone,sometimes it helps not think that person is the right one it is always better to wait and se how the things work out. but the most important, even if you feel sad and hurt there is something good from it it helps you learn about your mistakes what can be done to improve for the next time, that kind of stuff always be proud that you at least were honest and you gave your best for the relationship. Remember almost every peron in the life get hurt by someone they loved, it is just normal. keep going and think thhere is somebody that will value you as you are.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (20 January 2011):
It's no different for guys. We fall in love only to heave our hearts broken by the object of our affection. That's the risk of loving. We put ourselves in a vulnerable position, where we're at the mercy of someone else. They can hurt us if they choose to. That said, loving and losing, and the pain that comes along with it, is a much better path than not loving at all. I could never live a cold, sterile life where I shut myself out from loving others as a means of self preservation. Those are really the only two choices.
My best advice is to be as careful with your heart as you can. Love is a funny thing, we can't choose who we fall for. However, we can choose to move relationships along at a slow pace, and that can help to limit the emotional damage later, should things not work out.
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