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*andiPandi
writes:There is this guy and he is a really good friend of mine in my art class. I have known him since the beginning of this school year and iv been wondering for awhile if he likes me even though he as a girl friend (btw his gf is 2 years older than him). ... reasons why:When he talks to me he looks me in the eyes and smiles. he will often glance at me in art class and if look at him back he will Hold the gaze and or smile, make a silly face. he will occasionally make a somewhat sexual joke involving me, but nothing over the top.he seem to try to get in my space like get his elbow close or touching mine when drawing he spontaneously tickles/pokes me in the sides, initiating a tickle fight.I used to wear a lot of make up and one day he asked me not to wear make up saying that he would still think I pretty, when I came to school with none on he said that I did in fact look better when I was talking to one of my friends that day he came up behind me and squeezed by sides while saying “doesn’t she look cute?”in art class he switched his seat to sit by me saying he got a better view of the still life we where working on. HE has stayed there even though we finished months ago.he tussles my hair sometimes and says its pretty (I have a pixie cut) today I hadn’t seen him for about 3 days. Anyway I was at my locker and I heard so girls say hi to him and I heard him say hi back. I figured that he was gone by then so I didn’t look back. All of a sudden my locker door is opened more and he is there smiling at me. He graves my mini dry erase board and writes “I love you” on it. I laugh and he talks to me about exams and stuff. He waits for me to get my stuff together and then we walk down the hall together for a little bit talking.he does other little things to tease me and such but I don’t really remember them right nowso yeah I don’t know if these are signs or if I’m reading to much into this because he has a girl friend ( she is a JR and we are freshmen. :P) but I really like him. And if your thinking that he is a major flirt he doesn’t act quiet like this around other girls I mean he has a friendly personality and all but he doesn’t get like this.so what do you think and what is your advice!? :)
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reader, MandiPandi +, writes (21 January 2011):
MandiPandi is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok thanks :)
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Well again, sorry to say this but if he acted like this before he went out with his girlfriend, and then still chose to go out with her - then he chose her over you. So no matter how much he likes you, he likes his girlfriend more because he asked her out, not you.
This really is one to let go of, he is not available so just forget about him and move on.
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reader, MandiPandi +, writes (21 January 2011):
MandiPandi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExtra info: he Acted like this before he started going out with her.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (21 January 2011):
Ok well from those signs I would say yes he likes you. But then the bombshell - he has a girlfriend!
So even if he does like you - this is irrelevant because you cannot be with him. If he tries to act on his feelings for you then he is a cheat, and that is not the sort of guy you want to be with!
So I'm sorry to say this but even if he has feelings for you, there is nothing you can do about it so move on. He has a girlfriend - that is the end of it. You cannot try and split them up as that is very wrong, and you cannot allow him to cheat as you will end up his bit of fun on the side. So move on, try and get over him and try to keep some distance from him otherwise you will never get over your feelings for him.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, MandiPandi +, writes (21 January 2011):
MandiPandi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: he talks about his girlfriend alot on face book. there was an argument on facebook involving his ex's and his girlfriend now. from what i say in my news feed his new gf is really mean and snoty lol (you know what i really want to say). but yeah no one likes their relationship apprently. So yeah the update is he talks about is grilfreind on his facebook wall all the time but in real life i never see him with her and he nver really brings her up. What could ths mean? :P
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