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writes:should i masterbate thinking about my girlfriend? i have just started dating her but i had a crush on her for years? i kind of feel bad thinking of her in such a way ?help please.....
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 it's completely normal and much better than thinking of someone else. Just maybe don't tell her early on in the relationship. It might be a little much so early.
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reader, AnnaW219  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 this is perfectly normal my fiance when we were first dating said he does the same thing i was quite happy made me feel beautiful and loved so i think its fine for you to think of your girlfriend in that way and if you told her it would be almost a compliment
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): I'm a female and when my boyfriend said he masturbated thinking of me, I found it as a compliment. I'd rather him think of me than anyone else. Being sexually attracted to your girlfriend so much is a good thing! I wouldn't suggest telling her you do this if you think she'll get upset, but I think it's very healthy and good. As long as you treat her well and don't make the relationship about sex, you're good.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (20 January 2011):
 While I am not privy to your fantasies about your girlfriend, I do have to ask - if you find it cheap and disrespectful to think about her while masturbating, how will you manage if you ever get in a situation where you engage in sexual relations with her?
Sex is a natural, healthy act. So, in its own way, is masturbation. Try not to associate guilt with it.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (20 January 2011):
If you think you are disrespecting her by thinking of your girlfriend then think of someone else!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i feel i disrespect her and think about her in a cheap way
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