Boyfriend went away, now he's back but he's no longer interested in me

A female age 30-35, *eautifuldisaster7 writes:

Ok so I met my former boyfriend in our senior year of HS last December 2009. We dated for 3 months. That's all it took for us to fall in love. Everything just felt right and I feel so in tuned with him and so connected. Well, before we dated he said that he was going to be working out of the country (for the summer, not permanently) and so I said that's fine its just the summer we'll keep in touch. Then March came and it was getting closer for him to leave so I was getting frustrated and took it out on him. I tripped out on him for some reason on facebook and that lead to our breakup (I know I was dumb.. I accused him of cheating and did all the things you shouldn't do. It drove him away.) He said he couldn't deal with it, he wanted me to leave him alone and that it was for the best since he was leaving (this time he said he's gonna be living there permanently) oh and while he was gone he still tried to talk to me online (after our breakup he told me to leave him alone) it was weird. anyways he was out of the country for 5 months until he came back to america which is now, January 2011. He said he's stuck again and he can't leave anymore. So two days after he came back he texted me asking where I was at. We made small talk and that was it (he doesn't seem interested anymore; he's a virgo) I still very much love him and want to get back together but I'm afraid I might have ruined it. Do you think this relationship has any chance?

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