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I'm 13 and haven't had many boyfriends. I really want one!

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Question - (20 January 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *mile at me writes:

i havent had very many boyfreind at my age i really want one! im 13 and at my age going out with people is usually because of your looks and i hate my hair! im ok with make up but i cant get my hair straight through the day i cant afford a really pair of hair straightners just yet but i want to know what kind of products u guys could recommend for me?? preetty please and thankyou

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011):

Your 13. You should be playing DS games with your friends and comparing clothes, not worrying about a boyfriend. Just because your old enough to know what a boyfriend is, doesn't mean your mature enough to be in a relationship.

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A male reader, Sherry123 United States +, writes (20 January 2011):

Your 13, you need some good friends to keep you from doing something you will regret.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011):

If the guys are only interested in looks and not you they aren’t worth it. When i was thirteen it was the same way, they are always immature at young ages and the relation ships aren’t worth anything. and having curly hair wont effect anything really when i was 13 the most popular girl had supper curly hair but all the guys liked her anyway. But yeah do what makes you happy because people subconsciously pick up on that confidence and like it :)

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A female reader, Arim United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2011):

More natural you are and feeling good with yourself bigger is the opportunity to find someone who will like you the way you are. I would advise you to find the best and natural look of your hair and be happy with it :)

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

my hair is curly too. i have washed it earlier and if i let it dry on its own now i will be SO sorry in the morning coz it'll be so unruly, like a birds nest! it is really really bad to use straighteners on your hair regularly anyway, it TOTALLY wrecks it. so if you do end up getting some, i would recommend only using them occasionally. learn to love your curls! i hate mine curly but everyone else says i look nicer when its curly. its a case of wanting what we haven't got.

the products i use are john frieda frizz ease. hairdressers say these are no good but i find they work better on my hair than anything.

you probably don't look as bad as you THINK you do with no make up on. to be honest i think EVERYONE looks better with it, but it don't mean your ugly without. once you get used to wearing it though you notice the difference without it don't you?

do you like to wear your hair up? that way you can keep it under control a bit better. so if your hair is long enough, experiment with some different styles and different clips, and it will look nice also if you are wearing some nice earrings

xx

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (20 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntAm sure you are not going to get a boyfriend just because of your hair. But if it makes you feel better about yourself then ok i can understand your point. If you look at the industry today a lot more people are stepping away from the straight look and going for a curly look. You dont state if your hair is naturally curly or not but you can but curlers cheaply or even better you can use rags to curl your hair over night. Its a cheap option which will give you gorgeous curls. Straightning your hair at such a young age might seem like a good idea but in years time your hair will end up being badly damaged, dry and frizzy.

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