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writes:[Mod note: 2 questions combined by poster.]Q2. my boyfriend and i always fight, an i'm sick and tired of it. i hates when he restricts me ... ime not allowed to do anything. but he gets to do anything he wants. and whenn i say its unfair, he just argues by saying im a girl, and we're not allowed to do certaiin stuff? wtf? is this the 18th century? i dont no but i'm sick and tired of him and he doesnt seem to care anymore about when i cry? soo why is he still here? what he just wants to stay and make my life more difficult? i really need to no if i should break up wid him,. i just dont wanna regret it cuz i love him still, but wats the sense hurting over him if he doesnt mind, and his friends are more important?Q1. Is it possible for a guy in a committed relationship not to watch and fantasize over pretty girls Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Dump him:
1.) He is the overly jealous type, overly jealous means he has very low confidence in himself.
2.) He is also being childish, dump him and let him grow up.
3). OR he is the controlling type, you won't ever be happy with him.
4.) OR he wants you to be his little puppy dog who stays at home and waits on him with a wagging tail.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): no ways this guy sounds very controling and he shoudlnt be telling you anything plse get out of it before it gets to wors this does not sound good.
as for ur other question all guys look at woman. though they look a different way when they are in a happy relationship and are commited to the woman they r dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Pretty women come "a dime a dozen" honey and although men love to have a pretty women on they're arm, that doesn't meant that he will treat you right...there are lots of pretty women who are single or in bad relationships. You have to put an end to this crap NOW...I don't know how old he is, but if he is the same age as you, he should really try to seek some sort of help regarding his thinking about the roles of women in society because, I can assure you, it won't get any better as he ages...it will just get worse. Your guy comes off as controlling to the tenth power with little to no regards for your feelings...it seems as though as long as you are doing what he wants you to do...everything is great, but the moment you try to step out and just be yourself he has an issue with it. Where are your parents? Talk to them if you can trust them...esp. your father.....your boyfriend needs a reality check.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Most men will fantasize over pretty girls, that's a fact, they can't help it. But so do women, they look at a handsome guy.
On the other issue, your boyfriend is being very controlling and that does not make for a good relationship. He shouldnt be telling you what to do, where to go, how to dress, or anything. You can do what y ou choose to do. He is not your father, or your keeper, or anything else but your boyfriend, who can easily be replaced by a better man, if you choose to dump him and go look for someone else who will respect your wishes more and cherish you.
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