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writes:hi, I'm 18 now,I don'nt know if this is right... I often talk abotu sex with guys in internet chats and often have "cybersex" too even with webcam and I really like that I do it since I was 15(i dont know those guys actually they are far away in europe mostly) , the thing is that I have a boyfriend now I'm in love with him he's such a nice person also very attactive everything goes well in sex but I can't stop masturbating with other guys in the internet , I don't know if I should tell him , I feel sometimes like i am cheating on him. I try to think it's just liek I wachted porn but it doesn't make me feel better either.what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answers! :)
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (21 January 2011):
It is cheating unless the both of you talk about it and decide it isn't cheating. Pretty much anything that you feel the need to hide from your significant other can and probably will come back to make a mess of things.
And cyber sex and webcamming online is not like porn. Porn is something you do at home, by yourself, with no interaction with anyone. It's like watching a movie by yourself, except with some actors/actresses having sex. Cyber sex and webcamming is interacting with someone (even if they may be on the other side of the world) in an intimate way, that isn't your boyfriend. And if you are webcamming it involves showing your private parts to someone else. Generally not appropriate behaviour when in a relationship.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 It's cheating unless your boyfriend has given you the green light to do so.
In general, if you feel you must hide something from your boyfriend then you shouldn't do it in the first place. Stop cybering online, or ask permission.
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