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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi ok i met this guy online a while back wen i was away and we chatted alot had a lot in common and then when i came back we met and hang out loads and basically the relationship was great it still is, we both wanted a non comitted relationship and it was great for both of us now my job requires me to be away alot so we end up chatting alot via email or skype and i see him like 4 2 weeks in between or something like that. he never complains and the talking has made us grown close very very close.now i think both of our feelings have changed i think he might love me cause often he starts saying like i love and i see he is about to say you but then he changes it he also holds himself back from saying other words of affection. he recently told me that he had feelings for me like he would in a proper commited relationship but then he said that i didnt have to worry because nothing would change and that we would obviouslly not become more serious. so all this has me quite confused.. on one hand he seems to want more on the other he seems not too.. my feelings for him have also changed i feel like i might love him and i dont know what to do thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, CJH +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Why not just tell him and see what he says? It sounds like youve both become close and its a shame youre both holding back from behing completely up front with each other.
Its your choice isnt it? Either you stick at this non comittal thing and hide your feelings - effectively making the whole thing a sham OR you learn to be honest with each other and enjoy being in love.
When I put it like that, the answer is pretty simple isnt it?
TELL HIM!
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