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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a person on an online dating site. I never join such sites but I don't know why I joined it, maybe just for deleting it the next day. I didn't even fill my profile at all. I was contacted by some guy who appeared good and decent. I replied him and than the conversation began. He asked for my email and I gave it to him. And for two days, we chatted and I got to know that he wish to date me. Unfortunately, he asked for number and I gave it to him. All that person was looking for is casual sex. I thought maybe he's looking for someone special in his life, I mean that's what he told me. I wished to know him more as a person and all he was interested in was sex. I felt very stupid when I acted like a dumb gal by letting him watch me on a webcam stripping my clothes. I am a very sensitive person and I could never realise that person's intention prima facie. I would never ever do that again and I am regretting what I have done. The striptease was not complete but still this was something which I wasn't supposed to do. When I finally stopped talking to that person, I can only say one thing that he promised me that he would never share any such videos with anyone and he would delete the one he has. He never showed me any of his videos and pics except the few I saw on that dating site and when I asked him, he said he's working on his office laptop. I could never realise that he can watch me on his office laptop but can't show himself. Since taht day, he suddenly stopped talking and I could never know who he actually was. I felt horrible as the realisation of being an emotional fool was hurting me badly. He never talked to me again and I'll thank God for that. But the only thing I am really scared of is my dignity and reputation. Though he promised that he won't harm me, I can't think of believing a person who lied to me since the very beginning. I would never ever do such thing again. Please help me with fear. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Thans a tonne for your reply. I don't even care about that person but how could I trust him!!! I was very scared as I you can't say anything about any such person. Hope, this thing will bury as if it never happened. Thanks again.
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reader, lynxy  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 you really shouldn't worry about the video probably he is not gonna do anything with that, not all guy are searching girls to get a video of them naked and post it on a pornpage! and less if it was only one time, maybe he didn't even took a video at all. hey nobody knows you did that and if it makes you feel so bad then never talk about it so your reputation is save. and don't you ever think at first that a guy is just searching for someone special there might be one but it is not often I can tell by experience , I did webcam shows really often with many different guys just for fun I wanted to try, I never met them there was never a problem with it but u always have to be careful, so RELAX, no worries just forget about that man and about what you did so you can feel better with yourself it doesn't make you bad woman or anything like that.
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