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writes:I accidentally stumbled across this forum because I'm also stuck in a rut:I'm bisexual, and I've been in a lesbian relationship for about 2 years with my girlfriend. She's been my best-friend for over 8 years, and we always knew that we had feelings for each other, so we started fooling around at first. She's already not a very physical person, whereas I have a much much higher sex drive. For the first 6 months of becoming official, we were completely head-over-heals for each other. We had sex EVERYDAY, sometimes three times a day. We enjoyed the thrill of being in something special and secret. Now, after almost 2 years, we rarely have sex anymore. MAYBE once a month. I have to beg for even a kiss, and I'm lucky if I even get to hold her hand. It's as if she makes it her job to pull away from me. It's a disaster. She says that she loves me every day, but I'm starting to think that she's just ignoring what's really going on. She continues to tell me that I'm "overly horny". I state my case. I'm at risk of losing the girl I love...AND my bestfriend. What do I do?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Well even though sex is not everything it is very important and what is more important is affection, such as kisses and cuddles and if you are not getting those either i can see why this is a hard situation to be in.
You need to sit down with her and tell her how you feel about her and why you want kisses and cuddles and sex, dont just make it sound like you are moaning about the lack of sex, tell her how she makes you feel in bed or when you cuddle and that those things help you to feel close with her and thats why you miss them so much.
Also try finding out if there is a reason why this has happened or if it is simply at rut or pattern you have slipt into.
Hope this helps
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