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*alu
writes:should i be worried about my boss/instructor? He wants me to do a week of early morning training in the spring (he knows i need to get my fitness up to join the navy). Because of where i live i would need accomodation and my boss said he'd sort it. Yesterday he told me that i could stay with him and his girlfriend in the spare room of his new house. I don't know why but i'm weary about his offer. In my head i know he's a decent honourable bloke, but i've got a gut feeling of worry. I would like your opinion as to if you think it would be wise for me to accept his offer. I don't think he would do anything but there's still that worry in the bottom of my gut. Thanks for any help. Halu xx (sorry about the massive chunk. It's on my phone)
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reader, halu +, writes (14 January 2011):
halu is verified as being by the original poster of the question i know he's got a girlfriend because i've met her, and i'm relatively good friends with her. I also know the girlfriends brother, and i'm very good friends with him. I can't see him lieing to me about his sister. There's probably no cause for concern, he's crb checked, he's a massage therapist. He gets paid to massage prettier women than me. And i don't shine a torch in comparison to his girlfriend. I don't have low esteem i just know what is beautiful, and i'm not fully developed yet, so i can't be as beautiful as other women. Anyway he doesn't behave inappropriately towards me, we have a good friendship but nothing strange. I think i'm just over reacting with this whole thing. Thankyou for your advice :) halu xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): If you have a gut feeling something's not right, then Do. NOT. Do. It.
How do you know he really has a girlfriend?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 What makes you worry? Does he act inappropriate towards you at work?
Maybe he's wanting to save the company some $ by putting you up in his spare bedroom for a week. Or the company has had budget cuts, and doesn't have the extra for hotel expenses.
If you're not comfortable with it, then you need to tell him right away so he could make the arrangements for a hotel.
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