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*andabear036
writes:How can I regain total trust for my boyfriend, after hes broken it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Once your gf/bf breaches your trust, it's over. You will have more trust in a perfect stranger than your bf/gf. Trust this truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Breaking trust is in most cases unrepairable. Even if you do trust again it sends the message that it can be broke again because you will eventualy shut up about it. Forgive and forget is usualy preached by the one who broke the trust.If you love someone,its not fear of being caught or losing them,it is about not wanting to hurt them.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (13 January 2011):
 It takes a lot of love and understanding on both sides and depending on what he did to break your trust, he may never earn it back fully because you'll have that voice in the back of your head.
Time.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Time and effort from both sides.
It depends on what he has done to loose your trust and if your willing to forgive him.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 January 2011):
 That depends on how he broke it.
One of my favorite quotations from my mother was, "Trust takes years to establish, and seconds to destroy."
The path to rebuild trust is a long one and takes effort from both parties. True forgiveness is much harder than most people realize.
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