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30-35,
*arah Burn
writes:Heyyy!Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for over 8 months now , but he tend's to flirt with other girls! A few months back i found pictures of another girl on his phone and texts from a load more! It really hurt me and knocked my confidence but we got through it , since then i find it hard when i see him even talking to other girls. He can be a flirt and recently he was talking to a girl asking her if she had a vibrator!!! It really hurts me but when i confront him he says he's doing nothing wrong and then he wont talk to me cause he thinks i dont trust him! He cant see wrong in himself and never feels bad for doing these things , What can i do???
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reader, omfgbabygirl  +, writes (13 January 2011):
I think being younger is a very important factor in your situation. Most 16-18 year old guys have one thing on their mind: making themselves look desirable and trying to "woo" as many girls as possible before they settle down.If you don't see yourself marrying this guy, or taking it seriously with him, get out! There's no sense in tying yourself down to him at such a young age! Go and have fun.
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reader, Learner.uk  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Hi,Sounds like trouble to me, it may be innocent but if I had a girlfriend asking men stuff along the samelines and having pics/text's etc personaly I would move on, Especialy if he does not talk to you about it all, you dont sound happy and if he is not willing to talk or explain etc to you is he worth it? What would he say if you had loads of txt's from men and pictures, would he be happy, prob not.Hope this help's sort your feeling out, all the best.
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reader, Cherryb12  +, writes (13 January 2011):
GeeeeZZ!! Why are you with this guy??????????REALLY! you should just kick his ass.. he doesn't respect you, and lie to you.. you don´t have to put up with this, just leave him now!
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reader, Sarah A.  +, writes (13 January 2011):
Well, I'm sorry but your boyfriend shows you no respect! It is so revolting. Dear Sarah, you are young, I guess you are pretty... You deserve much better! I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend but after 10 month waiting for him to change, I finally broke up even if I was still in love. I am not telling you to leave him but you have to be aware you will never change him. It's just the way he is so now you can accept and go through every humiliation that is coming or leave. Maybe you could also try to behave just like he does only once, so he could feel what you feel and maybe would he understand your jealousy.Good luck! :)
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